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bi females seem to hide!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi all,we have been on this site for many years we have had some meets with males but still can not find a bi female,we have had some messages but never managed to get an actual meet,we have messaged a couple of bi females but not many reply,we are in dundee but do not mind traveling or accomadating,are we doing something wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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but we are in dundee and we cant find one closer that replies or meets the criteria ie we are smokers,we have been to the after8 in edinburgh a few times but find its a lot of regulars,are we being to fussy?when we do message a single female we take the time to explain as we wouldnt want her to feel uncomfortable with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were told to get ourselves down to a club and that’s exactly what we are doing next week. Granted we haven’t been on here for long (well we were here but wasn’t meeting for ages) but we seem to come across a lot of fake bi female profiles, they contact us and we swap messages etc then when they got their wanks they don’t seem to message again lol, we can spot a fake now and always ask for a live pic two or three messages in. Especially if they are miles away.
Hopefully the club visit will be good, if not at least it’s an experience!
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We were told to get ourselves down to a club and that’s exactly what we are doing next week. Granted we haven’t been on here for long (well we were here but wasn’t meeting for ages) but we seem to come across a lot of fake bi female profiles, they contact us and we swap messages etc then when they got their wanks they don’t seem to message again lol, we can spot a fake now and always ask for a live pic two or three messages in. Especially if they are miles away.
Hopefully the club visit will be good, if not at least it’s an experience!
Geeky x"
we were starting to think we done something wrong or ding something wrong lol,we were thinking of trying clubs we have been to after8 but only during week due to work commitments,we think we should try it on a friday now lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were told to get ourselves down to a club and that’s exactly what we are doing next week. Granted we haven’t been on here for long (well we were here but wasn’t meeting for ages) but we seem to come across a lot of fake bi female profiles, they contact us and we swap messages etc then when they got their wanks they don’t seem to message again lol, we can spot a fake now and always ask for a live pic two or three messages in. Especially if they are miles away.
Hopefully the club visit will be good, if not at least it’s an experience!
Geeky xwe were starting to think we done something wrong or ding something wrong lol,we were thinking of trying clubs we have been to after8 but only during week due to work commitments,we think we should try it on a friday now lol x"
We can’t do weekends so going to a day time event, I don’t think you are doing anything wrong at all. Just takes time x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say your profile needs to be more friendly. Maybe some pics of the male half too.
As others have said, there's lots of bi ladies about, single and in couples.
Have fun x"
ok maybe need to re think about wording the profile differently we seem to add more to it over time thinking if we say exactly whats what then it is more honest,but we note what you have said and will edit in due course,thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were told to get ourselves down to a club and that’s exactly what we are doing next week. Granted we haven’t been on here for long (well we were here but wasn’t meeting for ages) but we seem to come across a lot of fake bi female profiles, they contact us and we swap messages etc then when they got their wanks they don’t seem to message again lol, we can spot a fake now and always ask for a live pic two or three messages in. Especially if they are miles away.
Hopefully the club visit will be good, if not at least it’s an experience!
Geeky xwe were starting to think we done something wrong or ding something wrong lol,we were thinking of trying clubs we have been to after8 but only during week due to work commitments,we think we should try it on a friday now lol x"
Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We were told to get ourselves down to a club and that’s exactly what we are doing next week. Granted we haven’t been on here for long (well we were here but wasn’t meeting for ages) but we seem to come across a lot of fake bi female profiles, they contact us and we swap messages etc then when they got their wanks they don’t seem to message again lol, we can spot a fake now and always ask for a live pic two or three messages in. Especially if they are miles away.
Hopefully the club visit will be good, if not at least it’s an experience!
Geeky xwe were starting to think we done something wrong or ding something wrong lol,we were thinking of trying clubs we have been to after8 but only during week due to work commitments,we think we should try it on a friday now lol x
Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xx"
thats very true,although we do have face pics in private and do send these now and again,we will get more action but faceless pics up thank you |
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Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xxthats very true,although we do have face pics in private and do send these now and again,we will get more action but faceless pics up thank you"
They mean get rid of the ultra graphic action shots. Do some nicer sexy, tastegul pics together. Let the female half take conrol of the profile wording and pictures. Let a female perspective have more influence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xxthats very true,although we do have face pics in private and do send these now and again,we will get more action but faceless pics up thank you
They mean get rid of the ultra graphic action shots. Do some nicer sexy, tastegul pics together. Let the female half take conrol of the profile wording and pictures. Let a female perspective have more influence."
Lol that is what we meant x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don’t hide from us  
So I know your not asking for profile advice but your profile being ranty and very male orientated and a little hard to read probably doesn’t help.
Clubs, socials, forums be approachable chat to everyone and let those ladies know what you can offer them. They are not a toy for you, they are here for their own satisfaction. |
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OP I think you need to look at your profile from the perspective of a single bi female.
I can't offer you specific profile advice because you haven't asked for it but I can give you a few general pointers.
The ladies will either want to meet one to one with another lady or meet a couple and play with both of you.
In this case they want to see what you both look like and for many action pics and close up genital pics are a massive turn off. Suggestive and sexy is much more appealing to ladies.
Ladies also pay attention to what people write in their profiles.
Have a look at the profiles of some other couples who do get meets with single ladies and see if their profile differs a lot to your own. This may give you some insight into what isn't working in yours. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xxthats very true,although we do have face pics in private and do send these now and again,we will get more action but faceless pics up thank you
They mean get rid of the ultra graphic action shots. Do some nicer sexy, tastegul pics together. Let the female half take conrol of the profile wording and pictures. Let a female perspective have more influence."
 this!
We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xxthats very true,although we do have face pics in private and do send these now and again,we will get more action but faceless pics up thank you
They mean get rid of the ultra graphic action shots. Do some nicer sexy, tastegul pics together. Let the female half take conrol of the profile wording and pictures. Let a female perspective have more influence.
this!
We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips "
Many guys dont want to either. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
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Although it might be good on your profile public pics to get some shots of you guys that show you and maybe hide the ‘action shots’. Females will be able to see you then, not your cock etc xxthats very true,although we do have face pics in private and do send these now and again,we will get more action but faceless pics up thank you
They mean get rid of the ultra graphic action shots. Do some nicer sexy, tastegul pics together. Let the female half take conrol of the profile wording and pictures. Let a female perspective have more influence.
this!
We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips
Many guys dont want to either. "
I know.... It was more aimed at why they couldnt find a bi fem. We all know what genitalia looks like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where are they hiding I need to find them x
Peek a boo
Ouwwwwww hello I found you My turn to hide now
Close your eyes and count to 10 x
I counted.... where did you go?? "
I'm in the closet lol x |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"Where are they hiding I need to find them x
Peek a boo
Ouwwwwww hello I found you My turn to hide now
Close your eyes and count to 10 x
I counted.... where did you go??
I'm in the closet lol x "
Is there space for 2?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where are they hiding I need to find them x
Peek a boo
Ouwwwwww hello I found you My turn to hide now
Close your eyes and count to 10 x
I counted.... where did you go??
I'm in the closet lol x
Is there space for 2?? X"
Yes get in here with me and we can have a muffin each x |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"Where are they hiding I need to find them x
Peek a boo
Ouwwwwww hello I found you My turn to hide now
Close your eyes and count to 10 x
I counted.... where did you go??
I'm in the closet lol x
Is there space for 2?? X
Yes get in here with me and we can have a muffin each x "
Ooh I quite like a nibble ! I'm coming x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not hiding ...
But I'm not really feeling meeting a woman with their bloke there to be a performing seal.
I'd love to find a woman I get on with, go out with, have sex with aims to meet her partner after we've established a friendship.
But I doubt that exists on here.
Most couples are like the single men fuck and go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not hiding ...
But I'm not really feeling meeting a woman with their bloke there to be a performing seal.
I'd love to find a woman I get on with, go out with, have sex with aims to meet her partner after we've established a friendship.
But I doubt that exists on here.
Most couples are like the single men fuck and go "
I’ve said it before on another thread but I really hope we wouldn’t come across as that’s what we want, I would hate the lady to go away from us feeling like that!! That’s why it’s important for all of us to meet first and develop a bit of a friendship first (not as though we have had a chance yet) but we would be devastated if anyone ever felt like that with us, it would all be mutual I would hope.
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not hiding ...
But I'm not really feeling meeting a woman with their bloke there to be a performing seal.
I'd love to find a woman I get on with, go out with, have sex with aims to meet her partner after we've established a friendship.
But I doubt that exists on here.
Most couples are like the single men fuck and go "
It does exist, that’s the type of thing we like. Friendships and the social side of swinging is what’s most important to us. We’re here yes because I love girly play but I love to make friends with people and the girls/ladies/woman that we do play with we have non sexual socials with too, before and after. I have girly friends I’ve met through swinging and I’ve that friendship because it also means I can talk to them about things I can’t discuss with my vanilla friends |
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"I'm not hiding ...
But I'm not really feeling meeting a woman with their bloke there to be a performing seal.
I'd love to find a woman I get on with, go out with, have sex with aims to meet her partner after we've established a friendship.
But I doubt that exists on here.
Most couples are like the single men fuck and go "
Firstly, where exactly is Fuckmehardville?
Secondly, I (Mrs) would love to meet a new friend to go shopping with, have coffee with, gossip with oh, and have sex with of course |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"I'm not hiding ...
But I'm not really feeling meeting a woman with their bloke there to be a performing seal.
I'd love to find a woman I get on with, go out with, have sex with aims to meet her partner after we've established a friendship.
But I doubt that exists on here.
Most couples are like the single men fuck and go
Firstly, where exactly is Fuckmehardville?
Secondly, I (Mrs) would love to meet a new friend to go shopping with, have coffee with, gossip with oh, and have sex with of course "
I'm a staunch no couples typically because why do I want to be used for their amusement? They go home to each other I go home to an empty bed. That being said I have met some lovely couples whom I'm friends with and we go out to dinner and shopping and all the regular vanilla things and yes occasionally we all havw sex and I don't feel like a fuck and go. So it does occasionally happen but it isn't the norm |
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"I'm not hiding ...
But I'm not really feeling meeting a woman with their bloke there to be a performing seal.
I'd love to find a woman I get on with, go out with, have sex with aims to meet her partner after we've established a friendship.
But I doubt that exists on here.
Most couples are like the single men fuck and go
Firstly, where exactly is Fuckmehardville?
Secondly, I (Mrs) would love to meet a new friend to go shopping with, have coffee with, gossip with oh, and have sex with of course
I'm a staunch no couples typically because why do I want to be used for their amusement? They go home to each other I go home to an empty bed. That being said I have met some lovely couples whom I'm friends with and we go out to dinner and shopping and all the regular vanilla things and yes occasionally we all havw sex and I don't feel like a fuck and go. So it does occasionally happen but it isn't the norm "
Aren't all three all there for each others fun, all enjoying the time together equally? It should be. Choosing partners of any group needs to ensure it's going to work right for everybody.
A fuck and go feeling isn't nice for anybody whether they are male, female, single or couple. |
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We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips
Many guys dont want to either.
I agree. "
As a bi female, there are certain things about a profile that would put me off replying to any message from a couple.
Sorry OP, but yours definitely would.
I'd suggest a bit of a revamp, think about what it is a woman wants to see, would find attractive, would inspire them to want to meet you both
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips
Many guys dont want to either.
I agree.
As a bi female, there are certain things about a profile that would put me off replying to any message from a couple.
Sorry OP, but yours definitely would.
I'd suggest a bit of a revamp, think about what it is a woman wants to see, would find attractive, would inspire them to want to meet you both
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Exactly this |
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We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips
Many guys dont want to either.
I agree.
As a bi female, there are certain things about a profile that would put me off replying to any message from a couple.
Sorry OP, but yours definitely would.
I'd suggest a bit of a revamp, think about what it is a woman wants to see, would find attractive, would inspire them to want to meet you both
Exactly this "
And another vote for this.
I can’t comment on your profile as you didn’t ask for that but also because I didn’t read it - the photos were enough to put me off. Open gash, spunk pic, two bare sex pics and without closer inspection they look different cocks too. Similar feedback was from some weeks back and nothing appears to have changed. You’re looking for the rarest on fab but aren’t helping yourself improve any chances of finding what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be nice to get to know a single bi fem but it is difficult on here. I do agree the showing of open pussy shots aren't the best way of catching my interest |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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We like you are looking for a lady to get to know and have regular threesome fun with. It's not easy on here to find one who finds you both attractive and wants to join you. You could try putting a few photos on your profile with both of you together rather than the current photos which you have.
Keep looking. Good luck to you both with your search.
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
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We women don't particularly want to see splayed pussy lips
Many guys dont want to either.
I agree.
As a bi female, there are certain things about a profile that would put me off replying to any message from a couple.
Sorry OP, but yours definitely would.
I'd suggest a bit of a revamp, think about what it is a woman wants to see, would find attractive, would inspire them to want to meet you both
Exactly this
And another vote for this.
I can’t comment on your profile as you didn’t ask for that but also because I didn’t read it - the photos were enough to put me off. Open gash, spunk pic, two bare sex pics and without closer inspection they look different cocks too. Similar feedback was from some weeks back and nothing appears to have changed. You’re looking for the rarest on fab but aren’t helping yourself improve any chances of finding what you want "
I’d agree
Everyone is looking for the elusive bi female (which I was on my single profile so I know how it goes!) so you’ve got to stand out, in a good way. Obv everyone has their preferences so everyone won’t be for everyone but ‘marketing’ yourself in a certain way definitely increases your chances.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say, time is a massive thing, for some like us we thought ‘wouldn’t be a problem finding someone’ but actually it’s quite hard lol. We was patient and now we have found someone to have regular fun with, so it might seem like right now it will never happen but give it time.
Geeky x |
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