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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Woman on here I wish I could talk to but I can't because I'm like 2 years out her age preferences. I keep fabbing her pics and she keeps viewing me profile but that's it lol. So frustrating. Maybe someone would pass her a message from me to see if I have a shot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone put 'contact me Sophee' in their status update once. So when I looked at them, after looking at me, I did contact them as they were very close to my age preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't it against site rules to try and get round blocks and filters?"
Yes you're right, and using others to pass on messages is frowned upon.
If she's been looking and hasn't messaged you it's for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him" |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him""
It would be a block for the messenger and the person trying to contact me.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him"
It would be a block for the messenger and the person trying to contact me.
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This has happened to me and that's exactly what I did. Bit creepy I thought. |
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Cest la vie...
Although I don't find it odd, age is very subjective, especially when its only a few years and those age filters can be really annoying when you can't message someone for the sake of a month or two... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it stalking? This term is getting bandied about far too easily on here and thrown at folk who are just being a bit overly keen in expressing they like the look of someone - lets keep a bit of perspective.
OP - respect her filters and move on. Plenty more fish in the sea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd just say respect their preferences and maybe hope to cross paths in person, at a social or something.
People like to complain about others set age preferences but there's nowt you can do bar suck it up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.
After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him""
I'd have a look at the profile and maybe mail them. It wouldn't really bother me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.
After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone"
Thanks bro  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman on here I wish I could talk to but I can't because I'm like 2 years out her age preferences. I keep fabbing her pics and she keeps viewing me profile but that's it lol. So frustrating. Maybe someone would pass her a message from me to see if I have a shot "
If she's viewed your profile and not mailed you she's not interested. Chin up. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him"
I'd have a look at the profile and maybe mail them. It wouldn't really bother me."
I would too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boundaries can be pushed; limits can't.
Age tends to be a boundary, as long as it's legal, which is a limit, but you have to make a very good case for somebody to allow their boundary to be pushed. If all you do is fab her pics, you're not making a case at all. |
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It's inappropriate to try to get around other users' filters and against site rules op.
If she has looked at you, then she at least has made an active decision to review you but not make contact.
Move your attention to the thousands of other people where you do fit their needs. |
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"Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.
After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone
Thanks bro "
Finally! You got the answer you wanted  |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.
After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone
Thanks bro
Finally! You got the answer you wanted "
Women love it when men don't take no for an answer. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Boundaries can be pushed; limits can't.
Age tends to be a boundary, as long as it's legal, which is a limit, but you have to make a very good case for somebody to allow their boundary to be pushed. If all you do is fab her pics, you're not making a case at all."
I read the OP to suggest he can't message because he wants someone to message her for him, which suggests that filters are on. That, to me, is a limit.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"It's inappropriate to try to get around other users' filters and against site rules op.
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iIt isn't against site rules
If he was trying to contact someone using the forum then that is against rules |
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but okay I'll just leave it 
