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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " When you log into Fab...its gossip.  | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " When they don't mind you discussing them and the facts are true | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " Why who are we talking about, and what have they said. Hold on, I'll put the kettle on | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they don't mind you discussing them and the facts are true " I agree with this  | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " When they message you abuse about what they and their friends have decided about you as a judgement rather than being specific and asking your intent. When they don’t take responsibility for hurt caused even when they say it wasn’t their intent. Communication is a two way process. Ask questions if there’s a problem, don’t assume.  | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they don't mind you discussing them and the facts are true " | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? Why who are we talking about, and what have they said. Hold on, I'll put the kettle on "***Everyone....whilst KB isn't here,,,let me tell you what he said last week  ***
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " Suppose gossip is something juicy that other people will enjoy listening to rather than just mundane stuff and it gets passed round a lot. | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " When your passing on hearsay about someone or their actions. When your talking about "rumours" or when you have no solid evidence of what your saying about someone or their actions  | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When your passing on hearsay about someone or their actions. When your talking about "rumours" or when you have no solid evidence of what your saying about someone or their actions " | |||
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"Is see ‘gossip’ as salacious titbits and ‘discussion’ as more mundane. E.g. I saw SteelHeels do a very interesting talk on the Great Crested Newt at the local wildlife society last week. She was very good! DISCUSSION versus Ooh you should have seen the way SteelHeels was all over the vicar after the local wildlife society meet last week! ALSO DISCUSSION " FTFY | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? Why who are we talking about, and what have they said. Hold on, I'll put the kettle on
***Everyone....whilst KB isn't here,,,let me tell you what he said last week***
That's gossip. "I'll set em up you knock em down | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? Why who are we talking about, and what have they said. Hold on, I'll put the kettle on
***Everyone....whilst KB isn't here,,,let me tell you what he said last week***
That's gossip.
I'll set em up you knock em down "
We could set up a couples account, with no intention of meeting as a couple. Called KinkyBee or MisterButler.
That's a side swiping nasty comment aimed at someone. That's also to create a bit of gossip.  | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they don't mind you discussing them and the facts are true " | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they message you abuse about what they and their friends have decided about you as a judgement rather than being specific and asking your intent. When they don’t take responsibility for hurt caused even when they say it wasn’t their intent. Communication is a two way process. Ask questions if there’s a problem, don’t assume. "Always ask. | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? Why who are we talking about, and what have they said. Hold on, I'll put the kettle on
***Everyone....whilst KB isn't here,,,let me tell you what he said last week***
That's gossip.
I'll set em up you knock em down
We could set up a couples account, with no intention of meeting as a couple. Called KinkyBee or MisterButler.
That's a side swiping nasty comment aimed at someone. That's also to create a bit of gossip. "Hold on, you might be on to something here, how many women would be interested in a ready made mmf a sort of sexual tag team, hmm lol | |||
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"When it's malicious it's gossip when it's informative it's talking about them. It's the difference between "Xs husband left her, I'm not surprised she's really let herself go lately and is a moody old bag" And "Just to let you know x and y have broken up, she might need a little support"." | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? Why who are we talking about, and what have they said. Hold on, I'll put the kettle on
***Everyone....whilst KB isn't here,,,let me tell you what he said last week***
That's gossip.
I'll set em up you knock em down
We could set up a couples account, with no intention of meeting as a couple. Called KinkyBee or MisterButler.
That's a side swiping nasty comment aimed at someone. That's also to create a bit of gossip.
Hold on, you might be on to something here, how many women would be interested in a ready made mmf a sort of sexual tag team, hmm lol "We can share, and as it's my idea, 60/40? | |||
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"Gossip is when it’s passing hearsay on or information passed on surreptitiously. Apparently that’s ok to do if it’s only passing it on to your friends. The person that is a ‘victim’ of the gossip then in turn sharing with their friends. So who is gossiping? Everyone talks about people at some point or other that doesn’t mean it’s done in a negative or unpleasant way, that’s just often someone’s interpretation of it. It’s interesting that people talk about one another but only see it as gossip if it’s someone talking about THEM. There is so much gossip in the forums ... not on Fab, in the forums. We can all pretend it doesn’t happen but it does. I hear things but do I care about it? No, mainly because I’m not 12. We are adult enough to be on a sex site but apparently not able behave as adults whilst we’re here. " I heard that you had two vaginas and you keep your loose change and pieces of cake in the spare one, that's what Pink Panther told me. Don't shoot the messenger  | |||
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"Gossip is when it’s passing hearsay on or information passed on surreptitiously. Apparently that’s ok to do if it’s only passing it on to your friends. The person that is a ‘victim’ of the gossip then in turn sharing with their friends. So who is gossiping? Everyone talks about people at some point or other that doesn’t mean it’s done in a negative or unpleasant way, that’s just often someone’s interpretation of it. It’s interesting that people talk about one another but only see it as gossip if it’s someone talking about THEM. There is so much gossip in the forums ... not on Fab, in the forums. We can all pretend it doesn’t happen but it does. I hear things but do I care about it? No, mainly because I’m not 12. We are adult enough to be on a sex site but apparently not able behave as adults whilst we’re here. I heard that you had two vaginas and you keep your loose change and pieces of cake in the spare one, that's what Pink Panther told me. Don't shoot the messenger " | |||
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"Gossip is when it’s passing hearsay on or information passed on surreptitiously. Apparently that’s ok to do if it’s only passing it on to your friends. The person that is a ‘victim’ of the gossip then in turn sharing with their friends. So who is gossiping? Everyone talks about people at some point or other that doesn’t mean it’s done in a negative or unpleasant way, that’s just often someone’s interpretation of it. It’s interesting that people talk about one another but only see it as gossip if it’s someone talking about THEM. There is so much gossip in the forums ... not on Fab, in the forums. We can all pretend it doesn’t happen but it does. I hear things but do I care about it? No, mainly because I’m not 12. We are adult enough to be on a sex site but apparently not able behave as adults whilst we’re here. I heard that you had two vaginas and you keep your loose change and pieces of cake in the spare one, that's what Pink Panther told me. Don't shoot the messenger "Get it right, the cake is nestled between her boobie woobies | |||
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"Gossip is when it’s passing hearsay on or information passed on surreptitiously. Apparently that’s ok to do if it’s only passing it on to your friends. The person that is a ‘victim’ of the gossip then in turn sharing with their friends. So who is gossiping? Everyone talks about people at some point or other that doesn’t mean it’s done in a negative or unpleasant way, that’s just often someone’s interpretation of it. It’s interesting that people talk about one another but only see it as gossip if it’s someone talking about THEM. There is so much gossip in the forums ... not on Fab, in the forums. We can all pretend it doesn’t happen but it does. I hear things but do I care about it? No, mainly because I’m not 12. We are adult enough to be on a sex site but apparently not able behave as adults whilst we’re here. " Yes ppl need to look in the mirror before casting the first stone  | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " when its malicious its never good ,when its done in public to make a person feel bad its not good ,when its in the confession box its ok its just a priest he's heard it all before ,in staff canteen its ok they don't believe you anyway ,in court its ok if its the truth the whole truth so help me god | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they message you abuse about what they and their friends have decided about you as a judgement rather than being specific and asking your intent. When they don’t take responsibility for hurt caused even when they say it wasn’t their intent. Communication is a two way process. Ask questions if there’s a problem, don’t assume.
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"When it's malicious it's gossip when it's informative it's talking about them. It's the difference between "Xs husband left her, I'm not surprised she's really let herself go lately and is a moody old bag" And "Just to let you know x and y have broken up, she might need a little support"." Brilliant - so much this | |||
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"Gossip is when it’s passing hearsay on or information passed on surreptitiously. Apparently that’s ok to do if it’s only passing it on to your friends. The person that is a ‘victim’ of the gossip then in turn sharing with their friends. So who is gossiping? Everyone talks about people at some point or other that doesn’t mean it’s done in a negative or unpleasant way, that’s just often someone’s interpretation of it. It’s interesting that people talk about one another but only see it as gossip if it’s someone talking about THEM. There is so much gossip in the forums ... not on Fab, in the forums. We can all pretend it doesn’t happen but it does. I hear things but do I care about it? No, mainly because I’m not 12. We are adult enough to be on a sex site but apparently not able behave as adults whilst we’re here. " I agree with this. Well articulated. | |||
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"...gossip. When the conversation is intended to be malicious and of no benefit. My opinion "Yes. | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they message you abuse about what they and their friends have decided about you as a judgement rather than being specific and asking your intent. When they don’t take responsibility for hurt caused even when they say it wasn’t their intent. Communication is a two way process. Ask questions if there’s a problem, don’t assume. "To quote a film assumption is the mother of all fuck ups! Bonus points if you know the film | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they message you abuse about what they and their friends have decided about you as a judgement rather than being specific and asking your intent. When they don’t take responsibility for hurt caused even when they say it wasn’t their intent. Communication is a two way process. Ask questions if there’s a problem, don’t assume.
To quote a film assumption is the mother of all fuck ups!
Bonus points if you know the film "Dark territory? | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? When they message you abuse about what they and their friends have decided about you as a judgement rather than being specific and asking your intent. When they don’t take responsibility for hurt caused even when they say it wasn’t their intent. Communication is a two way process. Ask questions if there’s a problem, don’t assume.
To quote a film assumption is the mother of all fuck ups!
Bonus points if you know the film
Dark territory? "Our survey says........ correct! | |||
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"When is talking about other people ok? At what point does it become gossip rather than just discussion? " When it leaves a sour taste. | |||
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