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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't counted either...but about 30 on my hotlist (which also counts as a not and just cos I'm nosey list). Block list is several pages long....maybe a couple of hundred on there... |
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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago
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I was recently blocked by a guy, which is odd as my profile said straight, but I didn't set my filter. He messaged me so I replied courteously and then he blocked me! Sorry I needed to get that off my chest! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2 or 3 on each. Had a dabble at using them in the beginning but quickly realised filters are much more economical "
True. I use my block list stop people showing up who I don’t want to meet while doing searches |
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Around 20 to 30 on hotlist (haven't counted) and 100s (again, haven't counted) on blocklist.
I know that figure seems high but a few people ask you to block if they're not of interest, the rest are senders of offensive messages, or those whose attitude on profiles and/or messages suggest they might get nasty when you reject them, repeatedly pushy people and a small number who've expressed vile opinions on the forum. I used to feel 'bad' about blocking, now I see it as a tool to protect myself![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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