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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any one ever been tempted to leave bad verification after a meet ..we recently had couple poor meets weren't happy with persons we met or played with but reluctantly varied them but others we didn't bother couldn't think of plus side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there's any point in leaving a bad veri, it will just not get displayed and show they met someone. If you're feeling brave maybe give them some tactful feedback via pm? Or just leave it and move on? Only you can decide. Personally if someone want happy with meeting me I'd rather they private messaged me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once had one off a guy I'd met. I tapered off messaging him as I felt we didn't mesh well. It said... 'Such an ignorer'. Suffice to say, I didn't display it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once left a verification that said " we arranged to meet, he arrived on time and he looked like his pics". The guy wasn't impressed with it but we thought it said everything that needed to be said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once left a verification that said " we arranged to meet, he arrived on time and he looked like his pics". The guy wasn't impressed with it but we thought it said everything that needed to be said "
Yes there's still positives to be had, turning up is a bonus and looking like pics. If the op wasn't impressed with performance, someone else might have been, that's down to personal taste.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once had one off a guy I'd met. I tapered off messaging him as I felt we didn't mesh well. It said... 'Such an ignorer'. Suffice to say, I didn't display it "
So you ignored his verification.....hmmm |
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It is pointless in a way that they'd never display it, but from your point of view it might give you that bit of satisfaction you most likely didn't have from your meet 
Obviously depending on the person's attitude. If they meant well, but it just didn't work out, I wouldn't x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I left a bad one . On the mr’s single profile saying don’t let him stay the night he snores like a rhino and farts like one too.... sadly he has it hidden  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet and found out the girl was a prostitute, needless to say it didn't go any further but I was tempted to leave a verification as I felt the people of Fab needed to know.
I didn't leave it as I didn't want to be associated with them after that, or risk a ban |
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"Any one ever been tempted to leave bad verification after a meet ..we recently had couple poor meets weren't happy with persons we met or played with but reluctantly varied them but others we didn't bother couldn't think of plus side"
I’ve given one or two bad veris where I felt it was deserved!
I knew they wouldn’t display it - but I wanted them to know in no uncertain terms how pissed off I was!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any one ever been tempted to leave bad verification after a meet ..we recently had couple poor meets weren't happy with persons we met or played with but reluctantly varied them but others we didn't bother couldn't think of plus side"
Sounds like you have a few bad experiences, maybe you should get better at choosing during the build up.
I wouldn't write a bad verification. |
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"Any one ever been tempted to leave bad verification after a meet ..we recently had couple poor meets weren't happy with persons we met or played with but reluctantly varied them but others we didn't bother couldn't think of plus side"
Why would you play with them if you wernt happy with the people you met or was it the play part that made them not good people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We probably could have left a few bad veris over the couple of years we've been here, however lets be honest noones going to display them so it would be pretty pointless. On those occasions we've either not verified or left very scant veris - such as met in person. L |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the person turned up, looked nothing like their photos, was completely shy and barely talked to you. Would you give a good verification? "
In a social scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the person turned up, looked nothing like their photos, was completely shy and barely talked to you. Would you give a good verification?
In a social scenario. "
I'd be honest that they turned up. They can still be a nice person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the person turned up, looked nothing like their photos, was completely shy and barely talked to you. Would you give a good verification?
In a social scenario.
I'd be honest that they turned up. They can still be a nice person. "
Of course they can be. So you'd leave the bit out that they may have mislead you by sending g pictures from the nineties, and they left you to do all the talking and all they said was ' fancy a fuck then?' As you left?
I know this would be extreme, but, it's a dilemma. |
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"If the person turned up, looked nothing like their photos, was completely shy and barely talked to you. Would you give a good verification?
In a social scenario.
I'd be honest that they turned up. They can still be a nice person.
Of course they can be. So you'd leave the bit out that they may have mislead you by sending g pictures from the nineties, and they left you to do all the talking and all they said was ' fancy a fuck then?' As you left?
I know this would be extreme, but, it's a dilemma. "
Personally, in that scenario i wouldn't leave them a veri as its not a meet that went well.
Leaving out the bad bits is still essentially leaving someone an undeserved glowing report. |
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If I meet someone for a social and don't click with them for whatever reason I'll simply leave a brief factual veri. If anyone then checks other people I've left veris for and sees the difference in tone I think they'd draw their own conclusions |
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"If I meet someone for a social and don't click with them for whatever reason I'll simply leave a brief factual veri. If anyone then checks other people I've left veris for and sees the difference in tone I think they'd draw their own conclusions"
Very true. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Any one ever been tempted to leave bad verification after a meet ..we recently had couple poor meets weren't happy with persons we met or played with but reluctantly varied them but others we didn't bother couldn't think of plus side"
I possibly wouldn't have left a verification or at best would be a generic one, "is who he says he is, turned up for meet" something along those lines. I certainly wouldn't be told what to leave x |
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We left a bad veri once to a single woman and she displayed it lol. She absolutely stunk. She wanted to be dominated. So i told her to get in the bath and wash. She then told us she had a meet the day before and the police busted her looking for drugs. Whilst she had someone there. Some of the things that came out of her mouth was disgusting... She was telling us she left a dog lick her fanny and all sorts.. We quickly made our excuses and left. I put a warning in the veri. That she wasnt for the faint of heart. Then after a couple of weeks of the veri being shown. I ended up blocking her. So she couldnt show our veri... it wasnt a good night lol |
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