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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’m having a dilemma in my personal life. It’s very difficult to explain and detailed. But long story short, can you be in love with more than one person?

I need help!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’m having a dilemma in my personal life. It’s very difficult to explain and detailed. But long story short, can you be in love with more than one person?

I need help!!!"

Yes of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a dilemma in my personal life. It’s very difficult to explain and detailed. But long story short, can you be in love with more than one person?

I need help!!!"

Yeah u can

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Unfortunately yes

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Unfortunately yes "

fortunately yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Unfortunately yes

fortunately yes "

I’m going to agree and say unfortunately yes, as I fear mine is 2 people at the same time and it’s messing a lot with my head with what I want

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Unfortunately yes

fortunately yes "

That really depends if you find yourself in a tricky situation or not. I'm guessing the op is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Unfortunately yes

fortunately yes

That really depends if you find yourself in a tricky situation or not. I'm guessing the op is "

Tricky is an understatement haha

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Yeah. My friends ex husband told her he was in love with her and the woman he left her for. I always wondered why he left his wife and went through a costly divorce if he loved them both. Why not just stay with the one that would cause the least upset and admin?

For me being romantically in love with two people isn't possible but I am able to love loads of people at the same time, I don't think there's a limit.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I believe you can but of course it's going to have complications and most likely end up a tangled mess!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I believe you can but of course it's going to have complications and most likely end up a tangled mess!"

That’s my worry

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Yes I believe you can but of course it's going to have complications and most likely end up a tangled mess!

That’s my worry"

So, you're in love with two people. Why is that a problem for you?

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By *iversong321Woman over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

I often think that if you are truely, madly, deeply in love with the first person then the other one won't even be on your radar, let alone in your heart. So no OP I don't think you can.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes I believe you can but of course it's going to have complications and most likely end up a tangled mess!

That’s my worry"

Then you need to work out which gives you the most return on the investment of your love and will cause the least harm to the others involved.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Yes you can IMO. And I also reckon to different degrees. I don't see a life that fits in neat little boxes. More life is one big spectrum where different things/people fall in different places. Sometimes in different parts of the spectrum inbetween love and friendship.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Im gonna say no tbh

If you loved the first one,you wouldnt have fallen for another

Just my opinion.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes my ex husband is, he is in love with his gf and his best friend, he wants to be with both but obviously he can’t lol.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Completely yes.

There is no limit to the amount people you can love or be in love with...thats like saying you can only love one of your kids or one of your parents

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Get another woman...

One path you have no choice, two paths you have a dilemma, only when you have three paths do you truly have choices....

So much wisdom in anthropology.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love isn't monogamous.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, it is possible to love more than one person at the same time.

This is why true polyamory can work.

Though, I suspect in your case that isn't an option, so you need to make a choice.

Nita

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dont think so. True love is very powerful and hard to find. You can have very strong feelings for someone else but love is a totally different emotion. Maybe u like these two people in the same way but love neither of them deep down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't think I could love more than one person. ..... but then a wise Dom taught me that love isn't so narrow!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It’s possible but difficult and needs a lot of understanding. Guilt can be a huge problem

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By *ostafunMan over a year ago

near ipswich

"I often think that if you are truely, madly, deeply in love with the first person then the other one won't even be on your radar, let alone in your heart. So no OP I don't think you can. "
totally agree.

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