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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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I know that feeling well. Get your filters on and hunt yourself. I've found that the best way as the majority of men will say anything for a fuck then you won't hear from them again.
Chin up and get well soon x |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
I know that feeling well. Get your filters on and hunt yourself. I've found that the best way as the majority of men will say anything for a fuck then you won't hear from them again.
Chin up and get well soon x"
If I didn't organise the socials I'd have them on alas they need to not be on so that people can get added to the guest list.
Men are shit.. I've had 1 meet from here on a 1 2 1 basis in about a year. I just want someone fun to chill and have great sex with.
Thank you... 2.5 weeks of lurgy is just draining me now x |
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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What have you been getting FoB?  |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
What have you been getting FoB? "
Fob??? |
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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why haven’t they invented warp drive yet. Dammit. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
why haven’t they invented warp drive yet. Dammit. "
They should have by now or at least teleportation. |
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
why haven’t they invented warp drive yet. Dammit.
They should have by now or at least teleportation. "
and these geeky science types complain about not getting laid. Lazy nerds. |
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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I have been ashamed to ask, but now you have given me confidence... Here I am take me on |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
why haven’t they invented warp drive yet. Dammit.
They should have by now or at least teleportation. and these geeky science types complain about not getting laid. Lazy nerds. "
Hahah indeed. I watched that black mirror - the USS McAllister episode just makes geeks seem even weirder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the same,
I come on here less and less, I’m tired of men messaging expecting me to drop everything just for a shag.
And don’t even get me going on the ones that message me to remind me I’m on a sex site... nope it’s a swingers site.
All here for whatever we choose.
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I feel the same,
I come on here less and less, I’m tired of men messaging expecting me to drop everything just for a shag.
And don’t even get me going on the ones that message me to remind me I’m on a sex site... nope it’s a swingers site.
All here for whatever we choose.
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That's my bug bear and I forever roast ppl that call it a sex site....
Swinging and sex aren't the same and I'm more and more turned off by seeing the veris that fly up as it appears to be a popularity contest as to how many you can screw in a weekend. Makes me actively avoid them. The less free time I have the pickier I am.
Here's hoping you find one that floats your boat |
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"Yep I want this too 
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone "
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Afternoon all, I’m after a FWB, not into one night stands, never have been.
... not all blokes are the same.
I’ll bide my time and won’t collect notches on the bed post.
Hope we all find what we’re looking for xxx |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"friends? You sound needy.  "
Mr Bee I am deciding that yes I want to be needy. I'd barely any sex last year and well I've been on my own a long time. My heart hasn't completely turned to ice yet so aye I'm needy right now |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Yep I want this too
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out?"
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In a nutshell.... dinner or a walk or awesome sex or just cos either has had a shit day and wants a cuddle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"friends? You sound needy.
Mr Bee I am deciding that yes I want to be needy. I'd barely any sex last year and well I've been on my own a long time. My heart hasn't completely turned to ice yet so aye I'm needy right now "
Sounds ideal. I've been looking for a fwb since I came here, they pop up in the most unusual places. Not Manchester apparently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
Feeling is mutual I actually did “advertise” I wrote a status advertising the vacancy and told all interested to apply within x I’m still going through them now I’m gonna narrow it down to interview stage soon
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I want this too
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out
In a nutshell.... dinner or a walk or awesome sex or just cos either has had a shit day and wants a cuddle. "
Sounds ideal, someone you click with and can share all the benefits of a couple without the hassle of a full time relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I want this too
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out
In a nutshell.... dinner or a walk or awesome sex or just cos either has had a shit day and wants a cuddle.
Sounds ideal, someone you click with and can share all the benefits of a couple without the hassle of a full time relationship "
Buy if you got on well enough with someone to do all of the above. Why would a relationship be a hassle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I want this too
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out
In a nutshell.... dinner or a walk or awesome sex or just cos either has had a shit day and wants a cuddle.
Sounds ideal, someone you click with and can share all the benefits of a couple without the hassle of a full time relationship
Buy if you got on well enough with someone to do all of the above. Why would a relationship be a hassle"
Relationships have restrictions fwb not so much,
I guess the best way i can put it is you could be having dinner with your partner who could be the best looking woman in the world but the girl across in the other table that youve not been with always seems more intresting for a one off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I want this too
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out
In a nutshell.... dinner or a walk or awesome sex or just cos either has had a shit day and wants a cuddle.
Sounds ideal, someone you click with and can share all the benefits of a couple without the hassle of a full time relationship
Buy if you got on well enough with someone to do all of the above. Why would a relationship be a hassle
Relationships have restrictions fwb not so much,
I guess the best way i can put it is you could be having dinner with your partner who could be the best looking woman in the world but the girl across in the other table that youve not been with always seems more intresting for a one off
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Get a relationship where your partner finds that quite exciting too |
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"Yep I want this too
I think you hit a point where you just want something more. Hope you find someone
Yeah, I miss someone for company, cuddles and just to call up and say "hey you wanna hang out
In a nutshell.... dinner or a walk or awesome sex or just cos either has had a shit day and wants a cuddle.
Sounds ideal, someone you click with and can share all the benefits of a couple without the hassle of a full time relationship "
Yeah, very much that. I don't want my space/life invaded too much but I want someone who wants to spend time with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's pretty much what I'm looking for too.
Crazy busy life so no time for the typical dating scene. Plus I'd want to connect with someone open minded and at ease in this kind of world.
So the connection minus the expectation plus the fun.
Is it too much to ask for? |
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"Loves rowing, cooking, baking, photography, rambling conversations and depraved sex games. Seeks similar.
I can't row  "
The only possible answer can be that any interest in watersports is to be welcomed. |
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"Loves rowing, cooking, baking, photography, rambling conversations and depraved sex games. Seeks similar.
sculling or arguing ?"
I love sculling. Also it's not an argument simply an opportunity to explore differences of opinion |
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"Loves rowing, cooking, baking, photography, rambling conversations and depraved sex games. Seeks similar.
I can't row
The only possible answer can be that any interest in watersports is to be welcomed. "
I own a wetsuit. I shall send evidence |
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"Loves rowing, cooking, baking, photography, rambling conversations and depraved sex games. Seeks similar.
I can't row
The only possible answer can be that any interest in watersports is to be welcomed.
I own a wetsuit. I shall send evidence "
Rubber. Nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
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I'd like to drink wine and fuck you all.
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
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They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang "
Exactly god it's boring!
Just say it!
I might hang up my swinging shoes soon and have a full time relationship with food.
It makes me a lot happier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang
Exactly god it's boring!
Just say it!
I might hang up my swinging shoes soon and have a full time relationship with food.
It makes me a lot happier!"
Sounds good to me |
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang "
Some want a quick bang, some want a fwb. I want a fwb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't most of us like or want to be one. Actually there always seems to more people who want to be in that dynamic then don't but yet there's always these threads, maybe supply isn't outstripping demand? |
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang
Exactly god it's boring!
Just say it!
I might hang up my swinging shoes soon and have a full time relationship with food.
It makes me a lot happier!"
Already in one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang
Some want a quick bang, some want a fwb. I want a fwb."
Sshhh. Dint spoil it. Next they'll think we care about them too.
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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Me too  |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started. 
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message. |
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message. "
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you."
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives |
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives "
It is a bit of a tome....the pics are rather nice though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives "
If daunting/demanding = too much effort, then their loss indeed. Sparkle on : ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
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Well that's bollocks. |
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
Well that's bollocks."
. I'm a single guy and I now meet others exclusively with my fwb and been meeting with her for nearly a year. We do exist. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang "
Quick? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
Well that's bollocks.
. I'm a single guy and I now meet others exclusively with my fwb and been meeting with her for nearly a year. We do exist."
Maybe the single guys out there just don't want to be FWB with me then 
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives "
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ... |
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
Well that's bollocks.
. I'm a single guy and I now meet others exclusively with my fwb and been meeting with her for nearly a year. We do exist.
Maybe the single guys out there just don't want to be FWB with me then
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Think it's just you haven't met the right single guy for you that's all. We both had other meets which we enjoyed before finding each other (and since actually) but something clicked for us, with the right person I'm sure it would for you too. |
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
They say they want it, in reality they want a quick bang "
amen sister! I actually fell for the trick in the summer but the sex was kinda worth it so mehhh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets just be honest after I've had 3 glasses of wine
It's only the women on here that want FWB - the "single men" aren't into it!
So fuck you all I'm going to drink wine and eat chocolate choux buns on my own!
Well that's bollocks.
. I'm a single guy and I now meet others exclusively with my fwb and been meeting with her for nearly a year. We do exist.
Maybe the single guys out there just don't want to be FWB with me then
Think it's just you haven't met the right single guy for you that's all. We both had other meets which we enjoyed before finding each other (and since actually) but something clicked for us, with the right person I'm sure it would for you too."
Yes maybe - but I'm just tired of all the bullshit to be honest - so I've given up.
I'm happy for you both though x |
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No shame in wanting a fwb. I want one, but not easy to find. 2018 could be the year. Looking forward to finding out!
I used to be a city lad, but now a country bumpkin (so I been told) not sure if that will help me finding a fwb.
Midlands is nice though |
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"No shame in wanting a fwb. I want one, but not easy to find. 2018 could be the year. Looking forward to finding out!
I used to be a city lad, but now a country bumpkin (so I been told) not sure if that will help me finding a fwb.
Midlands is nice though "
I want one too. Move to Salisbury. It's nice here, lots of fields |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"No shame in wanting a fwb. I want one, but not easy to find. 2018 could be the year. Looking forward to finding out!
I used to be a city lad, but now a country bumpkin (so I been told) not sure if that will help me finding a fwb.
Midlands is nice though "
I've already moved 170 miles and with no more success than I had previously.
I think the dynamics have changed a lot the past decade |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ... "
Makes you wonder doesn't it? Methinks, perhaps the lady doth complain too much! |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ... "
I don't think it works like that as well you know. It would be great if I could send a message saying "id like you to be my fwb" and for the other person to reply "oh ok" and for us to meet and have epic sex and chll and watch films but it doesnt work like that. Even ppl you meet and get on with it doesn't mean anything more than 1 or 2 nights of rolling around is on the cards. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ...
Makes you wonder doesn't it? Methinks, perhaps the lady doth complain too much! "
You may think that but this lady has had nought for a long time and been single even longer so wheesht my sweet doc |
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"No shame in wanting a fwb. I want one, but not easy to find. 2018 could be the year. Looking forward to finding out!
I used to be a city lad, but now a country bumpkin (so I been told) not sure if that will help me finding a fwb.
Midlands is nice though
I've already moved 170 miles and with no more success than I had previously.
I think the dynamics have changed a lot the past decade "
I only been on here since 2015 with no prior swinging/online experience so not sure how the dynamics would have changed.
I do hear people saying "things are not as they used to be" etc
Personally:
I think it is only a matter of time if you really want something. Some people get what they want/need quicker and others could take years...
There is no time limit. I like to think it could happen one day.
In the mean time it will continue to be a fun adventure searching... |
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"No shame in wanting a fwb. I want one, but not easy to find. 2018 could be the year. Looking forward to finding out!
I used to be a city lad, but now a country bumpkin (so I been told) not sure if that will help me finding a fwb.
Midlands is nice though
I want one too. Move to Salisbury. It's nice here, lots of fields "
Haha you know that, but I am in Robin Hood country now. It feels like this is where I belong. Love it here!
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ...
Makes you wonder doesn't it? Methinks, perhaps the lady doth complain too much!
You may think that but this lady has had nought for a long time and been single even longer so wheesht my sweet doc "
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how are you dealing with the lurgy
apert from all the obvious , garlic , lemon juice , honey , day n night nurse etc etc
the house needs treatment to , especially pillows and cases duvets , sheets , door handles , anything you touch basically needs a wipe over with a wet one dettol cloth
bedding washed and aired
otherwise everytime you get in bed your jumping into the germ
oh yeah , and dont foeget ya keyboard
more germs than a toilet seat
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I want one too. My partner travels a lot for work and is away for weeks at a time, so I get lonely. I would love to have a long term FWB who I could see a couple of times a week, where we could cuddle, talk, go out from time to time, and just hang out without it necessarily being a sexual thing.
But I doubt it will ever happen. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about "
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man"
Off topic, but still keeping it within the no shame...
Wheesht!! Love that hahahaha
That is going to be part of my daily vocabulary now, but not sure if I would say it correctly...
I need to hear it |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
Off topic, but still keeping it within the no shame...
Wheesht!! Love that hahahaha
That is going to be part of my daily vocabulary now, but not sure if I would say it correctly...
I need to hear it "
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"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ...
I don't think it works like that as well you know. It would be great if I could send a message saying "id like you to be my fwb" and for the other person to reply "oh ok" and for us to meet and have epic sex and chll and watch films but it doesnt work like that. Even ppl you meet and get on with it doesn't mean anything more than 1 or 2 nights of rolling around is on the cards. "
I think most chaps on here think correctly thst their emails will go into a black hole, and leave it to the woman to contact them if she's interested. I've stopped emailing for that reason. So just mucking about on the forums I guess |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
Off topic, but still keeping it within the no shame...
Wheesht!! Love that hahahaha
That is going to be part of my daily vocabulary now, but not sure if I would say it correctly...
I need to hear it
Haha I think urban dictionary might do a sound bite thing "
Nah urban dictionary aint good enough... I need to get the real effect.
I only been to Scotland once, but never heard anyone say it!
I don't want to end up saying:
Wee shit man
See how that would come out all wrong
Wheesht, hang on this might be better...
Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeesht !!
Oh yeah that is a keeper |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"Well I put up an ad and had a whole 3 people reply to me. 2 of which were shorter than me but told me to overlook that (not gonna happen) and the other too old and didn't read my profile and shot himself in the foot before anything even started.
Sad state of affairs when I can't even get a proper message.
I'm amazed, I thought you'd have been swamped with tempting offers by now. You look lovely and sound great, someone's going to be lucky to find you.
Nah I never am... apparently my profile is daunting and I appear too demanding
Their loss I say. Maybe I'm just meant to bring glitter and sparkle into other peoples lives
You could literally pick whoever you want: you have the power on here far more than in real life or on a vanilla site. So enjoy picking ...
I don't think it works like that as well you know. It would be great if I could send a message saying "id like you to be my fwb" and for the other person to reply "oh ok" and for us to meet and have epic sex and chll and watch films but it doesnt work like that. Even ppl you meet and get on with it doesn't mean anything more than 1 or 2 nights of rolling around is on the cards.
I think most chaps on here think correctly thst their emails will go into a black hole, and leave it to the woman to contact them if she's interested. I've stopped emailing for that reason. So just mucking about on the forums I guess "
Yeah well I'm bamboozled at that because I never have hundreds of messages in a week never mind a day.... so goodness knows |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
Off topic, but still keeping it within the no shame...
Wheesht!! Love that hahahaha
That is going to be part of my daily vocabulary now, but not sure if I would say it correctly...
I need to hear it
Haha I think urban dictionary might do a sound bite thing
Nah urban dictionary aint good enough... I need to get the real effect.
I only been to Scotland once, but never heard anyone say it!
I don't want to end up saying:
Wee shit man
See how that would come out all wrong
Wheesht, hang on this might be better...
Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeesht !!
Oh yeah that is a keeper "
Hahaha I'm not using those digits just for me to tell you to wheesht haha |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man"
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad..... "
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it"
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
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No that's a fb |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
No that's a fb"
Is a FB not a friend? or does one have more sex with a FB or FWB? I'm genuinely confused. |
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Isn't it fairly simple, if one is having regular meets and veris as most of the women on these threads are, to turn one of 'em into an fwb type siduation? I mean: try being a single bloke on here: now that's hard work ... |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
No that's a fb
Is a FB not a friend? or does one have more sex with a FB or FWB? I'm genuinely confused. "
I'm confused as to why men dont get that we aren't all sitting at home doing fuck all, waiting for them.
Suggestions like " get a little part time number and get out more" just illustrate that some men are stuck in the dark ages
Its a confusing old world |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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FB.... one who you may see occasionally clubbing it have had sex with but there's no real chemistry as such it is what it is. You don't really message outside of a quick hook up
FWB .. someone who is a friend first and foremost. You go out together, socialise..watch films etc a mini relationship without the title of a relationship and non monogamous. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
No that's a fb
Is a FB not a friend? or does one have more sex with a FB or FWB? I'm genuinely confused.
I'm confused as to why men dont get that we aren't all sitting at home doing fuck all, waiting for them.
Suggestions like " get a little part time number and get out more" just illustrate that some men are stuck in the dark ages
Its a confusing old world"
Yeah it's a bit ye olde worlde |
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"FB.... one who you may see occasionally clubbing it have had sex with but there's no real chemistry as such it is what it is. You don't really message outside of a quick hook up
FWB .. someone who is a friend first and foremost. You go out together, socialise..watch films etc a mini relationship without the title of a relationship and non monogamous. "
Could i add
RFB regular fuck buddy, 5 or 6 times a month, only ever contact is when either us require sex. Works well for me and him. Both tell each other who we have seen outside our ow relationship. |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
No that's a fb
Is a FB not a friend? or does one have more sex with a FB or FWB? I'm genuinely confused.
I'm confused as to why men dont get that we aren't all sitting at home doing fuck all, waiting for them.
Suggestions like " get a little part time number and get out more" just illustrate that some men are stuck in the dark ages
Its a confusing old world"
There are plenty of women stuck there too y'know ... Why aren't they using their power? It took long enough to attain. Maybe they haven't realised they've got it yet?? |
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"FB.... one who you may see occasionally clubbing it have had sex with but there's no real chemistry as such it is what it is. You don't really message outside of a quick hook up
FWB .. someone who is a friend first and foremost. You go out together, socialise..watch films etc a mini relationship without the title of a relationship and non monogamous. "
Okay, thanks for that although FB sounds a bit like a free pro. |
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"do you fwb wanters work
somuch more chance of meeting if youve got a little part time number , get out n about
What are you on about? I work 40 hrs a week and I'm a full time parent. Wheesht your noise man
" a little part time number"
How funny is that?
Some of these men are living in 1953. I swear it
Really a serious question but what is a FWB if they're not part time, that was the all point? Really, isn't it, a friend who gets called upon to have sex every now and then, part-time by definition, surely?
No that's a fb
Is a FB not a friend? or does one have more sex with a FB or FWB? I'm genuinely confused.
I'm confused as to why men dont get that we aren't all sitting at home doing fuck all, waiting for them.
Suggestions like " get a little part time number and get out more" just illustrate that some men are stuck in the dark ages
Its a confusing old world"
Leave the dishes in the sink darling, I'll let you put your shoes back on for the night . Don't forget to smile, all pretty like. |
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"That's what I've been looking for since I came back and nowt. So I stopped looking.
You never know..."
Well if you will keep disappearing on your polar expeditions what do you expect!! |
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" It would be great if I could send a message saying "id like you to be my fwb" and for the other person to reply "oh ok" and for us to meet and have epic sex and chll and watch films but it doesnt work like that. "
If we didnt live 100+ miles apart, I'd like you to be my FWB. |
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"I'm utterly sick of the unicorn banter at the moment. It's been far too long since I had a FWB. I want someone funny and honest and good looking and on my wave length!
Maybe it's cos I'm not well but right now I want more than a "how's your father" and out the door.
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Well if I were 10 years younger I'd whisk you off to a pineapple shaped folly in the Highlands |
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"Yep I want this too
Shame your so far away or we could help out with the FWB situation. "
We'd just like it to be so laid back as in.. "Any plans this weekend" ? Our reply few glasses of wine Friday, Xtasia Saturday and chilling Sunday. Fancy joining us?? |
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over a year ago
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They are on here OP, don't lose hope. I met a fantastic one on here I've been with for 2 years. It's not all about sex either, sometimes we go to cinema pub etc. Yesterday I was stuck for a lift to pick up a new car, like a true friend he stepped in and helped xx |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad.....
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked "
A nice warm cave would be acceptable... |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad.....
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked
A nice warm cave would be acceptable... "
Puts another log on the fire...
Soon have you out of those wet socks |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad.....
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked
A nice warm cave would be acceptable...
Puts another log on the fire...
Soon have you out of those wet socks "
My socks are not wet I'l have you know....but it is very chilly tonight!! |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad.....
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked
A nice warm cave would be acceptable...
Puts another log on the fire...
Soon have you out of those wet socks
My socks are not wet I'l have you know....but it is very chilly tonight!!"
Come warm your ass...err feet by the fire |
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It usually happens when you least expect it!
I turned down a meet and cancelled on him twice and I'm now married to him! Persistent little bugger. What started as a FWB became more! |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad.....
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked
A nice warm cave would be acceptable...
Puts another log on the fire...
Soon have you out of those wet socks
My socks are not wet I'l have you know....but it is very chilly tonight!!"
Put some clothes on then Mare and stop waggling your arse in the air!!  |
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"Yeah I need a little local part-time number......well, about six foot, well-built, with a nice comfy bachelor pad.....
In Mordor? They will only try and destroy your ring...
OK I'll just leave by that window you picked
A nice warm cave would be acceptable...
Puts another log on the fire...
Soon have you out of those wet socks
My socks are not wet I'l have you know....but it is very chilly tonight!!
Put some clothes on then Mare and stop waggling your arse in the air!! "
Fna fna! |
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