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Do women actually browse looking for men or just respond to messages?
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over a year ago
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad! "
So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?
Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message. |
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!
So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?
Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message. "
I find Naughthycal prose works |
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!
You did message me first though "
But if I did it was only for a forum chat - you're outside my preferences for shagging lol! |
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I mostly respond to messages- but I might have hotlisted them and then initiate contact myself may be months later...
have actively done some hunting when I am looking for something very particular.
and have been known to message first when someone is really interesting, mostly through forum posts etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The killer question is definitely what is the winning “Subject” title that makes women go wow he’s different. I bet 1 million are just “hey” and not gonna lie I’m bad for that sometimes haha. |
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!
So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?
Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message. "
Wit is the one thing that can overcome preferences, lol! I usually check the pics first, then the facts - height, accomm etc., and only if I like them do I read the copy and THEN open the message if all is good! |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!
So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?
Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.
Wit is the one thing that can overcome preferences, lol! I usually check the pics first, then the facts - height, accomm etc., and only if I like them do I read the copy and THEN open the message if all is good! "
This, I also check in the same order oddly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!
So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?
Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.
Wit is the one thing that can overcome preferences, lol! I usually check the pics first, then the facts - height, accomm etc., and only if I like them do I read the copy and THEN open the message if all is good!
This, I also check in the same order oddly "
Wow so many hoops...
Knew I should have learned to roll my hips |
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!
So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?
Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.
Wit is the one thing that can overcome preferences, lol! I usually check the pics first, then the facts - height, accomm etc., and only if I like them do I read the copy and THEN open the message if all is good!
This, I also check in the same order oddly
Wow so many hoops...
Knew I should have learned to roll my hips "
It's not really hoops, it's checking if they have taken any notice of preferences really - just no point wasting their time of mine if it won't work for either one of us I feel. |
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I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching |
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"I mostly respond to messages- but I might have hotlisted them and then initiate contact myself may be months later...
have actively done some hunting when I am looking for something very particular.
and have been known to message first when someone is really interesting, mostly through forum posts etc"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching "
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze "
Errr I think I mean gaze |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze "
Are you calling me a cow? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow? "
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble "
You know I'm only teasing lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely "
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels "
Who me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me? "
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad "
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease "
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female. "
I do indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease "
Me? Tease? Well if you insist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed "
Oh hello indeed. So sexy. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed "
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd "
.... I'm just not funny, apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd
.... I'm just not funny, apparently "
You always make me smile |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd
.... I'm just not funny, apparently "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd
.... I'm just not funny, apparently
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Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd
.... I'm just not funny, apparently
Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it "
O it's got staying power. In more ways than one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching
Browse?...
I was thinking more graze
Are you calling me a cow?
Certainly not
I was just thinking of a wee nibble
You know I'm only teasing lovely
I remember your teasing
Pure filth with no vowels
Who me?
Ohhh it must be Christmas
I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad
Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease
Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.
I do indeed
Rydych chi'n wraig hardd
.... I'm just not funny, apparently
Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it
O it's got staying power. In more ways than one "
Is that capital 'O' what I have to look forward to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it
O it's got staying power. In more ways than one
Is that capital 'O' what I have to look forward to? "
My tongue is my most experienced muscle. |
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I search for specific things sometimes. But I read the search results in the same way I read my inbox, profile first.
For me, the profile needs to have photos including a profile pic (the fewer cock pics the better), text (great if it’s funny or eye-catching but, to be honest, lots of profiles don’t have any) and no pointless Sydney University warning. Then I look at verifications as one way of judging safety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont get 100s of messages.
If someone asks me to meet i always respond even to say sorry im not free.
I would say guys who have read my profile and reference it are more likely to get a reply.
Likewise if they have sent me a face pic where they are smiling.
Cock pics are OK just not too many
If they have taken effort to compose a witty message then yes i will reply too.
Occassionally browse men in my area but not often.
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for
Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do occasionally. Usually find the ones I like live miles away lol!"
Same here and gets annoying, but don't look that often as usually too many messages, do like to scan the hot pics tho x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for
Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might. "
It is scary making the first move. Your right, and it's no different for men. Maybe this could explain why we rarely approach it in the correct way.
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By *abs..Woman
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"I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for
Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might.
It is scary making the first move. Your right, and it's no different for men. Maybe this could explain why we rarely approach it in the correct way.
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When a guy sends me a pic of his apparently 10inch pride and joy, I’m not sure he’s scared however I take your point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all women are inundated. That's a myth.
Not all women sit back waiting and wondering why there are no decent guys.
If I'm in meeting mode I go find them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?
Every? I'm the exception then."
“This member has hidden their profile” |
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"I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for
Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might. "
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Never went looking. I either respond to an interesting message or engage someone I've been intrigued by on the forums/in the chatroom.
Its not vanity, but I kinda figure that if a guy likes the look of my profile, he'll contact me... If he hasn't, he's not interested and there's no point in me contacting him... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I put all filters on and I browse and message who i like .But mostly only chat too friends .Too many profiles with no pics on or not verified that I avoid . |
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?
Every? I'm the exception then.
“This member has hidden their profile” "
Yeah and?
When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time. |
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?
Every? I'm the exception then.
“This member has hidden their profile” "
And??? Her choice what she does with her profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves? " I can only hope ,will believe it when it happens |
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Just posted on another thread, if this is the case ill never meet again!!!...no longer mail girls as they get too much mail and i assume, as its very easy, that if theyre interested they will wink or send a quick 'hi'... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?
Every? I'm the exception then.
“This member has hidden their profile”
Yeah and?
When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time. "
I don't go along with that. When you get it constantly rammed down your throat that women haven't enough seconds in the day to reply to all the 100s they get then you have to think there must be some truth to it. Obviously there will be some more than others. Personally I avoid the ones who get to page 1 of hotpics as It stands to reason they will get spammed to hell lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?
Every? I'm the exception then.
“This member has hidden their profile”
Yeah and?
When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time. "
I've never had hundreds of messages a day, even the several times I've made it to top of hot pics and before I was seeing someone.
If I really want to, I'll come up with some crap excuse to message them (providing they haven't done so already!). When I'm actively looking for sex, yes, I message men first. I don't have to but I don't see why I wouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad! "
Maybe, but these are the same guys that are messaging you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?
Every? I'm the exception then.
“This member has hidden their profile”
Yeah and?
When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time.
I've never had hundreds of messages a day, even the several times I've made it to top of hot pics and before I was seeing someone.
If I really want to, I'll come up with some crap excuse to message them (providing they haven't done so already!). When I'm actively looking for sex, yes, I message men first. I don't have to but I don't see why I wouldn't." well mostly you wouldn't because you don't have to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've messaged guys first a couple of times before because I've liked the look of their profile but then didn't end up fancying them once I seen a face pic. I just reply to messages now. |
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