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Has anyone felt this or has gone through a similar phase? All sharing of experiences welcome. | |||
But I've had some good experiences too - and made a couple of good friends. | |||
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"At first it was a thrill and now I feel a bit jaded and wish that I could unlearn a lot of the things Fab had taught me. I think it's ruined trying to have a vanilla relationship ever again for me. And I'll find it hard to trust any man I'm with again. That's really sad
But I've had some good experiences too - and made a couple of good friends."I suppose there is always the flip side. I can certainly see how vanilla relationships may never be looked at the same way again. | |||
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"Massive confidence boost! Had some issues recently, so hoping to get that feeling back again soon. "I can see how that can be the case if you're successful here. Fab has just reinforced my confidence levels even more | |||
I went to Manchester for the first time because of Fab.
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"To be honest it hasn't changed my life ... yet "Yet is the key word. It'll come  x | |||
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"I don't think it's changed my life at all. " Lies. You met me. | |||
"I don't think it's changed my life at all. Lies. You met me." Oh right. I tried so hard to forget.  | |||
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"Not changed my life but if this guy I'm meeting soon wants to marry me then I guess it would have changed my life. Other than that it's the same on here as the real world. Pull wherever I go! "After seeing your pics i'm not surprised | |||
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"At first it was a thrill and now I feel a bit jaded and wish that I could unlearn a lot of the things Fab had taught me. I think it's ruined trying to have a vanilla relationship ever again for me. And I'll find it hard to trust any man I'm with again. That's really sad
But I've had some good experiences too - and made a couple of good friends."Totally agree with this. I'm actually now looking for an open relationship after always saying I'd never want one. The kind of relationship I always wanted I now don't believe exists. | |||
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"Made my life really good for a while, then awful for a few months but back on track now "Message me you | |||
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"Definitely opened up my eyes to a world that I didn't know existed. We've met some amazing people and had some fantastic sex and fulfilled fantasies. It has shown us how much respect and trust we have for one another. I would say it's been an experience that we 're glad we tried ! Xx" I'm very envious I wish that could've been the case when I was married...but alas, no interest on the other person's part. | |||
"I agree with poppins above " Me too  | |||
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"I recently asked myself this question...and it's changed my life completely. Perhaps I'm going through the honeymoon phase but i've relished every minute of it! The meets and the build up to them, the constant back and forth flirting with like minded people, making friends, swapping pics, the thrill of receiving winks and messages from new people, having your overtures reciprocated...it's all so pleasant and frighteningly addicting! It's injected a lot of spice into otherwise busy and mundane work days and I look forward to the weekends as never before
Has anyone felt this or has gone through a similar phase? All sharing of experiences welcome."Sorry are we on the site ???
My sex life hasn't really changed since joining. Still pretty much none exsistant XD | |||
You just never know what's around the corner! | |||
"To be honest it hasn't changed my life ... yet
Yet is the key word. It'll come x"I hope so ... x | |||
"Its been good and bad. Met some wonderful people who have become friends... But the biggest change was something quite unexpected... After writing a few little rhymes on here just for fun, a Fab friend introduced me to an amazing poetry site back in the Summer and I started writing more seriously... as a result of this I've been asked to collaborate as a lyricist on an album next year
You just never know what's around the corner! "Wow, indeed! | |||
"To be honest it hasn't changed my life ... yet
Yet is the key word. It'll come x
I hope so ... x"So do I my dear | |||
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"I’ve met and chatted to many wonderful people. It’s given me laughs galore. It’s also allowed me to find someone very special that I now couldn’t be without. So it’s had a huge impact on my life and my future." Congratulations! | |||
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I've had nightmares about this thing... chasing me like in some cheap B horror movie.. "The Flange... it came from outer space!"
But the medication and therapy have helped and I'm starting to lead a normal life.. the permanent look of horror is just starting to subside, small children have stopped bursting into tears when they look at me and my dog doesnt cower in the corner when I enter the room...
So all in all, I'd say I've had a pleasant but rather uneventful time here on fab.. | |||
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"It's given jools loads more confidence she never had previously. And the complete reverse in my case. It's destroyed my confidence and my self belief." I respect your privacy but wondered if you felt ok to expand on the contrast in fortunes. | |||
"I have learned a lot about myself and about others, I have learned about human nature and the highs and lows people will reach behind a computer screen. I have had experiences in sexuality, that I could have not even imagined, and I have made some friends. I am glad that I came here, I'm even if sometimes I feel like I need to take a little bit of a break, I can't see myself wanting to leave permanently. Thank you Fab, admin, owners and people of fab... it can be a crazy cyber world right here, but I am grateful to be able to pop in, and be part of it. (and to perve) " | |||
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"At first it was a thrill and now I feel a bit jaded and wish that I could unlearn a lot of the things Fab had taught me. I think it's ruined trying to have a vanilla relationship ever again for me. And I'll find it hard to trust any man I'm with again. That's really sad
But I've had some good experiences too - and made a couple of good friends."This! Just this ?? | |||
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"It hasn’t. Yet. (just joined) I’ve been on other swinging sites and they have transformed my sex life and confidence. I never knew no strings casual sex could be so much fun! " It seems you've lived a honeymoon phase yourself
Nsa with like minded people we click with is a fabulous thing | |||
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"I’ve met and chatted to many wonderful people. It’s given me laughs galore. It’s also allowed me to find someone very special that I now couldn’t be without. So it’s had a huge impact on my life and my future. Congratulations! "Thanks - I wasn’t looking for it but I’d never change what has happened | |||
"Lots of ups and downs. Did discover that having my bumhole licked is fucking amazing though "So did I! | |||
"Lots of ups and downs. Did discover that having my bumhole licked is fucking amazing though
So did I! "Just to clarify, these are unrelated experiences! | |||
"Lots of ups and downs. Did discover that having my bumhole licked is fucking amazing though
So did I!
Just to clarify, these are unrelated experiences! "Lol ofc | |||
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"Its been good and bad. Met some wonderful people who have become friends... But the biggest change was something quite unexpected... After writing a few little rhymes on here just for fun, a Fab friend introduced me to an amazing poetry site back in the Summer and I started writing more seriously... as a result of this I've been asked to collaborate as a lyricist on an album next year You just never know what's around the corner! "That's fantastic well done x | |||
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"It's done wonders for my confidence, Iv learnt hell of a lot and met some bloody fantastic people. Iv realised I like most my fab friends better then my vanilla friends mainly because I can be myself with them. This site helps to pass my long work days mostly because I'm a massive flirt! Amanda x" Oh, I love this the amount of time I spend flirting with people throughout my work day...makes my days much lighter | |||
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"I’ve met the man I’m going to marry in 3 months and 2 weeks!! Geeky x" Awww that's lush | |||
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"I’ve met the man I’m going to marry in 3 months and 2 weeks!! Geeky x Awww that's lush "Congratulations... | |||
"I recently asked myself this question...and it's changed my life completely. Perhaps I'm going through the honeymoon phase but i've relished every minute of it! The meets and the build up to them, the constant back and forth flirting with like minded people, making friends, swapping pics, the thrill of receiving winks and messages from new people, having your overtures reciprocated...it's all so pleasant and frighteningly addicting! It's injected a lot of spice into otherwise busy and mundane work days and I look forward to the weekends as never before
Has anyone felt this or has gone through a similar phase? All sharing of experiences welcome."Ive met one woman (social) and been stood up once - its been shit | |||
"It has changed my life in the sense that I’ve met some lovely people that I wouldn’t have met otherwise and enjoyed some great experiences that I probably wouldn’t have had. I could walk away from Fab without a backward glance and I will when it’s no longer fun for me but I hope the few people I am friends with, will always remain friends. " can I be one of those valued friends please | |||
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"It has made me a much more confident person, happy in my own skin x" It certainly shows! | |||
"It has made me a much more confident person, happy in my own skin x It certainly shows! "A lot of the positive comments are from people who arent Londoners - just saying! | |||
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"How has fab changed our lives? Well we wouldn’t be married if it weren’t for fab! We met in the chat rooms, enjoyed lots of lovely conversations and decided to meet. One meet led to another and another. Before we knew it we were both crazy about each other. I upped sticks and left the city I’d always lived in to move in. The rest, as they say, is history "Indeed. Congrats! | |||
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"I started off very naive, had a few good meets and then a few absolutely terrible experiences, one which really traumatised me. Then I found the Forums and met some nice people, one in particular who I totally adored. He humiliated me, moved on to a younger model and my confidence was then fucked. I have tried since then to regain my confidence and trust people but I don't. I can't bring myself to meet again and am thinking of leaving. I think the site is good and the Forums can be fun but as hard as I try, I think the bad outways the good for me. " sorry to hear that! It’s a shame I can’t PM you but I hope things perk up for you x | |||
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"Fab has lead me to meeting someone very special "Ooh yay I love happy stories! | |||
"Fab has lead me to meeting someone very special "Some heart warming and heart breaking stories here in equal measure... | |||
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"Me- Ryan, spent a few years on here as a single guy posting drivel on the forums. Then met my other half Tease on here and we have now been together pushing three years. I used to be oh so innocent "Hi Ryan o/ | |||
"Me- Ryan, spent a few years on here as a single guy posting drivel on the forums. Then met my other half Tease on here and we have now been together pushing three years. I used to be oh so innocent "Love the fab pic toolkit! But why the Big Mac | |||
"Me- Ryan, spent a few years on here as a single guy posting drivel on the forums. Then met my other half Tease on here and we have now been together pushing three years. I used to be oh so innocent
Hi Ryan o/"Hi Lib. Hope all is good | |||
"Me- Ryan, spent a few years on here as a single guy posting drivel on the forums. Then met my other half Tease on here and we have now been together pushing three years. I used to be oh so innocent
Love the fab pic toolkit!
But why the Big Mac "Burgers were a fetish of mine haha | |||
"It's given jools loads more confidence she never had previously. And the complete reverse in my case. It's destroyed my confidence and my self belief. I respect your privacy but wondered if you felt ok to expand on the contrast in fortunes." I don't mind explaining at all. So I am pretty sure that a few male Half's of couples where the fem is the better looking half will testify swinging is actually pretty difficult. We started out(my suggestion) i like to watch, that she played with guy's. Thing's went great until she suggested that I got more involved and felt it only fair that I got some fun. Great in theory she's having a great time lots of mfm threesomes or hotwifing. So her assumption that finding couples or females interested in playing with myself also would be easy. Wrong,far from it in fact. So much so that my self confidence is virtually non existent these days and I used to be a very confident man. One of the problems being that most couples are mostly just interested in jools. Finding females willing to play with a male half of a couple be it alone or in a group situation is difficult to say the least probably harder than a single guy,due to people assuming that we are not a real couple etc... Yes in four years I have managed to play with a couple of really great ladies. But overall I feel that meeting new couples or females interested in me as much as jools seems to be pointless. Personally I feel like I don't have anything to bring to the table to entice prospective playmate's , given the amount of younger, thinner and better Hung guys than myself. It's not a poor old me feel sorry for me type post. It's probably how alot of guy's feel on here if they are honest,there are lots of male Half's that are in a similar situation. I think I have been extremely lucky to have been able to play with a couple of beautiful women Thus far,but that's probably only because of jools. People may see me as extremely pessimistic. I am neither a pessimist or an optimist. I am a realist. But I still enjoy the swinging lifestyle don't mistake my lack of self confidence as lack of enjoyment. I just realise now where I stand regards the opposite sex. I know most women find guy's with no confidence unattractive,but I am unwilling to play at the bullshit game of lying and cheating to get a fuck. I am just a very average guy who is honest and sincere,I just happened to marry a cracking woman. During our swinging journey if I/we come across ladies who are as interested in myself as much as jools then brilliant and we will see what happens. | |||
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"Its knocked my confidence and self -esteem to be honest. I know what i am: Genuine, kind, respectful, clean, polite and look after myself. The very few meets i have had, have been great but i have struggled for month to attract people i actually like. You definitely end up questioning yourself and looking at yourself differently. For the wrong reasons. I get more messages from guys, complimenting my profile pics and guys wanting to meet. Which is bloody depressing yet i can never get a reply back from a good looking girl or couple that i fancy. Not having a good time to be honest "I've become friends with women on fab that tick every one of my boxes, but often find they live on the other end of the country! I believe it's a bit of a fab curse...right people, wrong geography? I'm sure that if you persist you'll find what you're looking for | |||
