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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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Not sure it's accepted but what can you do about it?
On the whole people on the forums store ok once you get to know them.
Remember it's a site where ladies are outnumbered 10 to 1 so the can be picky or rude or ask people to jump through hoops... if you don't do it someone else will. You just have to decide if it's worth the effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
This fact has to be accepted if you are to remain sane on here I'm afraid. Some great ladies and couples of course, but they are rather swamped by those who take Fab as real life. |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
This fact has to be accepted if you are to remain sane on here I'm afraid. Some great ladies and couples of course, but they are rather swamped by those who take Fab as real life."
To be fair there are dicks of every gender on here |
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I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now. |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here...  not all but lots"
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
I am none of the above and would be very offended if that were suggested about me... You simply CANNOT generalise so sweepingly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
i’ve been on this site over 10 years now and i’ve never come across a women like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because they are rude or demanding doesn't mean you have to put up with it!
It's the same for us fems with rude guys, just use your block button and move on!! |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
I understand there are some challenging characters here but there are some diamonds here, you just need to find the right one OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a newbie here my observation has been that the ladies definitely get more slack and tolerance than men.
Whether that’s chivalry / white knighting or whatever you want to call it I’m not sure but while the OP has made a broad brush statement, there might actually be some truth in what the OP says.
I’ve seen some very rude / blunt remarks from women in the forums go unchallenged yet men get taken down and widely criticised for similar - and I’ve only been on then for about a week! |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?"
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station  bitches, the lot of them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now."
Amen to that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now."
im not scorned mate i havnt been ignored or harrased. Ive just read alot of womens profiles a tbought fuck me get over yourself love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
I am none of the above and would be very offended if that were suggested about me... You simply CANNOT generalise so sweepingly"
See, and to be clear this is not intended as a criticism of you Coquette, but I’ve seen sweeping generalisations about the conduct of men on here daily and rarely does anyone jump in and say you simply CANNOT generalise about single guys on here so sweepingly!
Which in a roundabout way kind of illustrates how women and men are treated differently on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now. im not scorned mate i havnt been ignored or harrased. Ive just read alot of womens profiles a tbought fuck me get over yourself love"
The problem is you've said 'lots'. There are some dickish male profiles too, but I wouldn't come on here and label most of them like that. There are tools in all walks of life and on here.It certainly isn't gender specific |
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now. im not scorned mate i havnt been ignored or harrased. Ive just read alot of womens profiles a tbought fuck me get over yourself love"
Well I apologise then as I have completely miss understood what you ment, sorry.
I'd be the hypocrit now if I didn't go along with what you have said as I also feel that at times with many profiles and status ' s.
Someone further up summed it up great. Thankfully we have the block button and it's usually the local updates that set the sirens for me. A quick read of the profile confirms it and block.
No thanks, I'd rather go without she can give her ego to someone else.
Once again sorry for misunderstand what you were saying. Totally my fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them! "
They should just turn down the attitude a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do warn people by putting it in my profile though and warning them off messaging me. Do I get extra brownie points for that? 
 I frickin love your profile. I even considered nicking it  "
Thought I'd be honest for once |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't accept it!
What have you been through op? Report inappropriate behavior to admin btw, if anyone is abusive etc."
Ive not been harrased or anything its just a few profiles ive read and thought jesus christ if this was a mans profile admin would most likely delete it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen  "
calls the fire brigade |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
I am none of the above and would be very offended if that were suggested about me... You simply CANNOT generalise so sweepingly
See, and to be clear this is not intended as a criticism of you Coquette, but I’ve seen sweeping generalisations about the conduct of men on here daily and rarely does anyone jump in and say you simply CANNOT generalise about single guys on here so sweepingly!
Which in a roundabout way kind of illustrates how women and men are treated differently on here! "
I am only one in a pond of thousands but I personally would not, and do not, generalise about single guys.
Every person is different and must be seen as such... I don't actually generalise on any sex... I treat individuals in their own merits... Maybe that's something that happens as we get older |
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"Don't accept it!
What have you been through op? Report inappropriate behavior to admin btw, if anyone is abusive etc.
Ive not been harrased or anything its just a few profiles ive read and thought jesus christ if this was a mans profile admin would most likely delete it"
Really?! |
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I try to be polite and am definitely not up myself or a brat, but some people bring out the worst in me. I've spoken and actually met a lot of people off here and the majority have been great. Fabs is just like real life and you will come across all sorts, deal with it and move on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
I am none of the above and would be very offended if that were suggested about me... You simply CANNOT generalise so sweepingly
See, and to be clear this is not intended as a criticism of you Coquette, but I’ve seen sweeping generalisations about the conduct of men on here daily and rarely does anyone jump in and say you simply CANNOT generalise about single guys on here so sweepingly!
Which in a roundabout way kind of illustrates how women and men are treated differently on here!
I am only one in a pond of thousands but I personally would not, and do not, generalise about single guys.
Every person is different and must be seen as such... I don't actually generalise on any sex... I treat individuals in their own merits... Maybe that's something that happens as we get older "
agreed, there’s good in bad in all groups! |
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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago
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In all fairness, I usually get blokes messaging me moaning about other women. It's not exactly a turn on 'I hope you're not like the other women, they never meet' boo-frickin-hoo, I'm not going to either with that attitude. |
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There's a female in my neck of the woods regularly tells all us men are from the Star Wars bar. She hasn't got any photos though.
Another one who I tired of reading how none of us were good enough for her.
Another one only asks for tall handsome well muscled men. Next day, this place isn't for her. Well Crawley don't play Man City every weekend for a reason.
Thankfully we can laugh or block. I struggle ignoring as it's the ALL MEN bit that winds me up. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
have you thought that somewhere in there life a man made them this way , by not treating them with respect, |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
have you thought that somewhere in there life a man made them this way , by not treating them with respect, "
No |
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I’ve made a least 3 new friends by chatting on the forum so it’s well worth it.
As a single guy, and this isn’t a moan, it can be a bit cold and brutal. But dating generally can be like that. So it helps build character and resilience.
Wow well worth the membership fee. |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them! "
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ? |
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For the millionth time....
Men outnumber women on here 17 to 1. Hence women can say any old shit and there will still be a queue of guys wanting to fuck them. Men, on the other hand, if they are dicks, see their already small chances disappearing out the window.
Moaning about the unfairness of that is really besides the point. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Women are the elite in the Fab heirarchy, and can generally pick and choose how they see fit. That’s just how it is, it doesn’t automatically make them rude, obnoxious or spoiled brats.
If you’re not mature enough to deal with that, Fab may not be for you. |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them!
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ? "
Ah.. It was the false sense of grandeur and would be looked at twice comments that confused me, my mistake clearly.
Rudeness is never acceptable however SOME guys take offence at a simply no thank you so even if you are polite they think you're being rude |
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"Don't accept it!
What have you been through op? Report inappropriate behavior to admin btw, if anyone is abusive etc.
Ive not been harrased or anything its just a few profiles ive read and thought jesus christ if this was a mans profile admin would most likely delete it"
Block them as you find them or - report to admin if they'd be unacceptable for other genders. Glad you've not been abused. |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then "
I'm terrible in there as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
have you thought that somewhere in there life a man made them this way , by not treating them with respect, "
That's a sweeping generalisation just like the OP's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Another boring whinge! |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well "
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now."
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention.... |
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention...."
Read the thread, my reply is somewhat irrelevant |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen calls the fire brigade "
I'd rather do a stack of ironing than be stuck in the kitchen. I do wonder if I'm a man at time's as I do appear to have certain male traits,not that I like to generalise  |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women "
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention...."
im not short of attention pal |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do "
It's a start I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention.... im not short of attention pal "
Ooh careful. Sounding a little obnoxious there.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention.... im not short of attention pal "
and the hot or not threads always reached 175 so they're not short of replies either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention.... im not short of attention pal
Ooh careful. Sounding a little obnoxious there.... "
i sense jealousy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention.... im not short of attention pal
Ooh careful. Sounding a little obnoxious there.... i sense jealousy "
Oh completely. You saw right through me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a newbie here my observation has been that the ladies definitely get more slack and tolerance than men.
Whether that’s chivalry / white knighting or whatever you want to call it I’m not sure but while the OP has made a broad brush statement, there might actually be some truth in what the OP says.
I’ve seen some very rude / blunt remarks from women in the forums go unchallenged yet men get taken down and widely criticised for similar - and I’ve only been on then for about a week! "
Good summary |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose "
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly? |
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"For the millionth time....
Men outnumber women on here 17 to 1. Hence women can say any old shit and there will still be a queue of guys wanting to fuck them. Men, on the other hand, if they are dicks, see their already small chances disappearing out the window.
Moaning about the unfairness of that is really besides the point. "
I ain’t meaning nor would I be desperate enough to form an orderly queue |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?"
No it fine you can get on with the cleaning in 30 seconds I'll be done by then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that have been here a while know what they want, they have had every message under the sun (anyone is included in this not just women) and on their profiles they have a right to put dos and donts to try and stop people waisting their time. For example we put on our profile about not being a wank bank for women and other such things because it’s things we’ve come across in just our 7 weeks we’ve been here, it’s not us being rude but we want people to see the profile and hopefully go ‘ok, yup I’ve seen it and I won’t message them’ if there intention was to just get a wank, doesn’t always work but I don’t know about anyone else here but we aren’t here for one persons pleasure or to be used for that persons benefit when we get absolutely nothing in return.
Geeky x |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them!
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ?
Ah.. It was the false sense of grandeur and would be looked at twice comments that confused me, my mistake clearly.
Rudeness is never acceptable however SOME guys take offence at a simply no thank you so even if you are polite they think you're being rude "
If a man is on here expecting to be everyone’s cup of tea then he’s in the wrong place ... and what a boring world that would be ,,, no chase ,, just acceptance ....
this thread is about rudeness is it not ?
Do those women get the same attention on the high street ? |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?"
Did someone mention ironing ? Can I drop a bag off please |
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over a year ago
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It’s a shame you feel that way OP. There’s good and bad everywhere in life, Fab is no different in that respect. Focus on the aspects of Fab that you get enjoyment from and ignore the rest of it ..... that’s the route to peace and contentment or at least less drama. |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?
No it fine you can get on with the cleaning in 30 seconds I'll be done by then "
Excellent,don't bloody make a mess though I don’t want more cleaning to do! |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?
Did someone mention ironing ? Can I drop a bag off please "
Sure,£50 a bag? |
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In my experience woman have a clear idea of what they want and when we vocalise this we get accused of being demanding, picky and rude. Perhaps we should all just shut up and shag everyone who messages us regardless of age, race, body type, distance from us etc.
But in all honesty if men had to put up with half the bullshit we have to they’d soon understand why we had become more vocal about what we are looking for. Me personally I’m trying to save those that don’t match my criteria from wasting their time messaging me. |
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over a year ago
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Dem bitches!!! Kick em to the kirb, they haven't a clue what they're missing out on so don't give em a second chance, op. |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman.
Women are the elite in the Fab heirarchy, and can generally pick and choose how they see fit. That’s just how it is, it doesn’t automatically make them rude, obnoxious or spoiled brats.
If you’re not mature enough to deal with that, Fab may not be for you."
“Heirachy “ now to me that indicates a pecking order ? Levels of importance? |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them!
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ?
Ah.. It was the false sense of grandeur and would be looked at twice comments that confused me, my mistake clearly.
Rudeness is never acceptable however SOME guys take offence at a simply no thank you so even if you are polite they think you're being rude
If a man is on here expecting to be everyone’s cup of tea then he’s in the wrong place ... and what a boring world that would be ,,, no chase ,, just acceptance ....
this thread is about rudeness is it not ?
Do those women get the same attention on the high street ? "
. What has attention on the street got to do with rudeness on here? Are you implying that only the beautiful people are allowed to get away with being rude? Cos that what I'm taking away from your fixation on their looks. |
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"Don't accept it!
What have you been through op? Report inappropriate behavior to admin btw, if anyone is abusive etc.
Ive not been harrased or anything its just a few profiles ive read and thought jesus christ if this was a mans profile admin would most likely delete it"
The forum assumed you had been harrassed/spoken to in a bad way but what you are actually doing is searching the site and critiquing profiles, I see. Are you a journalist OP? |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?
Did someone mention ironing ? Can I drop a bag off please
Sure,£50 a bag?"
Did you say bag or BAGS ? I knew you’d be expensive |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Being bratty merits a spanking. Yes please. |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them!
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ?
Ah.. It was the false sense of grandeur and would be looked at twice comments that confused me, my mistake clearly.
Rudeness is never acceptable however SOME guys take offence at a simply no thank you so even if you are polite they think you're being rude
If a man is on here expecting to be everyone’s cup of tea then he’s in the wrong place ... and what a boring world that would be ,,, no chase ,, just acceptance ....
this thread is about rudeness is it not ?
Do those women get the same attention on the high street ?
. What has attention on the street got to do with rudeness on here? Are you implying that only the beautiful people are allowed to get away with being rude? Cos that what I'm taking away from your fixation on their looks. "
I’d hazard a guess that no matter what I said you would make it or take it as an implication?
As I said this thread was about rudeness . I merely asked did anyone else think there was a correlation between looks , attention and the ratio of men to women which allows SOME to be obnoxious..... who mentioned the words only beautiful people ? Not me
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If women have power on fab it’s only because men give it to them. If men had more self respect and didn’t jump through hoops then it would take away any perceived power the women have. If men were more picky about who they messaged it would become a level playing field. |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them!
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ?
Ah.. It was the false sense of grandeur and would be looked at twice comments that confused me, my mistake clearly.
Rudeness is never acceptable however SOME guys take offence at a simply no thank you so even if you are polite they think you're being rude
If a man is on here expecting to be everyone’s cup of tea then he’s in the wrong place ... and what a boring world that would be ,,, no chase ,, just acceptance ....
this thread is about rudeness is it not ?
Do those women get the same attention on the high street ?
. What has attention on the street got to do with rudeness on here? Are you implying that only the beautiful people are allowed to get away with being rude? Cos that what I'm taking away from your fixation on their looks.
I’d hazard a guess that no matter what I said you would make it or take it as an implication?
As I said this thread was about rudeness . I merely asked did anyone else think there was a correlation between looks , attention and the ratio of men to women which allows SOME to be obnoxious..... who mentioned the words only beautiful people ? Not me
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I get a lot of attention outside of fab, random messages on Facebook, people chatting me up. What does that mean? I’ve missed the point somewhere along the line. Does this give me the right to be rude? |
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"I hope that you are not saying that about all women here... not all but lots
I totally agree with your sentiments . The weighted ratio of men to women does give “some” women a false sense of grandeur shall we say .
It’s usually those same type that the average bloke in the street or in a bar would not look twice at . Maybe that’s why they are ball breakers on here ?
Are you saying the uggo's should be grateful and not turn people down if they aren't attracted to them?
Fucking uggo's with ideas above their station bitches, the lot of them!
Haha not at all I’m saying I understand everyone has preferences but these don’t have to be tinged with rudeness . Do they ?
Ah.. It was the false sense of grandeur and would be looked at twice comments that confused me, my mistake clearly.
Rudeness is never acceptable however SOME guys take offence at a simply no thank you so even if you are polite they think you're being rude
If a man is on here expecting to be everyone’s cup of tea then he’s in the wrong place ... and what a boring world that would be ,,, no chase ,, just acceptance ....
this thread is about rudeness is it not ?
Do those women get the same attention on the high street ?
. What has attention on the street got to do with rudeness on here? Are you implying that only the beautiful people are allowed to get away with being rude? Cos that what I'm taking away from your fixation on their looks.
I’d hazard a guess that no matter what I said you would make it or take it as an implication?
As I said this thread was about rudeness . I merely asked did anyone else think there was a correlation between looks , attention and the ratio of men to women which allows SOME to be obnoxious..... who mentioned the words only beautiful people ? Not me
I get a lot of attention outside of fab, random messages on Facebook, people chatting me up. What does that mean? I’ve missed the point somewhere along the line. Does this give me the right to be rude? "
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?
Did someone mention ironing ? Can I drop a bag off please
Sure,£50 a bag?
Did you say bag or BAGS ? I knew you’d be expensive "
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Can I get this clear as I'm confused and that doesn't happen often. Have they been rude or obnoxious to you. Or just their profiles. If it's to you then I'm sorry you have had such a dreadful experience. If it's their profiles surely that's their business. If us ladies didn't get such rude messages we wouldn't have to make it absolutely clear by writing it in our profile. Even as a couple men blatantly come back with rude messages so it's best to put on profile although they still aren't read |
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"If women have power on fab it’s only because men give it to them. If men had more self respect and didn’t jump through hoops then it would take away any perceived power the women have. If men were more picky about who they messaged it would become a level playing field."
This is spot on |
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over a year ago
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"I'm sick of this attitude from both sexs.
All the men are pricks.
All the women are spoiled brats and dont reply.
Complete and utter shit.
As for you OP I thought you knew better and read your post again. I find it contradictive and full of irony.
Moaning as you can't get things how you want them.
Hope you get some attention from it now.
May work better than a “hot or not” thread...he’s getting plenty replies and attention.... im not short of attention pal
Ooh careful. Sounding a little obnoxious there.... i sense jealousy
Oh completely. You saw right through me "
not you |
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"If women have power on fab it’s only because men give it to them. If men had more self respect and didn’t jump through hoops then it would take away any perceived power the women have. If men were more picky about who they messaged it would become a level playing field.
This is spot on "
Couldn't have said it better myself! |
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over a year ago
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Fab and sites like this are one of the few areas in life where women actually hold gravitas over men. In most areas of work life etc males hold the keys .
Pay ? Top jobs ? Equality ? Standards etc. List goes on just read news with all the pay divides etc.
So you get a site like fab. Which is at its core a casual sex hook up site for most. Guess what happens. The odds are stacked in the women's side for once as guys rightly noted earlier prob are on like 100-1 here .
This affects many men's internal thoughts as no longer they are the dominant position and are infact chasing the rainbow.
Sure some women are spoilt bratty etc so what ? If that's what they like then good for them and rest assured there will be countless guys lap it up. Not hurting anyone or you is it tbh .
One of my best friends is the most bratty princess you will ever meet , it's insane lol yet she is constantly out on meets / dates with men snapping at her heels. Yo go girl is my view on that.
Now my other friend can't stand her as she thinks she is a giant cock and disgrace to women . Equally fair to her on this personal view point .
Block and move on is the motto ?? Op .
I have read more entitiled male profiles here than female ones over the years .
Each to their own .
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Since changing my profile yesterday, I’ve had approximately 300 messages, I will be bold here and say that I am positive that not a single woman would message or reply if a man’s profile was like mine. So even with no profile I could probably still take my pick (as these men obviously have no standards or care who they are messaging). Rightly or wrongly this does give you a sense that you can ask for what you are looking for and refuse those that don’t match up. It’s not rude, it’s not asking men to perform tricks to get a meet it’s about stating what we want and not compromising because we know there are plenty that fit the bill and we want them to read and think we are compatible not that we are being demanding. Those that feel we are being demanding are probably just annoyed because they don’t fit the brief. |
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"Since changing my profile yesterday, I’ve had approximately 300 messages, I will be bold here and say that I am positive that not a single woman would message or reply if a man’s profile was like mine. So even with no profile I could probably still take my pick (as these men obviously have no standards or care who they are messaging). Rightly or wrongly this does give you a sense that you can ask for what you are looking for and refuse those that don’t match up. It’s not rude, it’s not asking men to perform tricks to get a meet it’s about stating what we want and not compromising because we know there are plenty that fit the bill and we want them to read and think we are compatible not that we are being demanding. Those that feel we are being demanding are probably just annoyed because they don’t fit the brief. "
It's true. Most men on this site are desperate and have zero standards. That does not invalidate the OPs point. |
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The word 'most'.
When used as above it gets me thinking towards who wrote it.
How do you know? No way have you asked them. Ok open your inbox and the vast majority might indicate 'most' but there's no way you can factually find out. |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Rude, obnoxious, demanding, spoiled.....4 more words to etch on my crown
I do demand good sex, i do incredibly rude things, i enjoy being spoiled, but I'm not sure on obnoxious! |
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"and heres todays woman’s bashing thread...
Get back in the kitchen where you belong
You wouldn’t say that if you really knew me,I'm terrible in the kitchen
Bed it is then
I'm terrible in there as well
I'll frigging teach you ffs. Bloody women
I thought as a woman I just had to lie there and think about all the house chores I had to do
It's a start I suppose
Do I need to take 'all' my clothes off as it's a bit chilly?
Did someone mention ironing ? Can I drop a bag off please
Sure,£50 a bag?
Did you say bag or BAGS ? I knew you’d be expensive
Yeah I'm no cheap bird me you know!"
I can see that ..... and as it should be |
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"Since changing my profile yesterday, I’ve had approximately 300 messages, I will be bold here and say that I am positive that not a single woman would message or reply if a man’s profile was like mine. So even with no profile I could probably still take my pick (as these men obviously have no standards or care who they are messaging). Rightly or wrongly this does give you a sense that you can ask for what you are looking for and refuse those that don’t match up. It’s not rude, it’s not asking men to perform tricks to get a meet it’s about stating what we want and not compromising because we know there are plenty that fit the bill and we want them to read and think we are compatible not that we are being demanding. Those that feel we are being demanding are probably just annoyed because they don’t fit the brief. "
You and I both know that’s not what I’m like after you messaging me yesterday ? |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Can we close the most ridiculous post of 2018 award please, we have a winner in January |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
when?
I have saw women getting shot down on here as well as men |
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Messages can be read very differently depends how you read it
To one guy a lass may seem genuine to another they may seem a sarky cunt
Just take a possitive out of the fact you got some attention positive or negative as a lot of guys just get ignored completly |
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"Fab and sites like this are one of the few areas in life where women actually hold gravitas over men. In most areas of work life etc males hold the keys .
Pay ? Top jobs ? Equality ? Standards etc. List goes on just read news with all the pay divides etc.
So you get a site like fab. Which is at its core a casual sex hook up site for most. Guess what happens. The odds are stacked in the women's side for once as guys rightly noted earlier prob are on like 100-1 here .
This affects many men's internal thoughts as no longer they are the dominant position and are infact chasing the rainbow.
Sure some women are spoilt bratty etc so what ? If that's what they like then good for them and rest assured there will be countless guys lap it up. Not hurting anyone or you is it tbh .
One of my best friends is the most bratty princess you will ever meet , it's insane lol yet she is constantly out on meets / dates with men snapping at her heels. Yo go girl is my view on that.
Now my other friend can't stand her as she thinks she is a giant cock and disgrace to women . Equally fair to her on this personal view point .
Block and move on is the motto ?? Op .
I have read more entitiled male profiles here than female ones over the years .
Each to their own .
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Bottom line is that lots of men really really want casual fucks. Unfortunately there are very few women willing to be casually fucked. It follows that men will put up with a huge amount of shit to get their dick wet with the few women willing to put out for them.
Hence, as you say, the women hold all the power on sites like this. |
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The dominant mindset (not everyone I hasten to add) seems to be 'MY approach to life, sex and swinging is the only right one, and people who have different preferrences are bigotted/repressed/snowflakes/wierd (delete as applicable).' |
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You must be messaging the wrong people or winding them up 
To be fair though, I've been called rude for just being brutally honest and to the point. Its not my fault some cannot handle polite rejection. Personally, I don't want to pussy foot around wasting people's time if I'm not interested.
So what if people are like that? Be glad they are showing their true colours so you can avoid them. Let them get on with being rude and demanding, plenty of other people of that ilk on here they can connect with! |
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"I try to be polite and am definitely not up myself or a brat, but some people bring out the worst in me. I've spoken and actually met a lot of people off here and the majority have been great. Fabs is just like real life and you will come across all sorts, deal with it and move on xx"
Spot on
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A parable for those complaining about women being too demanding.
Two people go into a car showroom. One is on an average wage, the other is a millionaire. The first bloke considers two car as the bottom end of the market and buys one. The second bloke looks at all the cars in the showroom and buys a Ferrari.
As the second bloke is about to drive away, the first bloke says '" you are so demanding and up yourself. Look at you being so choosy and driving away in the best car in the showroom. You should be humble like me " |
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"And if you were born with 8 legs would it be a fact that you are a spider!!
That's SO narrow minded.
It could be two giraffes playing piggy back."
Hey, excuse me. Saw a profile with a person sporting a huge dick and thought, bloke. My bad. |
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"A parable for those complaining about women being too demanding.
Two people go into a car showroom. One is on an average wage, the other is a millionaire. The first bloke considers two car as the bottom end of the market and buys one. The second bloke looks at all the cars in the showroom and buys a Ferrari.
As the second bloke is about to drive away, the first bloke says '" you are so demanding and up yourself. Look at you being so choosy and driving away in the best car in the showroom. You should be humble like me ""
I always want the Ferrari and if I get it, yeah me and if I don’t I’d rather have nothing that settle for something I don’t like. |
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"A parable for those complaining about women being too demanding.
Two people go into a car showroom. One is on an average wage, the other is a millionaire. The first bloke considers two car as the bottom end of the market and buys one. The second bloke looks at all the cars in the showroom and buys a Ferrari.
As the second bloke is about to drive away, the first bloke says '" you are so demanding and up yourself. Look at you being so choosy and driving away in the best car in the showroom. You should be humble like me "
I always want the Ferrari and if I get it, yeah me and if I don’t I’d rather have nothing that settle for something I don’t like. "
If everyone thought like that the roads would be empty of all except a few Ferraris
In reality whilst most people would love a Ferrari you don't see them refusing to buy a less expensive car they can actually afford as it would be "lowering their standards" |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth. "
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol |
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over a year ago
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"And if you were born with 8 legs would it be a fact that you are a spider!!
That's SO narrow minded.
It could be two giraffes playing piggy back."
well i reckon that would look more like ten legs |
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over a year ago
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And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at. |
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at. "
I’ll ask again.
How many men’s profiles have you read? |
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at.
I’ll ask again.
How many men’s profiles have you read?"
not many if im honest but im not looking for men so i generally dont click them |
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at. "
Alot of the aggressive and/or demanding type profiles are generally born of frustration. Frustration that the wrong type of guy is messaging, totally ignoring what they have written and are looking for and messaged anyway often trying to change their minds.
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I could quite easily have a demanding profile. It might help out the men who want something to wank over; who don't actually accommodate; who live miles from me; who think I'm only here for their ball draining etc etc, but I won't. I'll carry on spending my time talking to people and sending them away, when any of the above occurs or is discovered by me.
Once in a while the right man comes along and we are both happy. |
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at.
I’ll ask again.
How many men’s profiles have you read? not many if im honest but im not looking for men so i generally dont click them"
You should read some men’s profiles then to get a balanced view |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
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"A parable for those complaining about women being too demanding.
Two people go into a car showroom. One is on an average wage, the other is a millionaire. The first bloke considers two car as the bottom end of the market and buys one. The second bloke looks at all the cars in the showroom and buys a Ferrari.
As the second bloke is about to drive away, the first bloke says '" you are so demanding and up yourself. Look at you being so choosy and driving away in the best car in the showroom. You should be humble like me "
I always want the Ferrari and if I get it, yeah me and if I don’t I’d rather have nothing that settle for something I don’t like.
If everyone thought like that the roads would be empty of all except a few Ferraris
In reality whilst most people would love a Ferrari you don't see them refusing to buy a less expensive car they can actually afford as it would be "lowering their standards" "
My idea of the Ferrari of men will differ hugely from others though |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth.
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol "
Well do tell of your opportunities... The one line profile must have you beating the ladies off with a big stick |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth.
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol
Well do tell of your opportunities... The one line profile must have you beating the ladies off with a big stick "
How do you know the op hasn't had meets but has asked them not to verify him |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth.
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol
Well do tell of your opportunities... The one line profile must have you beating the ladies off with a big stick
How do you know the op hasn't had meets but has asked them not to verify him "
The OP's profile, or whether he has veris or not, is not up for discussion to be fair. |
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over a year ago
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at.
I’ll ask again.
How many men’s profiles have you read? not many if im honest but im not looking for men so i generally dont click them
You should read some men’s profiles then to get a balanced view "
He’d be hard pushed to find one with more than a couple of words (I’m taking a leaf out of their book atm ) |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth.
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol
Well do tell of your opportunities... The one line profile must have you beating the ladies off with a big stick
How do you know the op hasn't had meets but has asked them not to verify him "
On the balance of probabilities... Let us think about it... |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth.
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol
Well do tell of your opportunities... The one line profile must have you beating the ladies off with a big stick
How do you know the op hasn't had meets but has asked them not to verify him "
Or met other unverified people?? Who bloody cares anyway?! |
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"A parable for those complaining about women being too demanding.
Two people go into a car showroom. One is on an average wage, the other is a millionaire. The first bloke considers two car as the bottom end of the market and buys one. The second bloke looks at all the cars in the showroom and buys a Ferrari.
As the second bloke is about to drive away, the first bloke says '" you are so demanding and up yourself. Look at you being so choosy and driving away in the best car in the showroom. You should be humble like me "
I always want the Ferrari and if I get it, yeah me and if I don’t I’d rather have nothing that settle for something I don’t like.
If everyone thought like that the roads would be empty of all except a few Ferraris
In reality whilst most people would love a Ferrari you don't see them refusing to buy a less expensive car they can actually afford as it would be "lowering their standards"
My idea of the Ferrari of men will differ hugely and from others though "
Indeed, just like some millionaires might prefer a Fiat Punto to a Ferrari.
It's gonna be rare though |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
I preffer to think that it's people spelling out exactly what they are looking for and hopefully getting it.
In real life you have to go through the dance of what are likes disslikes ect but here you can just spell it out and if someone lies the same then you might hook up if not move along or block |
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at.
Alot of the aggressive and/or demanding type profiles are generally born of frustration. Frustration that the wrong type of guy is messaging, totally ignoring what they have written and are looking for and messaged anyway often trying to change their minds.
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I’ve tweaked mine several times from sheer frustration. It’s now more direct but I like to think it’s still polite. I’m definitely not up my arse. |
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I think both men and women should be clear about what they want and just as importantly what they don't want a I do. I'd like to think that isn't me being rude or obnoxious but I can understand that some may see it like that. Regardless - honesty is the best policy as far as I'm concerned |
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I think written word can be very much down to the readers interpretation. If the reader already has a certain view or feelings at the time of reading, it may seem that all or majority of profiles read like spoilt, bratty profiles.
Also what some may consider jumping through hoops could also be considered safety precautions. Although I don't know what has been asked so maybe not. |
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"A parable for those complaining about women being too demanding.
Two people go into a car showroom. One is on an average wage, the other is a millionaire. The first bloke considers two car as the bottom end of the market and buys one. The second bloke looks at all the cars in the showroom and buys a Ferrari.
As the second bloke is about to drive away, the first bloke says '" you are so demanding and up yourself. Look at you being so choosy and driving away in the best car in the showroom. You should be humble like me ""
The bloke on the average wage has an attitude problem and a huge chip on his shoulder |
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at.
Alot of the aggressive and/or demanding type profiles are generally born of frustration. Frustration that the wrong type of guy is messaging, totally ignoring what they have written and are looking for and messaged anyway often trying to change their minds.
I’ve tweaked mine several times from sheer frustration. It’s now more direct but I like to think it’s still polite. I’m definitely not up my arse. "
read yours and its fine..its not rude or obnoxious it simply lists your prefernces which is all good |
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"Op might have some credibility if he had a veri... The simple fact of being on the site for over a year and having none strikes me as a rather frustrated dude lashing out... Just our pennorth.
Haha do you think ina year i have no chance of a meet? If inwanted a veri i could easily get one so frustrated and lashing out lol
Well do tell of your opportunities... The one line profile must have you beating the ladies off with a big stick
How do you know the op hasn't had meets but has asked them not to verify him
The OP's profile, or whether he has veris or not, is not up for discussion to be fair. "
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"And can we just get this straight no one has messaged me and been rude this is from what ive read on ALOT NOT ALL of womens profiles i have looked at.
Alot of the aggressive and/or demanding type profiles are generally born of frustration. Frustration that the wrong type of guy is messaging, totally ignoring what they have written and are looking for and messaged anyway often trying to change their minds.
I’ve tweaked mine several times from sheer frustration. It’s now more direct but I like to think it’s still polite. I’m definitely not up my arse. read yours and its fine..its not rude or obnoxious it simply lists your prefernces which is all good "
Phew, I can relax.....it’s only from experience and messages I’ve received that I’ve stated preferences. I’m not a fan of putting negative one liners but it’s something I’ve had to do. Peace and love |
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"Morning. I understand everyone has preferences. But being a rude obnoxious demanding spoilt brat seems to be accepted on here if you're a woman. "
Your thread title contradicts your actual gripe though. Say what you mean!
I’ve never been rude to anyone on here or indeed anywhere else. I don’t see the need personally but that’s not to say it doesn’t cross my mind.
There are currently 24 unread messages in my mailbox from people outwith my age preferences which I’ve received over the last 48 hours. It’s clear in my profile that I’m not interested in meeting anyone at the moment but still I have 20 and 30 somethings chancing their luck.
I’ve not even bothered to open them cause realistically they’re not what I’m looking for. I used to respond to all with a polite no thanks but I’m currently reading a book about being ‘not sorry’ for refraining to give a fuck and I think if they can’t be arsed to read my profile, I can’t be arsed to open their messages. I’ll do a bulk delete when the little yellow notification starts to get on my tits - I’m currently testing my CDO which is why they’re even still there. It doesn’t make me rude or a spoilt brat. |
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