"so just had fun with a guy ive met once before for a chat, met him today for fun, went to verufy him and he's blocked me!!!shit happens, forget about it.....lots more guys on here to explore "
ye shit happens, forget about it.. lots more gals on here to explore lol.... |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"if he didnt want to see me again or chat again then u would think he would have the balls to say"
why would he when he got his end away, lots of guys are like that and there is no law against it, lots of reasons why, but is it really worth getting upset over? |
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over a year ago
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"if he didnt want to see me again or chat again then u would think he would have the balls to say"
I met someone for a social meet on Saturday. After spending more time with him than I should have...should have left at the starter, I knew by the end of the meal I'd never play with him...ever! I had no problem in telling him...diplomatically of course.
I thought he accepted in good grace and that was that. A couple of days later I got a really stroppy message, he must have put my picture in Tineye or something because he then followed me from site to site moaning, asking what was wrong with him, I'm a timewaster, all I wanted was a free meal etc...every time I blocked him, he'd pop up somewhere else. He kept phoning and texting. Thank God I can block numbers on my phone...it was a nightmare.
Wish I'd done what your meet did: block when you realise you don't want to see them again...saves time (and hassle) in the long run! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so just had fun with a guy ive met once before for a chat, met him today for fun, went to verufy him and he's blocked me!!!"
The block button is next to the verify one. He may have hit the wrong one by accident. If you have his no text him. |
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"so just had fun with a guy ive met once before for a chat, met him today for fun, went to verufy him and he's blocked me!!!"
He's obviously moved on.
I don't see the point in getting stressed about it and needing to let off steam.
You both got what you wanted (I assume as you were about to verify him)... job done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging like alot of things is like a lucky dip....
Sometimes you get a nice surprise..other times it sucks..
Just the way it is..
Roll with the punches...accept there will be times when people reject you, for reasons unknown....
Swinging success,as a lifestyle..is dependent on yer maturity and shrugging stuff of....no guarantees of fuck all...just possibilities... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if he done this to you he is not worth knowing .. you maybe have been saved from geting to know a sefish person."
Sometimes Games being selfish is cool...we`re looking after our own emotional needs after all..
Swinging is primarily a selfish activity...we ought only play on our own terms....if I have doubts or reservations, then its a no go.....and if its someone I barely know, then mabye I`m not going to spend alot of time....easing their rejection...thats their business..
Thats ultimately my take on swinging per say....
Tho be fair to say...I/ we try our utmost to be considerate, if we turn someone down...
Tho its not always possible... |
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"Well if he done this to you he is not worth knowing .. you maybe have been saved from geting to know a sefish person."
He can't have been that selfish... he was about to get a verification after all.
After a meet some people like to stay in touch, others don't... why would one preference be more selfish than the other?
Is it not selfish to expect someone else to do what you want and get annoyed if they don't?
Even if people say they like to stay in touch after a meet it is not a gold sealed stamp. Who can tell how they will feel after an event before the event has happened. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"so just had fun with a guy ive met once before for a chat, met him today for fun, went to verufy him and he's blocked me!!!"
Don't let it get to you...why worry yourself over one person.
Sure you will have plenty more interested in meeting you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"roll on monday thats all i say!!!"
Ach.....thats wishing yer life away...
Pack yer troubles in the `ol kit bag...
Carry on regardless....fortune favours the ones with brave smiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so just had fun with a guy ive met once before for a chat, met him today for fun, went to verufy him and he's blocked me!!!
The block button is next to the verify one. He may have hit the wrong one by accident. If you have his no text him. "
true - we got blocked by a guy once after we swapped numbers and he was devastated lol cause we were about to sort out a meet - which we did at the end. He said he was online on his phone and has pressed the wrong button  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not wishing my life away i dont play at the weekends so always look forward to the monday  "
Hit the quote button maiden
Ah...fair enoughski`s...enjoy yer weekend... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not wishing my life away i dont play at the weekends so always look forward to the monday "
fancy a shag anyway...I'll give a nice veri and possibly cum back for more hehehehe x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not wishing my life away i dont play at the weekends so always look forward to the monday
fancy a shag anyway...I'll give a nice veri and possibly cum back for more hehehehe x"
Opportunity knocks eh tinker |
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"im not wishing my life away i dont play at the weekends so always look forward to the monday
fancy a shag anyway...I'll give a nice veri and possibly cum back for more hehehehe x
Opportunity knocks eh tinker "
well hey am a slut ffs....what ya expect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"aww bugger
the kissing will do then lol "
slowly i will caress ur neck with my big soft lips, while grasping ur hot full breasts...my fingers running down ur spine my hands easing into ur knickers...feeling that wetteningly hot moist pussy..
awww fuck ive came....sorrry..I best leave...verify me tho eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im not wishing my life away i dont play at the weekends so always look forward to the monday
fancy a shag anyway...I'll give a nice veri and possibly cum back for more hehehehe x
Opportunity knocks eh tinker
well hey am a slut ffs....what ya expect!"
Controlled dribbling and a polish of yer pegleg mayhaps.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im not wishing my life away i dont play at the weekends so always look forward to the monday
fancy a shag anyway...I'll give a nice veri and possibly cum back for more hehehehe x
Opportunity knocks eh tinker
well hey am a slut ffs....what ya expect!
Controlled dribbling and a polish of yer pegleg mayhaps.. "
lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Say selfish as he could not give a Toss about her feelings. He had his oats and run off .. with out a word and in my eyes people who do things like this are selfish blocking after sex. This lady was thinking thay had a fun time together .. its hurfull and she has feelings i am sure .. I know swinging is just about sex with no ties but he see her two times must have liked it to go back ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I Say selfish as he could not give a Toss about her feelings. He had his oats and run off .. with out a word and in my eyes people who do things like this are selfish blocking after sex. This lady was thinking thay had a fun time together .. its hurfull and she has feelings i am sure .. I know swinging is just about sex with no ties but he see her two times must have liked it to go back ?"
I`m kinda with you Games...
However..tis no strings attached sex primarily....isn`t it...
Peeps do change their mind...kinda happens...
We don`t know enough about what wa said to really comment...tho fair to say....its life with swingers...
Its better to put it down to experience,than to let it affect you negatively...
My happiness, is my business.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he is married,and had guilt feelings after, and to erase his guilt he just decided to block,who knows,just accept and move on.There will always be another one that comes along.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha i do too xx"
There was other ways he could have done this with out hurting your feelings if he never wished to see you again or chat .I have never had this but i know it would have hurt my feelings if i had . Its so easy to push the block button for some here .. its there way out of things thay think. lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"haha i do too xxThere was other ways he could have done this with out hurting your feelings if he never wished to see you again or chat .I have never had this but i know it would have hurt my feelings if i had . Its so easy to push the block button for some here .. its there way out of things thay think. lol"
when u gonna show my verify of our hot steamy shagging session...making me feel like it meant nothing to ya game!
best point out t5his was my dream last nite...and has been a recurring one for ages now...imagine all my soiled bedding.. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If he has clicked on the block button instead of another and then reads this thread about him he may well keep it blocked 
If however he didn't think the meet went as well as you thought but said he would meet again to be polite, then maybe he has blocked you so he doesn't have to tell you.
Either way, it is a move on time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha i do too xxThere was other ways he could have done this with out hurting your feelings if he never wished to see you again or chat .I have never had this but i know it would have hurt my feelings if i had . Its so easy to push the block button for some here .. its there way out of things thay think. lol
when u gonna show my verify of our hot steamy shagging session...making me feel like it meant nothing to ya game!
best point out t5his was my dream last nite...and has been a recurring one for ages now...imagine all my soiled bedding.."
well you know dream can come true , lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he has clicked on the block button instead of another and then reads this thread about him he may well keep it blocked
If however he didn't think the meet went as well as you thought but said he would meet again to be polite, then maybe he has blocked you so he doesn't have to tell you.
Either way, it is a move on time."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he has clicked on the block button instead of another and then reads this thread about him he may well keep it blocked
If however he didn't think the meet went as well as you thought but said he would meet again to be polite, then maybe he has blocked you so he doesn't have to tell you.
Either way, it is a move on time."
thats why ive offered my shagtasticness services already! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Hey babe his loss, im sure there are loads of people who would love to meet up with you and have you as a friend, and im one of them sexy. chin up xxx"
why is it his loss? the lady advertises for no strings sex and that is exactly what she got...
a curt end maybe, but she has other meets planned so well done her for moving on.
he did too... |
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" I Say selfish as he could not give a Toss about her feelings. He had his oats and run off .. ..."
Slow down a minute there... steady on and all that.... "he had his oats"
Let's be balanced here 'THEY had THEIR oats'... win - win.
If someone arranges to meet someone for sex neither party is obligated to do anything else afterwards... if they do stay in touch (and assuming you want them to) it's a bonus.
I can only see a situation like this as being a case of "he had his oats" if the sex was given in anticipation of something else afterwards ie he promised something in return.... but as this is a meet for recreational sex... I can't see that being the case. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If he has clicked on the block button instead of another and then reads this thread about him he may well keep it blocked
If however he didn't think the meet went as well as you thought but said he would meet again to be polite, then maybe he has blocked you so he doesn't have to tell you.
Either way, it is a move on time.
thats why ive offered my shagtasticness services already!"
Ever the opportunist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps he was expecting, or had been promised "Scott's Porage Oats" but ended up just getting generic or supermarket own brand oats.
In which case I find the blocking totally acceptable."
lol oats are oats. I love my oats in the morning . |
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