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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys that had messaged me whilst my age filters were off are able to slip through and message me, not a huge problem I know but for over two weeks now I've been saying to people that ask for meets that I'm meeting someone I've met previously and won't meet anyone before him.
This is making people ask more but the annoying thing for me as a massive believer in law of attraction and karma, these guys send messages saying things along the lines of hoping he doesn't turn up or if he doesn't want to know you afterwards let me take you out, blah blah blah. Think it's quite mean spirited. Can the good people on here send out some good positive vibes to counteract the negativity please cos I don't want to get stood out, it will bum me right out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sure he will turn up sweet, I’ve had a few stand me up but I don’t let it bother me there loss I say, but I’m sure you’ll have a great time in this meet have fun and stay safe x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't you just hide your profile until after your meet tomorrow? Have a great time by the way!"
I tried that but they can still message cos they've messaged previously or if you're on someone's hotlist you can still message them that way. |
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"Can't you just hide your profile until after your meet tomorrow? Have a great time by the way!
I tried that but they can still message cos they've messaged previously or if you're on someone's hotlist you can still message them that way. "
Oh right got you. Log out til tomorrow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people want others to succeed. People that enjoy others failing are in a minority.
I don't think whats been said is meant in a nasty way, they just wanted the opportunity to take you out themselves. Maybe they shouldn't of voiced it though. It does come across as a bit negative.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just sounds very childish and shows they don't really have a clue about you (how often you find someone who ticks your boxes).
Hope it goes well!
And no, I'm not claiming to be a good guy (just not a complete douche).  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys that had messaged me whilst my age filters were off are able to slip through and message me, not a huge problem I know but for over two weeks now I've been saying to people that ask for meets that I'm meeting someone I've met previously and won't meet anyone before him.
This is making people ask more but the annoying thing for me as a massive believer in law of attraction and karma, these guys send messages saying things along the lines of hoping he doesn't turn up or if he doesn't want to know you afterwards let me take you out, blah blah blah. Think it's quite mean spirited. Can the good people on here send out some good positive vibes to counteract the negativity please cos I don't want to get stood out, it will bum me right out.
Regards "
hey if you're taken you're taken ,if guys have slipped through your messaging net its because you let them ,if you're attractive and a woman on here you're going to be in demand change your filters don't let the pests in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It just sounds very childish and shows they don't really have a clue about you (how often you find someone who ticks your boxes).
Hope it goes well!
And no, I'm not claiming to be a good guy (just not a complete douche). "
See, you know!
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While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they are saying 'if it doesn't work out they're still available' I think that's nice.
If they're saying they *hope* it doesn't work out that's mean but I believe they'll get the bad karma for that, not you. 
Sending good vibes!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys that had messaged me whilst my age filters were off are able to slip through and message me, not a huge problem I know but for over two weeks now I've been saying to people that ask for meets that I'm meeting someone I've met previously and won't meet anyone before him.
This is making people ask more but the annoying thing for me as a massive believer in law of attraction and karma, these guys send messages saying things along the lines of hoping he doesn't turn up or if he doesn't want to know you afterwards let me take you out, blah blah blah. Think it's quite mean spirited. Can the good people on here send out some good positive vibes to counteract the negativity please cos I don't want to get stood out, it will bum me right out.
Regards "
I think these people are off their conkers tbh.
Obviously I want your meeting him to go well for you purely out of goodwill, why would anyone want someone they hadn't even met to have a shit time?
But even if someone viewed it solely from a possible meet up from their point of view then who would be more fun to meet; a woman who was pissed off with recent activity and would take more winning over to the idea that pleasures most divine awaited her? OR a woman purring like a kitten and with her pleasure centres highly charged and ready to indulge...? |
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"Guys that had messaged me whilst my age filters were off are able to slip through and message me, not a huge problem I know but for over two weeks now I've been saying to people that ask for meets that I'm meeting someone I've met previously and won't meet anyone before him.
This is making people ask more but the annoying thing for me as a massive believer in law of attraction and karma, these guys send messages saying things along the lines of hoping he doesn't turn up or if he doesn't want to know you afterwards let me take you out, blah blah blah. Think it's quite mean spirited. Can the good people on here send out some good positive vibes to counteract the negativity please cos I don't want to get stood out, it will bum me right out.
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I think these people are off their conkers tbh.
Obviously I want your meeting him to go well for you purely out of goodwill, why would anyone want someone they hadn't even met to have a shit time?
But even if someone viewed it solely from a possible meet up from their point of view then who would be more fun to meet; a woman who was pissed off with recent activity and would take more winning over to the idea that pleasures most divine awaited her? OR a woman purring like a kitten and with her pleasure centres highly charged and ready to indulge...?"
Sometime logic does not enter into it....!! |
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"Guys that had messaged me whilst my age filters were off are able to slip through and message me, not a huge problem I know but for over two weeks now I've been saying to people that ask for meets that I'm meeting someone I've met previously and won't meet anyone before him.
This is making people ask more but the annoying thing for me as a massive believer in law of attraction and karma, these guys send messages saying things along the lines of hoping he doesn't turn up or if he doesn't want to know you afterwards let me take you out, blah blah blah. Think it's quite mean spirited. Can the good people on here send out some good positive vibes to counteract the negativity please cos I don't want to get stood out, it will bum me right out.
Regards "
What chancers and tossers say on here won't effect your date in any way. Ignore them and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night."
Ahh I got slices but buy the Kerry gold pots of garlic butter and spread an extra layer on but after you said about farting I think I may give it a miss.
Last Wednesday evening I was driving back from dreams I'd gone to look at a mattress, was farting going up the main road towards my mothers and they didn't feel right I thought I was going to shit myself, I manage to hold it till I got through the door to my mums and into the toilet then all hell broke loose.
My mother was shouting at me cos she could hear me and had just got home from work and was eating her tea in the living room and shouting cos of all the peelings I'd left on the arm of the chair.
I asked her why I just almost shit myself and she said it's cos of all the clementines I'd eaten.
I'd eaten 14 clementines in less than 12 hours not knowing they can have a laxative effect! I just wanted to taste all orangey for the guy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good vibes rolling in for you op.
Thank you, only 1 day to go and I will be getting fucked all over the place!
In my mind, I’ve fucked you all the way from Penrith to Penarth, and back again  "
Haha was I good? |
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"While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night.
Ahh I got slices but buy the Kerry gold pots of garlic butter and spread an extra layer on but after you said about farting I think I may give it a miss.
Last Wednesday evening I was driving back from dreams I'd gone to look at a mattress, was farting going up the main road towards my mothers and they didn't feel right I thought I was going to shit myself, I manage to hold it till I got through the door to my mums and into the toilet then all hell broke loose.
My mother was shouting at me cos she could hear me and had just got home from work and was eating her tea in the living room and shouting cos of all the peelings I'd left on the arm of the chair.
I asked her why I just almost shit myself and she said it's cos of all the clementines I'd eaten.
I'd eaten 14 clementines in less than 12 hours not knowing they can have a laxative effect! I just wanted to taste all orangey for the guy!"
Bloody hell woman 14! Just relax and enjoy your time with him |
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"Good vibes rolling in for you op.
Thank you, only 1 day to go and I will be getting fucked all over the place!
In my mind, I’ve fucked you all the way from Penrith to Penarth, and back again
Haha was I good?"
You were certainly worth the wait |
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"While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night.
Ahh I got slices but buy the Kerry gold pots of garlic butter and spread an extra layer on but after you said about farting I think I may give it a miss.
Last Wednesday evening I was driving back from dreams I'd gone to look at a mattress, was farting going up the main road towards my mothers and they didn't feel right I thought I was going to shit myself, I manage to hold it till I got through the door to my mums and into the toilet then all hell broke loose.
My mother was shouting at me cos she could hear me and had just got home from work and was eating her tea in the living room and shouting cos of all the peelings I'd left on the arm of the chair.
I asked her why I just almost shit myself and she said it's cos of all the clementines I'd eaten.
I'd eaten 14 clementines in less than 12 hours not knowing they can have a laxative effect! I just wanted to taste all orangey for the guy!"
We did that with a Turkey we bought as a Chick in September a few years ago. With a month to go before Christmas we changed its diet to Orange peel and yes you could really taste the difference.
If you can't go home to your Mums for a good poo then where can you go?
It sounds like you are going the extra step with the garlic bread, carry through with it though, your both eating it but I think if you get farts it will come from the other items on the menu you mentioned and not just the garlic bread. I hope he appriciates it's not cheap ass 17p garlic bread baguette that he's eating.
Yes too much fruit or its juice will fly back out of you the next day but it's all healthy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She isn't going anywhere she loves the attention the guys here give her too much ,so don't despair even if that guy ticks her boxes now she will still be here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night.
Ahh I got slices but buy the Kerry gold pots of garlic butter and spread an extra layer on but after you said about farting I think I may give it a miss.
Last Wednesday evening I was driving back from dreams I'd gone to look at a mattress, was farting going up the main road towards my mothers and they didn't feel right I thought I was going to shit myself, I manage to hold it till I got through the door to my mums and into the toilet then all hell broke loose.
My mother was shouting at me cos she could hear me and had just got home from work and was eating her tea in the living room and shouting cos of all the peelings I'd left on the arm of the chair.
I asked her why I just almost shit myself and she said it's cos of all the clementines I'd eaten.
I'd eaten 14 clementines in less than 12 hours not knowing they can have a laxative effect! I just wanted to taste all orangey for the guy!
Bloody hell woman 14! Just relax and enjoy your time with him "
I always get a bit mental at xmas time with the sweet clementines from Asda! Fingers turn orange from peeling so many, never shit myself off them before though, that's a new one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She isn't going anywhere she loves the attention the guys here give her too much ,so don't despair even if that guy ticks her boxes now she will still be here "
What are you on about, I didn't say I was leaving it anything like that!? I've been here 7 years butt, think the attention things has long worn off by now, if I wanted thousands of guys blowing smoke up my arse I wouldn't have my age filters set so no one under 99 can message me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get this all the time , turning guys down meets cos I have one planned , they say well if he don't show up call me and hope he don't turn up sort of things , makes me angry sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get this all the time , turning guys down meets cos I have one planned , they say well if he don't show up call me and hope he don't turn up sort of things , makes me angry sometimes "
It does make me a bit angry as well if I'm honest. I'm not wanting sex and just anyone will do for the job, doesn't matter who as long as I get it.
I rarely find someone I want to do anything with so there's a lot more to it than just wanting a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys that had messaged me whilst my age filters were off are able to slip through and message me, not a huge problem I know but for over two weeks now I've been saying to people that ask for meets that I'm meeting someone I've met previously and won't meet anyone before him.
This is making people ask more but the annoying thing for me as a massive believer in law of attraction and karma, these guys send messages saying things along the lines of hoping he doesn't turn up or if he doesn't want to know you afterwards let me take you out, blah blah blah. Think it's quite mean spirited. Can the good people on here send out some good positive vibes to counteract the negativity please cos I don't want to get stood out, it will bum me right out.
Regards "
I’ve been swinging for quite a while. I’ve found that sexy fun brings out the very best in some people, have made some awesome friends. And then sexy fun brings out the very worst in others.
Have confidence in yourself, you’re gorgeous why would be not turn up. IF and it’s a massive IF he doesn’t make it then it’s his loss not yours.
I’m pretty sure your thoughts about the day will be spot on. Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She isn't going anywhere she loves the attention the guys here give her too much ,so don't despair even if that guy ticks her boxes now she will still be here
What are you on about, I didn't say I was leaving it anything like that!? I've been here 7 years butt, think the attention things has long worn off by now, if I wanted thousands of guys blowing smoke up my arse I wouldn't have my age filters set so no one under 99 can message me. "
I’ll put the smoke machine back then 
Relax, enjoy your day and of course your meet. Lay off the clementines though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night.
Ahh I got slices but buy the Kerry gold pots of garlic butter and spread an extra layer on but after you said about farting I think I may give it a miss.
Last Wednesday evening I was driving back from dreams I'd gone to look at a mattress, was farting going up the main road towards my mothers and they didn't feel right I thought I was going to shit myself, I manage to hold it till I got through the door to my mums and into the toilet then all hell broke loose.
My mother was shouting at me cos she could hear me and had just got home from work and was eating her tea in the living room and shouting cos of all the peelings I'd left on the arm of the chair.
I asked her why I just almost shit myself and she said it's cos of all the clementines I'd eaten.
I'd eaten 14 clementines in less than 12 hours not knowing they can have a laxative effect! I just wanted to taste all orangey for the guy!"
Your posts make me laugh more than any other. Lay off the damn oranges |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"While I wish you well Wilkes it goes without saying; I'm still waiting for to answer my question.
Was it a baguette type of garlic bread your having or the already sliced type where you get x6 sometimes more in a pack.
If its the latter, add your own cheese from the fridge - after all it is Christmas and fuck night.
Ahh I got slices but buy the Kerry gold pots of garlic butter and spread an extra layer on but after you said about farting I think I may give it a miss.
Last Wednesday evening I was driving back from dreams I'd gone to look at a mattress, was farting going up the main road towards my mothers and they didn't feel right I thought I was going to shit myself, I manage to hold it till I got through the door to my mums and into the toilet then all hell broke loose.
My mother was shouting at me cos she could hear me and had just got home from work and was eating her tea in the living room and shouting cos of all the peelings I'd left on the arm of the chair.
I asked her why I just almost shit myself and she said it's cos of all the clementines I'd eaten.
I'd eaten 14 clementines in less than 12 hours not knowing they can have a laxative effect! I just wanted to taste all orangey for the guy!
Your posts make me laugh more than any other. Lay off the damn oranges "
I'm on the pineapples today!
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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Can't say I've ever wished anything would go wrong for a fellow fabber.
However I have replied to no thank you messages wishing them luck and adding feel free to message on the future. In no way meant in a horrible way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can’t understand why guys would want you to be stood up?  or is it karma they want cause you’re not accepting their request for a meet.
Jealousy of course will be the root of the problem and this site is full of it, I wouldn’t worry, you’ve met him before so you know what to expect, enjoy the meet and ignore the jealous folk on here, lots of warms cuddles to you xx |
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