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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies
How would you answer a message like this?
Hey sexy, how you doing?
Clearly a little more effort than wuu2 or can I cum on you’re tits.
Which messages do you ignore/delete and which do reply to?
I don’t like just hitting delete but has to be done sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I liked a bit of banter in the first message or a little bit of an introduction in the first message, I rarely answered anything else especially if just ‘hi’ thankfully Ads didn’t do that!
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies
How would you answer a message like this?
Hey sexy, how you doing?
Clearly a little more effort than wuu2 or can I cum on you’re tits.
Which messages do you ignore/delete and which do reply to?
I don’t like just hitting delete but has to be done sometimes. "
If it comes with a face pic, i would reply fine thanks.
If it comes with a dick pic - deleted. I don't talk to dicks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies
How would you answer a message like this?
Hey sexy, how you doing?
Clearly a little more effort than wuu2 or can I cum on you’re tits.
Which messages do you ignore/delete and which do reply to?
I don’t like just hitting delete but has to be done sometimes.
If it comes with a face pic, i would reply fine thanks.
If it comes with a dick pic - deleted. I don't talk to dicks "
Came with a chin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies
How would you answer a message like this?
Hey sexy, how you doing?
Clearly a little more effort than wuu2 or can I cum on you’re tits.
Which messages do you ignore/delete and which do reply to?
I don’t like just hitting delete but has to be done sometimes.
If it comes with a face pic, i would reply fine thanks.
If it comes with a dick pic - deleted. I don't talk to dicks
Came with a chin "
Flip a coin  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I try to be polite as much as I can, describing myself and why I am contacting the person, and 90% end up in a deletion without any mercy, exactly as I wrote "fuck off"....  "
It’s real hard as most messages are the same as in
Wuu2
Hey sexy
Can I cum on you’re tits
Etc
The ones that take time I reply to, I just wondered what was the line between delete and reply.
Dicks get deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try to be polite as much as I can, describing myself and why I am contacting the person, and 90% end up in a deletion without any mercy, exactly as I wrote "fuck off".... "
Deted without mercy, I like that |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Not that I send many cold messages (apart from ones responding to a forum post) but if I sent something that amounted to one line that didn't use any imagination or show I'd at least read the persons profile nor did it show any respect I'd fully expect it to be deleted unread  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We reply to all...
Funniest was a few days ago
They sent "hi"
Replied hi
They said "wuu2"
Replied nowt much
They said "ur not veryhatty are you boring bitch" and blocked us lol  "
Lol
I once got pestered by a man and kept refusing to meet him.
His final reply was didn’t want to meet you anyway you fat bitch
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree. "
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples"
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys"
There's no formula either is there. My most interesting conversation to date has come from a silhouette profile with no pics and a very short unassuming opening message. You just don't know what will catch your eye |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys
There's no formula either is there. My most interesting conversation to date has come from a silhouette profile with no pics and a very short unassuming opening message. You just don't know what will catch your eye "
No you’re right
Message a few mins ago
You up to anything interesting?
Me
It’s nearly midnight I doubt it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys"
I’m glad you have. However we see so many threads about crap messages from men. Blokes moaning about their messages being deleted. It would mean that women and couples would be proactive in finding what they want. I think profiles would improve as people realised that was their shop window particularly for men rather than think they’ll get what they want via scatter gun ‘fancy a fuck’ and ‘hiya how are you doing?’ messages. Just an off the wall thought...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys
I’m glad you have. However we see so many threads about crap messages from men. Blokes moaning about their messages being deleted. It would mean that women and couples would be proactive in finding what they want. I think profiles would improve as people realised that was their shop window particularly for men rather than think they’ll get what they want via scatter gun ‘fancy a fuck’ and ‘hiya how are you doing?’ messages. Just an off the wall thought... "
I see you’re point.
I did have a much longer profile and deleted because no one read it.
They still don’t lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys
There's no formula either is there. My most interesting conversation to date has come from a silhouette profile with no pics and a very short unassuming opening message. You just don't know what will catch your eye "
Right! That's me silhouetting up and deleting most of my profile blurb then!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys
There's no formula either is there. My most interesting conversation to date has come from a silhouette profile with no pics and a very short unassuming opening message. You just don't know what will catch your eye
Right! That's me silhouetting up and deleting most of my profile blurb then!!"
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight! "
At least that shows a little humour and imagination |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight! "
I knew that was one of my better messages.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight!
At least that shows a little humour and imagination "
Oh yes! Thank you for sending it |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight!
At least that shows a little humour and imagination
Oh yes! Thank you for sending it "
And thank you for deleting unread - I wrote it specially so you could read it all without having to open it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight!
so funny"
I never win first prize with anything... I asked for a trophy instead, but he didn't seem keen on that...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take away the sexy and it's probably how you would get spoke to in the pub. Since half of us are here with our tits out the sexy is par for the course x"
Yes point taken, but they have nothing more to give. It’s just uninteresting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Take away the sexy and it's probably how you would get spoke to in the pub. Since half of us are here with our tits out the sexy is par for the course x
Yes point taken, but they have nothing more to give. It’s just uninteresting "
Well the apparently all get deleted so they'll never know x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Take away the sexy and it's probably how you would get spoke to in the pub. Since half of us are here with our tits out the sexy is par for the course x
Yes point taken, but they have nothing more to give. It’s just uninteresting
Well the apparently all get deleted so they'll never know x"
No I reply to most, the one above I replied to. My reply wasn’t what he wanted so that was that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just had a message "meet me now". I replied "no thanks" He said "You are too old for me anyway" and blocked me. "
Some take rejection so well, don't they? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just had a message "meet me now". I replied "no thanks" He said "You are too old for me anyway" and blocked me.
Some take rejection so well, don't they? "
My worst was the fat bitch one, but it wasn’t fat bitch it was fat slag If I remember rightly.
Offended yes I was, i’m fat but not a slag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just had a message "meet me now". I replied "no thanks" He said "You are too old for me anyway" and blocked me.
Some take rejection so well, don't they?
My worst was the fat bitch one, but it wasn’t fat bitch it was fat slag If I remember rightly.
Offended yes I was, i’m fat but not a slag "
I had that I'm up my own arse and I bet I think everyone fancies me.... I wish! |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message."
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ? |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?"
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about. |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about."
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol. |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol."
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol"
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always try to make my messages fun and a bit funny... I always read a woman's profile first so that I know what the lady is interested in... I will always send a face pic..
I must say tho it's very tough sometimes but I luv that...?? |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude "
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always try to make my messages fun and a bit funny... I always read a woman's profile first so that I know what the lady is interested in... I will always send a face pic..
I must say tho it's very tough sometimes but I luv that...??"
Well we have to keep you on your toes young man  |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time"
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder. |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder. "
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol"
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message "
not that you need to encourage people lol
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
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That was aimed at you  |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you "
I know check your inbox lol |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol"
Finally! Haha. Reunited  |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited "
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited
Don’t buy a hat just yet, he may send a dick pic "
not quite a dick pic lol
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited
Don’t buy a hat just yet, he may send a dick pic
not quite a dick pic lol
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Ladies he sent a pic that wasn’t his dick |
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited
Don’t buy a hat just yet, he may send a dick pic
not quite a dick pic lol
Ladies he sent a pic that wasn’t his dick "
Yes but some might say it is a pic of a dick lol |
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over a year ago
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited
Don’t buy a hat just yet, he may send a dick pic
not quite a dick pic lol
Ladies he sent a pic that wasn’t his dick
Yes but some might say it is a pic of a dick lol"
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over a year ago
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited
Don’t buy a hat just yet, he may send a dick pic
not quite a dick pic lol
Ladies he sent a pic that wasn’t his dick "
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over a year ago
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"I always try to be polite and keep clear of the "lets meet" or "want to fuck" messages. And my golden rule is if I can't manage to read through the whole profile then I don't send a message.
Whys that, you think they will have demands etc ?
no if I've lost interest before I've even read the profile then there's a good chance we're not going to have much to talk about.
Just read yours, it’s quite long but I managed it all lol.
Well we have chatted before, back in the days when you had the sky remote as your profile pic so my golden rule can't be to bad lol
Aghhh so I replied, see I am polite.
I still have that picture it was quite popular.
And then you stopped talking to me ... how rude
not through choice I think you had a bit of a break, you were quite pissed off with the dickheads at the time
Nothing changes then
I still do but I care a little less now, I guess I’m a little harder.
the best way to be, you have to put up with a lot of idiots before you get to a gem like me lol
I need a little emoji thingy that’s call me
Or maybe message
not that you need to encourage people lol
That was aimed at you
I know check your inbox lol
Finally! Haha. Reunited
Don’t buy a hat just yet, he may send a dick pic
not quite a dick pic lol
Ladies he sent a pic that wasn’t his dick
*trundles off to buy a hat* "
You are funny |
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over a year ago
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"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight! "
I had the same message and it wasn’t the first time he has sent that to me. |
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over a year ago
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"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight!
I had the same message and it wasn’t the first time he has sent that to me. "
I'm wondering if it the same guy then haha |
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over a year ago
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"I had a wonderful one tonight. I was the winner of a competition and the first prize was his cock! I nearly wet myself with delight!
I had the same message and it wasn’t the first time he has sent that to me.
I'm wondering if it the same guy then haha "
It wasn't me |
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over a year ago
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"And a fresh morning and a few fresh wuu2 messages.
And a “are you doing anything good”
Are they expecting me to say well actually I’m mid gang bang.
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Just tell them what your up to. Out to lunch, shopping etc. Its how conversations start x |
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over a year ago
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"And a fresh morning and a few fresh wuu2 messages.
And a “are you doing anything good”
Are they expecting me to say well actually I’m mid gang bang.
Just tell them what your up to. Out to lunch, shopping etc. Its how conversations start x"
I do, they rarely seem excited when I reply I’m doing chores.
I get the ohhh very rock n roll ... I can win not. |
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over a year ago
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"And a fresh morning and a few fresh wuu2 messages.
And a “are you doing anything good”
Are they expecting me to say well actually I’m mid gang bang.
Just tell them what your up to. Out to lunch, shopping etc. Its how conversations start x
I do, they rarely seem excited when I reply I’m doing chores.
I get the ohhh very rock n roll ... I can win not."
Carry on the conversation with something interesting then lol I have great chats on here x |
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over a year ago
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"And a fresh morning and a few fresh wuu2 messages.
And a “are you doing anything good”
Are they expecting me to say well actually I’m mid gang bang.
Just tell them what your up to. Out to lunch, shopping etc. Its how conversations start x
I do, they rarely seem excited when I reply I’m doing chores.
I get the ohhh very rock n roll ... I can win not.
Carry on the conversation with something interesting then lol I have great chats on here x"
Me too, some really lovely guys on here. It just seems some I either have a spark with straight away or I don’t.
I found once you break down the barriers you see a whole new person... mostly |
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over a year ago
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"And a fresh morning and a few fresh wuu2 messages.
And a “are you doing anything good”
Are they expecting me to say well actually I’m mid gang bang.
Just tell them what your up to. Out to lunch, shopping etc. Its how conversations start x
I do, they rarely seem excited when I reply I’m doing chores.
I get the ohhh very rock n roll ... I can win not.
Carry on the conversation with something interesting then lol I have great chats on here x
Me too, some really lovely guys on here. It just seems some I either have a spark with straight away or I don’t.
I found once you break down the barriers you see a whole new person... mostly "
Aww yeah you find out pretty quickly if you dont have the same sense of humour or their chat is pish but can honestly say most guys are brand new and just chat away x |
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over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I don’t agree
I have chatted to some lovely single guys
I’m glad you have. However we see so many threads about crap messages from men. Blokes moaning about their messages being deleted. It would mean that women and couples would be proactive in finding what they want. I think profiles would improve as people realised that was their shop window particularly for men rather than think they’ll get what they want via scatter gun ‘fancy a fuck’ and ‘hiya how are you doing?’ messages. Just an off the wall thought...
I see you’re point.
I did have a much longer profile and deleted because no one read it.
They still don’t lol"
No need to read if it’s scatter gun copy & paste messages being sent |
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over a year ago
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"When you free to get ruined is what I use! Probly why I’m still searching haha
I would respond to that with a raised eyebrow and a reallyyyy"
With a face pic I think it would work haha |
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over a year ago
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"When you free to get ruined is what I use! Probly why I’m still searching haha
I would respond to that with a raised eyebrow and a reallyyyy
With a face pic I think it would work haha"
Cheeky but made me laugh |
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over a year ago
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"Single guy tho....could be a totally blank message n if we like the pretty pictures we'll still reply
So it’s all about the visuals, shocking "
Deep as a puddle! Lol
I've had a few replies over the years from a wee...How's yer bum for love bites?
N lots n lots of no replies! |
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"Single guy tho....could be a totally blank message n if we like the pretty pictures we'll still reply
So it’s all about the visuals, shocking
Deep as a puddle! Lol
I've had a few replies over the years from a wee...How's yer bum for love bites?
N lots n lots of no replies!"
Mad as you seem a nice guy, and a great body ... if it’s yours lol. Come on who knows on this site. |
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over a year ago
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"Single guy tho....could be a totally blank message n if we like the pretty pictures we'll still reply
So it’s all about the visuals, shocking
Deep as a puddle! Lol
I've had a few replies over the years from a wee...How's yer bum for love bites?
N lots n lots of no replies!
Mad as you seem a nice guy, and a great body ... if it’s yours lol. Come on who knows on this site. "
Stop flirting with others! I've already bought the hat! |
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over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples"
I also stopped sending messages long time ago lol. |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples"
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.  |
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over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid. "
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself |
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over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid. "
Yeah I find it hard to sustain a conversation - so many are one way affairs. I prefer just posting drivel on here. |
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We think that it's about being decent and respectful but if there isn't a physical attraction the nicest message in the world isn't going to change anything x |
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"We think that it's about being decent and respectful but if there isn't a physical attraction the nicest message in the world isn't going to change anything x"
Sad but true, unfortunately |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself "
I got a message on POF once from a male model - he said 'Like the dress, want to see what's underneath it!' lol! He got a very favourable response..... |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
I got a message on POF once from a male model - he said 'Like the dress, want to see what's underneath it!' lol! He got a very favourable response..... "
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
I got a message on POF once from a male model - he said 'Like the dress, want to see what's underneath it!' lol! He got a very favourable response.....
Please tell me you met him! "
Oh yes!! |
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over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
I got a message on POF once from a male model - he said 'Like the dress, want to see what's underneath it!' lol! He got a very favourable response.....
Please tell me you met him! "
and did you leave your fluffy boots on? |
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"We think that it's about being decent and respectful but if there isn't a physical attraction the nicest message in the world isn't going to change anything x"
I think that’s why I had no success with messaging. No matter how clever my message was, how much I’d read their profile and written something apt and witty, the inescapable truth is if they don’t fancy you it will get deleted. I had a really well written profile too.
I get dramatically more interest now than I ever did messaging and with decent profile text |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
I got a message on POF once from a male model - he said 'Like the dress, want to see what's underneath it!' lol! He got a very favourable response.....
Please tell me you met him! and did you leave your fluffy boots on? "
Strangely I can't remember what was on my feet..... |
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over a year ago
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
I got a message on POF once from a male model - he said 'Like the dress, want to see what's underneath it!' lol! He got a very favourable response.....
Please tell me you met him! and did you leave your fluffy boots on?
Strangely I can't remember what was on my feet..... "
Wow! That good?? |
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over a year ago
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Well i cant say i ever start with any of them but maybe it takes a womenly bit of help and maybe suggestions as how to start a message? So say your looking at my profile and think he looks nice what would you girls put in a first message?? |
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How would you answer a message like this?
Hey sexy, how you doing?
Clearly a little more effort than wuu2 or can I cum on you’re tits.
Which messages do you ignore/delete and which do reply to?
I don’t like just hitting delete but has to be done sometimes.
If it comes with a face pic, i would reply fine thanks.
If it comes with a dick pic - deleted. I don't talk to dicks "
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over a year ago
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"Single guy tho....could be a totally blank message n if we like the pretty pictures we'll still reply
So it’s all about the visuals, shocking
Deep as a puddle! Lol
I've had a few replies over the years from a wee...How's yer bum for love bites?
N lots n lots of no replies!
Mad as you seem a nice guy, and a great body ... if it’s yours lol. Come on who knows on this site.
Stop flirting with others! I've already bought the hat! "
I’m not flirting
Am I |
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"Well i cant say i ever start with any of them but maybe it takes a womenly bit of help and maybe suggestions as how to start a message? So say your looking at my profile and think he looks nice what would you girls put in a first message?? "
I wouldn’t message, as for me you use the word fun way too much and it annoys me.
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself "
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first "
Forums are a great place to actually get a feel for a person that’s for sure. |
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"It's true, there is no point investing much energy into speaking to most ladies on fab beyond two sentences, it is better to concentrate on speaking to the ladies face to face.
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Nonsense, all my meets have been arranged after chatting on here. |
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"Well i cant say i ever start with any of them but maybe it takes a womenly bit of help and maybe suggestions as how to start a message? So say your looking at my profile and think he looks nice what would you girls put in a first message?? "
The obvious thing would be to comment or ask something about your tattoo. I would be happy to answer a question or comment about a pic but ONLY from someone who's profile I like - it's the profile that counts, invest in that most! |
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"It's true, there is no point investing much energy into speaking to most ladies on fab beyond two sentences, it is better to concentrate on speaking to the ladies face to face.
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so basically all you want is a quick shag and you're not bothered if there is any connection before you meet? |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first "
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that |
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"Do men really use that as an opener? I’m so naive
they're the mind ones mate there are loads that just send "fancy a fuck" messages "
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That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel. |
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"Do men really use that as an opener? I’m so naive
they're the mind ones mate there are loads that just send "fancy a fuck" messages "
Not you though you are a lovely |
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel."
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then |
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"Do men really use that as an opener? I’m so naive
they're the mind ones mate there are loads that just send "fancy a fuck" messages
Not you though you are a lovely "
I'm a true gent I wait till a woman actually fancies a fuck before asking lol |
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then "
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too . |
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then "
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too ."
Face to face is better, I could really like someone but if the vibe is wrong it’s completely offputting |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that "
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too ."
Can't disagree more, getting to know somebody is not a waste of time |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ... "
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ...
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed "
Certainly nothing wrong with your pics, I researched them |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ...
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed
Certainly nothing wrong with your pics, I researched them "
All smoke, mirrors, clever filters and angles, and breathing in But thanks I’m glad there’s nothing wrong with them though |
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"How do you liiiike your egggs in the mooorninnngg?"
Omelette- prawns, onion, mushrooms, green pepper, tomato and red chilli - garnished with mixed herbs, black pepper and some chill flakes - thanks for asking Lib. |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ...
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed "
Shush now, I've fabbed all your bum and torso pics already . And you always raise a smile x |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ...
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed
Certainly nothing wrong with your pics, I researched them
All smoke, mirrors, clever filters and angles, and breathing in But thanks I’m glad there’s nothing wrong with them though "
Seriously they are good clean pics, some pics on fab make me heave |
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ...
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed "
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I Mr tried to employ sarcasm earlier i say tried..
So a young single straight gentleman messaged our profile proclaiming how sexy my body was.
I presumed he hadn't read the bit on our profile in regards to it being me(male) doing the replying.
So being in a snarky mood i sent him a load of smut back thanking him profusely in various ways..
Turns out.
He had read our profile.
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"Every first message I sent was ignored or deleted without being read. That’s why I stopped sending them.
It can’t be nice I agree.
It’s pointless for most men.
The best thing that could happen on this site is for all men to stop messaging women and couples
I very rarely message men first so I need them to message me. If I like the profile and it fits what I am after, I will reply. Sustaining an interesting conversation thereafter is where most men stumble I am afraid.
I agree. I think a lot of the time, the profile is the key, rather than the message itself
Profile can be yes, I like it a bit more illusive though, give me things to question and wonder about a person so I just have to message and ask, when my curiosity gets the better of me. Especially if they've tantalised on the forum first
Tantalised on the forum? Ahhh there are a few who are guilty of that
All those torsos and bottoms and witty comments ...
I think for some men the forum is a good place to be noticed, especially if they have decent torsos and bums, have a decent personality and are funny. Sadly we’re not all so blessed
Well that's me banjaxed then "
word of the day - banjaxed.
I’ve been banjaxed for years
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too .
Can't disagree more, getting to know somebody is not a waste of time"
Your have a fair comment and getting to know somebody is not a waste of time.
I will put it this way, I would rather get to know someone by talking to them face to face in an environment where they are comfortable. rather than talking to them on the computer for the first meet.
Remember I might not like the lady when I see her and she might not like me when she sees me, so I want work smart instead of working hard. I want to conserve my energy and move to a face to face conversation. |
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"I Mr tried to employ sarcasm earlier i say tried..
So a young single straight gentleman messaged our profile proclaiming how sexy my body was.
I presumed he hadn't read the bit on our profile in regards to it being me(male) doing the replying.
So being in a snarky mood i sent him a load of smut back thanking him profusely in various ways..
Turns out.
He had read our profile.
"
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"I Mr tried to employ sarcasm earlier i say tried..
So a young single straight gentleman messaged our profile proclaiming how sexy my body was.
I presumed he hadn't read the bit on our profile in regards to it being me(male) doing the replying.
So being in a snarky mood i sent him a load of smut back thanking him profusely in various ways..
Turns out.
He had read our profile.
"
As i wrote that, another message popped up.
About licking feet..beautiful feet apparently.
I couldn't resist the sarcasm
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"I Mr tried to employ sarcasm earlier i say tried..
So a young single straight gentleman messaged our profile proclaiming how sexy my body was.
I presumed he hadn't read the bit on our profile in regards to it being me(male) doing the replying.
So being in a snarky mood i sent him a load of smut back thanking him profusely in various ways..
Turns out.
He had read our profile.
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too .
Can't disagree more, getting to know somebody is not a waste of time
Your have a fair comment and getting to know somebody is not a waste of time.
I will put it this way, I would rather get to know someone by talking to them face to face in an environment where they are comfortable. rather than talking to them on the computer for the first meet.
Remember I might not like the lady when I see her and she might not like me when she sees me, so I want work smart instead of working hard. I want to conserve my energy and move to a face to face conversation. "
How you decide to meet is entirely your business. It seems to suit you well and is your preference. That's all that counts at the end of the day. We all have our own fab journey to explore and are looking for like minded people to share snippets of time with, to make our experience a positive one. There no right or wrong ways to do that. As long as you are enjoying, that's what counts |
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too .
Can't disagree more, getting to know somebody is not a waste of time
Your have a fair comment and getting to know somebody is not a waste of time.
I will put it this way, I would rather get to know someone by talking to them face to face in an environment where they are comfortable. rather than talking to them on the computer for the first meet.
Remember I might not like the lady when I see her and she might not like me when she sees me, so I want work smart instead of working hard. I want to conserve my energy and move to a face to face conversation.
How you decide to meet is entirely your business. It seems to suit you well and is your preference. That's all that counts at the end of the day. We all have our own fab journey to explore and are looking for like minded people to share snippets of time with, to make our experience a positive one. There no right or wrong ways to do that. As long as you are enjoying, that's what counts "
Totally
Because I have I don’t meet on my profile I get slated.
However I have met,
My answer is this is my journey and I will do as I want with it |
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"How do you liiiike your egggs in the mooorninnngg?
Omelette- prawns, onion, mushrooms, green pepper, tomato and red chilli - garnished with mixed herbs, black pepper and some chill flakes - thanks for asking Lib. "
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"That's not it , am not into quick shags at all, am also not into endless talk without any purpose or aim.
There is a huge concentration of time wasters in every category on fabs. Two sentences is enough, if you get a decent response then you can take the conversation further in my opinion.
A lot of guys have poured their hearts out in messages only to find out they were talking to a time waster, so what I would do when I get a response is to say , Babe can we meet at a club or spa and continue our chat there to see if you fancy me? All time wasters will stop chatting at this point , genuine people might just change the location or say come and meet me at my hotel.
So if they don't jump when you say about meeting up after the second message, you label them as timewasters? Haha okay then
That's not it, the main thing is when you move the conversation to a face to face situation , you have shown you are not here to waste your time, you might get to a face to face meeting and you might not like the looks of the lady, you can pull out at that point but the critical thing to note is you have not wasted your time and have not wasted her time too .
Can't disagree more, getting to know somebody is not a waste of time
Your have a fair comment and getting to know somebody is not a waste of time.
I will put it this way, I would rather get to know someone by talking to them face to face in an environment where they are comfortable. rather than talking to them on the computer for the first meet.
Remember I might not like the lady when I see her and she might not like me when she sees me, so I want work smart instead of working hard. I want to conserve my energy and move to a face to face conversation.
How you decide to meet is entirely your business. It seems to suit you well and is your preference. That's all that counts at the end of the day. We all have our own fab journey to explore and are looking for like minded people to share snippets of time with, to make our experience a positive one. There no right or wrong ways to do that. As long as you are enjoying, that's what counts "
Great response, we are on the same page now, just imagine a guy spending so much time and effort trying to send you a message because your profile picture looks attractive when it is obvious now that you are not interested in meeting anyone.
You might be looking for a serious relationship, a lot of guys don't realise that a lot of women on fabs are looking for a serious relationship which allows them to swing at the same time, while the guy does not play with any other woman but them, the ladies find it difficult to tell the guys this.
If the guys do it my way, they will discover very quickly that this lady is not for me and they can move rapidly to the next lady. |
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