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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've lost my sex drive
Usually when this happens it's a few days a week and the most and I snap out of it.
It's been over three weeks now, and I'm getting to the stage where I try and arrange meets with both guys on here and guys I know in real life and I literally can't think of anything worse than being sexual with someone right now.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there anything that's recently changed in your life?? Could be stress induced or maybe some new medication is having an effect.
If you're not exercising regularly I'd suggest lifting some weights. The increase in testosterone may be a small help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there anything that's recently changed in your life?? Could be stress induced or maybe some new medication is having an effect.
If you're not exercising regularly I'd suggest lifting some weights. The increase in testosterone may be a small help. "
Nothing has changed
And I do exercise regularly, that doesn't make neither positive or negative difference usually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've lost my sex drive
Usually when this happens it's a few days a week and the most and I snap out of it.
It's been over three weeks now, and I'm getting to the stage where I try and arrange meets with both guys on here and guys I know in real life and I literally can't think of anything worse than being sexual with someone right now.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated "
my advice stop advertising for meets if you are feeling it
take some time out and chill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my advice stop advertising for meets if you are feeling it
take some time out and chill "
Good advice
Perhaps try things that will de-stress such as warm baths, plenty of sleep. Perhaps book some time off work. Sometimes a good night out can work wonders xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We aren't sexual goddesses all the time. Take some time out and concentrate on other areas of your life. It's no big deal. It'll return when the time is right. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've lost my sex drive
Usually when this happens it's a few days a week and the most and I snap out of it.
It's been over three weeks now, and I'm getting to the stage where I try and arrange meets with both guys on here and guys I know in real life and I literally can't think of anything worse than being sexual with someone right now.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
my advice stop advertising for meets if you are feeling it
take some time out and chill "
This is actually really good advice lol
Usually when I get like this the best way is to grab the bull by the horns (pun intended) and just get on with it hence why I'm still chatting etc with the intention of arranging meets, but not actually arranging them |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I've had a lot on my plate in 2017 and haven't has sex since March! My mojo hasn't officially gone and I have tried to meet people, but everything just turns a little meh, but I need my mind stimulated and it just isn't happening here |
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I think your expectations of always being up for it is a bit wrong, we’re human and our feelings are complicated, they affect us in ways that are tricky to follow.
As said, take some time to make the rest of your life a bit more calm and the rest will follow when it’s ready. The world isn’t going to run out of horny blokes when you’re ready to meet again |
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