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Messages not getting delivered

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi guys. Bit of a weird one.

Iv been sending messages and notice that hardly any get read. One message that did get read and she told me she hadn't ever had a message before so I sent a few more and she got backntonme to say she hadn't got them. This has happened with 2 other people aswell.

So it's clear that my messages are not being delivered. Has anyone els had this problem and has anyone got any idea whats going on...

Thanks guys.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Never ever had of or heard that before.

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"So it's clear that my messages are not being delivered. "

That’s one explanation, yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So it's clear that my messages are not being delivered.

That’s one explanation, yes"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're new op so I'll explain.

Women get inundated. Some more than others but generally inundated with messages. Chances are it's been delivered, but by the time they have logged back on, so have 100 more and yours is at the bottom of a very large pile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If been speaking to 3 different women that are on this site. If sent them messages and they told me they havnt received them. I know how this site works thanks if been here before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You say you are sending messages and hardly any get read? So they are showing as sent in your sent mail? Lots of women don't read some messages as they get hundreds or, they read it then marked it as unread again. Contact admin if you think there is a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right. I have spoken to 3 seperate women. On here 1st. Then via kik. I asked them to look at their fab inbox as I thought I had a problem. They told me there is no message from me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right. I have spoken to 3 seperate women. On here 1st. Then via kik. I asked them to look at their fab inbox as I thought I had a problem. They told me there is no message from me."

Right, report to admin then hun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok thanks. Just thought someone here may have had same problems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It could be that their inbox is that full that they need to clear their inbox to see your messages?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Right. I have spoken to 3 seperate women. On here 1st. Then via kik. I asked them to look at their fab inbox as I thought I had a problem. They told me there is no message from me."

Maybe they saw an opportunity for a good get out clause for when they can't be arsed to reply to you. Never heard of this problem before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right. I have spoken to 3 seperate women. On here 1st. Then via kik. I asked them to look at their fab inbox as I thought I had a problem. They told me there is no message from me.

Maybe they saw an opportunity for a good get out clause for when they can't be arsed to reply to you. Never heard of this problem before. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right. I have spoken to 3 seperate women. On here 1st. Then via kik. I asked them to look at their fab inbox as I thought I had a problem. They told me there is no message from me.

Maybe they saw an opportunity for a good get out clause for when they can't be arsed to reply to you. Never heard of this problem before. "

No me neither and I've been here for 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can you see the messages in your sent box?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are getting messages fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES

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By *andm_69Couple over a year ago

Stevenage

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

Maybe they have mutli accounts as there not real and are logged into the wrong profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok thanks. Just thought someone here may have had same problems "
its a difficult one to detect unless you are regularly speaking to someone and it gets mentioned I know a woman on here who I've spoken to many times who because of her message levels rarely reads and replies to my messages but I now have her kik

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

Blimey, calm down, no need to get so stroppy! Contact admin like I said, only they will be able to help.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

You don't know that for a fact, unless you have access to their mailbox that's just what they're telling you. Contact admin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

WELL THEN DON'T TELL US TELL ADMIN!

They may just be telling you porkies though

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES

ARE THEY IN YOUR SENT FOLDER?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

And did you not ask if anyone else had the same issue?

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

All messages are delivered

If messages exceed 100 in your sent box the oldest will be deleted whether read or not

Not everyone reads or opens messages and will delete them which will show as deleted on your sent message

Many members block delete messages due to the amount they recieve

Many members ignore other messages because they are not interested

Best advice move on chill out and relax.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

They're just 6 pages down and they can't see them is all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try carrier pigeon its the only way to go

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By *andm_69Couple over a year ago

Stevenage

Feel like this post could be a fishing for a woman to let him message them and see if it "works"

Then he can try to strike up a conversation.

Or is that just me

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

OP Please send me a message and I will tell you if I receive it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It could be that their inbox is that full that they need to clear their inbox to see your messages?

This? Inbox only shows the newest 100...if they received 100 since yours..then yours has dropped off the bottom!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feel like this post could be a fishing for a woman to let him message them and see if it "works"

Then he can try to strike up a conversation.

Or is that just me

Ooooh...harsh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feel like this post could be a fishing for a woman to let him message them and see if it "works"

Then he can try to strike up a conversation.

Or is that just me

"
its just you

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Feel like this post could be a fishing for a woman to let him message them and see if it "works"

Then he can try to strike up a conversation.

Or is that just me

indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My sent messages arrive okay.......They normally show up as deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP Please send me a message and I will tell you if I receive it. "
smooth

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By *andm_69Couple over a year ago

Stevenage

"Feel like this post could be a fishing for a woman to let him message them and see if it "works"

Then he can try to strike up a conversation.

Or is that just me

Ooooh...harsh!"

Man can be a crafty bugger sometimes

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

"OP Please send me a message and I will tell you if I receive it. "

Yes message me too let’s test it out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feel like this post could be a fishing for a woman to let him message them and see if it "works"

Then he can try to strike up a conversation.

Or is that just me

Ooooh...harsh!

Man can be a crafty bugger sometimes

"
so can women its the way their minds work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good idea, message everyone on this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Very naughty!

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By *andm_69Couple over a year ago

Stevenage

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Anyone taking bets he only messages the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Anyone taking bets he only messages the ladies

"
he's in touch with his sexuality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Very naughty!"

Why? At least he'll know if he has a problem with his account.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Anyone taking bets he only messages the ladies

I'm good with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Very naughty!

Why? At least he'll know if he has a problem with his account."

Not if most ignore it....Just for shits and giggles

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Good idea, message everyone on this thread

Very naughty!

Why? At least he'll know if he has a problem with his account."

Only if we tell him the truth

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Boo hoo. I’ve not been messaged he must be having message problems !!

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Boo hoo. I’ve not been messaged he must be having message problems !!"

I haven't got one from him either. Maybe he can get a refund of his site supporter pass ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

New to me that one. They either reply or delete after they read them. Sometimes it can take a while for a reply as they get so many messages and can take a while to work through them. Try writing something in the message title that stands out.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman over a year ago

bolton

"Seems a lot of people can't understand simple txt. THEY ARE NOT GETTING MY MESSAGES"

So how are they managing to message you?

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP have you tried turning it off and switching it on again?

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By *kmale201633Man over a year ago

Southampton

This has gone well!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I have spoken to 3 seperate women. On here 1st. Then via kik."

You are doing really well OP. You have only been here a week and you are already chatting to thee women.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Op if you're having problems contact admin from the CONTACT button.

I'm going to close this now as some of the responses are less than helpful.

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