Hey everyone,
Now I ask this because I don’t really ever get replies! I know I’m not a ugly lad but can’t be everyone’s type I get that, but It’s rare I get a reply & I think I’m doing something wrong obviously! How do you start a message? I used to start with the obvious hey how are u? But never got a reply maybe because it was a boring message, so trying it different with a naughty message & still no reply! How do most of you start a message? As people either think I’m boring or fucking weird haha!
But like I said I don’t expect to be everyone’s type! I’m photo verified so clearly not a fake profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a guys perspective. I would say the line about the blowjob and the line about sharing videos from previous meets may put people off.
Could be wrong, but that's my two pence worth |
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I can't stand the basic 'how are you' message, I just delete those now. Because invariably it goes how are you how was your weekend what you up to... Follows a very predictable pattern.
The messages that catch my eye tend to be the ones that make me laugh or at least smile, and show that they've read my profile. |
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"From a guys perspective. I would say the line about the blowjob and the line about sharing videos from previous meets may put people off.
Could be wrong, but that's my two pence worth"
Yeah... I'd agree. Videos with previous meets should be private. And you make it sound like you're just in this to get a decent bj. What's in it for anyone else? |
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Your profile comes across as being very negative if I’m honest. It wouldn’t appeal to me.
As others have said, I find the how are you message dull. If I really like the profile, I’ll reply in the hope things will pick up but it frequently fizzles out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile edited thanks for the advice so far "
Jeez, if that's the improved one!
Slightly off-topic, but why would anyone think a single guys profile is fake?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile edited thanks for the advice so far "
Didn't see it before, but if this is meant to be better, I hate to think what it looked like before.
Poppy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i didn't see it before, but for me, the first paragraph could go, doesn't say anything relevant..and the last line could go...if you don't want men messaging you, block them! other than that, it still doesn't really say much. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To be honest OP it's not just the content of the message that counts but the quality of the profile - people will often read the profile before even looking at the message.
You've not asked for profile advice so I can't give it - but ask yourself this: Does your profile reflect you, what you are looking for and more importantly what you think you can offer a prospective meet? Does it do so in a positive way that lets your personality shine through a little? Is it backed up by a series of well thought out pics that show off your body and not your cock?
Be brutally honest about it and if the answer to any of those is "no" then you might want to make changes accordingly.
Is also worth considering getting along to organised socials or clubs near you or even getting more active in the forums, which are all great ways of getting to know people and letting them get to know the person beyond the profile  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Profile edited thanks for the advice so far
Didn't see it before, but if this is meant to be better, I hate to think what it looked like before.
Poppy"
He's listened to the first few posts here. |
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