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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What the hell are you doing on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time. "

Whatever for?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hmm interesting,is that just for a short period or forever? I don’t know the answer sorry.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time. "

Are you on the right site?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

There probably is a way but here isn't the place to find out. I'd recommend seeing your gp in the first place.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"There probably is a way but here isn't the place to find out. I'd recommend seeing your gp in the first place."

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hmm, yeah I get that this really isn't the place for such a question lol, but it's late and I thought I'd try.

I did have a therapist for a while but it seemed she didn't care/understand so I stopped going.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Genuinely fascinated as to the why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's a problem that I need to go away.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Hmm, yeah I get that this really isn't the place for such a question lol, but it's late and I thought I'd try.

I did have a therapist for a while but it seemed she didn't care/understand so I stopped going.

There's always an option to change therapists.

Why do you feel the need to suppress all sexual urges?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I've removed posts. The op hasn't asked for profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Didn't they used to put Bromide in male prisoners tea to suppress sexual urges?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh, well I suppose I didn't but I'm not averse to criticism, most people are nice and don't mean to be nasty.

Thanks for your time, I'll have to see another therapist then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Didn't they used to put Bromide in male prisoners tea to suppress sexual urges?"

interesting.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Didn't they used to put Bromide in male prisoners tea to suppress sexual urges?

interesting. "

I don't know if it had any adverse effects on them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process. "

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass. "

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido. "

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dare I ask why you want to do this? Why is libido s problem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long. "

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?"

Keeping myself busy seems to be my best current solution - though i'm still having a hard time. I run a business and have 5 employees so I haven't been sitting around squandering my time (which makes the problem a thousand times worse). When I come home from work I go to the gym for an hour and then I'm working again until I go to bed.

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough. "

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough. "

As mentioned before, you ought to visit your GP, this is obviously bothering you and they can refer you on. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though."

I'll ask for a male therapist this time, I hate to sound sexist but I don't think most women can understand the problem. It seemed to go straight over her head and she trivialised it into something it wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though.

I'll ask for a male therapist this time, I hate to sound sexist but I don't think women most can understand the problem. It seemed to go straight over her head and she trivialised it into something it wasn't. "

You could be right. Male and female sexual urges are entirely different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though.

You could be right. Male and female sexual urges are entirely different. "

They must be yeah.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though.

You could be right. Male and female sexual urges are entirely different.

They must be yeah. "

Well, I hope you get your problem resolved. You're probably not helping yourself by being on a site specifically aimed at sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you feel that you're addicted to sex, several organisations recommend a 12-step programme. It's apparently the same kind of principles that alcoholics anonymous recommend for those with drink problems.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though.

You could be right. Male and female sexual urges are entirely different.

They must be yeah.

Well, I hope you get your problem resolved. You're probably not helping yourself by being on a site specifically aimed at sex."

I should have deleted my profile a long time ago - but there's always that tiny glimmer of false hope that stops me from thinking straight. It's part of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good bout of depression can suppress libido.

As can the aging process.

I'm not so sure about the first part but I don't know if I can wait until I'm old for this to pass.

I'm 52 and I haven't had a reduced libido.

I imagine it probably doesn't taper off until old age. There's no way I'm waiting that long.

I think you'll find it difficult to stop thinking about sex entirely. You need something to keep you very busy and tired.

Or hypnotherapy maybe?

You're right, it does help but somehow it's not enough.

More therapy then? The next therapist may also think you don't have a problem though.

You could be right. Male and female sexual urges are entirely different.

They must be yeah.

Well, I hope you get your problem resolved. You're probably not helping yourself by being on a site specifically aimed at sex.

I should have deleted my profile a long time ago - but there's always that tiny glimmer of false hope that stops me from thinking straight. It's part of the problem. "

Hope for what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time. "

There is another thread with someone asking how to grow boobs.

The answer is the same in both cases.

HRT could solve both of your issues but could also pose health risks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you feel that you're addicted to sex, several organisations recommend a 12-step programme. It's apparently the same kind of principles that alcoholics anonymous recommend for those with drink problems."

Umm, I wouldn't know....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time.

There is another thread with someone asking how to grow boobs.

The answer is the same in both cases.

HRT could solve both of your issues but could also pose health risks."

I ran test for some time and noticed no change to libido.

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By *oubyLoverWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time. "

I’ve asked the same question a couple of times and never found one answer that works. And I know exactly why it’s an issue you want to get rid of even if others don’t! Keep busy or get depressed as given above or the big one is find connection with other people. Not superficial but deeper. Do you ever have periods of normal or no libido? If you do maybe consider if you could have bipolar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time.

I haven't been very clear about my motives behind this because I know what happens if I was.

I'm not bipolar - I'm just a normal dude with a libido, which would be fine except that it isn't.

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By *oubyLoverWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

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By *oubyLoverWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Hi folks,

does anyone know if it's possible to completely suppress sexual urges? I want to purge this instinct completely and wondered if anyone has experience doing this.

Thanks for your time.

I haven't been very clear about my motives behind this because I know what happens if I was.

I'm not bipolar - I'm just a normal dude with a libido, which would be fine except that it isn't."

What happens if you are?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Umm, I wouldn't know...."

What do you mean? You're looking for a way to suppress sexual urges. The 12-step programme is what's recommended to those who want to be able to do that.

Sex addiction 12 step. Google it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some antidepressants kill libido. So can the pill but that's no use sorry OP. Maybe speak to a male doctor. Good luck.

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By *am DavisMan over a year ago

Dunstable

im on fluxetine and it absolutely kills my labido

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

You can be chemically castrated...

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By *am DavisMan over a year ago

Dunstable

"You can be chemically castrated..."
bit drastic!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it a clue?

I know, the answer is wife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can be chemically castrated...bit drastic! "

Is it?

OP wants to purge himself of sexual urges. Chemical castration does (or is supposed to) do just that without need need to remove things.

OP, if your therapist Trivialised your issue then they were a shit therapist, try a clinical psychologist. There are CP's working in the sexual field. Might be difficult to get an Nhs referral to one though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it a clue?

I know, the answer is wife "

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

For me, I can judge my level of mental health by my libido.

As I get a bit stressed in life, my libido and urges go up and it can be all I think about and want.

If however things get too stressed, if in a constant high level, almost to the depression stage, then there is no desire at all.

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