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An honest, polite "I've read your profile and..." followed by a nice message that explains who you are, what you're into, why you've chosen to message us etc.
Also, yes, a little sexy dirty talk or describing a scenario works well for MrsNWC.
Just be honest and straightforward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never expect sexual chat as a first message, personally. I like to get to know someone a little. Usually polite and witty grabs my attention.... Though I do look at the profile. If the prole doesn't appeal, then it doesn't really matter what they say in the message, in all honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Small talk. If I'm actively looking I'll write a few lines about favourite films/music/books to give a person a starting point for a conversation. "
Oh your pictures work like a charm
They are causing more levitation than wingardium leviosa  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice  "
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly i like the thrill
of under me you so quite new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind "
Ooh now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly i like the thrill
of under me you so quite new."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly i like the thrill
of under me you so quite new.
"
Fuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind "
Oh such silver tongued serenading
Will have all the ladies in hope parading
In throngs to greet you as they throw
Their thongs perchance to espy
You flick your hair from tickling your eye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind
Oh such silver tongued serenading
Will have all the ladies in hope parading
In throngs to greet you as they throw
Their thongs perchance to espy
You flick your hair from tickling your eye"
I think I'd prefer a FAF message now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind
Oh such silver tongued serenading
Will have all the ladies in hope parading
In throngs to greet you as they throw
Their thongs perchance to espy
You flick your hair from tickling your eye
I think I'd prefer a FAF message now "
You can be first to test drive my new one then
Throw away your alarm clock
The name is Doc
You’ll be woken in the morning
By my cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly i like the thrill
of under me you so quite new.
Fuck?"
Yeah go on then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind
Oh such silver tongued serenading
Will have all the ladies in hope parading
In throngs to greet you as they throw
Their thongs perchance to espy
You flick your hair from tickling your eye
I think I'd prefer a FAF message now
You can be first to test drive my new one then
Throw away your alarm clock
The name is Doc
You’ll be woken in the morning
By my cock"
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Hate graphic 1st messages from someone i dont know,so its an instant delete from me.
Would prefer just a general message ,i always think they just wanna get their rocks off fast and thats not for me ta.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in same boat although I never go in for the kill on a first message usually just a compliment on pics or try to be witty about something in their bio ! Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guess it depends on the recipient. If you're responding to a meet now to a couple whom are doing a dogging gangbang, I very much doubt they want to chit chat about musical preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate graphic 1st messages from someone i dont know,so its an instant delete from me.
Would prefer just a general message ,i always think they just wanna get their rocks off fast and thats not for me ta.
Miss"
That's my take on a sexual first message too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind
Oh such silver tongued serenading
Will have all the ladies in hope parading
In throngs to greet you as they throw
Their thongs perchance to espy
You flick your hair from tickling your eye"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poetry is looking a good choice
And yet one arrives somehow,
finds himself loosening the hooks of
her dress
in a strange bedroom--
feels the autumn
dropping its silk and linen leaves
about her ankles.
The tawdry veined body emerges
twisted upon itself
like a winter wind
Oh such silver tongued serenading
Will have all the ladies in hope parading
In throngs to greet you as they throw
Their thongs perchance to espy
You flick your hair from tickling your eye
I think I'd prefer a FAF message now "
FAF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a first message, would you prefer general small talk with no mention of sex, or would you like to get straight to the point ? Because neither approach is having much susses for me lol."
lol hey don't be so lazy try other approaches ,theirs four points on the compass |
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
The North / Party Hard Everywhere |
I prefer people to be clear about what they’re looking for in the first message. I don’t have time for small talk from 20 people a day as 99% don’t go any further or have a clue what they want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just an acknowledgement of them reading the profile and keeping an eye out for a meet.
Get so many people hassling us for meets so often. Just proves they haven't bothered to read the profile.
~Mia |
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By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago
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"I should add how important it is to read profiles before messaging.
Nothing boils piss more than messages from guys who don't."
I always read them first, unless it's going to take me 20 minutes to read it lol. |
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