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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range  what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T
I can see why hes persistant mmmm"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you met him at a club or party, didnt know his age or any other details, would you find him attractive and possibly play? If so, go for it, if not, well dont meet, simples "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have children in their 30's too and if I applied the 'same age as my children' rule, my swinging life would be very sparse indeed!
It's all down to attraction - go for it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x"
My long term partner is younger than my 36 year old daughter. He's 35. He is not a child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off"
No they would be different...i've been called allsorts on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off"
I agree men are looked down on where by women get congratulated should be level playing field |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x
My long term partner is younger than my 36 year old daughter. He's 35. He is not a child. "
My kind of woman x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Whilst I have age preferences set OP they're not entirely rigid but are based on the ages I think I'd most likely find a connection and chemistry with, but if someone came along that was outside of those ranges that I "clicked" with, as it appears you have, then I'd not think twice about it if it felt right  |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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"Whilst I have age preferences set OP they're not entirely rigid but are based on the ages I think I'd most likely find a connection and chemistry with, but if someone came along that was outside of those ranges that I "clicked" with, as it appears you have, then I'd not think twice about it if it felt right "
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off"
Of course not! He'd have been ripped a new one and called all sorts, but that's the double standards of Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T "
Do it if you want too !
You’re far better off regretting something you’ve done than something you didn’t....
Only my opinion of course  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whilst I have age preferences set OP they're not entirely rigid but are based on the ages I think I'd most likely find a connection and chemistry with, but if someone came along that was outside of those ranges that I "clicked" with, as it appears you have, then I'd not think twice about it if it felt right "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off
Of course not! He'd have been ripped a new one and called all sorts, but that's the double standards of Fab. "
Yet all it is is 2 adults who make each other happy in one way or another, I think it's got more to do with jealously than morality |
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x"
Personally I find the conversation of my twenty and thirty something children limited...I would have little mentally in common with their age group and I like to talk with playmates but I'd hardly call liking adults paedophilia!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x
Personally I find the conversation of my twenty and thirty something children limited...I would have little mentally in common with their age group and I like to talk with playmates but I'd hardly call liking adults paedophilia! "
Well my 26 yo is more interesting to converse with than all the 50+’s I work with, holidays and greenhouses seem their range lols x |
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off
Of course not! He'd have been ripped a new one and called all sorts, but that's the double standards of Fab.
Yet all it is is 2 adults who make each other happy in one way or another, I think it's got more to do with jealously than morality "
I would disagree.
I've had younger men approach me, one used to hang around my office. He looked like my son.
Personally anyone that could pass as my son or my dad...not for me. But each to their own.  |
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x
Personally I find the conversation of my twenty and thirty something children limited...I would have little mentally in common with their age group and I like to talk with playmates but I'd hardly call liking adults paedophilia!
Well my 26 yo is more interesting to converse with than all the 50+’s I work with, holidays and greenhouses seem their range lols x"
My children are doctors etc and very religious. They're also new parents or newly weds.
The other half, who I met on here said what's wrong with this picture. My daughter and her husband were on their way to all night prayers...we were off to a swingers club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x"
Terrible viewpoint.
My wife is the same age as my brother.... does that make me borderline homosexual or inc3stuous or both??? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T "
My favourite meet is an almost 21 year old and been meeting for 2 years....go for it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow hope I look as good as you at 50 (ish) OP!!! Not surprised you attract the younger ones, go for it! If there's attraction and you click then why the hell not??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see where you're coming from because I have the same rule, No one near my daughters age...... however I have a few other rules Iv bent and dropped for the right people. At the end of the day life's to short and rules are meant to be broken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont get why age is a problem with so many people! If you like him, you like him. Go for it! We would be very happy to play with someone with that much of an age difference if the attraction was there! |
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x
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What if you're in your later years, say 70; and you had your children early, say 19. Is it boderline "peodo" to fancy a 50 year old???  |
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch! "
Humans have all sorts of body shapes and none of them are reserved to anyone of a particular age. The bloody media has a lot to answer for. |
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Humans have all sorts of body shapes and none of them are reserved to anyone of a particular age. The bloody media has a lot to answer for."
True, but I still think she looks in great shape! |
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch! "
Ms TBird certainly is in far better shape than a lot of the 30 year old women in here, that's for sure |
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Personally Me being 24;I love older women. They usually know how to please me and can tell me what pleases them. They can take a pounding(as 90% of younger women have trouble taking me inside them) so I usually prefer older women. They are also straight forward.. for some reason my generation really likes to play games. |
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Humans have all sorts of body shapes and none of them are reserved to anyone of a particular age. The bloody media has a lot to answer for.
True, but I still think she looks in great shape!"
She does but adding something like 'for your age' can be seen as an insult. |
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Ms TBird certainly is in far better shape than a lot of the 30 year old women in here, that's for sure "
And there are plenty of 30 year olds in far better 'shape' than some 50 year olds. Age has absolutely nothing to do with perception of beauty.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T
Do it if you want too !
You’re far better off regretting something you’ve done than something you didn’t....
Only my opinion of course "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it a bit borderline peodo if they are the same age as your children x
Personally I find the conversation of my twenty and thirty something children limited...I would have little mentally in common with their age group and I like to talk with playmates but I'd hardly call liking adults paedophilia!
Well my 26 yo is more interesting to converse with than all the 50+’s I work with, holidays and greenhouses seem their range lols x
My children are doctors etc and very religious. They're also new parents or newly weds.
The other half, who I met on here said what's wrong with this picture. My daughter and her husband were on their way to all night prayers...we were off to a swingers club! "
Sounds like you are all living the life you want good for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The old saying it's just a number springs to mind.
If it's going to be enjoyable then why not? If it didn't go well then you know that you wouldn't try that young again? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Ms TBird certainly is in far better shape than a lot of the 30 year old women in here, that's for sure
And there are plenty of 30 year olds in far better 'shape' than some 50 year olds. Age has absolutely nothing to do with perception of beauty.
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Hear hear its all in attitude and confidence x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Ms TBird certainly is in far better shape than a lot of the 30 year old women in here, that's for sure "
Why thanks muchly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch! "
Thanks lovely |
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T
Go for it girl
I think I just might "
As long as he isn't your daughter's BF then it's all good.
P.S. If he turns out to be a disappointment give me a shout! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Holy hell you are bloody gorgeous OP.
If there's attraction does age really matter?
He's above age of consent!! Definitely old enough to know his own mind and body.
Don't let yourself miss out down to a mere number.
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If he pushes your buttons go for it. My lower age limit is set at 35 at the moment quite simply because I've found most younger guys have woeful conversational skills and just don't engage me... There has been the occasional exception though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T "
Go for it...a friend of mine had similar reservations three years ago, especially as she was older than his dad....she married him last week x |
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Humans have all sorts of body shapes and none of them are reserved to anyone of a particular age. The bloody media has a lot to answer for.
True, but I still think she looks in great shape!
She does but adding something like 'for your age' can be seen as an insult."
It can, but I didn't say that - just the opposite! I get what you mean but I still say anno domini makes it harder and so all the more impressive, even if it is partly a lottery of genetics. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off
Of course not! He'd have been ripped a new one and called all sorts, but that's the double standards of Fab. "
I had a playmate of 25. Im 46. People can rip me but I enjoyed the pleasure of a younger lass. So watch me not give two hoots.
OP. Go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone think the posts would be the same had the op been male?
I'm not saying that the op is wrong, far from it, but I myself have not mentioned the age of a certain someone in my life because that dirty old man label is a bugger to peel off
Of course not! He'd have been ripped a new one and called all sorts, but that's the double standards of Fab.
I had a playmate of 25. Im 46. People can rip me but I enjoyed the pleasure of a younger lass. So watch me not give two hoots.
OP. Go for it."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Humans have all sorts of body shapes and none of them are reserved to anyone of a particular age. The bloody media has a lot to answer for.
True, but I still think she looks in great shape!
She does but adding something like 'for your age' can be seen as an insult.
It can, but I didn't say that - just the opposite! I get what you mean but I still say anno domini makes it harder and so all the more impressive, even if it is partly a lottery of genetics. "
Well I would say we are both rocking it for our generation sexy lady x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T
Go for it...a friend of mine had similar reservations three years ago, especially as she was older than his dad....she married him last week x"
Wow hope he doesnt read this lols  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Holy hell you are bloody gorgeous OP.
If there's attraction does age really matter?
He's above age of consent!! Definitely old enough to know his own mind and body.
Don't let yourself miss out down to a mere number.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T
Go for it girl
I think I just might
As long as he isn't your daughter's BF then it's all good.
P.S. If he turns out to be a disappointment give me a shout! "
Will do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So as a cough cough 55 year young lady I have always found my best fab friends to be of 35-45 age range what can I say! Always said no one below 30 as that is near the age of my daughters. But have chatted on and off to a charming and persistent 28yo and find myself weakening, I am pretty much twice his age,.... but he is dam hot!!!! Thoughts??? T
My favourite meet is an almost 21 year old and been meeting for 2 years....go for it! "
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"I have no kids, so I have no problem - if you get on, go for it! Besides, you look as though you have the body of a woman half your age...baitch!
Humans have all sorts of body shapes and none of them are reserved to anyone of a particular age. The bloody media has a lot to answer for.
True, but I still think she looks in great shape!
She does but adding something like 'for your age' can be seen as an insult.
It can, but I didn't say that - just the opposite! I get what you mean but I still say anno domini makes it harder and so all the more impressive, even if it is partly a lottery of genetics.
Well I would say we are both rocking it for our generation sexy lady x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not all of us young ones are immature and terrible with decent, matures conversations, I find a lot of older women to be surprised with my maturity, I suppose it’s just a few that give a bad name... go for it OP..nothing to lose |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stop faffing about and just do it! Oh, and, if you're wiling to break your lower age limit maybe you'd be happy to stretch your upper one a tad"
Well maybe you sound lovely and thanks for the wink a year ago hehe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not all of us young ones are immature and terrible with decent, matures conversations, I find a lot of older women to be surprised with my maturity, I suppose it’s just a few that give a bad name... go for it OP..nothing to lose "
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Age is just a number, and this is just as true here. Go for it xx"
Age isn't just a number - it comes with wrinkles and drooping flesh!
Having said that, I have no problems playing with anyone from 18 to 65 as long as I find them (and they find me) attractive. |
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