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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
So I'm single yet again 
And haven't done vanilla dating since being on fab (4 years now).
I like this lifestyle and am not the sort to get jealous as like to watch my partner have fun, but was wondering if vanilla dating was the way to go and then eventually bring up the idea of swinging with my partner?
I can say that I am whole-heartedly emotionally monogamous, but could not (in my present mindset) be physically monogamous.
Do most couples who swing find it's the easiest way to begin in this as a couple?
Perhaps 2 singles in the whole swing scene just don't work out the same way? |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
We started out as two singles... met... played around for a year... he then left his wife and we've been together since (3 years now)
It can work.
Dont think id want to keep this side of me from a vanilla partner and couldnt expect them to understand or accept it either. |
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I would suggest you play it straight to the point, keep vanilla as vanilla and fab as fab. You are beautiful, you will not find it difficult to find a decent fab guy for a relationship or a vanilla guy.
Some guys can be jealous so when you find the guy, state all the things you want immediately and agree on it from the beginning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest you play it straight to the point, keep vanilla as vanilla and fab as fab. You are beautiful, you will not find it difficult to find a decent fab guy for a relationship or a vanilla guy.
Some guys can be jealous so when you find the guy, state all the things you want immediately and agree on it from the beginning."
That’s great was advice
I am thinking if vanilla dating but not sure.
Good luck OP thanks for the thread interesting view |
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