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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners.
Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication.
Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people.
What's everyone else's opinion on this. |
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You don't know why they are cheating, they may be doing it so they can stay sane and keep their family together, they may have kids, they may have other reasons. Don't be so quick to judge, everything seems black and white from outside |
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I'm with you on this OP. We may be the only 2 though I'm afraid....keep the faith! Don't trust anyone. I have never been cheated on and will never cheat on anyone but it's the way of the world. If you rely on people being honest on here then you're a little naïve my friend as people tell you anything to get a fuck. It's a toughie but you will learn in good time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Agreed I don't know the family situation. However, that is definiately not my business. It is my business if I'm sleeping with someone who doesn't have their partners consent.
That makes me feel awful, I'm here to have fun and not destroy a family.
I will only meet people who can accommodate. Never meet outdoors.
Yes, being able to not accommodate doesn't imply they are cheating agreed.
I'm just curious on other people's opinions on the matter. Making controversial conversation  . |
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Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy. |
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"It's nobody else's business."
this..
being judgemental when you don't know the why's and wherefores isn't a good trait either..
just get on with your thing and concentrate on meeting those of a similar mindset maybe.. |
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"I'm with you on this OP. We may be the only 2 though I'm afraid....keep the faith! Don't trust anyone. I have never been cheated on and will never cheat on anyone but it's the way of the world. If you rely on people being honest on here then you're a little naïve my friend as people tell you anything to get a fuck. It's a toughie but you will learn in good time."
How do you know you've never been cheated on, just out of interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners.
Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication.
Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people.
What's everyone else's opinion on this. "
I'd say mind your own business. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Don't talk to the ones that are doing the cheating then!! If you want to know other people's opinions on the matter a quick search would of brought up umpteen threads!
My opinion is mind your own business |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy. "
I agree with this statement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm with you on this OP. We may be the only 2 though I'm afraid....keep the faith! Don't trust anyone. I have never been cheated on and will never cheat on anyone but it's the way of the world. If you rely on people being honest on here then you're a little naïve my friend as people tell you anything to get a fuck. It's a toughie but you will learn in good time.
How do you know you've never been cheated on, just out of interest?"
Good call. |
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement. "
Good. Fancy a shag? |
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As long as they leave me alone and don't message me ,no problem .
I think a big majority are here behind someones back,i admire the ones who are honest about it.
The ones that lie and drag others into it annoy me .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?"
I'll have to check my calender. |
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender. "
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then "
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point. |
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I'd say being infuriated over something like that on a site designed to facilitate fairly anonymous, casual sex encounters is probably a waste of energy.
We do our best not to meet people whose partners are unaware they're here but you can never be sure. We also don't have much time for people who discuss or blame the absent partner who has no right of response. |
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point. "
How about church on Sunday? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday? "
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter . |
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter . "
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week."
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one. |
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week.
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one. "
My husband gave it the thumbs up, technically I asked about laying a new carpet but that's just a minor detail. He said yes.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week.
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one.
My husband gave it the thumbs up, technically I asked about laying a new carpet but that's just a minor detail. He said yes. "
Well you didn't state who's carpet was getting laid so I guess that's fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don't know why they are cheating, they may be doing it so they can stay sane and keep their family together, they may have kids, they may have other reasons. Don't be so quick to judge, everything seems black and white from outside "
I like this . |
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"Who knows why people cheat.
It doesn't just come down to fucking someone.
Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating.
If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person.
We all have excuses for behaving the way we do.
We also have the right to privacy.
I agree with this statement.
Good. Fancy a shag?
I'll have to check my calender.
Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week.
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one.
My husband gave it the thumbs up, technically I asked about laying a new carpet but that's just a minor detail. He said yes.
Well you didn't state who's carpet was getting laid so I guess that's fair enough. "
Yes dear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners.
Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication.
Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people.
What's everyone else's opinion on this. "
I quite agree with you. Just be honest with each other and have some respect |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status 
Banter. . "
If it 'infuriates' you so much surely when Miss H asked you if you wanted a shag you would of wanted to double check she wasn't doing the c word? No? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah the weekly white knight look at me thread  "
Don't listen to him OP, it may not have been your intention but you're shown the Forum to be a completely different place! Not that long ago you'd have being applauded and showered with agreement on your thread.
Right then, who'd like a meet in a lovely five* all expenses paid hotel? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
If it 'infuriates' you so much surely when Miss H asked you if you wanted a shag you would of wanted to double check she wasn't doing the c word? No?"
Who said I didn't? Just because it's not in the forum it doesn't mean I didn't . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That makes me feel awful, I'm here to have fun and not destroy a family.
Interesting
How are you destroying a family?"
I don't blame anyone but my husband for destroying our family, and him cheating was the least of my worries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners.
Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication.
Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people.
What's everyone else's opinion on this. "
What about if your partner did still love you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
You bad, bad, bad woman!!!!
So bad. Spank me  "
Hi  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners.
Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication.
Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people.
What's everyone else's opinion on this. "
Mine is you don't know what foes on behind closed doors. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
If it 'infuriates' you so much surely when Miss H asked you if you wanted a shag you would of wanted to double check she wasn't doing the c word? No?
Who said I didn't? Just because it's not in the forum it doesn't mean I didn't. "
True dat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about if you could do it without getting caught? "
No, still not for me. I kinda like the idea that I'm screwing someone's wife with them having full knowledge of it happening. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
. Ah yes, I didn't mean it I was just having banter  "
To be fair, it didn't look real |
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
. Ah yes, I didn't mean it I was just having banter
To be fair, it didn't look real"
Rugby you break my heart. You know I rarely suggest church. That's what gave me away right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pass the hobnobs
Chocolate ones?
You don't want a husband do you?
Who me 
Well, I bloody don't.
Hah hah not with the hobnob couldnt eat a whole husband "
Eat some, freeze the rest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanders in reads thread...
It's de ja vu ....
All over again...
Did someone mention hob nobs
Yep me. Lets go sit in the corner "
Your not planning on eating me...are you |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Pass the hobnobs
Chocolate ones?
You don't want a husband do you?
Who me
Well, I bloody don't.
Hah hah not with the hobnob couldnt eat a whole husband
Eat some, freeze the rest "
No. I prefer fresh meat |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
. Ah yes, I didn't mean it I was just having banter
To be fair, it didn't look real
Rugby you break my heart. You know I rarely suggest church. That's what gave me away right? "
No it was the carpet, everyone knows wood flooring is the way to go now |
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
. Ah yes, I didn't mean it I was just having banter
To be fair, it didn't look real
Rugby you break my heart. You know I rarely suggest church. That's what gave me away right?
No it was the carpet, everyone knows wood flooring is the way to go now"
Flooring faux pas. My bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners.
Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication.
Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people.
What's everyone else's opinion on this. "
Yawn.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner?
Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour? |
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"Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner?
Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour?"
I often wonder that.
Of course there are loads of reasons ranging from illness to their partner is so rubbish that they just can't face it and a lot of the reasons are valid and deserving of sympathy. I also wonder if its entirely true a lot of the time. No sex at home is only one reason behind infidelity though.
I often wonder too why the cheated on partner is described as "the innnocent victim" when we actually have no idea if that's true or not.
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By *ugby 123Couple
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I often wonder too why the cheated on partner is described as "the innnocent victim" when we actually have no idea if that's true or not.
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This. Which brings me to my first post, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Don't get me wrong I don't think sex is compulsory and people don't obviously have to do it if they don't want to but if you have a partner that really doesn't want sex and no amount of communication between you will make any difference then to keep getting told " go speak to your wife" must be like a smack in the face.
Marriage isn't just about sex so some people won't leave because they actually love the person, so to be told leave your wife must also be annoying.
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I totally agree, to me there's no justifiable reason at all.
However, I am grateful to those that are honest about it as it means I can avoid them. It's those that cheat and deny it that piss me off most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner?
Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour?"
Because a lot of people only see cheating as one dimensional the stereotypical version that gets mentioned all the time on here.
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This place cracks me up judgemental people telling others to stop being judgemental and mind their own business then proceed to tell people how they should think.
Our opinion.
Couldn't care if you want to cheat, just don't lie to us pretending to be single and getting us tangled up in your fucked up relationship. |
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"Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner?
Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour?
I often wonder that.
Of course there are loads of reasons ranging from illness to their partner is so rubbish that they just can't face it and a lot of the reasons are valid and deserving of sympathy. I also wonder if its entirely true a lot of the time. No sex at home is only one reason behind infidelity though.
I often wonder too why the cheated on partner is described as "the innnocent victim" when we actually have no idea if that's true or not.
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Cheating is the ultimate sin, nothing the ‘innocent party’ might have done comes even close.
These are only assumptions on how I think it maybe viewed. |
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