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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi yall. I like many other men like bareback. I’ve met a couple of girls on here and did it but then regretted it and had to go get checked out. What are your experiences? Is it rubber all the way or can bareback work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex. If you're sucking dick or licking clit you're not really having safe sex. Condoms do cut the risk of getting disease through penetrative sex but you can still get chlamydia in the throat if you give oral to someone that has it. |
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"A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex. "
They probably didn't realise it because it's not true. The probabilities are totally different, especially in the case of HIV. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex.
They probably didn't realise it because it's not true. The probabilities are totally different, especially in the case of HIV. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia (less likely) and hiv (rare) can all be passed on orally. When I said basically the same I slightly exaggerated to be fair but just cause the risk is lower (for some diseases) doesn't mean you're having safe sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia (less likely) and hiv (rare) can all be passed on orally. When I said basically the same I slightly exaggerated to be fair but just cause the risk is lower (for some diseases) doesn't mean you're having safe sex. "
No sex is 100% safe.
We all have our individual levels of risk we're willing to take.
For me bareback sex with casual partners is too much of a risk. I don't judge those who do play bare, that's their bodies, their risk, their choice and none of my business  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex.
They probably didn't realise it because it's not true. The probabilities are totally different, especially in the case of HIV.
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"Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia (less likely) and hiv (rare) can all be passed on orally. When I said basically the same I slightly exaggerated to be fair but just cause the risk is lower (for some diseases) doesn't mean you're having safe sex. "
And condoms offer no protection against HPV and herpes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi yall. I like many other men like bareback. I’ve met a couple of girls on here and did it but then regretted it and had to go get checked out. What are your experiences? Is it rubber all the way or can bareback work?"
I live on a fairly quiet street, if I open my front door, close my eyes, and run in a straight line. Chances are pretty good I could get across the road alive. But if a car is driving down the road.... I might not live through it.
Unprotected sex is a bit like that, except sometimes there is a lot more traffic than outside my house! |
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" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging ."
Best advice ever given .
There is no such thing as safe sex , so if you’re gonna spend half your life worrying about what you may catch from swinging them it’s best not to bother .
Or just go to socials , either way you’ll be a whole lot happier without having to worry about who may have this that or the other , and whether a condom stops you getting it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What does "can it work" mean? Why is this even a topic of conversation didn't we all learn about safe sex at the age of about 14/15? Common sense should tell you to wear a condom so don't be surprised when your dick rots off because you've been fucking about bareback. |
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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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We will only have unprotected sex with a guy we both use regular
And we all go for a check up at same time...others we will always use protection as are safety and health comes before any sort of sexual pleasure...even on Meets Durex must be worn for blow jobs |
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Swinging is a risk. Typical year of swinging for us will incorporate all of the following events....
Oral sex (without)
Condoms put on the wrong way and then turned around (happens all the time).
Spit being used as lube for cock, fingers, etc. (Gross but it happens).
Condoms rolling off during and after play.
Jizz in eyes.
The odd regular we play with bareback who we trust (stupidly?).
So we get tested regularly and we try our best to be safe in a risky world.
S and C
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What does "can it work" mean? Why is this even a topic of conversation didn't we all learn about safe sex at the age of about 14/15? Common sense should tell you to wear a condom so don't be surprised when your dick rots off because you've been fucking about bareback."
Lots of people had utterly useless sex education. They don't realise there's any risks involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!
But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting
Gotta catch 'em all!"
Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on the pill, use condoms and get checked every 3 months, no different from having sex with anyone else! I know people who aren't swingers and have more sex than most, everything's a risk, if your that worried, stop having sex |
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"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!
But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting
Gotta catch 'em all!
Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get? "
Got got got NEED!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spent from the age of about 17 to about 30 going out every week and sleeping with so many folk I lost count years and years ago all without a condom. Never caught a single solitary thing that way..std's ain't all that easy to catch apparently! And if you do, for the most part, you can just have it seen to like anything else, no worse than getting a cold or whatever really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!
But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting
Gotta catch 'em all!
Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get?
Got got got NEED! "
Swapsies! |
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"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!
But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting
Gotta catch 'em all!
Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get?
Got got got NEED! "
Got got got NEED! Swaps?  |
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