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Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why? |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?"
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting. "
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something."
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me "
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me "
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something."
It does in the case of HPV and herpes. Other things are much more proportional to the type of people you play with rather than the quantity. |
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"It's because they are frustrated!! They're on a swingers site because they want to get laid, and still can't manage it  "
So generous coming from a single lady on fab |
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"Why do people get so angry on social media and on here when they disagree  "
because they can't debate its their way or no way ,people form opinions of you based on your posts and block you for it but hey how can you miss somebody you've never chatted to lol  |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's."
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that. "
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. "
being in favour of testing is fine its sensible and its your right but every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one ,just a thought to savour |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. "
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz... |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz..."
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting. "
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk? |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz...calm .....deep breaths .....laugh"
I’m trying, I’m trying... hold my beer  |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual."
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs  "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. being in favour of testing is fine its sensible and its your right but every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one ,just a thought to savour "
True and hence if that risk puts you off then there's always the priesthood |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz...calm .....deep breaths .....laugh
I’m trying, I’m trying... hold my beer "
I've got it ......i sipped it mind  |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok."
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. being in favour of testing is fine its sensible and its your right but every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one ,just a thought to savour
True and hence if that risk puts you off then there's always the priesthood "
sorry but priests don't have a good image these days |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. being in favour of testing is fine its sensible and its your right but every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one ,just a thought to savour
True and hence if that risk puts you off then there's always the priesthood sorry but priests don't have a good image these days "
I second that |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz..."
Your view point on clubs and sti is yours and you're entitled to have it.
However I would feel much safer going to a club and meeting another swinger who cares about their sexual health compared to picking your average Joe public bloke up in a nightclub at the end of a d*unk evening who is willing to fuck anything and probably has the previous weeks. He probably goes bareback and has no clue about what an sti is  |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz...
Your view point on clubs and sti is yours and you're entitled to have it.
However I would feel much safer going to a club and meeting another swinger who cares about their sexual health compared to picking your average Joe public bloke up in a nightclub at the end of a d*unk evening who is willing to fuck anything and probably has the previous weeks. He probably goes bareback and has no clue about what an sti is "
Thank you and I won’t have a go at you
And that’s true one night stands are the same with any joe public or joe blogs |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?"
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it "
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz...
Your view point on clubs and sti is yours and you're entitled to have it.
However I would feel much safer going to a club and meeting another swinger who cares about their sexual health compared to picking your average Joe public bloke up in a nightclub at the end of a d*unk evening who is willing to fuck anything and probably has the previous weeks. He probably goes bareback and has no clue about what an sti is "
only a fool doesn't care about his health but as I said every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one |
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We started swinging just over a year ago (a couple for 11yrs) so never needed to used protection other than birth control but after a few in the moment risks i/we caught a sti (clamidia) which was easy treated and other two party's informed. So yeah more risk definitely but lessons learned |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual."
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums.. |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?"
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job"
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that? |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz...
Your view point on clubs and sti is yours and you're entitled to have it.
However I would feel much safer going to a club and meeting another swinger who cares about their sexual health compared to picking your average Joe public bloke up in a nightclub at the end of a d*unk evening who is willing to fuck anything and probably has the previous weeks. He probably goes bareback and has no clue about what an sti is only a fool doesn't care about his health but as I said every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one "
There's plenty of fools in the world though |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps "
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are. |
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over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums.."
you know what's going to happen in the future don't you ,clubs who are subject to H&S will be asking to see sexual health certificates and not allowing you entry and shortly after closing down through lack of use ,this preoccupation we have of analysing everything until its boring is ruining life don't you think |
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over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums.."
Exactly this
I have read SO many threads on here recently implying that swingers are more at risk of sti's
The logic behind some of them is at best naive, at worst, frankly laughable ( not to mention scary)
And how many people say they are 'clean' on their profiles?
It means bugger all |
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over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are."
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Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual."
That doesn't apply if I go to a club and have sex with random strangers. |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here. "
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that? "
I'm just leaving at it people can use the green arrow and see what you said and the context it was said in. I wasn't even one of the many people who ripped into you. I can understand why they did. If you can't then... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums..
Exactly this
I have read SO many threads on here recently implying that swingers are more at risk of sti's
The logic behind some of them is at best naive, at worst, frankly laughable ( not to mention scary)
And how many people say they are 'clean' on their profiles?
It means bugger all"
I won’t say bugger all but seeing the profile and asking before meeting minimises the risk ofcourse it’s never zero unless you take extra measures
Can’t say the same about clubs where it increases the risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums..
Exactly this
I have read SO many threads on here recently implying that swingers are more at risk of sti's
The logic behind some of them is at best naive, at worst, frankly laughable ( not to mention scary)
And how many people say they are 'clean' on their profiles?
It means bugger all"
Fully agree,sex with a stranger is sex with a stranger. Club, car park, beach or any other place, STI risks are the same but I will feel, and probably will be safest in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning."
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour.
Not defensive?! You even accused me of something I didn’t say on a completely different forum lol jeeeezzzz...
Your view point on clubs and sti is yours and you're entitled to have it.
However I would feel much safer going to a club and meeting another swinger who cares about their sexual health compared to picking your average Joe public bloke up in a nightclub at the end of a d*unk evening who is willing to fuck anything and probably has the previous weeks. He probably goes bareback and has no clue about what an sti is only a fool doesn't care about his health but as I said every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one
There's plenty of fools in the world though "
very true but surely its better to look at people in general from a positive stance ,wish them well and move on ,my experience of this place and this world is that when you meet a person they are totally different from their written word |
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over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums..
Exactly this
I have read SO many threads on here recently implying that swingers are more at risk of sti's
The logic behind some of them is at best naive, at worst, frankly laughable ( not to mention scary)
And how many people say they are 'clean' on their profiles?
It means bugger all
I won’t say bugger all but seeing the profile and asking before meeting minimises the risk ofcourse it’s never zero unless you take extra measures
Can’t say the same about clubs where it increases the risk "
Like a previous poster said, try zooming out a bit
And looking at what you've just said a bit more logically
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You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read "
I've read all of your comments. You don't say why, you just say they are. I'm asking you to explain briefly why you think that. |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read "
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
"
Story of this thread:
- man baits swingers
- swingers get angry
- man starts thread complaining about angry swingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums..
Exactly this
I have read SO many threads on here recently implying that swingers are more at risk of sti's
The logic behind some of them is at best naive, at worst, frankly laughable ( not to mention scary)
And how many people say they are 'clean' on their profiles?
It means bugger all
I won’t say bugger all but seeing the profile and asking before meeting minimises the risk ofcourse it’s never zero unless you take extra measures
Can’t say the same about clubs where it increases the risk "
I'm not sure that clubs increase the risks in any way more than any other sexual situation,I think regularity of sex with different partners increases the risk and unless you go to a sexual health clinic and get certified everyday how can anyone be sure of anything? |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Story of this thread:
- man baits swingers
- swingers get angry
- man starts thread complaining about angry swingers "
The circle of life
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
Swingers become very defensive when you talk about Sti's.
Personally you'll see me arguing in favour of testing, in fabour of asking people about their testing and in favour of sharing test results. I'm a swinger and that's not defensive behaviour. being in favour of testing is fine its sensible and its your right but every precaution in the world won't stop you getting one ,just a thought to savour
True and hence if that risk puts you off then there's always the priesthood sorry but priests don't have a good image these days "
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"Cos thay are haveing a bad day mabey ?
Definitely lol have you found a wife yet? Nice to see you again
Nop still single with lots of money. "
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over a year ago
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You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
I've read all of your comments. You don't say why, you just say they are. I'm asking you to explain briefly why you think that."
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Cos thay are haveing a bad day mabey ?
Definitely lol have you found a wife yet? Nice to see you again
Nop still single with lots of money.
That being said you will be bombarded with proposals "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
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Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Story of this thread:
- man baits swingers
- swingers get angry
- man starts thread complaining about angry swingers
The circle of life
Its quite sweet really"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
This theory falls down when you zoom out a little bit. Who has your partner met, who has there partners met who has there partners partners met...you see my point?.
Clubs can often be a case of regular members think of it like the forums if you like, a lot of people get to know each other so to go in irresponsibly i.e not being regularly checked and being as safe as is possible would be social suicide.
And furthermore a lot of members we have spoke to in our local club actually find themselves having sex in clubs much less when they become a regular member(ourselves included) as it becomes friends getting together and catching up. Again like the amount of forum users that come here only for the forums..
Exactly this
I have read SO many threads on here recently implying that swingers are more at risk of sti's
The logic behind some of them is at best naive, at worst, frankly laughable ( not to mention scary)
And how many people say they are 'clean' on their profiles?
It means bugger all
I won’t say bugger all but seeing the profile and asking before meeting minimises the risk ofcourse it’s never zero unless you take extra measures
Can’t say the same about clubs where it increases the risk I'm not sure that clubs increase the risks in any way more than any other sexual situation,I think regularity of sex with different partners increases the risk and unless you go to a sexual health clinic and get certified everyday how can anyone be sure of anything? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Story of this thread:
- man baits swingers
- swingers get angry
- man starts thread complaining about angry swingers
The circle of life
Its quite sweet really
It won't be the last time that a man gets into trouble because of too much baiting. "
Lol you are still having a go.. this time I’m accused of baiting.. well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Story of this thread:
- man baits swingers
- swingers get angry
- man starts thread complaining about angry swingers "
it always takes a minimum of two people to create an argument/disagreement/baiting etc how often does a typo or wrongly worded statement create a negative here ,quite often in my experience |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller "
Looking forward to the future then op clubs may be ideal for you..
Less time for people to get to know you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that? "
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?"
He's more passive aggressive really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller
Looking forward to the future then op clubs may be ideal for you..
Less time for people to get to know you
"
I can see why you are very much in favour of clubs now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really"
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller
Looking forward to the future then op clubs may be ideal for you..
Less time for people to get to know you
I can see why you are very much in favour of clubs now
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We certainly are we get to meet swingers from all walks of life not just people living a..oh what's the word it's slipped my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller
Looking forward to the future then op clubs may be ideal for you..
Less time for people to get to know you
I can see why you are very much in favour of clubs now
We certainly are we get to meet swingers from all walks of life not just people living a..oh what's the word it's slipped my mind."
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol"
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B. |
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller
Looking forward to the future then op clubs may be ideal for you..
Less time for people to get to know you
I can see why you are very much in favour of clubs now
We certainly are we get to meet swingers from all walks of life not just people living a..oh what's the word it's slipped my mind.
So not less time for people to know you then? "
No we don't find we need that ability;)
Anyway my man duty calls i hope i helped feed your troll qouta for the day and warm fuzzies were had all round.
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over a year ago
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I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
Makes no sense to me.
We might meet once a month. Generally at a club. We play safe, same as on a private meet.
Can you explain your thought process in how club go-ers are higher risk?
It’s obvious and have been mentioned on this thread that it’s no different from sleeping with somebody after a night out. Hope this helps
No it's not obvious at all. How exactly is a club go-er higher risk than somebody who swings privately? Just explain what you think the differences are.
You are just in denial and refuse to read what’s been said already on here.
I'm not denying anything. Most of the thread is an argument. Just bullet point your reasons why club go-ers are at higher risk than other swingers. I might agree with your reasoning.
The thread you call argument lists reasons you just have to read
Whenever i see someone baiting like this it always make me think they have nothing to say to "win" the debate and hope to aggravate the other guy enough they just give in.
Then they can walk away looking smug mentally high fiving themselves..
...not saying that's you of course.
Errmm that’s exactly me I knew they will all come on here and have a go at me for what I said few days ago. I’m a future teller
Looking forward to the future then op clubs may be ideal for you..
Less time for people to get to know you
I can see why you are very much in favour of clubs now
We certainly are we get to meet swingers from all walks of life not just people living a..oh what's the word it's slipped my mind.
So not less time for people to know you then?
No we don't find we need that ability;)
Anyway my man duty calls i hope i helped feed your troll qouta for the day and warm fuzzies were had all round.
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B."
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case "
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns"
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up? |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?"
Don't forget to go for yours too. |
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"Back to the OP. The reason people get angry is because they think you are having a go at them.
Then they realise it's trolling and ignore "
They should ignore before they get angry |
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"Back to the OP. The reason people get angry is because they think you are having a go at them.
Then they realise it's trolling and ignore
They should ignore before they get angry "
True. I think some people (me included) argue back, then realise what is happening. It's fun for trolls at first, but once people know who they are, they will ignore straight off. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?
Don't forget to go for yours too. "
I wont
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?
Don't forget to go for yours too.
I wont
I'll do it tomorrow on the way to the pub, to get lashed on cheap gin"
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"Back to the OP. The reason people get angry is because they think you are having a go at them.
Then they realise it's trolling and ignore
They should ignore before they get angry
True. I think some people (me included) argue back, then realise what is happening. It's fun for trolls at first, but once people know who they are, they will ignore straight off."
So funny you think I’m a troll but you aren’t |
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I think swingers in general are more clued up about all the risks and are pretty sensible with it, even those pesky club goers. I've had more discussions about being careful here than ever before.
Many, many moons ago when I was young and carefree non of my sexual experiences were with any sort of protection, was hardly even considered, more fool me, (I'm still here, in rude health) but I think the 'general public' in their d*unken glory are more likely to be ignorant regarding sti's.
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I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one |
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"Back to the OP. The reason people get angry is because they think you are having a go at them.
Then they realise it's trolling and ignore
They should ignore before they get angry
True. I think some people (me included) argue back, then realise what is happening. It's fun for trolls at first, but once people know who they are, they will ignore straight off.
So funny you think I’m a troll but you aren’t "
I dis-agree with people ande xplain my logic.
Just saying the same thing over and again, and re-starting threads with the intention of winding people up is trolling.
There's a difference.
The forum only has so many users, and most trolls quickly become known, and people soon ignore them. |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one "
Just don't sit down you'll be fine |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?
Don't forget to go for yours too.
I wont
I'll do it tomorrow on the way to the pub, to get lashed on cheap gin"
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
Just don't sit down you'll be fine "
Hover? |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one "
And you'll be (possibly) putting your fingers and tongue in places that will be wet and warm. |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
Just don't sit down you'll be fine "
You know what he means.. he comments with logic and you are making jokes |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one "
That's interesting. Genuine question, have you been to a club? Lot's of people imagine them to be lawless orgies. In fact in the play areas, lots of people only play with the partner they came with, and swapping is between people who've met previously or in the bar. So you might have a room with 20 people in it, but it isn't one big orgy, it's lots of small groups all playing side by side.
We've not seen bareback in a UK club either, except between people who are playing just as a couple.
We are as cautios as anyone, but don't think we've ever felt we would accidently get other peoples fluids on / in us.
Worth having a visit, just to see. |
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"Back to the OP. The reason people get angry is because they think you are having a go at them.
Then they realise it's trolling and ignore
They should ignore before they get angry
True. I think some people (me included) argue back, then realise what is happening. It's fun for trolls at first, but once people know who they are, they will ignore straight off.
So funny you think I’m a troll but you aren’t
I dis-agree with people ande xplain my logic.
Just saying the same thing over and again, and re-starting threads with the intention of winding people up is trolling.
There's a difference.
The forum only has so many users, and most trolls quickly become known, and people soon ignore them."
you do learn a lot about people on these threads. Much better than veris. |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
That's interesting. Genuine question, have you been to a club? Lot's of people imagine them to be lawless orgies. In fact in the play areas, lots of people only play with the partner they came with, and swapping is between people who've met previously or in the bar. So you might have a room with 20 people in it, but it isn't one big orgy, it's lots of small groups all playing side by side.
We've not seen bareback in a UK club either, except between people who are playing just as a couple.
We are as cautios as anyone, but don't think we've ever felt we would accidently get other peoples fluids on / in us.
Worth having a visit, just to see."
There is still a higher risk of cross contamination, because of the amount of people using the facilities, and not everyone cleans up after themselves. |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
That's interesting. Genuine question, have you been to a club? Lot's of people imagine them to be lawless orgies. In fact in the play areas, lots of people only play with the partner they came with, and swapping is between people who've met previously or in the bar. So you might have a room with 20 people in it, but it isn't one big orgy, it's lots of small groups all playing side by side.
We've not seen bareback in a UK club either, except between people who are playing just as a couple.
We are as cautios as anyone, but don't think we've ever felt we would accidently get other peoples fluids on / in us.
Worth having a visit, just to see."
i never assumed it would be a big orgies or people playing bareback what people do with themselves doesn't concern me but i think its far more likely to find seamen and vaginal discharge on places like door handles railings and taps in the swingers club as opposed to a normal one |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
That's interesting. Genuine question, have you been to a club? Lot's of people imagine them to be lawless orgies. In fact in the play areas, lots of people only play with the partner they came with, and swapping is between people who've met previously or in the bar. So you might have a room with 20 people in it, but it isn't one big orgy, it's lots of small groups all playing side by side.
We've not seen bareback in a UK club either, except between people who are playing just as a couple.
We are as cautios as anyone, but don't think we've ever felt we would accidently get other peoples fluids on / in us.
Worth having a visit, just to see.
There is still a higher risk of cross contamination, because of the amount of people using the facilities, and not everyone cleans up after themselves. "
I'd agree in theory. But the chances of putting your pussy straight down into a pool of fluid would be pretty slim  . I agree there are some lazy / selfish people who don't clean up. Most good clubs have someone going round checking things are reasonably in order, and if not you can ask them or give the bed a quick spray / wipe. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?
Don't forget to go for yours too.
I wont
I'll do it tomorrow on the way to the pub, to get lashed on cheap gin
It's Christmas. Splash out on the good stuff."
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
That's interesting. Genuine question, have you been to a club? Lot's of people imagine them to be lawless orgies. In fact in the play areas, lots of people only play with the partner they came with, and swapping is between people who've met previously or in the bar. So you might have a room with 20 people in it, but it isn't one big orgy, it's lots of small groups all playing side by side.
We've not seen bareback in a UK club either, except between people who are playing just as a couple.
We are as cautios as anyone, but don't think we've ever felt we would accidently get other peoples fluids on / in us.
Worth having a visit, just to see."
This is true mate; the perceived image of what happens inside a swingers’ club is often far from the reality. I’ve been to three different clubs now, and have found them to be genuinely an ‘anti-climax’. I can honestly say I’ve not even had the joy of an erection in any of them An experience though, you should try it |
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Worth having a visit, just to see. i never assumed it would be a big orgies or people playing bareback what people do with themselves doesn't concern me but i think its far more likely to find seamen and vaginal discharge on places like door handles railings and taps in the swingers club as opposed to a normal one "
Oh, if your talking about the difference in a swingers club and a normal nightclub
I think you'd be pretty safe the door handles are spunk free though
It would be minging if that was the case, although I've never witnessed anything like that, but if a door handle did have pussy juice on it (that's another thread ! ) you'll not catch anything. |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?
Don't forget to go for yours too.
I wont
I'll do it tomorrow on the way to the pub, to get lashed on cheap gin
It's Christmas. Splash out on the good stuff.
I've used that to clean the scabs off my fanny"
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I wont
I'll do it tomorrow on the way to the pub, to get lashed on cheap gin
It's Christmas. Splash out on the good stuff.
I've used that to clean the scabs off my fanny"
Typical minging club go-er |
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"I personally think id be a more risk of std in the swinging club as oppose to a normal one just on the fact that im more likely to come intact with bodily fluids at a swingers club than a normal one
Just don't sit down you'll be fine
You know what he means.. he comments with logic and you are making jokes "
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Worth having a visit, just to see. i never assumed it would be a big orgies or people playing bareback what people do with themselves doesn't concern me but i think its far more likely to find seamen and vaginal discharge on places like door handles railings and taps in the swingers club as opposed to a normal one
Oh, if your talking about the difference in a swingers club and a normal nightclub
I think you'd be pretty safe the door handles are spunk free though
It would be minging if that was the case, although I've never witnessed anything like that, but if a door handle did have pussy juice on it (that's another thread ! ) you'll not catch anything."
I still wouldn't trust the nuts on the bar though |
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"Swingers are broadly aware that society at large thinks they are disgusting. It's nice to have a little space in the world called fab swingers where swingers can be honest about their lifestyle, that they probably hide from family, colleagues and neighbours. So when people come into that space and start saying that people who have sex in clubs are disgusting then it sort of triggers them. Can you understand why?
I still think club goers are higher risk of catching STIs.. I never said disgusting.
I agree with you on that. If they are regular visitors and don't only have sex with a partner.
More contact with more people equals more chances to catch something.
Thank you, that’s what I said on a STI thread and people keep on having a go at me
You didn't explicitly use the word disgusting but you're very much playing down what you implied. Nobody really understands your point because most swingers on fab also go to clubs. It's perfectly reasonable to want to minimise your risk of STDs but joining a swinging website isn't the best way to do that.
If I didn’t use the word then how can you accuse me of that? See my point about people get angry? Stop putting words on forums that I didn’t use
Swinging website is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and you know who you are meeting and ask and plan.. so it’s very much like dating but sexual.
You said:
"I don’t get how people have sex at clubs "
So this thread is about your confusion why people get angry when you look down on them. Ok.
Yes it’s true I don’t get it and I don’t look down on them. I just shared my view on a forum and you can’t get over it
Ok well i tried to explain . I failed. Maybe someone else will do a better job
Next time maybe try without accusing of someone they didn’t say and try not to say “look down” when I clearly don’t.
I can do a better job.. you can go to clubs despite me having a different view. How about that?
Seems to me that its you getting angry ?
He's more passive aggressive really
I’m literally laughing with anger lol
If you said "i think people who go to clubs have higher risk of STDs" then nobody would have had a go at you. The fact that you make a statement implying a reasonable person wouldn't go to a club is why they did. You're pretending not to understand because you seem to enjoy trying to prove your point. Whether you are right or not depends on the STD being discussed, yes swingers get more chlamydia, HPV and herpes. Not they don't get more HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B.
I rest my case
Most heterosexual sexually active people get HPV at some point in their lives. Many have it and dont even know
The body's own immune system usually deals with it
Its transmitted through sperm, so the only people who arent at risk, are lesbian nuns
In fact OP, there's every chance you have it now
Might be time for a check up?
Don't forget to go for yours too.
I wont
I'll do it tomorrow on the way to the pub, to get lashed on cheap gin
It's Christmas. Splash out on the good stuff.
I've used that to clean the scabs off my fanny"
Picking them off is more satisfying. |
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Worth having a visit, just to see. i never assumed it would be a big orgies or people playing bareback what people do with themselves doesn't concern me but i think its far more likely to find seamen and vaginal discharge on places like door handles railings and taps in the swingers club as opposed to a normal one
Oh, if your talking about the difference in a swingers club and a normal nightclub
I think you'd be pretty safe the door handles are spunk free though
It would be minging if that was the case, although I've never witnessed anything like that, but if a door handle did have pussy juice on it (that's another thread ! ) you'll not catch anything.
I still wouldn't trust the nuts on the bar though "
No, I still remember the 22 different samples of urine test... |
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I think you'd be pretty safe the door handles are spunk free though
It would be minging if that was the case, although I've never witnessed anything like that, but if a door handle did have pussy juice on it (that's another thread ! ) you'll not catch anything.
I still wouldn't trust the nuts on the bar though "
Haha, well, there's the nuts on the bar, the nuts at the bar and the nuts on the nuts at the bar |
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