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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends. |
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"guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends."
It seems fairly straightforward to me. I simply would tell the original meet that I'd made other plans. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah block him and forget, he sounds like a bit of a tit and obviously doesn't have a problem mucking people about. He really should have said to his original meet that he'd sorted something else after they cancelled. That's a bit out of order of him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aargh. You were already choice 2
It's upto you, do you feel let down?
Me, (if I were the guy) I would keep the meet with who I'm meeting, that would have been you, my first plan had cancelled, I'm now meeting you.
If I was the one let down, I was already choice two, I don't know, depends how much I get in with them, are they good friends. I'm mixed with that one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let you down and your friends? Wow what had this crazy fool missed out on?
Personally if I was in his situation and a Couple messed me around and I had then made arrangements with someone else I would honour the new arrangements. Simple as that.
Whether you choose to block him now is up to you. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends."
Just the fact that he told you he was going with the original meet instead of you makes me think he’s not very respectful. No one wants to be told their plan b. I hope you block him and find someone else. I kinda hope his original meet cancelled him again too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow... he had the choice of Two ladies
I wouldn't let anyone down... but wait a minute you have to get a reply first... that doesn't seem to happen to me lol.
Block him and choose another gentleman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends.
It seems fairly straightforward to me. I simply would tell the original meet that I'd made other plans. "
This would have been the most polite thing to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends."
u looking fab..this is so pathetic..u must block him not only physically but also in ur mind .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends."
wait i think u love him or have feelings for him at some corner of ur heart which is dangerous !! on fab .. r u in love with him or wat? and you looking for some advise here to avoid him?? listen to ur heart .. no one can decide what you need to do .. happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would pass him by and block. I had someone recently tell me the night before a meet they couldn't meet, changed their mind in the morning, then got the hump as I,d made other plans. XXX |
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"Yeah block him and forget, he sounds like a bit of a tit and obviously doesn't have a problem mucking people about. He really should have said to his original meet that he'd sorted something else after they cancelled. That's a bit out of order of him. "
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