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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Seen some interesting age gaps on here.
Talking about vanilla for a second, what’s your view on acceptable age gaps?18 year old and a a 32 year old I’ve seen on here. And bigger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Seen some interesting age gaps on here.
Talking about vanilla for a second, what’s your view on acceptable age gaps?18 year old and a a 32 year old I’ve seen on here. And bigger. "
Jeez a whole 14 years ...never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've played with a 19 year old fabber...my first fuck buddy, when I was 43, was 20...so ya know...age gaps don't bother me  "
Only if the gap is younger then you eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've played with a 19 year old fabber...my first fuck buddy, when I was 43, was 20...so ya know...age gaps don't bother me
Only if the gap is younger then you eh "
Lol yes! If I am involved...is rare I am attracted massively to a guy near or over my age...but happens occasionally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've played with a 19 year old fabber...my first fuck buddy, when I was 43, was 20...so ya know...age gaps don't bother me
Only if the gap is younger then you eh
Lol yes! If I am involved...is rare I am attracted massively to a guy near or over my age...but happens occasionally "
Oh well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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19 years age gap between myself and the maid, it appears to me that there are different rules for age gap depending on what sex the older of the couple is, an older woman in a relationship with a younger man is respected, but visa versa and he's a dirty old man.
Luckily for me, I don't give a shit what anyone thinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"19 years age gap between myself and the maid, it appears to me that there are different rules for age gap depending on what sex the older of the couple is, an older woman in a relationship with a younger man is respected, but visa versa and he's a dirty old man.
Luckily for me, I don't give a shit what anyone thinks "
I had a vanilla fling last year with a 20y/o and it was great to be fair. Until she caught the feelings. So 14 years my junior at the time.
Also had a long standing fab relationship with a woman 30 years my senior when I first joined this life.
Both worked well.
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I have a couple of friends in relationships with much older men. One was married to a guy about 30 years older than her who left her for a younger woman, she's now with a guy about 20 years older.
I don't care how old other people's partners are within the bounds of legality but I prefer closer to my own age. |
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"Hi
Seen some interesting age gaps on here.
Talking about vanilla for a second, what’s your view on acceptable age gaps?18 year old and a a 32 year old I’ve seen on here. And bigger. "
My dad was 14 years older than my mum. When she died in 2002 they'd been married 48 years.
My personal view is no one young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad.
What others choose to do is none of my business. |
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"19 years age gap between myself and the maid, it appears to me that there are different rules for age gap depending on what sex the older of the couple is, an older woman in a relationship with a younger man is respected, but visa versa and he's a dirty old man.
Luckily for me, I don't give a shit what anyone thinks "
This. Some people seem to put on the same judgemental hat as when praising married women on here, but criticizing the married men...
If two people are in a happy, loving relationship what business is it of anyone else? The answer is none whatsoever. I (F) am 20 years younger than the love of my life. Neither of us see any issues with that. If anyone else dose, well bully for them because we're very happy, in love and don't give a toss for what anyone else thinks. |
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Age is just a number, especially when you fall in love in a vanilla relationship.
My grandfather remarried many years after his first wife died. He was 40 years older than his second wife. I have 2 uncles who are both younger than I am.
My husband’s step dad is only 11 years older than him, and 14 years younger than my mother in law. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My oldest play partners are 15 years older than me, both man and woman and I don't mind it at all, but fact that my step mom is only 5 years older than me, in the same age as my boyfriend, and that my step sister was born when I was 18 is a bit weird.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"19 years age gap between myself and the maid, it appears to me that there are different rules for age gap depending on what sex the older of the couple is, an older woman in a relationship with a younger man is respected, but visa versa and he's a dirty old man.
Luckily for me, I don't give a shit what anyone thinks
This. Some people seem to put on the same judgemental hat as when praising married women on here, but criticizing the married men...
If two people are in a happy, loving relationship what business is it of anyone else? The answer is none whatsoever. I (F) am 20 years younger than the love of my life. Neither of us see any issues with that. If anyone else dose, well bully for them because we're very happy, in love and don't give a toss for what anyone else thinks."
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I just think good on them for finding happiness (providing they are both happy etc!).
My current partner is 17 years older than I am and it doesn't really bother me - we've had the odd joking comments from family and friends but I'm a lot happier with him than someone closer to my own age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me age is secondary to the individual; I have met some very mature 19 year old’s and done very immature 60 year olds.
It depends on the individual and your connection with them. |
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I personally wouldnt go for much younger.if others choose to and it works for them,no probs,thats up to them.
I prefer my own age give or take a few years ,just because I find i have more in common with them so we get on better.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any age older than me is ok. When i was 50 i went with a women who was 70. She didnt look that age and was one of my best meets but i wont go with anybody younder than my oldest child. Now 30. Could have seen them in my childs play ground. Not right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally wouldnt go for much younger.if others choose to and it works for them,no probs,thats up to them.
I prefer my own age give or take a few years ,just because I find i have more in common with them so we get on better.
Miss"
Does this mean an 18 year old and a 33 year old wont have anything in common? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is age such a big thing to people?
As long as you’re of a consenting age, you get along and have fun together why should you be judged on the gap between the years you were both born in ? |
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Interesting question OP. I have never met anyone off Fab less than 25 years younger than me. The youngest was 24 when I was 61 and none of them had a thing about older women, they have all been great fun, and great at good conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My last lovely Dom was 26 and I'm 37, I've also played with men 20 years older than myself, age isn't an issue for me "
Just got a message saying "sorry to old" when I went to pm you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes but at the moment i have a preference for younger men. I go through phases of what I want at the time. Just saying age is not an issue for me as played at both ends of the scale xx |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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I think 50 is a funny age because that is the borderline to being "mature".
Maybe I am just a bit sensitive to this because I met my ex in my early to mid 40's and after seven years he ended the relationship.
Now single and over 50, every guy I met are younger than me. I currently have a FB who is 12 years my junior and I've had to find a way to be with him as I've only dated older guys before.
Where the fuck are the men over 50? They are sure not on Fab....!!! |
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My best and most enduring relationship is with a man 13 years younger than me. We met just before I turned 40 and he was 27, I found that difficult at the time, probably because I wasn't happy about being 40. As a sexual relationship it didn't last long but as a friendship it has lasted 12 years so far, probably because he's more mature than me  I prefer younger men these days because in general they have a more light hearted outlook on life and are more fun to be with. |
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"Why is age such a big thing to people?
As long as you’re of a consenting age, you get along and have fun together why should you be judged on the gap between the years you were both born in ? "
Using that logic why is anything an issue...size...race...all humans aren't we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is age such a big thing to people?
As long as you’re of a consenting age, you get along and have fun together why should you be judged on the gap between the years you were both born in ?
Using that logic why is anything an issue...size...race...all humans aren't we?"
My point exactly, we are all equal, we should all respect each other’s decisions provided they aren’t putting other people in harms way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for playing i dont think it makes a huge difference - a couple of years ago played with a 26 yr old lady as part of a mff - was very memmorable - i do get a bit sad when i see 18 year olds on here - i think they could be out and about with their mates but then they could also be doing much worse things |
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By *w79Man
over a year ago
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The age gap shouldn't matter as long as the participants are of (obviously) legal age and willingly consenting, who they meet & how large the age gap is, is their own business & nobody else's.
For example when I was 19ish I slept with a friends aunt who was in her mid to late 50's (she looked approximately 10 years younger than she was, both of us enjoyed ourselves & she certainly taught me a thing or two. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys. Lots talking about having casual sex with older people, listen, from a sexual perspective I get why a 40 odd year would go for an 18 year old body in that way! Tightnteen body !
However it’s different if choosing a life partner with this age gap right? Unless she’s emotionally mature ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"for playing i dont think it makes a huge difference - a couple of years ago played with a 26 yr old lady as part of a mff - was very memmorable - i do get a bit sad when i see 18 year olds on here - i think they could be out and about with their mates but then they could also be doing much worse things "
They aren’t kids!! |
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