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Recruiting more women to swinging
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's more likely that women would talk more openly to friends or those they trust about it.
I wouldn't even talk to guys about this part of my life... i don't think I'm unique in that.
So even approaching it with female friends I wouldn't know where to start.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got plenty of lovely female friends already in the scene so prefer to keep my work colleagues and real-life friends out of the way and have some privacy in my adventures  a couple of very close friends know what I do and think it's bonkers! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's more likely that women would talk more openly to friends or those they trust about it.
I wouldn't even talk to guys about this part of my life... i don't think I'm unique in that.
So even approaching it with female friends I wouldn't know where to start...."
The friend of mine who joined fab confessed to me that she had paid for a threesome. When I told her that she needn't of she asked what I meant and that's when I told her about fab!!! |
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"Do you mean actually going swinging? Or just joining fab and talking about it...?"
My two friends definitely go swinging. They both have plenty of verifications and I have been with one of them to Pandora's and Cupids and seen them play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a couple of sisters and a few girl friends who would more than likely be up for it, once they got over the shock of me being here before them  "
Sounds like the makings of a tag team... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a couple of sisters and a few girl friends who would more than likely be up for it, once they got over the shock of me being here before them
Sounds like the makings of a tag team... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I have to my friend who’ve I dabbled with before, I told her about the club we went to the other day and she said she’d need a whole bottle of vodka before she went and got her clothes off, so no chance lol (although saying that she never used to be shy about sleeping with loads of different people lol)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm. No probably not. It's not their thing I don't think. I've mentioned it to a friend of mine, though, and she was fine with it all. Even said another woman at her job asked her for a threesome but she said no.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you please only recruit the ones who are stunning and never say no? Thanks  "
10 minutes on here, seeing the choices they'd have, they'd end up being like everyone else on here, regardless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my female friends knows and we might go to a club together sometime. I think some people you can gauge their sexual side through normal conversations. She and I are very open with each other about sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can you please only recruit the ones who are stunning and never say no? Thanks
10 minutes on here, seeing the choices they'd have, they'd end up being like everyone else on here, regardless "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?
Why no?"
Swinging; yes. I don't hide it if I'm attracted to them.
If you're asking about suggesting to join fab; not anymore. The women I've told about fab and joined have mostly been swamped with abusive guys after sayimg a polite good intentioned no thanks. It's destroyed a couple of friendships I had "because I'd suggested it". I now show any woman I know who thinks about joining fab exactly where the filter settings are and the block button. |
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"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?
Why no?
Swinging; yes. I don't hide it if I'm attracted to them.
If you're asking about suggesting to join fab; not anymore. The women I've told about fab and joined have mostly been swamped with abusive guys after sayimg a polite good intentioned no thanks. It's destroyed a couple of friendships I had "because I'd suggested it". I now show any woman I know who thinks about joining fab exactly where the filter settings are and the block button. "
A difficult one I have a good female friend who would be ideal but as an earlier poster asked would it be to be a proper swinger or a keyboard warrior who just talks about it |
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I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.
I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.
I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either. "
Great point.
I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?
Why no?
Swinging; yes. I don't hide it if I'm attracted to them.
If you're asking about suggesting to join fab; not anymore. The women I've told about fab and joined have mostly been swamped with abusive guys after sayimg a polite good intentioned no thanks. It's destroyed a couple of friendships I had "because I'd suggested it". I now show any woman I know who thinks about joining fab exactly where the filter settings are and the block button. A difficult one I have a good female friend who would be ideal but as an earlier poster asked would it be to be a proper swinger or a keyboard warrior who just talks about it "
Why would she be ideal? |
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"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.
I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.
Great point.
I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth. "
sex for fun!? Next you'll be telling me women enjoy sex and some people actually leave the light on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.
I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.
Great point.
I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth.
sex for fun!? Next you'll be telling me women enjoy sex and some people actually leave the light on."
Now you're just being silly |
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"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.
I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.
Great point.
I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth.
sex for fun!? Next you'll be telling me women enjoy sex and some people actually leave the light on.
Now you're just being silly"
I know sorry. I'm just glad I'm with a considerate guy who always pulls my nightie down afterwards |
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