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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.
The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise "
So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience, if a woman is a great fuck, and likes to suck and take a cock up her arse she's a keeper. Oh, and she musn' t get all clingy or dramatic over him seeing other women. |
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"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.
The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise "
Totally disagree.
I couldn’t tell you what it is. But i know I want more when I want to do more than just fuck. When I look forward to dates more than sex.
If I knew what gets me to that stage I wouldn’t be single. Because while great sex isn’t hard to find, finding someone I want to spend time with “doing nothing” is like unicorn shit. |
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"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.
The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise
Totally disagree.
I couldn’t tell you what it is. But i know I want more when I want to do more than just fuck. When I look forward to dates more than sex.
If I knew what gets me to that stage I wouldn’t be single. Because while great sex isn’t hard to find, finding someone I want to spend time with “doing nothing” is like unicorn shit. "
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
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If both "Can accommodate" and "Can travel" 
I think it's a natural thing you can't push... Just keep doing what you enjoy and watch what happens. If nothing happens, at least you had fun while it lasted... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s someone I can connect with on a sexual level, intellectual level and we ‘click’ in general - good banter and both not looking for something serious but just some fun. Then, that’s someone I’d like to meet regularly.
A good laugh and some good sex makes for fun times.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too. "
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.
The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise
So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?"
How many people want a relationship knowing that the sex is shitty from the off?
Unless they are gold diggers |
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"If you find someone you want to meet regularly would that stop you from wanting to meet others?"
depends what you mean by meet regularly. If it was just a sex thing I’d still want to be dating etc. Because i am looking for more. If the meeting was more like dating then there’s likely a time I’d be happy to “become exclusive”. By which I’d mean the OH becomes my number only relationship (but depending on the nature of the relationship I guess there could be other ppl involved.)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no formula. There are no things to do or not do.
There is a need that burns deep inside that make the fucking something you want more of...
But even more than that it's about the girl and how everything, the connection, the meeting of minds,dreams, and shared experience, not just the sex makes you want more...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my experience, if a woman is a great fuck, and likes to suck and take a cock up her arse she's a keeper. Oh, and she musn' t get all clingy or dramatic over him seeing other women. "
Oh that made us laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't meet a potential fwb unless I thought there was the possibility of something regular. This is why I would rather chat for a while to see if we click, then a social and see where it goes from there. I'm not interested in random, anonymous fuck and go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.
The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise
So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?
How many people want a relationship knowing that the sex is shitty from the off?
Unless they are gold diggers "
Some do.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better."
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. |
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. "
puts boys off 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.
The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise
So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?
How many people want a relationship knowing that the sex is shitty from the off?
Unless they are gold diggers
Some do. "
They may feel the sex can get better. |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. puts boys off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.
puts boys off
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Im vulnerable and want more. Are you open to marriage? |
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.
puts boys off
Im vulnerable and want more. Are you open to marriage?"
You’re in the process of being taken ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.
puts boys off
Im vulnerable and want more. Are you open to marriage?
You’re in the process of being taken ! "
Pffft I am not! Need to keep my options open you know! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.
Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.
For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.
Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.
I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. puts boys off
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There isn't a manual. But the most important rule is not be too clingy!
However in some cases there's nothing one side can do as the other side simply doesn't want a relationship.
Just crack on and if it happens it happens.
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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For me it has to be the chemistry and the enjoyment of spending time with that person.
I think over time if you meet someone regularly you get to know them more and how they tick. That then makes the experience even better and then you become closer.
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"If you find someone you want to meet regularly would that stop you from wanting to meet others?"
If I found someone to meet regularly, I wouldn't have time to meet other people.
Is that the same thing? |
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Just be nice. Don’t be mental. Live your own life and don’t be too clingy.
The person needs to be attracted to you. If they see you having a great time they’ll want you be involved more. Your time is precious so don’t give it away too freely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?
It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just be nice. Don’t be mental. Live your own life and don’t be too clingy.
The person needs to be attracted to you. If they see you having a great time they’ll want you be involved more. Your time is precious so don’t give it away too freely. "
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