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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good evening Fabbers,
We hear all the time how ladies are tired of hearing the same old one liners or single word messages from men who just want one thing and when they don't get it they give the lady abuse.
My question is why is it when you strike up a decent connection with somebody via mutually respectful messages to the point where you almost become friends over a few weeks, that they suddenly decide to start ignoring or deleting messages from you.
I understand the ladies right to change her mind scenario but in this situation change her mind about what, being friends?
Please understand that this is not a rant I would just like other people's opinions on this matter. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only person who can really answer is her.
Maybe the spark wore off? She got bored? Someone else took her attention? She's having a bad time and not feeling chatty? You said something the offended her? No one knows. |
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Messaging on here isn’t really ‘friends’. Maybe she was chatting with a view to a meet and it became clear that wasn’t going to happen maybe. There’s only so many people you can give quality time to so maybe someone else interested her more or she’s busy with life. Who knows what happens with these things. |
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We don't know someone 100% for a long time - even less if we don't know their full situation etc.
People here have choices and aren't generally looking for committed relationships, so. will change their interests more randomly. They also have broader lives than we'll be a part of ! Work, family and relationships including friends away from here come first.
The best people you could know will also more in and out of casual relationships, whilst you as the other party don't really have a right to know if they just got bored or shagged someone else instead.
Set your expectations appropriately. |
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