 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Really getting fed up and so glad I'm hibernating at the moment and not meeting because some men and couples on here assume that if you start replying messages with interest to meet that you will do it today and they will book at hotel.
Never assume that a meet is going to be anything but a coffee.
Tuesday rant over! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yes a lot of men do seem to think if you reply to them they are guaranteed a fk. XXX"
Oh that happens both ways. Apparently I am obligated to put out merely because I should be grateful for being selected to receive a ladies attention  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone. "
I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Somebody asked me what my idea of a social is the other day and if he should book a hotel.
Presumptuous men make my fanny close up!!! "
Lol am sorry but that made me laugh out loud in my office, now folk are looking at me funny |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone. "
What type of coffee? I've been know to get aroused from the aromas of something quite gorgeous.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Somebody asked me what my idea of a social is the other day and if he should book a hotel.
Presumptuous men make my fanny close up!!! "
We should go for a coffee so I can see your fanny close up 
Oh hang on, shut rather than near. Carry on  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.
I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge. "
Hold out for a Premier Inn.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I cant deal with it.. i clearly say i want a social first as i had a bad meet thats made me nervous.. but theyre stil trying to get me to come over to theirs where they cam "get to know [me] more intimately"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We’re pretty old fashioned and boring. We prefer getting to know people first and building a rapport before any naughty stuff. The journey is just as important as the destination. The anticipation builds eroticism.
Ed |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Same for some men though, just because there are less women than men doesn’t mean I’m going to fuck just anyone. Have even been told I should be grateful hahaha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.
I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge. "
I don't understand what the problem is.
If someone said that to me I'd just say no it's coffee only. If they hinted at anything sexual again I'd just say sorry we're not compatible.
We want different things. No point me wasting their time. If they can't respect my wishes on something so simple I certainly wouldn't trust them enough to have sex with them! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.
What type of coffee? I've been know to get aroused from the aromas of something quite gorgeous. "
Aldi own brand.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ax1971Man
over a year ago
St helens |
"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?
I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.
I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge.
I love socials a nice coffee with a beautiful woman some good chat and to see if that spark is there. ..
That's if any women come out of hibernation... lol. .
I don't understand what the problem is.
If someone said that to me I'd just say no it's coffee only. If they hinted at anything sexual again I'd just say sorry we're not compatible.
We want different things. No point me wasting their time. If they can't respect my wishes on something so simple I certainly wouldn't trust them enough to have sex with them!"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
under my rock cleethorpes |
It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away "
You went to the woods alone with someone that already ignored your wishes? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
under my rock cleethorpes |
"It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away
You went to the woods alone with someone that already ignored your wishes?"
I was new and stupid, I definitely learned from it the hard way, I was lucky he didnt do more, it could have been a lot worse |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away
You went to the woods alone with someone that already ignored your wishes?
I was new and stupid, I definitely learned from it the hard way, I was lucky he didnt do more, it could have been a lot worse "
Glad you're ok. Good to learn. x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Message I received the other day;
"Hello just read your profile & yes it's very good to be picky as I am the same + alway safe sex if they can't provide anything then it's a no go & a good buy.
You seem very genuine & I would like to see & meet up as soon as possible and when are you free?
Fucking presumptuous women, learn some manners! (and how to construct a sentence) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Message I received the other day;
"Hello just read your profile & yes it's very good to be picky as I am the same + alway safe sex if they can't provide anything then it's a no go & a good buy.
You seem very genuine & I would like to see & meet up as soon as possible and when are you free?
Fucking presumptuous women, learn some manners! (and how to construct a sentence) "
That was from a man!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Message I received the other day;
"Hello just read your profile & yes it's very good to be picky as I am the same + alway safe sex if they can't provide anything then it's a no go & a good buy.
You seem very genuine & I would like to see & meet up as soon as possible and when are you free?
Fucking presumptuous women, learn some manners! (and how to construct a sentence)
That was from a man!! "
WTF really? But I'm not gay!
It might have been but that's not the only one, I'm sure they can't all be men. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Really getting fed up and so glad I'm hibernating at the moment and not meeting because some men and couples on here assume that if you start replying messages with interest to meet that you will do it today and they will book at hotel.
Never assume that a meet is going to be anything but a coffee.
Tuesday rant over! "
I know two tortoises that are hibernating right now |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
