How tactile are you with someone you like?
With friends I'm not really a hugger (although I'm getting better cos my best friend is lol)
But with someone I like romantically or even just sexually I'm very tactile. Love the little stolen brushes when out and about, little kisses on the top of my head as we watch TV, a squeeze of the thigh as we drive somewhere.
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"I'm more jokeful/playful than touchy feely to be honest 
In what way?
You lay next to me on the couch and you're in for a wrestle!"
Wanna tussle?
*backing track is Sheeran* |
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"How tactile are you with someone you like?
With friends I'm not really a hugger (although I'm getting better cos my best friend is lol)
But with someone I like romantically or even just sexually I'm very tactile. Love the little stolen brushes when out and about, little kisses on the top of my head as we watch TV, a squeeze of the thigh as we drive somewhere.
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I’m very tactile. But I’m also very sensitive to and worry (over-worry!) as to whether the other person is keen, particularly in platonic situations. I often just flap and ask and goof through it.  |
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I'm not a big fan of touching in a friendly context. But I've offended many a person in the past because of this ("Oh! You don't want to hug me? Why not?!") so I've been making a concerted effort to be more approachable in that way.  |
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"I'm more jokeful/playful than touchy feely to be honest
In what way?
You lay next to me on the couch and you're in for a wrestle!
Wanna tussle?
*backing track is Sheeran*"
If we're brawling, then this is playing in the background 
https://youtu.be/FcKaCCedjQY |
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I'm very tactile, tbh half the time I don't even know I'm doing it, talking to a friend, putting my hand on their arm etc.
I'm definitely a hugger. Always great friends with a hug & a kiss on the cheek, and when saying goodbye.
The world needs more hugs |
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I don't do kisses and hugs unless it's a grandchild or someone outside of the family, who expects a kiss hello or goodbye.
With a man I've known a long time, and feel very lustful towards, I'll want to constantly touch him, but not cuddle. |
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"I'm more jokeful/playful than touchy feely to be honest
In what way?
You lay next to me on the couch and you're in for a wrestle!
Wanna tussle?
*backing track is Sheeran*
If we're brawling, then this is playing in the background
https://youtu.be/FcKaCCedjQY"
Oh my! Now that’s excellent combat soundtracking. *doffs cap* |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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I can be touchy feely, and absolutely adore it back .. nothing better than that touch or hug or gentle stroke. Feeling wanted etc.
Sometimes it's hard to start that up though as I can get self conscious as to if the person wants that same... so I tend to wait for the person to make first move.
Maybe it's the gentleman side of me, or the fear of rejection... or both.  |
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I'm very tactile with men. It's women who get short shrift on the hugs front with me, except for my mum, cos i love her.
I don't like my personal space invaded either, unless it's a man with kisses, cuddles or cock. |
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I’m a big hugger for sure. With friends I haven’t seen in a while I’ll give em a big bear hug, spin them round and plant a smacker on their cheek.
If I’m a bit merry then everybodies getting a hug! |
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Surprising the number of people here for the closest of physical experiences who then say that they find it hard to hug be tactile and share a common physical connection.
And yeah if I like someone there is nothing better than that touching hugging brushing of fingers sharing of closeness with another as part of that normal every day connection that we may share.
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"I'm more jokeful/playful than touchy feely to be honest
In what way?
You lay next to me on the couch and you're in for a wrestle!
Wanna tussle?
*backing track is Sheeran*"
..............dadaduda.......... it's John Cena |
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Touchy feely is a bit of a loaded phrase, I would not call myself that..... but I am incredibly tactile, one reason I love the horses and cats so much! The more physical connection the better in my view, I love to touch and be touched in every way.  |
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I am a warm person but I express it through other ways including warmth in my voice, body language and the choice of words in certain situations.
Affection is a wonderful thing though when mutually felt and reciprocated - so yes to hugs but not everybody or all the while (unless I had a glass of wine to many) |
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