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Converting “Looked @ me” to messages
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over a year ago
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"I seem to be doing something wrong. I get a few “Looked @ me” but they don’t turn into messages. Obviously the lack of verifications is killing me but is there anything else that Dan be done?"
Mate you're doing nothing wrong. People on here like to look but not chat, that's just the way it is. Don't take it to heart, just have lighthearted fun on the forums and don't take it mega seriously. |
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OP why would they message you?
They had a look and decided you are not for them, if they are interested they will contact you.
Most people don't bother with who's looked at me, it is a waste of their time. Plus the site has a setting you can use where you don't show up on this list so you won't have any idea of the actual numbers who check you out.
Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?" |
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over a year ago
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Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?""
this is why i use the stealth feature |
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over a year ago
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Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"
this is why i use the stealth feature "
Me too. |
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Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"
this is why i use the stealth feature
Me too. "
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"I seem to be doing something wrong. I get a few “Looked @ me” but they don’t turn into messages. Obviously the lack of verification's is killing me but is there anything else that can be done?"
think of your profile as a shop window laying out what is on offer
Not every one who looks at the display will come and buy,
but the more attractive it is the better your chances |
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"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified
Miss
Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.
Keeping my chin up."
How would you manage a play meet in that case? |
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I get a handful of people look at me a week!
It's therefore very hard to resist the temptation to try and "follow up" these seemingly vague shows of interest.
However, experience has shown that it is generally a wasted effort.
When someone likes you, they will let you know. |
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"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified
Miss
Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.
Keeping my chin up.
How would you manage a play meet in that case?"
None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc |
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"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified
Miss
Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.
Keeping my chin up.
How would you manage a play meet in that case?
None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc"
You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.
Good luck. |
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over a year ago
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I sometimes drop a little polite thank you for looking at my profile message.
Its worked on another site I'm on..... sometimes have a good chat and on the odd occasion a meet. |
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over a year ago
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"Tons of people look at us everyday but rarely get messages lol.
Geeky x
This
I estimate 1 /200 views send a message "
If that’s what you get what chance do we have? X |
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"I sometimes drop a little polite thank you for looking at my profile message.
Its worked on another site I'm on..... sometimes have a good chat and on the odd occasion a meet."
Personally, I dont think that's a good idea. The fact they looked doesn't mean they are interested, it more likely means they aren't, or they would message/wink/fab a pic.
If they were repeatedly looking, maybe. |
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Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"
this is why i use the stealth feature
Me too. "
Wow a single male who’s so inundated with messages he needs to use stealth mode, that’s a first for us? Good for you must be doing something right. |
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"Tons of people look at us everyday but rarely get messages lol.
Geeky x
This
I estimate 1 /200 views send a message
If that’s what you get what chance do we have? X"
Looked at me, tells you next to nothing. I'd say most people look in stealth mode anyway. If someone is interested, they'll message, or if you're interested in them, you send a message. Keep it simple |
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The fact is no one will ever know the ratio of 'looks' that turn into 'messages' because you don't know how many people looked at you in stealth mode. The only person that knows that is Admin and I doubt very much that they will tell us |
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"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified
Miss
Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.
Keeping my chin up.
How would you manage a play meet in that case?
None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc
You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.
Good luck."
Blunt is fine. But being a single dad brings challenges when there is no support network but that is a whole different forum post. |
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"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified
Miss
Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.
Keeping my chin up.
How would you manage a play meet in that case?
None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc
You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.
Good luck.
Blunt is fine. But being a single dad brings challenges when there is no support network but that is a whole different forum post."
I get that, but if it's impossible to get to a social, or a club that's open day and evening, surely the same logic means it's impossible to meet? |
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"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified
Miss
Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.
Keeping my chin up.
How would you manage a play meet in that case?
None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc
You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.
Good luck.
Blunt is fine. But being a single dad brings challenges when there is no support network but that is a whole different forum post.
I get that, but if it's impossible to get to a social, or a club that's open day and evening, surely the same logic means it's impossible to meet?"
Point taken. But a coffee is surely easier as a first social and less pressure. |
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