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over a year ago
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Be honest. Do looks matter to you?
I personally think you only want to get to know the person if your attracted physically.
You wouldn't chat someone up in a pub if you weren't attracted |
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter "
Because your personality comes out in the sex?
I’m not saying that looks aren’t important - that certainly explains some of my lack of success - but often it’s not only looks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be honest. Do looks matter to you?
I personally think you only want to get to know the person if your attracted physically.
You wouldn't chat someone up in a pub if you weren't attracted"
Yes. They do. But like anything, what a person finds attractive is entirely subjective |
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter "
Attraction is certainly required but, it’s nothing without a personality you can engage with too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter
Attraction is certainly required but, it’s nothing without a personality you can engage with too "
I would agree it you are looking to date someone or form a relationship.. but here is just sexy and the physical.
You can have the most amazing personality but without the physical appearance to catch her eye there is no woman on here that will ever take the time to findout |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Looks are important but let's face it without a decent personality behind it all you have is a good looking Twit !
Funny enough I have had some fab social encounters with people that I am not actually attracted to but are great people.
I guess the true prize is someone with both ....the saga continues ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree to some extent as there has been some I wouldn't have looked twice at in a pub...but on her we approach it from a different angle and you build up a rapport often long before we meet. So you get to know the person here not based on the pub impression |
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter
Attraction is certainly required but, it’s nothing without a personality you can engage with too
I would agree it you are looking to date someone or form a relationship.. but here is just sexy and the physical.
You can have the most amazing personality but without the physical appearance to catch her eye there is no woman on here that will ever take the time to findout"
As I’ve already said, a physical attraction is certainly required. I don’t agree with your comment that a personality you’re attracted to is only relevant if you’re looking to date etc.
Each to their own though - we are all different at the end of the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter
Attraction is certainly required but, it’s nothing without a personality you can engage with too
I would agree it you are looking to date someone or form a relationship.. but here is just sexy and the physical.
You can have the most amazing personality but without the physical appearance to catch her eye there is no woman on here that will ever take the time to findout"
Perhaps you are not looking to engage in conversation and enjoy their company on more than just a physical level, but not everyone is like that. I'm not looking for a relationship, but I like to get on with them as well as fancy them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To a degree, but then it’s the personality behind the looks that carries the conversation on. Some meets have not been traditionally good looking but have great personalities x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads make me laugh... Everyone so self righteous.
Ladies would not even reply to a message from a guy if she was not attracted to the pictures so she has no idea what the person or is like and they hid this shallow behaviour behind the fact they receive so many messages.
Guy don't give a toss what she looks like as long as she is putting out.
And we will all disagree and claim we are different... Funny thing is, I am different but most will never get to find out as I am to ugly to chat to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be honest. Do looks matter to you?
I personally think you only want to get to know the person if your attracted physically.
You wouldn't chat someone up in a pub if you weren't attracted"
I agree with you  |
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Well yes, in order to be intimate with someone, I need to be attracted to her. However, substance is as important as surface, if not more important in some occasion. So even though the look pleases my eyes, her personality also needs to match mine.
Having said, I do not want to fuck everyone I am talking to and I don't necesseraly talk to people that I would like to fuck.
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By (user no longer on site)
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For sure, physical attraction is very important for me as well as mental and emotional attraction and clearly is to others, so it’s a bit of a double edged sword as mutual attraction can be somewhat elusive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes. I have to be physically attracted to someone to want to be intimate with them.
That doesn't mean they have to look a certain way though, I find different things attractive in different people. |
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter "
This is a SWINGING site! To me, swinging is 90% social 10% sex!
Yep - looks are important - but if they haven’t got a personality to back it up then nothing is going to happen! X |
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"When all is said and done, this is a sex site so attraction is required... Why would ones personality matter "
Because I have no desire to let someone unpleasant inside my body however pretty they look.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads make me laugh... Everyone so self righteous.
Ladies would not even reply to a message from a guy if she was not attracted to the pictures so she has no idea what the person or is like and they hid this shallow behaviour behind the fact they receive so many messages.
Guy don't give a toss what she looks like as long as she is putting out.
And we will all disagree and claim we are different... Funny thing is, I am different but most will never get to find out as I am to ugly to chat to. "
You are making a blanket judgement based on your personal preferance. You have your way, others have their's. There's nothing wrong with yours, but that doesn't mean that everyone Is of the same mindset as you . |
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