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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need an opinion.
I've recently started seeing this girl at Uni who is just amazing! Both mentally and physically.
We have spoken a lot about our sexual preferences and what we like. We have been very open about things.
She's said she wants to try a threesome with another girl.
Please bare in mind I've had this account nearly 2 years. We are not in a relationship just FB.
I want to ask her is she wants to join this site as a couple with me. Any advice on how I could ask her this? I'm nervous Haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Explain that to have a threesome you'd have to join a site like fab and approach it that way. Just say let's just join and be nosy. Delete your profile on here and start a new one with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't delete your profile just hide it. You're verified by meeting and it would be difficult to get that again with a new profile.
If you've already been open with her just mention the site.  |
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You're not in a relationship, what's the problem with having a profile on here? Why not say you have a profile and it seems a good a place as any to look for a suitable woman to join you for a threesome from a joint profile.? |
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"Thanks for the advice. Guess the only way I can do it is if I just talk to her about it."
Yes it really is.
Look at it this way if you go in to Starbucks and just stand at the counter hinting that you want brown stuff in a mug you might get a cup of coffee but it probably won't be the exact coffee you want. There honestly is no substitute for open, respectful dialogue when it comes to sex. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice. Guess the only way I can do it is if I just talk to her about it.
Yes it really is.
Look at it this way if you go in to Starbucks and just stand at the counter hinting that you want brown stuff in a mug you might get a cup of coffee but it probably won't be the exact coffee you want. There honestly is no substitute for open, respectful dialogue when it comes to sex."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She doesn't know I'm on here. Think ill just hide my profile.
Think this might be a conversation after a few beers haha."
When you've spoken about your sexual presences before had you both had some drink then?
Best to talk about this kinda thing with both having clear heads |
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OP you really do just need to talk about it.
It would probably be best to tell the truth about you having a profile on here. The swinging community is pretty small so there is a possibility you could run into someone you've met before. It could be a bit awkward trying to explain after the fact.
You sound rather taken with this girl and if there is a possibility it may become more than just fb's you need to be honest with her from the start.
Is she bi or bi-curious? If not then her idea of a threesome would probably be 2 men rather than playing with another lady.
While you are talking it might be worth bringing up the possibility of going to a swinging club. It is much easier to meet others that way instead of relying on fab. |
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"Need an opinion.
I've recently started seeing this girl at Uni who is just amazing! Both mentally and physically.
We have spoken a lot about our sexual preferences and what we like. We have been very open about things.
She's said she wants to try a threesome with another girl.
Please bare in mind I've had this account nearly 2 years. We are not in a relationship just FB.
I want to ask her is she wants to join this site as a couple with me. Any advice on how I could ask her this? I'm nervous Haha! "
If it helps, this is how I got into swinging. I was seeing someone, we got to talking about fantasies. I had always wanted to play with another woman. Turns out he’d been swinging for years. A week or so later, there we were at Chams! 12 years later, here I still am  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP you really do just need to talk about it.
It would probably be best to tell the truth about you having a profile on here. The swinging community is pretty small so there is a possibility you could run into someone you've met before. It could be a bit awkward trying to explain after the fact.
You sound rather taken with this girl and if there is a possibility it may become more than just fb's you need to be honest with her from the start.
Is she bi or bi-curious? If not then her idea of a threesome would probably be 2 men rather than playing with another lady.
While you are talking it might be worth bringing up the possibility of going to a swinging club. It is much easier to meet others that way instead of relying on fab."
Yeah slightly taken by her. Haha! She's really sweet but also so so naughty!
The reason we started becoming FB was because on a night out I seen her kissing another girl. Me being me suggested a threesome and both girls were up for it. A little bit later the other girl dropped out.
She's 18 and I'm unsure if it would weird her out or not. We have a Sub/Dom relationship.
I think a day out and just drop it into conversation would be the best bet. Also telling her that I'm on here might put her mind at ease too.
She only wants to meet women at the moment. I don't think she is ready to have a threesome with another guy. She can barely hold herself together during our nights haha.
It's just new to me. I've never told anyone I'm on here before. Slightly nervous. |
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"OP you really do just need to talk about it.
It would probably be best to tell the truth about you having a profile on here. The swinging community is pretty small so there is a possibility you could run into someone you've met before. It could be a bit awkward trying to explain after the fact.
You sound rather taken with this girl and if there is a possibility it may become more than just fb's you need to be honest with her from the start.
Is she bi or bi-curious? If not then her idea of a threesome would probably be 2 men rather than playing with another lady.
While you are talking it might be worth bringing up the possibility of going to a swinging club. It is much easier to meet others that way instead of relying on fab.
Yeah slightly taken by her. Haha! She's really sweet but also so so naughty!
The reason we started becoming FB was because on a night out I seen her kissing another girl. Me being me suggested a threesome and both girls were up for it. A little bit later the other girl dropped out.
She's 18 and I'm unsure if it would weird her out or not. We have a Sub/Dom relationship.
I think a day out and just drop it into conversation would be the best bet. Also telling her that I'm on here might put her mind at ease too.
She only wants to meet women at the moment. I don't think she is ready to have a threesome with another guy. She can barely hold herself together during our nights haha.
It's just new to me. I've never told anyone I'm on here before. Slightly nervous. "
Honesty from the get go!
It definitely sounds like you could have more than just an FB relationship growing. Being honest about EVERYTHING right from the start and letting things progress at their own pace is the way to nurture a new, fun and exciting relationship in a non vanilla lifestyle |
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