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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?
It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.
Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?
Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ermmmm...
No.
I'm not sure if I'm open to a relationship anymore.
But if someone I really liked came along then I don't think I'd want to share them.
And the double standard here is that I don't think I could be monogamous either 
Also being on Fab and another hook up site back in the day has made me distrustful of people.
So I'm not sure if I'm looking for something more than sex elsewhere either - because most of them are on here cheating on their partners!
Yes it's cynical - but It's also realistic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?
It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.
Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?
Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "
I know two couples who married from meeting on these sites and many partnerships,many find it a more honest environment to find a life partner and those people really do take into consideration the veris  |
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I think it's entirely possible to meet someone on here, and go on to have a relationship, there's more than enough couples already as proof of that.
If you're compatible, enjoy the same things, respect each others choices, obviously don't have hang ups about this lifestyle, then it seems the ideal place (for those looking) to find a partner, probably more so than in the 'vanilla' world.
Imagine meeting your dream date, falling head over heels, telling him/her you're a swinger or give it up, but eventually tell them & getting dumped.
Finding someone on here seems quite logical to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to have a swinging relationship, I had one for 5 years when I was married and it would be my idea of heaven to make other couples for friends and to play alone as we did before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are regulars at Townhouse & know a few couples who have met at the club & got together ... I suppose, because it’s kind of like having a local pub where you can swing too, it’s a bit different than online meets, but it could definitely work!
There’s even a speed dating night in January at Townhouse - it’s the second one & it was loads of fun last time, even just for getting to know people!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?
It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.
Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?
Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "
I love the happy stories. 
I wouldn't have a relationship with anyone off here because I'm not the partner they're looking for. It's an intentional no way.
Also people will say anything for a fuck. Yes some are honest but I wouldn't believe them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely have a relationship with someone from Fab as opposed to someone from a dating site and I don’t mean for swinging relationship reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not. When i'm in a relationship i'm a one man woman and i expect to be the only woman in his life. I'd happily leave Fab and never come back. But I doubt many men who join this site, and who are truly single, would be happy to give up the adoration of the many females (because they usually have more than one gal on the go, to keep their options open), the tit pics, fanny pics, sexts, filthy emails, cam chats, skype, the thought of threesomes, moresomes, for just one woman on the off chance that their dating would lead somewhere.
Men see a single lady on here as an opportunity to get into clubs, to get access to couples, to fulfill their fantasies of FFM. They don't think she looks like a lass i could settle down with and live happily ever after with.
Although i'm happy to be proved wrong.
And yes folk do meet and marry on here, but they usually go on to have couple profiles.
I wouldn't want that. I'm not here to "swing" i'm here to fill the gap in my sex life until i meet a man i can see myself dating and who's willing to keep his dick just for me.
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If I really got on with them and fancied them and we decided to be 'exclusive' or have a vanilla relationship then I probably would.
On the other hand, if I'd read them in the forums or in chat or read their 'history' in veris........ it could make me think twice...... or cement the deal.
No vanilla relationship has such an insight to each other. |
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Yes I definitely would albeit cautiously. I had a swinging relationship with my ex but he still lied and cheated
I’m not sure someone vanilla would really ‘get’ me enough to have a sustainable relationship. If I told them the kind of things I do and like they’d say I’m a freak. I am but hey I’m a nice freak  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would definitely have a relationship with someone from Fab as opposed to someone from a dating site and I don’t mean for swinging relationship reasons non fab date ? "
Love to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I really got on with them and fancied them and we decided to be 'exclusive' or have a vanilla relationship then I probably would.
On the other hand, if I'd read them in the forums or in chat or read their 'history' in veris........ it could make me think twice...... or cement the deal.
No vanilla relationship has such an insight to each other. "
awwww I love vanilla ice cream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?
It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.
Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?
Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "
I wouldn’t ringfence in advance where I would or would not look for someone.
If I met someone I would like to have a relationship with, who clicked and sparked with me and we wanted to organically explore it on a deeper level, both with the same intent — then I’d want to do that whether via this site or not. The site doesn’t dictate the person and there are many different people on this site, the dynamic between me and the person is what is important. |
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"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this
You love who you love 
Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor "
Something about planes? Another invitation happened  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this
You love who you love
Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor
Something about planes? Another invitation happened "
I’m leaving on a jet plane!! |
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IF I was open to a relationship, it most likely would be with a fellow Fabber. I'd want to be completely honest with someone and build the relationship on a foundation of mutual respect and trust. If I were to start dating someone vanilla seriously, I'd already be lying by keeping my Fab history from them and that's no way to begin something.
But I'm not open to one anyway...
So its a moot point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined Fab for sex initially but since the summer my views have changed a little in the way that I have found myself enjoying the social side more especialy when you get into full conversation with someone that you share a mutual atraction with and the chemistry is there too.
So with that I would say that I would be very much open to the idea of getting into a relationship with someone I've met through Fab  |
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"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this
You love who you love
Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor
Something about planes? Another invitation happened
I’m leaving on a jet plane!! "
It almost happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"IF I was open to a relationship, it most likely would be with a fellow Fabber. I'd want to be completely honest with someone and build the relationship on a foundation of mutual respect and trust. If I were to start dating someone vanilla seriously, I'd already be lying by keeping my Fab history from them and that's no way to begin something.
But I'm not open to one anyway...
So its a moot point "
sensing their may be room for manouvre |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not looking for a relationship at the moment but that doesn’t mean something won’t happen and I’d rather they were sexual and open minded than not
I certainly wouldn’t rule out someone from Fab |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?
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I'm open minded to it but (from what couples have said)swinging relationships just seem like too much hard work |
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"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?
It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.
Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?
Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "
Definitely open to it.
First and foremost I want to meet someone who is sexual. A girl being on Fab, would imply to me that she is.
Good start.
That's the trouble with the conventional dating sites, you can't ask this stuff from the outset.
It's important. |
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