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It's new year. ....yet again another false promises.

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I knew a woman in a group on another site who wanted to organise a GB. She had 32 guys who expressed interest. She did all the emailing to arrange a date coinvenient to all and to sort out details. On the night, only one guy showed up. She had more girlfriends there to fluff for her.

So I'd say consider yourself lucky all you had to do was shower and leave the house.

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"I knew a woman in a group on another site who wanted to organise a GB. She had 32 guys who expressed interest. She did all the emailing to arrange a date coinvenient to all and to sort out details. On the night, only one guy showed up. She had more girlfriends there to fluff for her.

So I'd say consider yourself lucky all you had to do was shower and leave the house."

As I said would be much self explanatory if she text or call just to let all the guys know that she's not available for some reason would be great.

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money. "

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then.

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. "

yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off.

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off."

It's not hard to make a phone call or text ....is it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off."

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off."

It's disappointing when plans fall through. How far did they travel though? Maybe a lesson in there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would you go again OP?

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off.

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

"

she said on her meets ....she will be opening the gates of heaven and looking to take as many cocks as possible......which means the whole lot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wonder how much the club earned off the back of her gang bang request.

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"I wonder how much the club earned off the back of her gang bang request."

Tell me about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I knew a woman in a group on another site who wanted to organise a GB. She had 32 guys who expressed interest. She did all the emailing to arrange a date coinvenient to all and to sort out details. On the night, only one guy showed up. She had more girlfriends there to fluff for her.

So I'd say consider yourself lucky all you had to do was shower and leave the house."

Sounds like one 'ell of a lucky guy!

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

We are in 2018 now.....things like this do happenso.

COMMUNICATIONS break down is one of the bigger issues on this kind of situation. .......we all grown ups....still trying to figure out, when will this kind of be stopped.

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"We are in 2018 now.....things like this do happenso.

COMMUNICATIONS break down is one of the bigger issues on this kind of situation. .......we all grown ups....still trying to figure out, when will this kind of be stopped. "

You’re thinking about yourself OP and not the lady. You don’t know what might have happened for her not to turn up. I can think of a number of things why it didn’t happen. Unfortunately this is life OP.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There were no other people at the club willing to play?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are in 2018 now.....things like this do happenso.

COMMUNICATIONS break down is one of the bigger issues on this kind of situation. .......we all grown ups....still trying to figure out, when will this kind of be stopped. "

" when will this kind of thing be stopped?"

Thats funny

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

The proper definition of hump lol....

In Yorkshire ‘having the hump’ is being ‘passed off’ - OPs words.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Can't you ask for a refund ~ or something?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here. "

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

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By *urlesque!Woman  over a year ago

Gloucester


"

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

"

Excellent point - what if she had turned up and changed her mind, perhaps not feeling great or simply having gone off the idea?

How would the guys have responded?

Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There were no other people at the club willing to play?"

Plenty of fab straight men I'm guessing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Could be a ploy to get your money at the door did you all pay to get in or as club refunded you if so I'd be suspicious of a staff member been known before

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge."

These things in life happen. Things get cancelled for all kinds of reasons......a bereavement (god forbid), an illness, transport failure, cold feet even.

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Can't you ask for a refund ~ or something? "

Refund.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wonder how much the club earned off the back of her gang bang request."

Great marketing ploy

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Could be a ploy to get your money at the door did you all pay to get in or as club refunded you if so I'd be suspicious of a staff member been known before "
some did ask for refund Wether they get it back in don't know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

These things in life happen. Things get cancelled for all kinds of reasons......a bereavement (god forbid), an illness, transport failure, cold feet even.

"

Yeah, my feet are bloomin' freezing

I dont even want to take my Christmas elf slippers off let alone get me kit off for a gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge."

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money. "

Even if she had contacted the club to say she wasn’t coming, how would that have helped you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc. "

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe you should find out why she cancelled before passing judgement.

If for example she had a bereavement (hopefully thats not actually the case) would ringing every single guy be on her mind at that moment in time?

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

These things in life happen. Things get cancelled for all kinds of reasons......a bereavement (god forbid), an illness, transport failure, cold feet even.

Yeah, my feet are bloomin' freezing

I dont even want to take my Christmas elf slippers off let alone get me kit off for a gangbang"

Oh god don’t I feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference."

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one "

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

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By *urlesque!Woman  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Maybe you should find out why she cancelled before passing judgement.

If for example she had a bereavement (hopefully thats not actually the case) would ringing every single guy be on her mind at that moment in time?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone "

Yet men get slaughtered on here for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Yet men get slaughtered on here for the same thing.

"

That’s ok they are men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone "

Same as a no show when someone doesn't turn up to an agreed meet on here?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money. "

Was she the only woman that was attending the club?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Same as a no show when someone doesn't turn up to an agreed meet on here? "

As far as I am concerned it should be treated the same as any no show.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one "

I'm guessing that's the nature of these things though. Nothing is certain or to be expected is it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one "

Why? If those men turned up for a gangbang at a club and couldn’t find anyone else there willing to play with them, then that’s their problem, not hers.

They chose to go. She never promised them sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Report her as a no show.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Report her as a no show. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Same as a no show when someone doesn't turn up to an agreed meet on here?

As far as I am concerned it should be treated the same as any no show."

An arranged private meet is different and people should always say if they’re not going to attend a meet but a gangbang at a club is different.

Did she know personally the name and details of every man who said they would be attending so she could let them know she couldn’t make it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

I'm guessing that's the nature of these things though. Nothing is certain or to be expected is it. "

Turning up if you say you are going to, or informing at the earliest possible moment if that is not possible is not expected?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Yet men get slaughtered on here for the same thing.

"

some do yes but mostly the one's who come across as whining sods with a massive sense of entitlement..

your coming across as pretty lacking in objectivity as women have on here been hauled across the verbal coals on more than one occasion..

but don't let that fact spoil your misogynistic moaning..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

Why? If those men turned up for a gangbang at a club and couldn’t find anyone else there willing to play with them, then that’s their problem, not hers.

They chose to go. She never promised them sex."

I didn't say she promised, kindly refrain from putting words in my mouth

She chose to agree to be there. Didn't turn up. Didn't let anyone know. It isn't nice

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off.

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

"

100% correct. But that's the same as anyone else going to any meet. If someone is pulling out of a meet, they should cancel, not no-show. Just because it's a woman going to a gb, doesn't change things. She has the right to decline anyone at the meet, no question, and should also let people know she can't make it, if possible.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Same as a no show when someone doesn't turn up to an agreed meet on here?

As far as I am concerned it should be treated the same as any no show.

An arranged private meet is different and people should always say if they’re not going to attend a meet but a gangbang at a club is different.

Did she know personally the name and details of every man who said they would be attending so she could let them know she couldn’t make it?"

Did she inform anyone?

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"Report her as a no show. "

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off.

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

100% correct. But that's the same as anyone else going to any meet. If someone is pulling out of a meet, they should cancel, not no-show. Just because it's a woman going to a gb, doesn't change things. She has the right to decline anyone at the meet, no question, and should also let people know she can't make it, if possible."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Yet men get slaughtered on here for the same thing.

some do yes but mostly the one's who come across as whining sods with a massive sense of entitlement..

your coming across as pretty lacking in objectivity as women have on here been hauled across the verbal coals on more than one occasion..

but don't let that fact spoil your misogynistic moaning.."

Standing up for what I believe to be true isn't misogynistic.

If it was reversed, my opinion would be the same. Its an observation that when it's a lady in the wrong, a great deal, not all, will come down on the ladies side.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything."

Is it not a promise to turn up at least?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't you ask for a refund ~ or something? "
there is no refund for second hand lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Same as a no show when someone doesn't turn up to an agreed meet on here?

As far as I am concerned it should be treated the same as any no show."

indeed it should.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

I'm guessing that's the nature of these things though. Nothing is certain or to be expected is it.

Turning up if you say you are going to, or informing at the earliest possible moment if that is not possible is not expected?"

Depending on how fixed the plans where? Was it a turn up and see who's there or were people individually chosen/invited.

In an ideal world, if the latter, then of course it would have been better to let people know if it wasn't happening . If that was done with a status update etc would anyone have thought to check beforehand anyway ?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire

Maybe she did turn up, did not like what she saw and decided not to make herself known..

till she explains its all a bit guessing the unknown..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

arranging gangbang is a pain in the asss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money. "

See I don't get why people would visit a club for one reason and one reason only.

To me, you pay your money for the use of the facilities not the use of the potential patrons

For example, I once travelled 200 miles (round trip) to attend a sauna, only to find it was a T-Girl day. That's not my bag, so I used the facilities and I came home.

In the grand scheme of life, it's a minor inconvenience. Nothing more.

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything.

Is it not a promise to turn up at least?"

I agree, turning up or cancelling, should be a given. I mean the wording of the title is being construed as a promise of play, rightly or wrongly, but that does not exist.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

I'm guessing that's the nature of these things though. Nothing is certain or to be expected is it.

Turning up if you say you are going to, or informing at the earliest possible moment if that is not possible is not expected?

Depending on how fixed the plans where? Was it a turn up and see who's there or were people individually chosen/invited.

In an ideal world, if the latter, then of course it would have been better to let people know if it wasn't happening . If that was done with a status update etc would anyone have thought to check beforehand anyway ? "

Good question, perhaps the OP could clarify?

But on that point if you arranged a meet advertised via a status update of a similar nature and I said I’d love to come, would you let me know if you couldn’t make it?

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

See I don't get why people would visit a club for one reason and one reason only.

To me, you pay your money for the use of the facilities not the use of the potential patrons

For example, I once travelled 200 miles (round trip) to attend a sauna, only to find it was a T-Girl day. That's not my bag, so I used the facilities and I came home.

In the grand scheme of life, it's a minor inconvenience. Nothing more."

I think that's a good approach. Less room for disappointment!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

Why? If those men turned up for a gangbang at a club and couldn’t find anyone else there willing to play with them, then that’s their problem, not hers.

They chose to go. She never promised them sex. I didn't say she promised, kindly refrain from putting words in my mouth

She chose to agree to be there. Didn't turn up. Didn't let anyone know. It isn't nice "

How do you know she didn’t let anyone know?

She could have told the men she was interested in having sex with so they didn’t go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

See I don't get why people would visit a club for one reason and one reason only.

To me, you pay your money for the use of the facilities not the use of the potential patrons

For example, I once travelled 200 miles (round trip) to attend a sauna, only to find it was a T-Girl day. That's not my bag, so I used the facilities and I came home.

In the grand scheme of life, it's a minor inconvenience. Nothing more.

I think that's a good approach. Less room for disappointment!"

Sadly we have to be prepared for disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unless she was physically incapable of doing so, I do think she should have put a status on FAB to say she was no longer able to make it. No she doesn't owe anybody sex but I do think she does owe them the most basic of manners at least. Is this woman verified? Entirely possible this was a catfish who gets off on this sort of behaviour. Maybe disappointing one person isn't enough anymore that they've had to progress to messaging about people en mass.

I think with any meet on Fab you always have to be prepared for it not to happen for whatever reason. One of the bonuses of meeting at a club is that if they don't show then you can still enjoy your evening and meet new people.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything.

Is it not a promise to turn up at least?

I agree, turning up or cancelling, should be a given. I mean the wording of the title is being construed as a promise of play, rightly or wrongly, but that does not exist."

part of the issue with some being that they have forked out money so they fully believe they are entitled to sex..

not what its about or should be..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

Why? If those men turned up for a gangbang at a club and couldn’t find anyone else there willing to play with them, then that’s their problem, not hers.

They chose to go. She never promised them sex. I didn't say she promised, kindly refrain from putting words in my mouth

She chose to agree to be there. Didn't turn up. Didn't let anyone know. It isn't nice

How do you know she didn’t let anyone know?

She could have told the men she was interested in having sex with so they didn’t go "

But didn’t tell the others who said they’d be there, who she wasn’t interested in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unless she was physically incapable of doing so, I do think she should have put a status on FAB to say she was no longer able to make it. No she doesn't owe anybody sex but I do think she does owe them the most basic of manners at least. Is this woman verified? Entirely possible this was a catfish who gets off on this sort of behaviour. Maybe disappointing one person isn't enough anymore that they've had to progress to messaging about people en mass.

I think with any meet on Fab you always have to be prepared for it not to happen for whatever reason. One of the bonuses of meeting at a club is that if they don't show then you can still enjoy your evening and meet new people. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Yet men get slaughtered on here for the same thing.

some do yes but mostly the one's who come across as whining sods with a massive sense of entitlement..

your coming across as pretty lacking in objectivity as women have on here been hauled across the verbal coals on more than one occasion..

but don't let that fact spoil your misogynistic moaning..

Standing up for what I believe to be true isn't misogynistic.

If it was reversed, my opinion would be the same. Its an observation that when it's a lady in the wrong, a great deal, not all, will come down on the ladies side. "

If it was a one to one meet, I would agree with you about letting the other person know but a gangbang in a club? The OP said she put a meet up. He never said that he and the woman involved had and any interaction beforehand so we don’t know if she even knew he was going to go.

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich

Just maybe, no one contacted her to say they were going?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

That’s ok it’s her prerogative to not turn up and inform anyone

Yet men get slaughtered on here for the same thing.

some do yes but mostly the one's who come across as whining sods with a massive sense of entitlement..

your coming across as pretty lacking in objectivity as women have on here been hauled across the verbal coals on more than one occasion..

but don't let that fact spoil your misogynistic moaning..

Standing up for what I believe to be true isn't misogynistic.

If it was reversed, my opinion would be the same. Its an observation that when it's a lady in the wrong, a great deal, not all, will come down on the ladies side.

If it was a one to one meet, I would agree with you about letting the other person know but a gangbang in a club? The OP said she put a meet up. He never said that he and the woman involved had and any interaction beforehand so we don’t know if she even knew he was going to go.

"

I'm assuming that there was at least a loose arrangement with those that were to attend. I would agree with you much more if there wasn't and he turned up off the back of a meet request but up but with zero actual contact with the lady.

Can op confirm?

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By *hrisANtifCouple  over a year ago

Napoli, Italy


"By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything.

Is it not a promise to turn up at least?

I agree, turning up or cancelling, should be a given. I mean the wording of the title is being construed as a promise of play, rightly or wrongly, but that does not exist.

part of the issue with some being that they have forked out money so they fully believe they are entitled to sex..

not what its about or should be.."

Agreed. And this isn’t just at clubs either, we have invited guys to our place and to hotels in the past after chatting and exchanging pics, but when they have turned up, they look little-to-nothing like their pics, which are probably either form an unbelievably good angle or from 10 years ago, but seem to assume that since they have travelled you will just go to bed with them anyway! Seem to get offended when you tell them jog on lol!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money. "

Did you have any prior discussion with this woman?

Was She actually affiliated with the club or did she just put a meet up saying she would be there?

On read the thread properly it seems like she just put a meet up saying she would be there then didn't go.

Which I'm pretty sure doesn't make her a time waster since she didn't specifically make any arrangements with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

I'm guessing that's the nature of these things though. Nothing is certain or to be expected is it.

Turning up if you say you are going to, or informing at the earliest possible moment if that is not possible is not expected?

Depending on how fixed the plans where? Was it a turn up and see who's there or were people individually chosen/invited.

In an ideal world, if the latter, then of course it would have been better to let people know if it wasn't happening . If that was done with a status update etc would anyone have thought to check beforehand anyway ?

Good question, perhaps the OP could clarify?

But on that point if you arranged a meet advertised via a status update of a similar nature and I said I’d love to come, would you let me know if you couldn’t make it?"

I would probably have put a status update on yes cancelling. Maybe not individual messages or fear the wrath of many dissapointed men in my inbox. You wouldn't ever be certain of who would be turning up so you could be messaging those whod already forgotten about it also

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything.

Is it not a promise to turn up at least?

I agree, turning up or cancelling, should be a given. I mean the wording of the title is being construed as a promise of play, rightly or wrongly, but that does not exist.

part of the issue with some being that they have forked out money so they fully believe they are entitled to sex..

not what its about or should be.."

Correct. There should never be any obligation or expectation of guaranteed play regardless of the circumstances. If you were travelling to Timbuktu to meet someone who you'd played with dozens of times, it would be exactly the same.

A cancellation though is common decency, regardless of other circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Did you have any prior discussion with this woman?

Was She actually affiliated with the club or did she just put a meet up saying she would be there?

On read the thread properly it seems like she just put a meet up saying she would be there then didn't go.

Which I'm pretty sure doesn't make her a time waster since she didn't specifically make any arrangements with anyone "

I'm now wondering this too...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were a Woman you would have had sympathy here.

Maybe so. But having heard only half the story, it's unfair to judge.

As a woman he would have had sympathy from one side of the story. From most anyhow...

'his loss' 'your fantastic hun, don't let them get you down' 'i wouldn't have messed you about' 'dodged a bullet with this timewaster' etc etc etc.

It wasn’t a one to one meet. It was allegedly a gangbang in a club. Big difference.

Indeed. She let alot of people down rather than just one

I'm guessing that's the nature of these things though. Nothing is certain or to be expected is it.

Turning up if you say you are going to, or informing at the earliest possible moment if that is not possible is not expected?

Depending on how fixed the plans where? Was it a turn up and see who's there or were people individually chosen/invited.

In an ideal world, if the latter, then of course it would have been better to let people know if it wasn't happening . If that was done with a status update etc would anyone have thought to check beforehand anyway ?

Good question, perhaps the OP could clarify?

But on that point if you arranged a meet advertised via a status update of a similar nature and I said I’d love to come, would you let me know if you couldn’t make it?

I would probably have put a status update on yes cancelling. Maybe not individual messages or fear the wrath of many dissapointed men in my inbox. You wouldn't ever be certain of who would be turning up so you could be messaging those whod already forgotten about it also

"

That would seem a reasonable approach if you had advertised you were up for such a meet via status update

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

Did you have any prior discussion with this woman?

Was She actually affiliated with the club or did she just put a meet up saying she would be there?

On read the thread properly it seems like she just put a meet up saying she would be there then didn't go.

Which I'm pretty sure doesn't make her a time waster since she didn't specifically make any arrangements with anyone "

These are key questions in establishing the timewaster-ness of the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

Did you have any prior discussion with this woman?

Was She actually affiliated with the club or did she just put a meet up saying she would be there?

On read the thread properly it seems like she just put a meet up saying she would be there then didn't go.

Which I'm pretty sure doesn't make her a time waster since she didn't specifically make any arrangements with anyone

These are key questions in establishing the timewaster-ness of the woman."

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"I wonder how much the club earned off the back of her gang bang request."

This is what I was thinking!

It would have taken little effort on her part to at least put a status up to say she wasn’t going!

I don’t do gangbangs - but if I’m due to attend an event and can’t make it I always apologise on the relevant thread so the organisers and others are aware I can’t be there! This is called manners!

In the club scene a few (fortunately not many) are affiliated to specific clubs and will drum up money for the club in any way they can - not always scrupulously!

Some advice op! Many clubs hold great events both in the daytime and evening that are well attended by both men and potentially ‘greedy’ ladies! I’d heartily advise that you try one of these instead of putting your eggs into one proverbial basket!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wonder how much the club earned off the back of her gang bang request.

This is what I was thinking!

It would have taken little effort on her part to at least put a status up to say she wasn’t going!

I don’t do gangbangs - but if I’m due to attend an event and can’t make it I always apologise on the relevant thread so the organisers and others are aware I can’t be there! This is called manners!

In the club scene a few (fortunately not many) are affiliated to specific clubs and will drum up money for the club in any way they can - not always scrupulously!

Some advice op! Many clubs hold great events both in the daytime and evening that are well attended by both men and potentially ‘greedy’ ladies! I’d heartily advise that you try one of these instead of putting your eggs into one proverbial basket! "

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich

When I organised a gang-bang for Debs for her fortieth I arranged it at a club and also arranged for the participants to get entry for a reduced price (£10). Only to be accused of "just trying to entice people to the club"

And that was one of the milder accusations pmsl.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"By the way OP, despite my comment above, your use of words 'false promises' in the title is bad. On any meet there are no promises of anything.

Is it not a promise to turn up at least?

I agree, turning up or cancelling, should be a given. I mean the wording of the title is being construed as a promise of play, rightly or wrongly, but that does not exist.

part of the issue with some being that they have forked out money so they fully believe they are entitled to sex..

not what its about or should be..

Correct. There should never be any obligation or expectation of guaranteed play regardless of the circumstances. If you were travelling to Timbuktu to meet someone who you'd played with dozens of times, it would be exactly the same.

A cancellation though is common decency, regardless of other circumstances."

agree..

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

Even if she had contacted the club to say she wasn’t coming, how would that have helped you?"

Bad..

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"I wonder how much the club earned off the back of her gang bang request.

This is what I was thinking!

It would have taken little effort on her part to at least put a status up to say she wasn’t going!

I don’t do gangbangs - but if I’m due to attend an event and can’t make it I always apologise on the relevant thread so the organisers and others are aware I can’t be there! This is called manners!

In the club scene a few (fortunately not many) are affiliated to specific clubs and will drum up money for the club in any way they can - not always scrupulously!

Some advice op! Many clubs hold great events both in the daytime and evening that are well attended by both men and potentially ‘greedy’ ladies! I’d heartily advise that you try one of these instead of putting your eggs into one proverbial basket! "

Thanks

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By *heblackmac OP   Man  over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Would you go again OP?"

Would I fuck!!!!!!not a chance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So OP, had you and the lady had any interaction beforehand?

Did she know you would be attending this gangbang?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would you go again OP?

Would I fuck!!!!!!not a chance "

Lots of people have responded to your post OP

Many have questions and queries

That you have simply bypassed

How come?

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

So if I can just ask some questions please.

A woman put an ad up on Fab advertising a gang bang at a club?

A cash incentive was mentioned?

No men were sent individual personal invitations?

Men turn up today expecting sex?

Had sex been promised?

How many men invited/turned up?

Woman didn’t turn up?

Men don’t know why woman didn’t turn up?

Men are ‘passed off’ (OPs term)?

Men assume woman is a time waster?

Is woman still on Fab?

Has OP got woman’s contact details and tried to make contact with her?

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Would you go again OP?

Would I fuck!!!!!!not a chance

Lots of people have responded to your post OP

Many have questions and queries

That you have simply bypassed

How come?"

Because it doesn't suit his version of events to answer them possibly?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would you go again OP?

Would I fuck!!!!!!not a chance

Lots of people have responded to your post OP

Many have questions and queries

That you have simply bypassed

How come?

Because it doesn't suit his version of events to answer them possibly? "

Guess we'll never know

Ho hum

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I can understand frustration at turning up for something, only to find the person involved a no show.

I've just spent 5hrs on motorways, passed 3 crashes, 1 of which looked quite serious.

There could be any number of reasons why people don't arrive at a destination, especially considering the weather today, and are unable to inform others.

I for one I feeling grateful I made it home tonight

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I can understand frustration at turning up for something, only to find the person involved a no show.

I've just spent 5hrs on motorways, passed 3 crashes, 1 of which looked quite serious.

There could be any number of reasons why people don't arrive at a destination, especially considering the weather today, and are unable to inform others.

I for one I feeling grateful I made it home tonight "

Perspective..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off.

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

she said on her meets ....she will be opening the gates of heaven and looking to take as many cocks as possible......which means the whole lot."

It most certainly does not mean the whole lot! She still has the right to say no. Sounds like she had a lucky escape judging by your attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been to a club today which was supposed to be a gangbang but she didn't turn up. She put it up on meet events where she says she'll be there getting banged, but she ain't. Well at least a phone call to the club manager or a text message, would be much self explanatory and just to let everyone know she's not coming would be much great.what are waste of time and money.

There may be a good reason for her not turning up. OP these things happen! Unless she is there and the event is taking place then anything can happen up until then. yeah but the thing is guys travelling from that far...just of she put ups on fabswingers. ..some of the guys went back really passed off.

But even if she DID turn up she wouldnt be obliged to play with people she didnt want to

she said on her meets ....she will be opening the gates of heaven and looking to take as many cocks as possible......which means the whole lot.

It most certainly does not mean the whole lot! She still has the right to say no. Sounds like she had a lucky escape judging by your attitude. "

Yes I agree, anyone can back out of sex at any time. XXX

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Paying an entry fee to attend the club does not entitle you to sex OP.

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