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So I have been a good girl and checked the forums... but couldn't find what I was looking for... you
guys will have to help me out here!
Got myself a strap on a a willing victim  - now what do I do?? any good advice?
apart from preparing him and lube...
how the fuck do I do the fucking???  |
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Depends how big the strap on. Try him face down edge of th bed. Ideally you don't want to be crouching or on tiptoe, as you'll tire and lose the right angle.
My favourite is hands tied, led on my back, but I can't take much more than six inches at the moment, sadly xxx |
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"Depends how big the strap on. Try him face down edge of th bed. Ideally you don't want to be crouching or on tiptoe, as you'll tire and lose the right angle.
My favourite is hands tied, led on my back, but I can't take much more than six inches at the moment, sadly xxx"
two different sizes- I know he can take it as he has been able to take 5 fingers of mine before 
and thanks!!! |
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I find him on his back is easiest for thrusting. You can kinda push his legs a bit to get comfy and lean on them for a bit of support.
If your bed is quite high then having him on the edge with you standing is really good, if the bed is too low you just get crampy thighs and a bad angle.
It takes a bit of practice to get the hand of thrusting, its not a natural movement for us girls, my hips and thighs ache after but its so worth it! |
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"I find him on his back is easiest for thrusting. You can kinda push his legs a bit to get comfy and lean on them for a bit of support.
If your bed is quite high then having him on the edge with you standing is really good, if the bed is too low you just get crampy thighs and a bad angle.
It takes a bit of practice to get the hand of thrusting, its not a natural movement for us girls, my hips and thighs ache after but its so worth it! "
how am I going to explain my sore muscles to others? too much exercise? 
yeah I think the thrusting bit is what worries me as I have never done that... thanks!!! |
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Put the cock part in hot water a few minutes before use. Ul find he opens up alot easier. And if you have poppers to hand that helps too. Make sure He preps too with washing. We use the shower head hose minus head obviously. Fill empty fill empty fill empty. We have been doing this 11 years |
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I prefer it laid on my back with a couple of pillows under my ass so dshe can pin my legs back. Start slowly and he'll soon be asking you to speed up and go deeper. He'll soon be taking a nice big one. Enjoy  |
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Really depends on what position he finds most comfortable. I'd say try on his back with legs up, on the edge of the bed if it's the right height for you to be stood comfortably too. Or have him on all fours, which does allow a good grip on the hips and the odd spank on the ass too.
Either way start slow and let him get used to the girth etc. You can then begin to go deeper and gradually pick up the pace.
Just remember "it's all in the hips" 
Some women I've spoken to who have tried using a strapon for the first time have commented that it was more tiring/effort than they were expecting. So that may be something to be aware of ahead of time.
At the end of the day just relax and enjoy it. And don't forget the magic words. Lube, lube and more lube!
Hope you both enjoy. |
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"Put the cock part in hot water a few minutes before use. Ul find he opens up alot easier. And if you have poppers to hand that helps too. Make sure He preps too with washing. We use the shower head hose minus head obviously. Fill empty fill empty fill empty. We have been doing this 11 years "
does the warmth help?
and yeah he knows the drill and how to prep  |
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"I prefer it laid on my back with a couple of pillows under my ass so dshe can pin my legs back. Start slowly and he'll soon be asking you to speed up and go deeper. He'll soon be taking a nice big one. Enjoy "
good idea... i am taking notes now |
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"Really depends on what position he finds most comfortable. I'd say try on his back with legs up, on the edge of the bed if it's the right height for you to be stood comfortably too. Or have him on all fours, which does allow a good grip on the hips and the odd spank on the ass too.
Either way start slow and let him get used to the girth etc. You can then begin to go deeper and gradually pick up the pace.
Just remember "it's all in the hips"
Some women I've spoken to who have tried using a strapon for the first time have commented that it was more tiring/effort than they were expecting. So that may be something to be aware of ahead of time.
At the end of the day just relax and enjoy it. And don't forget the magic words. Lube, lube and more lube!
Hope you both enjoy."
yeah he has always been on his back with raised legs so far when I used my hand...
I think i might have to cheat and get him close to the edge before starting the strap on stuff so that I am not exhausted at the end |
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"Put the cock part in hot water a few minutes before use. Ul find he opens up alot easier. And if you have poppers to hand that helps too. Make sure He preps too with washing. We use the shower head hose minus head obviously. Fill empty fill empty fill empty. We have been doing this 11 years
does the warmth help?
and yeah he knows the drill and how to prep "
yes definitely like a muscle it reacts to temperature and cold toys will just make it tense up and you could cause some damage (piles) also try shallow nudging first rather than trying to push in in one go |
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