There are plenty that do!
As a sweeping generalisation, you have doms, subs & switches in fet or BDSM terms.
Doms take the dominant role in the play, dispensing the spankings etc
Subs take the submissive role, being spanked, flogged, punished in whatever way
A switch is someone who enjoys both roles.
As someone who leans to the sub side of the fence, I would get no pleasure from giving a spanking. Gomez, who is the dominant half, would get no pleasure from receiving it, as neither of us are switch.
For someone to really enjoy both giving & receiving, they need to be inclined both ways.
If you are indulging in a little bedroom kink, the same will apply.
I get a rush from the endorphin release. G doesn’t. His rush is in giving me that pleasure.
I’m guessing you tend to play more with alpha male types who are dominant natured - maybe why they enjoy giving but not receiving.
If you want to become the dominant partner, you need a more submissive male  |
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"Why is it that guys get turned on and spank us women with rulers, hand, whips etc and when we try to do it back they don’t like it ??"
Hubby not playing fair eh  |
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"Why is it that guys get turned on and spank us women with rulers, hand, whips etc and when we try to do it back they don’t like it ??"
Because they're not into it. Perhaps they are dom not sub. |
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Hey,although not really into being spanked or caned myself ( probably down to the fact forever receiving the cane many,many,years ago at school) always found ladies backsides proper horny,whether being spanked,worshipped,or just plain ruined!! Grew up with mags such as " swish" Are there any "spanking clubs" nowadays?? |
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"Hey,although not really into being spanked or caned myself ( probably down to the fact forever receiving the cane many,many,years ago at school) always found ladies backsides proper horny,whether being spanked,worshipped,or just plain ruined!! Grew up with mags such as " swish" Are there any "spanking clubs" nowadays??"
Fet clubs, or clubs that have fet nights is probably your best bet |
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