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Why do bi/gay men hassle straight men
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"I find this alot on here and have to block most of the time. Why is this? If messaged a woman here and they didnt repky id take it as a polite no  "
I get a lot of bi/gay men and Tv/TS looking and fabbing pics even though I block them and if you then look who fabbed your pics you then look at them so maybe they see a sign of interest?
If I unblock I just say no thanks as per profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they think if youre on fab youre desperate and would turn to men for sexual gratification"
There are loads of guys here who would meet guys but would never have a profile on a traditional gay site
Therefore, new pickings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know. I can only assume that sexual frustration coupled with an aggressive personality pushes someone to harras for sex.
But I'm no Psychiatrist.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally this morning. Got a message from a couple, both straight on profile. Turns out he's bi. Waste of time"
So it's not just men then ?
Couples do it too
Who'd have thought ? |
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I get a lot of fabs on my pics from men even though I have zero interest in them and my profile states this, I'm not even curious. I'm not offended by it so I'll take the compliment, but I did have to block messages from men as I was getting loads constantly asking if I fancied a cam wank or blowjob lol, just no!
I've had quite a few blokes trying their luck on nights out as well over the years though, and I don't think I give off a gay vibe other than being well dressed and groomed  |
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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago
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"I get a lot of fabs on my pics from men even though I have zero interest in them and my profile states this, I'm not even curious. I'm not offended by it so I'll take the compliment, but I did have to block messages from men as I was getting loads constantly asking if I fancied a cam wank or blowjob lol, just no!
I've had quite a few blokes trying their luck on nights out as well over the years though, and I don't think I give off a gay vibe other than being well dressed and groomed "
What’s a gay vibe Mr  |
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"I get a lot of fabs on my pics from men even though I have zero interest in them and my profile states this, I'm not even curious. I'm not offended by it so I'll take the compliment, but I did have to block messages from men as I was getting loads constantly asking if I fancied a cam wank or blowjob lol, just no!
I've had quite a few blokes trying their luck on nights out as well over the years though, and I don't think I give off a gay vibe other than being well dressed and groomed
What’s a gay vibe Mr "
Like I must cause a fault with their gaydar or something. I do have quite a few gay friends that I go on nights out with so maybe they just assume I'm the same lol |
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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago
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"I get a lot of fabs on my pics from men even though I have zero interest in them and my profile states this, I'm not even curious. I'm not offended by it so I'll take the compliment, but I did have to block messages from men as I was getting loads constantly asking if I fancied a cam wank or blowjob lol, just no!
I've had quite a few blokes trying their luck on nights out as well over the years though, and I don't think I give off a gay vibe other than being well dressed and groomed
What’s a gay vibe Mr
Like I must cause a fault with their gaydar or something. I do have quite a few gay friends that I go on nights out with so maybe they just assume I'm the same lol"
There is no way of telling unless you talk to people
So you’re on a night out and you see a gorgeous girl, she smiles !!!
With your powers, how can you tell she is gay or straight |
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We'd appreciate a function to block gay, bi or bi-curious men simply because we'd never consider them joining us. So having them view us, wink and message is wasting everyone's time and muddying the water.
And no, it's not homophobic. It's a preference. It's the same as if somebody wouldn't consider married guys. |
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Im going to stand up for gay/bi men here...i'm a fabber a long long time and being straight i have always found no means no in these situations.Simply dont find they hassle you if you are completely clear with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find this alot on here and have to block most of the time. Why is this? If messaged a woman here and they didnt repky id take it as a polite no "
Playing Devils advocate here
I recognise your pics from the various 'Hot or not' threads you have started
In doing so, you raise your profile on the site greatly - to both those you seek and those you don't
You also don't have a block on guys messaging you.
Rightly or wrongly, some will read that as an invitation.
I can see you are in pretty good shape - which is a draw for men as well as women.
Could it be that you are becoming a victim of your heightened profile on the site ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may be because there are 3 kinds of straight.
Actual straight, which I am.
Straight, secretly Bi curious however not comfortable putting that on their profile.
Fab straight, Bi if the right offer comes in.
You are aware of saying such as.
Any hole is a goal.
And
I would let anyone suck my cock.
I think those guys that message straight men are testing the boundaries.
Just to reiterate. I am actual straight bi/gay guys please refrain.
Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It may be because there are 3 kinds of straight.
Actual straight, which I am.
Straight, secretly Bi curious however not comfortable putting that on their profile.
Fab straight, Bi if the right offer comes in.
You are aware of saying such as.
Any hole is a goal.
And
I would let anyone suck my cock.
I think those guys that message straight men are testing the boundaries.
Just to reiterate. I am actual straight bi/gay guys please refrain.
Thanks. "
100% true
I used to be straight now I’m not |
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"I find this alot on here and have to block most of the time. Why is this? If messaged a woman here and they didnt repky id take it as a polite no "
why even bother replying....as for their thinking everyman on here is desperate it might be a truer reflection of how you view yourself or others on the site. |
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It's not so much a gay/bi thing, it is more a man thing.
Ladies who state an age preference always receive messages from guys outside their age range unless they use their filters to stop them.
Many men also don't take no particularly well, hence why ladies and couples often choose to just delete without reply and sometimes block straight after.
Despite what you may say on your profile guys will just chance their arm, just in case you will make an exception for them.
The key is to use the tools the site gives you. Use your filters to stop them messaging you! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Personally speaking as someone who is openly bisexual, I wouldn't dream of messaging another guy on here who is listed as straight with a view to meeting for sex and think I can speak for the majority of other bi guys I know that would be the same.
Likewise if I were playing with a couple who were straight I wouldn't dream of attempting any form of bi play unless it was initiated by them.
Do I fab straight guys pics? Yes I do if it's a pic I like - does it mean I want to jump their bones? Errr nope it's just an appreciation of a good pic nothing more, nothing less.
Despite the stereotypes not all bisexual men are predatory or after "a cock, any cock".
Why do some bi/gay/fab straight guys do it? For the same reason as guys on here message women/couples whose profiles they don't match....unrealistic expectations/perceptions of the site plain and simple. If you get hassled by anyone whose profile doesn't appeal to you, regardless of their sexuality, just block and move on  |
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More to the point why do straight men hassle bi couples???
And also amazing how many “straight guys” ain’t straight I would say a good 90% are bi from the messages we get anyway |
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There are no married bachelors and there are no gay/bi straight men. If the guy does anything with another man, he's not straight, period. Same if a gay man/woman has sex with the opposite gender, they are bi, not strictly gay.
So really, if you score, you only scored a closeted gay/bi man posing straight. Otherwise, it means we can turn gay or bi people straight too, and gay people utterly reject and protest this idea.
For example, I seduced and scored a woman who lived as a lesbian and swore by her repulsion toward sex with men. As far as I'm concerned, she wasn't really gay since she slept with me. I could start hunting down and scoring "lesbian" women, but it would only prove that they actually love men and are not lesbian/gay. |
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Why do "straight" men hassle men for sex but yet insist they are straight?
Why do "straight" men shag pre-op trans and still think they're straight?
Why do "straight" men cheat more than anyone else on here?
Why do "straight" men think it's ok to deceive people on here?
Answer those and then as a confident Bi man I will answer your questions!!! |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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We had a particularly persistant straight man messaging us for bi fun the other night... he wasnt having it that we wouldnt enjoy him sucking cheffys cock and got quite abusive in the end. Its a pity coz we rarely need to use the block button. |
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"Why do "straight" men hassle men for sex but yet insist they are straight?
Why do "straight" men shag pre-op trans and still think they're straight?
Why do "straight" men cheat more than anyone else on here?
Why do "straight" men think it's ok to deceive people on here?
Answer those and then as a confident Bi man I will answer your questions!!!"
And this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do "straight" men hassle men for sex but yet insist they are straight?
Why do "straight" men shag pre-op trans and still think they're straight?
Why do "straight" men cheat more than anyone else on here?
Why do "straight" men think it's ok to deceive people on here?
Answer those and then as a confident Bi man I will answer your questions!!!"
Because all of those are closeted gay/bi men posing as straight men. So straight men aren't doing any of those things, it's gay/bi men. So the real question is, why do gay/bi men like to pose as straight men and then claim that straight men are the ones being deceptive when it's really the gay/bi demographic being deceptive? Can you answer those questions? |
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"We had a particularly persistant straight man messaging us for bi fun the other night... he wasnt having it that we wouldnt enjoy him sucking cheffys cock and got quite abusive in the end. Its a pity coz we rarely need to use the block button."
No, you had a bi man who was posing as a straight man. Why do bi men keep doing this? |
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"We had a particularly persistant straight man messaging us for bi fun the other night... he wasnt having it that we wouldnt enjoy him sucking cheffys cock and got quite abusive in the end. Its a pity coz we rarely need to use the block button.
No, you had a bi man who was posing as a straight man. Why do bi men keep doing this? "
Someone needs a tissue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Part of the problem, is that too many fabbers have d*unk the Kool-aid, and subscribe to the fallacy that 'straight' means 'fab straight'.
That, and a monumental disrespect, for clearly stated sexual orientation. |
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"We had a particularly persistant straight man messaging us for bi fun the other night... he wasnt having it that we wouldnt enjoy him sucking cheffys cock and got quite abusive in the end. Its a pity coz we rarely need to use the block button.
No, you had a bi man who was posing as a straight man. Why do bi men keep doing this?
Someone needs a tissue. "
You need a tissue, why? |
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"So why not just block all single guys from messaging? "
Once someone has had what they perceive as hassle, it seems wise to pit at least a temporary block upon the gender that they don't wish to meet, or bite the bullet and do something different.
Men apparently do this FAF to others here, so it's either to be accepted as part of fab life or steps taken to avoid it. |
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"We had a particularly persistant straight man messaging us for bi fun the other night... he wasnt having it that we wouldnt enjoy him sucking cheffys cock and got quite abusive in the end. Its a pity coz we rarely need to use the block button.
No, you had a bi man who was posing as a straight man. Why do bi men keep doing this?
Someone needs a tissue.
You need a tissue, why? "
For your issue.. |
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"More to the point why do straight men hassle bi couples???
And also amazing how many “straight guys” ain’t straight I would say a good 90% are bi from the messages we get anyway "
This is true. 90% of messages/winks I get from guys are listed as 'straight' on their profile. A girl I was chatting to once said she wasn't comfortable meeting a bi guy. One of her 'straight guy' verifications was from a guy who had messaged me on numerous occasions looking to meet. Weird old world innit? |
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"More to the point why do straight men hassle bi couples???
And also amazing how many “straight guys” ain’t straight I would say a good 90% are bi from the messages we get anyway
This is true. 90% of messages/winks I get from guys are listed as 'straight' on their profile. A girl I was chatting to once said she wasn't comfortable meeting a bi guy. One of her 'straight guy' verifications was from a guy who had messaged me on numerous occasions looking to meet. Weird old world innit? "
That's funny! I love bi guys |
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"More to the point why do straight men hassle bi couples???
And also amazing how many “straight guys” ain’t straight I would say a good 90% are bi from the messages we get anyway
This is true. 90% of messages/winks I get from guys are listed as 'straight' on their profile. A girl I was chatting to once said she wasn't comfortable meeting a bi guy. One of her 'straight guy' verifications was from a guy who had messaged me on numerous occasions looking to meet. Weird old world innit?
That's funny! I love bi guys "
I prefer women.  |
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"More to the point why do straight men hassle bi couples???
And also amazing how many “straight guys” ain’t straight I would say a good 90% are bi from the messages we get anyway
This is true. 90% of messages/winks I get from guys are listed as 'straight' on their profile. A girl I was chatting to once said she wasn't comfortable meeting a bi guy. One of her 'straight guy' verifications was from a guy who had messaged me on numerous occasions looking to meet. Weird old world innit?
That's funny! I love bi guys
I prefer women. "
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"We had a particularly persistant straight man messaging us for bi fun the other night... he wasnt having it that we wouldnt enjoy him sucking cheffys cock and got quite abusive in the end. Its a pity coz we rarely need to use the block button.
No, you had a bi man who was posing as a straight man. Why do bi men keep doing this?
Someone needs a tissue.
You need a tissue, why?
For your issue.."
But your name is sue? It's fine, I won't diss you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To add a twist to your thread....
I get so many 'Straight' guys messaging and fabing my pix.
Why is that?
I think, not just on here, but in reality too, something's are always as they appear to be on the surface...
Nneka xx |
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Yes, the harrassment straight men get from gay/bi guys on here is absolutely disgraceful. Especially when straight women never get harrassed by straight single men in any way shape or form on here or in real life.  |
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