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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
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Coffee n jaffas? |
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over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
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yeah I am the same at the moment like to get the know the person stops awkward moments with social you know what someone does and doesn't like and feel more relaxed as well |
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
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Fuck and go? I'd rather stay n play  |
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In all honesty our opinions have changed so much.. we always wanted a fuck and go but could never seem to get one
It's still on the bucket list though us to be fucking and a hot couple come in and join us then go and we carry on fucking each other's brains out
That being said our best meet started as a social but we all knew we were gonna play and it was the hottest meet we had ... flirting and drinks much more relaxed led to hours of playing |
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I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?"
No curry? |
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over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?"
My kinda gal  |
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over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal "
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
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I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol |
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
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You mean you want to date ?
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady"
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol  |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
You mean you want to date ?
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No, I just got in a rut of not even being offered a bloody brew.
Then the awkwardness of saying to someone no actually im not coming in you look like 10 years older than your photos when youve driven an hour to her house |
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol "
Did i? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
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If it narrows it down I'm the type that only gets socials it appears I'm not fuck material. Hope this helps |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i? "
Lol seriously |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
If it narrows it down I'm the type that only gets socials it appears I'm not fuck material. Hope this helps "
Lol nice arms  |
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
You mean you want to date ?
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Why is a Social a date? It’s a chance to find out if you like the person in person, if you connect before taking it to the next stage rather than just fucking whoever turns up. Because quite often what turns up isn’t always quite what’s in a profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can count on one hand without using all my fingers the amount of times I've not had at least a social first, and infact even those were more than just turn up and fuck, there was at least a coffee involved!
You're a grown women. Set the tone from the outset. "There will be a social" |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I always do a social first.
In fact too many men in my area seems to act like all they want is a fuck and go meet, hence why I haven't had sex since March as I would rather just go without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
You mean you want to date ?
Why is a Social a date? It’s a chance to find out if you like the person in person, if you connect before taking it to the next stage rather than just fucking whoever turns up. Because quite often what turns up isn’t always quite what’s in a profile "
Absolutely
Much prefer a social first meeting myself & if that leads to more then so be it.
Shame OP is so far away, certainly would buy ya a cuppa and maybe a treat  |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"I can count on one hand without using all my fingers the amount of times I've not had at least a social first, and infact even those were more than just turn up and fuck, there was at least a coffee involved!
You're a grown women. Set the tone from the outset. "There will be a social" "
Lol such a valid statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i? "
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i?
Dickhead "
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i?
Dickhead "
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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago
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We have very little spare time so socials are hard. We chat a lot. Call. Cam even before meeting. Don’t mind a social if play is a possibility on the same night but Mrs gets 2 nights out and has to plan. The fab or club socials are on days neither of us can attend. So our “socialising” is online for ease and time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i?
Lol seriously"
What a fool i was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i?
Dickhead "
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"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
You mean you want to date ?
Why is a Social a date? It’s a chance to find out if you like the person in person, if you connect before taking it to the next stage rather than just fucking whoever turns up. Because quite often what turns up isn’t always quite what’s in a profile "
Exactly! |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"How do you choose between a fuck n go and a social? Who gets what treatment
I ask because im done with fuck n goes, I want a social too. Im worth it a coffee n a laugh, I want to try heightening the build ect ect
Coffee n jaffas?
No curry?
My kinda gal
I had a curry meet last year with a lovely lady
Yes and you turned me down for a social the irony you posted on this thread lol
Did i?
Lol seriously
What a fool i was "
You were adorable and cute in turning me away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have very little spare time so socials are hard. We chat a lot. Call. Cam even before meeting. Don’t mind a social if play is a possibility on the same night but Mrs gets 2 nights out and has to plan. The fab or club socials are on days neither of us can attend. So our “socialising” is online for ease and time.
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We’re very similar due to misters work and our family commitments. We have done socials but normally with a view to playing if everyone agrees. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can count on one hand without using all my fingers the amount of times I've not had at least a social first, and infact even those were more than just turn up and fuck, there was at least a coffee involved!
You're a grown women. Set the tone from the outset. "There will be a social"
Lol such a valid statement"
Reading it back it sounds abrupt.
Thing is, I'm pretty sure genuine blokes would have no issue with a social unless they just dont want to be seen in public with you for whatever reason.
We all know women hold the majority of the cards here, if they don't want to get to know you over a drink or meal then you need to ask yourself why?
Well, that's what I assume anyway.  |
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"I can count on one hand without using all my fingers the amount of times I've not had at least a social first, and infact even those were more than just turn up and fuck, there was at least a coffee involved!
You're a grown women. Set the tone from the outset. "There will be a social"
Lol such a valid statement
Reading it back it sounds abrupt.
Thing is, I'm pretty sure genuine blokes would have no issue with a social unless they just dont want to be seen in public with you for whatever reason.
We all know women hold the majority of the cards here, if they don't want to get to know you over a drink or meal then you need to ask yourself why?
Well, that's what I assume anyway. "
It’s not abrupt it’s a filter. If a guy doesn’t want a social/drink with me he certainly isn’t someone I’d meet anyway. |
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"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol"
Not at all lovely!
Fuck n’ go has always left me cold - I need to click with someone! I make that clear on my profile though - so if they bother to read, the instashag types know not to bother messaging!
Perhaps you could do that?
Oh - and if an old fart like me can get people to meet me for a drink, I’m sure a lovely young woman like you will have no problem!
If we both click at the social though, and we both have time, I have no problem moving things forward straight away as long as we have somewhere to play!
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I prefer to meet for a social first, as it's amazing how different people can be in person, to the image you build from their profile and chats in here. I don't meet everyone who offers, and I don't go on to play with everyone I meet for a social. I have played on the first meet it's true, but I don't expect to, and it's not often been convenient for both parties (if the social went well that is) |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I can count on one hand without using all my fingers the amount of times I've not had at least a social first, and infact even those were more than just turn up and fuck, there was at least a coffee involved!
You're a grown women. Set the tone from the outset. "There will be a social"
Lol such a valid statement
Reading it back it sounds abrupt.
Thing is, I'm pretty sure genuine blokes would have no issue with a social unless they just dont want to be seen in public with you for whatever reason.
We all know women hold the majority of the cards here, if they don't want to get to know you over a drink or meal then you need to ask yourself why?
Well, that's what I assume anyway. "
Im just a bit pissy I got turned down for a social when he suggested a meet but his veris show he does them lol but I wasn't worthy.
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"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol
Not at all lovely!
Fuck n’ go has always left me cold - I need to click with someone! I make that clear on my profile though - so if they bother to read, the instashag types know not to bother messaging!
Perhaps you could do that?
Oh - and if an old fart like me can get people to meet me for a drink, I’m sure a lovely young woman like you will have no problem!
If we both click at the social though, and we both have time, I have no problem moving things forward straight away as long as we have somewhere to play!
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she's a great kisser if you play your cards right |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
goblin city |
"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol
Not at all lovely!
Fuck n’ go has always left me cold - I need to click with someone! I make that clear on my profile though - so if they bother to read, the instashag types know not to bother messaging!
Perhaps you could do that?
Oh - and if an old fart like me can get people to meet me for a drink, I’m sure a lovely young woman like you will have no problem!
If we both click at the social though, and we both have time, I have no problem moving things forward straight away as long as we have somewhere to play!
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Great advice your right about everything. Barr the old fart bit, your stunning  |
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"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol
Not at all lovely!
Fuck n’ go has always left me cold - I need to click with someone! I make that clear on my profile though - so if they bother to read, the instashag types know not to bother messaging!
Perhaps you could do that?
Oh - and if an old fart like me can get people to meet me for a drink, I’m sure a lovely young woman like you will have no problem!
If we both click at the social though, and we both have time, I have no problem moving things forward straight away as long as we have somewhere to play!
she's a great kisser if you play your cards right "
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"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol
Not at all lovely!
Fuck n’ go has always left me cold - I need to click with someone! I make that clear on my profile though - so if they bother to read, the instashag types know not to bother messaging!
Perhaps you could do that?
Oh - and if an old fart like me can get people to meet me for a drink, I’m sure a lovely young woman like you will have no problem!
If we both click at the social though, and we both have time, I have no problem moving things forward straight away as long as we have somewhere to play!
Great advice your right about everything. Barr the old fart bit, your stunning "
Aw thanks - cosmetics are a wonderful thing!
I make great brews too if you need to bend a fab-friendly ear! Apparently you’re pretty close to me! |
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"I always have a social first.. Because, damn it I am worth it
If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for coffee, then he's certainly not getting anything else out of me.
I make that clear from first contact, I don't do fuck n go, instashags.
You are worth it OP, just make it clear straight away & if anyone isn't up for that coffee... Their loss x
I enjoy a fuck n go, but the ones id go on a social with say no
Must be me lol
Not at all lovely!
Fuck n’ go has always left me cold - I need to click with someone! I make that clear on my profile though - so if they bother to read, the instashag types know not to bother messaging!
Perhaps you could do that?
Oh - and if an old fart like me can get people to meet me for a drink, I’m sure a lovely young woman like you will have no problem!
If we both click at the social though, and we both have time, I have no problem moving things forward straight away as long as we have somewhere to play!
she's a great kisser if you play your cards right
Shush you! Stop giving my secrets away! "
you only gave me one of many the fab world has to know some of these things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them. |
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"I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them. "
How about coffee, cake and a kiss? |
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"I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them.
How about coffee, cake and a kiss? "
Nope. A kiss is sexual.  |
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"I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them.
How about coffee, cake and a kiss?
Nope. A kiss is sexual. "
Crikey missus you drive a hard bargain, how about a bag of chips and a high five |
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"I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them.
How about coffee, cake and a kiss?
Nope. A kiss is sexual.
Crikey missus you drive a hard bargain, how about a bag of chips and a high five "
Go on then. But only an air high five. No touching. |
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"I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them.
How about coffee, cake and a kiss?
Nope. A kiss is sexual.
Crikey missus you drive a hard bargain, how about a bag of chips and a high five
Go on then. But only an air high five. No touching. "
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"I don't need to choose, I don't fuck n go. Social only for a first meet. Coffee and a chat, no chance of anything sexual. If they don't want that I don't meet them.
How about coffee, cake and a kiss?
Nope. A kiss is sexual. "
"Oh no it isn't!" (in true pantomime style, since it's that time of year!)
Mothers kiss babies and children without it being sexual. Foreigners kiss each other as a greeting even on formal state visits without it being sexual.
I rest my case. |
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