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By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago
Iceland, but Aldi is closer.. |
I just got a reply "sorry, you live too close"
There have been numerous threads about how far we would travel,
But what about people nearby?
Is there a distance that is just too close for comfort? |
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"I just got a reply "sorry, you live too close"
There have been numerous threads about how far we would travel,
But what about people nearby?
Is there a distance that is just too close for comfort? "
Within 5 miles ish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my first fab meets (on old profile several years ago) ... we met socially first at an Indian restaurant. I walked as it was really local to me. Turns out she walked too. We were about 300yds from each other. I soon after moved across town. (This was Malvern at the time).
A couple of years later she moved across town. This meant she was now walking distance away once again...we were good/regular friends by this time. About a year later I moved into the same road....
Since then we have both moved again and are now about 9 miles apart....but still good friends, and her no longer on fab. We have several mutual friends and have met each other’s family (her parents, my sister)
I don’t think it matters how close as long as both parties are open and have nothing to hide. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
Nop not for me.
Id be happy even if sumone i went to meet lived next door 
I don't get y anyone woodount want to meet in thar local area but ha ho eatch to Thar own as thay say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of my first fab meets (on old profile several years ago) ... we met socially first at an Indian restaurant. I walked as it was really local to me. Turns out she walked too. We were about 300yds from each other. I soon after moved across town. (This was Malvern at the time).
A couple of years later she moved across town. This meant she was now walking distance away once again...we were good/regular friends by this time. About a year later I moved into the same road....
Since then we have both moved again and are now about 9 miles apart....but still good friends, and her no longer on fab. We have several mutual friends and have met each other’s family (her parents, my sister)
I don’t think it matters how close as long as both parties are open and have nothing to hide."
I couldn’t have put it better |
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I've met a guy who lives across the street from me (unbeknown to us both for a while) but when we realised it was just easier. Wasn't an issue as we both know we're here for fun with like minded adults. Just not a drama for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah next door or Street lol but have met a couple at other end of village that own the petrol station"
Those in the area now frantically trying to work out which village!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just got a reply "sorry, you live too close"
There have been numerous threads about how far we would travel,
But what about people nearby?
Is there a distance that is just too close for comfort? "
I used to know a woman that checked out new people in her area and blocked them with no contact |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just got a reply "sorry, you live too close"
There have been numerous threads about how far we would travel,
But what about people nearby?
Is there a distance that is just too close for comfort? I used to know a woman that checked out new people in her area and blocked them with no contact "
See no problem with that, she obviously wants geographical privacy. |
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By *orwegian Blue OP Man
over a year ago
Iceland, but Aldi is closer.. |
"I live on an island.... everything is close. And you can bet your ass that the person your in bed with is friends with your friends.
Or there Mum.... "
That's sounds a lot like Norwich..
Nope.. not gonna lower myself any further so I deleted what I was typing..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a girl who I knew was very close. Week later I'm queuing behind her in our local chippie. Kinda kills the passion watching a playmate destroy 2 saveloys(not in a fab way). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block everyone within a half of a mile and sometimes more- I like to keep my playtime very separate from homelife, hence my preference is to meet at clubs rather than at home |
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"I block everyone within a half of a mile and sometimes more- I like to keep my playtime very separate from homelife, hence my preference is to meet at clubs rather than at home "
Hello!
Seems half my village is on here, my block list is huge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a girl who I knew was very close. Week later I'm queuing behind her in our local chippie. Kinda kills the passion watching a playmate destroy 2 saveloys(not in a fab way).
Some one across the badminton net in my local badminton club  "
Ooops. Well at least you knew how she handled a shuttleCOCK (groan). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I block everyone within a half of a mile and sometimes more- I like to keep my playtime very separate from homelife, hence my preference is to meet at clubs rather than at home
Hello!
Seems half my village is on here, my block list is huge! "
You were safe from the block list, Phoenix, as you're a whole 3 miles away (plus a forumite!)
I am still suffering the consequences of a few too many local shags over the years and regularly see people in the supermarket or around town which I really dont like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah next door or Street lol but have met a couple at other end of village that own the petrol station
Those in the area now frantically trying to work out which village! "
I won't be telling you lol |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Umm recently blocked someone who knew the road I lived in - was going to meet then realised to close
I did meet someone who lived a couple of miles away which was ok.
Now I tend to meet people in clubs or hotels in Manchester |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I block everyone within a half of a mile and sometimes more- I like to keep my playtime very separate from homelife, hence my preference is to meet at clubs rather than at home "
It's a very common occurrence that lol I've been a victim of that lol |
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"I block everyone within a half of a mile and sometimes more- I like to keep my playtime very separate from homelife, hence my preference is to meet at clubs rather than at home
Hello!
Seems half my village is on here, my block list is huge!
You were safe from the block list, Phoenix, as you're a whole 3 miles away (plus a forumite!)
I am still suffering the consequences of a few too many local shags over the years and regularly see people in the supermarket or around town which I really dont like "
Yay... Lucky me!
I have to face someone at one of the gyms I work at... Poor bloke, drops his weights every time I walk in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just got a reply "sorry, you live too close"
There have been numerous threads about how far we would travel,
But what about people nearby?
Is there a distance that is just too close for comfort? "
Not for me. I had that response recently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never wanted to bump into anyone I’d met in the supermarket. I think I may have taken it to the extreme 270 miles 
* meet in the supermarket "
 I've done the supermarket bump! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I live on an island.... everything is close. And you can bet your ass that the person your in bed with is friends with your friends.
Or there Mum.... "
They do a good festival on John Peel Island. |
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"I never wanted to bump into anyone I’d met in the supermarket. I think I may have taken it to the extreme 270 miles
I've done the supermarket bump.  "
I've seen people from here in the supermarket. We didn't meet previously though, I was glad they blocked single guys so I didn't have that embarrassing, I've messaged you moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never wanted to bump into anyone I’d met in the supermarket. I think I may have taken it to the extreme 270 miles
* meet in the supermarket
I've done the supermarket bump!"
Yes, was rather awkward when the bloke on the "scan it yourself" tills had to come and check some of the items in my trolley and was someone i met at a party a couple of years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never wanted to bump into anyone I’d met in the supermarket. I think I may have taken it to the extreme 270 miles
* meet in the supermarket
I've done the supermarket bump!
Yes, was rather awkward when the bloke on the "scan it yourself" tills had to come and check some of the items in my trolley and was someone i met at a party a couple of years ago "
My bump wasn't as awkward, we ignored each other, she was shopping with a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes too close is too close. Lol
I'd have to really fancy the pants of off somebody if they lived less than 10 miles away......Not saying I wouldn't , but I'd have to seriously assess it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I block everyone within a half of a mile and sometimes more- I like to keep my playtime very separate from homelife, hence my preference is to meet at clubs rather than at home "
Wow, half a mile, you don't mind traveling for a meet do you? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"I never wanted to bump into anyone I’d met in the supermarket. I think I may have taken it to the extreme 270 miles
* meet in the supermarket
I've done the supermarket bump!
Yes, was rather awkward when the bloke on the "scan it yourself" tills had to come and check some of the items in my trolley and was someone i met at a party a couple of years ago "
Did you have lube and condoms in your trolley  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wherever, it doesn't matter. I'm having sex with them, nothing weird or embarrassing about that..not sure why so many people wouldn't want to cross paths with someone they slept with really.
Rather prudish some folk..want nothing to do with their own sex lives and to keep it in its own separate locked away bubble so as it shouldn't ever mix with their everyday lives. |
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"I just got a reply "sorry, you live too close"
There have been numerous threads about how far we would travel,
But what about people nearby?
Is there a distance that is just too close for comfort? "
For us, yes.
One of us is reasonably well known round these parts, so whispered gossip about him/her being swingers would be uncomfortable to say the least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wherever, it doesn't matter. I'm having sex with them, nothing weird or embarrassing about that..not sure why so many people wouldn't want to cross paths with someone they slept with really.
Rather prudish some folk..want nothing to do with their own sex lives and to keep it in its own separate locked away bubble so as it shouldn't ever mix with their everyday lives. "
I'm prudish then. My sex life is private. I won't meet anyone that lives less than 20 minutes drive away, preferably further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wherever, it doesn't matter. I'm having sex with them, nothing weird or embarrassing about that..not sure why so many people wouldn't want to cross paths with someone they slept with really.
Rather prudish some folk..want nothing to do with their own sex lives and to keep it in its own separate locked away bubble so as it shouldn't ever mix with their everyday lives. "
Would you be ok with someone following you to your daughter's flat and knocking on the door, begging to be let in for sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wherever, it doesn't matter. I'm having sex with them, nothing weird or embarrassing about that..not sure why so many people wouldn't want to cross paths with someone they slept with really.
Rather prudish some folk..want nothing to do with their own sex lives and to keep it in its own separate locked away bubble so as it shouldn't ever mix with their everyday lives.
Would you be ok with someone following you to your daughter's flat and knocking on the door, begging to be let in for sex?"
I don't have a daughter.
And it sounds like you need to overhaul your vetting process if your meeting nutters that do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wherever, it doesn't matter. I'm having sex with them, nothing weird or embarrassing about that..not sure why so many people wouldn't want to cross paths with someone they slept with really.
Rather prudish some folk..want nothing to do with their own sex lives and to keep it in its own separate locked away bubble so as it shouldn't ever mix with their everyday lives.
Would you be ok with someone following you to your daughter's flat and knocking on the door, begging to be let in for sex?
I don't have a daughter.
And it sounds like you need to overhaul your vetting process if your meeting nutters that do that "
How would you vet someone to prevent that happening? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't like close. I don't want to bump into people. Minimum 10 -15 miles away probably more
Is that why you’re in the car, accelerating away from me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wherever, it doesn't matter. I'm having sex with them, nothing weird or embarrassing about that..not sure why so many people wouldn't want to cross paths with someone they slept with really.
Rather prudish some folk..want nothing to do with their own sex lives and to keep it in its own separate locked away bubble so as it shouldn't ever mix with their everyday lives.
Would you be ok with someone following you to your daughter's flat and knocking on the door, begging to be let in for sex?
I don't have a daughter.
And it sounds like you need to overhaul your vetting process if your meeting nutters that do that "
I didn't meet him. We swapped face pics but I decided to not meet him after talking a while.
You can see why some people won't meet local people now though, can't you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never wanted to bump into anyone I’d met in the supermarket. I think I may have taken it to the extreme 270 miles
* meet in the supermarket "
The other week I did meet a couple I’ve played with a few times...in our local Tesco. We said hi, had a laugh, arranged another meet.... keeps it simple! |
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