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Yeah, one of my dance partners (with whom I used to go out a lot) calls me his 'other wife' now he has a girlfriend, and when he was making a hell of a racket while dancing one day another guy said 'Is that your husband making all that noise?' knowing full well we were not even an item lol! It's just a giggle!  |
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"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????"
I was gonna ask earlier how do they feel about other women being in your life
If it is a healthy group, great
If it is turning towards a coven, free yourself |
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"Yeah, one of my dance partners (with whom I used to go out a lot) calls me his 'other wife' now he has a girlfriend, and when he was making a hell of a racket while dancing one day another guy said 'Is that your husband making all that noise?' knowing full well we were not even an item lol! It's just a giggle! "
Right well just thought I’d find out every ones take on it especially lady’s views
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"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????
I was gonna ask earlier how do they feel about other women being in your life
If it is a healthy group, great
If it is turning towards a coven, free yourself "
I was thinking The Witches of Eastwick maself   |
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I think that's quite funny! How much alimony are you going to end up paying?
Seriously though who cares what normal is, it's nobody's beeswax except your own. XXX |
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I have an 'other wife' it's harmless and fun. My actual wife fancies the pants off of my other wife.
Used to have a day wife and a night wife.
If it's harmless fun all good. |
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Lol well we just spent Christmas with my ex and daughter lol... But a cpl week ago me and Mrs gave the ex a blinding orgasm with a magic wand..... I never saw that coming lol... They like best mates now.... Still not sure what that says about me though lol |
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"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????"
"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????"
That's usually what they call friends with benefits. Unfortunately guys only mean sex benefits, not actual friend benefits. |
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"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????"
What did you say to her? |
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"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????
Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.
I got why’s she asking you your not her husband
????
That's usually what they call friends with benefits. Unfortunately guys only mean sex benefits, not actual friend benefits."
So true!!  |
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"Plus as I said one ex girlfriend
And the last one I fancy the pants off but never showed it plus her son is starting an appearance with me in a year know her for years
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Ahhh you better just come and fuck me then... I'm not looking for a husband  |
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"Plus as I said one ex girlfriend
And the last one I fancy the pants off but never showed it plus her son is starting an appearance with me in a year know her for years
Ahhh you better just come and fuck me then... I'm not looking for a husband "
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"So three of my best Frends are females one being ex girlfriend. They are now calling themselves wife number 1 2 and 3 "
There are a group of ladies from work I go out for regular curries with refer to themselves as "my three sluts"... in reality our relationships are just platonic and none of us would have it any different.
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"So we think it’s normal and go with it "
It’s ‘normal’ if you’re okay with it, what we think is irrelevant.
However I’m not sure Wifey 1,2 or 3’s behaviour was ‘normal’ when she was questioning your helping the other one...... |
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"Could you clarify
When you did the job
Which one was it for?
Which one got the hump
The newlywed
The ex
The one you fancy "
Right ex girlfriends Frend asked me to do Job and she’s got the right hump about it |
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"Could you clarify
When you did the job
Which one was it for?
Which one got the hump
The newlywed
The ex
The one you fancy
Right ex girlfriends Frend asked me to do Job and she’s got the right hump about it "
None of these women have the right to get "the hump" if you do something for one of the others. Unless you like women bitching between themselves over you I'd walk away. |
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"Could you clarify
When you did the job
Which one was it for?
Which one got the hump
The newlywed
The ex
The one you fancy
Right ex girlfriends Frend asked me to do Job and she’s got the right hump about it "
So the woman you did the job for was not one of the 3 wives?
This is really an inane situation creating a drama from nothing. If a friend of a friend wants me to do work for them, they would get at least a pretence of mates rates, but I would get something out of the deal. If my good nature was being abused my friends and family would point that out to me and the abuser.
If it bothers you tell them, if not happy days. Unbelievable I know but women are people too, and quite capable of being good friends even with clothes on
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Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.
It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.
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"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.
It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.
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I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.
And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..  |
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"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.
It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.
I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.
And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her.. "
Speaking as a woman, I reckon ‘the ex’ got the ‘hump’ cos you did her friend the jobs! Maybe share your good nature out and do jobs for all three, that way there is no jealousy! I think you are enjoying the attention of the three women but a word of warning if you meet a new woman the Witches of Eastwick might cramp your style then you will be Billy No Mates |
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The newly wed should be concentrating on her husband not you.
The ex should be looking to the future, not the past so I don’t know why you’re so involved in each other’s lives. You are ex’s for a reason.
The one you fancy, does she fancy you?
If she doesn’t, then stay friends but get out there and look elsewhere too. |
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"The newly wed should be concentrating on her husband not you.
The ex should be looking to the future, not the past so I don’t know why you’re so involved in each other’s lives. You are ex’s for a reason.
The one you fancy, does she fancy you?
If she doesn’t, then stay friends but get out there and look elsewhere too."
 exactly!
And OP all these women on the scene causing a drama will put off any potential interest from other women who may enter your life whilst these three are behaving like this (hence my pussy blocker comment earlier). |
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"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.
It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.
I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.
And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..
Speaking as a woman, I reckon ‘the ex’ got the ‘hump’ cos you did her friend the jobs! Maybe share your good nature out and do jobs for all three, that way there is no jealousy! I think you are enjoying the attention of the three women but a word of warning if you meet a new woman the Witches of Eastwick might cramp your style then you will be Billy No Mates "
Been Frend like 15 years and do help them all just moved ex to Newhouse on my own
Rewired house last month for married one as wedding present free of charge
And the one I fancy lol rents a house off me half the market price. As her husband done the dirty on her and lost her house
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"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.
It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.
I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.
And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..
Speaking as a woman, I reckon ‘the ex’ got the ‘hump’ cos you did her friend the jobs! Maybe share your good nature out and do jobs for all three, that way there is no jealousy! I think you are enjoying the attention of the three women but a word of warning if you meet a new woman the Witches of Eastwick might cramp your style then you will be Billy No Mates
Been Frend like 15 years and do help them all just moved ex to Newhouse on my own
Rewired house last month for married one as wedding present free of charge
And the one I fancy lol rents a house off me half the market price. As her husband done the dirty on her and lost her house
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Gosh you sound like the ‘perfect man’! So obliging, so helpful, so good natured too. Do all three talk amongst themselves? Maybe they discuss you and some jealousy has crept in! Be careful because when a new woman enters your life then you may have problems  |
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"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.
It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.
I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.
And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..
Speaking as a woman, I reckon ‘the ex’ got the ‘hump’ cos you did her friend the jobs! Maybe share your good nature out and do jobs for all three, that way there is no jealousy! I think you are enjoying the attention of the three women but a word of warning if you meet a new woman the Witches of Eastwick might cramp your style then you will be Billy No Mates
Been Frend like 15 years and do help them all just moved ex to Newhouse on my own
Rewired house last month for married one as wedding present free of charge
And the one I fancy lol rents a house off me half the market price. As her husband done the dirty on her and lost her house
Gosh you sound like the ‘perfect man’! So obliging, so helpful, so good natured too. Do all three talk amongst themselves? Maybe they discuss you and some jealousy has crept in! Be careful because when a new woman enters your life then you may have problems "
Lol do help other friends just like to help |
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