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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
oh a drop dead stunner that I loved any day sex is a comodity love a rareity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Now will people be honest! I'd rather be with someone compatible with me thus making us bith happy so number 2 is mire likely in this simplistic scenario. |
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"Answering for a man friend- he chooses the stunner that doesn't like sex. So his mates will think what a dude he is for having a hot girlfriend. "
I'm answering as a guy who's friend (a lovely bloke) IS married to a "stunner". Although the better I've come to know her, the less "attractive" she has become.
She's proved to be a manipulative, vile and bitter woman, who doesn't have a good word to say about anyone - apart from herself of course. She treats my mate like shite, and I actually feel sorry for him - and wouldn't swap places with him for anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone being a "stunner" is totally subjective. I've looked at numerous female supermodels and thought "meh" as I don't get the hype with them being 6ft tall, underweight, with granite jawlines/cheekbones.
Give me a cutie with "girl next door" looks, a great sense of humour and a nice smile & eyes every day of the week. If she's up for a cuddle as much as great passionate sex then you've got the package right there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
In the unlikely event that I was to marry again (had a wonderful woman who I adored and lost suddenly and would not want to settle for anything less)
Then I would want a woman I loved the rest is totally irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
I prefer to be married to Mrs Marmite, she's my stunner and also likes sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People can splutter about third options and love..but assuming its an either or between 2 women who are identical in every other meaningful measure .inteligence,aspirations,Sense of humour,interests etc
And the only devicive factor was the above mentioned then..
Hot chick loses. Ive been bored and frustrated with a stunner..it was no kind of fun |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
Me both, sometimes I feel so blessed.  |
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"Zzzzz shallow thread! "
It's actually the opposite, most men would rather fuck a pig with lipstick than put up with a pretty girl who wont put out whenever they want.
That's the opposite of shallow? |
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Marriage for me isn't just looks or libido. Of course attraction need to be there, libido can be worked on. But to spend the rest of your life with that one person takes many many more than that.
Happiness with just this one person is like trying to find a holy grail. Some are lucky and find it quite quick. Some search for years and still make mistakes. And I think that once I find it, neither looks or libido will matter as much as endless happiness.
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"OP, why doesn't this man have the option of marrying someone he loves? 
Let's say he's in love with both and has to make a decision. "
The final decision will be theirs. He can want to marry one of them, doesn’t mean one of them wants to marry him! |
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
I had a mate that had a seriously attractive partner, she walks in a room everyone looks.
It lasted a few years but the sex finished it off, she was no fun in bed according to my mate.
The bottom line is people settle with who they want, one mans wine is another’s poison!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Zzzzz shallow thread!
It's actually the opposite, most men would rather fuck a pig with lipstick than put up with a pretty girl who wont put out whenever they want.
That's the opposite of shallow?"
Yeah baby! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I was going to be married it would have to be to the girl who blew my mind made my body tremble and stole my soul.
The one who I thought of first when I woke in the morning and last before I drifted off the sleep at night...and who's life was worth far more than mine...
But then I've always been....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was going to be married it would have to be to the girl who blew my mind made my body tremble and stole my soul.
The one who I thought of first when I woke in the morning and last before I drifted off the sleep at night...and who's life was worth far more than mine...
But then I've always been....
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Full of crap?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I myself have a very high sex drive, but the person I meet and marry may have a low to middle sex drive.
I think it’s all down to how well you hit it off and catering to each other’s needs and mutual respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I'd date someone I found mediocre looking. Sex would just feel boring otherwise. Low sex drive doesn't bother me if they are up for swinging lol.
But they'd have to tick a few other boxes too. I'm fussy on who I date.
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
Miss avg with high sex drive anyday |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Love the place that wanting to have sex with that ultimate, special someone comes from and goes to, wherever that may lead to, I really couldn't live without that dynamic. I'd rather fall in love with the average looking than be left with an element of frustration due to aesthetics, that would eat away at me day by day and wouldn't want that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you prefer to be married to an absolute drop dead gorgeous stunner with a very low sex drive or an average looking girl who was rampant for sex every day?"
average looking girl  got a pretty & filthy Mrs so win win |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id pick the Ferrari. Who wants to drive an Astra. .... ??
You're forgetting the point that you wouldn't be driving the Ferrari very often.
Once a year to have it mot'd"
Haha he did miss the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Marriage for me isn't just looks or libido. Of course attraction need to be there, libido can be worked on. But to spend the rest of your life with that one person takes many many more than that.
Happiness with just this one person is like trying to find a holy grail. Some are lucky and find it quite quick. Some search for years and still make mistakes. And I think that once I find it, neither looks or libido will matter as much as endless happiness.
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Love this post.
Well said! |
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