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I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find all of those pet names incredibly patronising. It's bad enough when they are used in messages on here but the other day, at work, a client called me "duck" *shudder*  |
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"Just like to add, it isn't just the men use these terms, I've been called Hun, Hunni, Chick, Babe, Sweet, Sweety etc etc."
I accept this comment to be an indicator of my totaly immersion in satyrism.
Men you may also comment ....... |
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over a year ago
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Its my real pet hate.. to get Babe, love your profile, would love to meet.
I accept that the younger lads do it often but I do actually say something... but I just tell them I am not their babe, honey, sweetie etc... and I would appreciate it if they didnt call me it.
It can really be the difference between meet or not...
Cali |
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over a year ago
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"So ..... what's your take ? "
It really winds me up babe tbh. I really get your point darlin.
Not sure why it gets my goat... but it just does hun 
Oh sugar!... I think I'm in trouble honey... please don't hurt me sweetie   |
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over a year ago
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"I am a serial offender... my favourites are chick,flower or poppet...
so shoot me!!! "
to be fair chick doesnt bother me that much.. or things like poppet.. 
its the hun, babe, darling etc...
cali |
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over a year ago
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"I use all of the above saves trying to remember names 
Well that's a bloody good reason I hadn't thought of ........
What about on here though. Do you like it ? "
Honestly no especially not in first message when they dont know me from Adam, must admit though once I have got to know people then yes normally hun is the 1 I tend to use the most . |
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"So ..... what's your take ?
It really winds me up babe tbh. I really get your point darlin.
Not sure why it gets my goat... but it just does hun
Oh sugar!... I think I'm in trouble honey... please don't hurt me sweetie "
Stop that right now Treacle xx |
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over a year ago
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I prefer too be called by my name. Find it rude if they use pet names since it feels like they are not acknowleding me. However big boy is acceptable haha |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I use all of the above saves trying to remember names "
Yes!! I thought it was just me.
'Hun' is much easier than racking my brains trying to remember a name. I don't mind being called hun or babe either, although I draw the line at 'sweety'. |
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over a year ago
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I only have one regular guy..and even he always calls me cali.. as he knows its respectful..
and actually I think babe annoys me more than when I get Okay Slut.. (which I get a few times )
Cali |
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"ah they're just words used in good nature, I'd rather be referred to as Babe rather than Bastard, Cutey over Cunt, Sweety over Slut and so on.lol
Is it fuck good nature. "
I think it's often offered in good nature, not always received in good nature. |
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"ah they're just words used in good nature, I'd rather be referred to as Babe rather than Bastard, Cutey over Cunt, Sweety over Slut and so on.lol
Is it fuck good nature.
I think it's often offered in good nature, not always received in good nature."
It's NOTHING to do with good nature. EVER.
Yes it is used between people and yes i accept it sometimes but it's NEVER good nature.
C'mon Shaga....when did you last call a bloke hunny ? darlin ? pet?
Fuck off with your good nature shit. Pet xx |
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Haha.... Gwanny, It even happens too me... guys calling me "Hun or Babe" which is totally mental, init!!!
I always ask, why are they doing that? And point out how creepy it sounds, having one bloke, call another bloke something like that,,,,
The answer that usually comes back ... is one claiming it was unintentional and they always address “everybody” by those terms... Then they start calling me Sox
Funny old world init!!
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"ah they're just words used in good nature, I'd rather be referred to as Babe rather than Bastard, Cutey over Cunt, Sweety over Slut and so on.lol
Is it fuck good nature.
I think it's often offered in good nature, not always received in good nature.
It's NOTHING to do with good nature. EVER.
Yes it is used between people and yes i accept it sometimes but it's NEVER good nature.
C'mon Shaga....when did you last call a bloke hunny ? darlin ? pet?
Fuck off with your good nature shit. Pet xx "
I think we'll have to agree to disagree, I do believe it's offered in good nature, certainly not nastiness, just a term, almost of endearment.
Personally I don't tend to use terms as such, unless in response to a term used towards me.
I call my soon darling, sweety, gorgeous. does that count? lol |
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"Haha.... Gwanny, It even happens too me... guys calling me "Hun or Babe" which is totally mental, init!!!
I always ask, why are they doing that? And point out how creepy it sounds, having one bloke, call another bloke something like that,,,,
The answer that usually comes back ... is one claiming it was unintentional and they always address “everybody” by those terms... Then they start calling me Sox
Funny old world init!!
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Such a familiar scenario Sox
Nothing wrong with affection from family or long term freinds.... but strangers........ PUKE. Speaks volumes. |
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"ah they're just words used in good nature, I'd rather be referred to as Babe rather than Bastard, Cutey over Cunt, Sweety over Slut and so on.lol
Is it fuck good nature.
I think it's often offered in good nature, not always received in good nature.
It's NOTHING to do with good nature. EVER.
Yes it is used between people and yes i accept it sometimes but it's NEVER good nature.
C'mon Shaga....when did you last call a bloke hunny ? darlin ? pet?
Fuck off with your good nature shit. Pet xx
I think we'll have to agree to disagree, I do believe it's offered in good nature, certainly not nastiness, just a term, almost of endearment.
Personally I don't tend to use terms as such, unless in response to a term used towards me.
I call my soon darling, sweety, gorgeous. does that count? lol"
I don't have a soon. Am I missing out ? Sweet cheeks ? |
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Lol pmsl ffs!!! So I start talkin to a bloke n I don't know his name I call him mate, if it's a woman I say bab, if I was talkin to u should I keep calling u granny?? Cos u don't leave a moniker to be called other than that, n I'm sure plenty of peeps would find that offensive!! |
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"although I draw the line at 'sweaty'.
If anyone calls me that I do go off on one and take a shower "
get called sweaty all the time by a cpl friends not sure whether its to do with being Scottish or the fact i have hyperhydrosis and they feed me choc just to watch me break out  |
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"ah they're just words used in good nature, I'd rather be referred to as Babe rather than Bastard, Cutey over Cunt, Sweety over Slut and so on.lol
Is it fuck good nature.
I think it's often offered in good nature, not always received in good nature.
It's NOTHING to do with good nature. EVER.
Yes it is used between people and yes i accept it sometimes but it's NEVER good nature.
C'mon Shaga....when did you last call a bloke hunny ? darlin ? pet?
Fuck off with your good nature shit. Pet xx
I think we'll have to agree to disagree, I do believe it's offered in good nature, certainly not nastiness, just a term, almost of endearment.
Personally I don't tend to use terms as such, unless in response to a term used towards me.
I call my soon darling, sweety, gorgeous. does that count? lol
I don't have a soon. Am I missing out ? Sweet cheeks ?"
Haha, blummin spell check doesn't help with that eh, I obviously meant Son. |
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"Lol pmsl ffs!!! So I start talkin to a bloke n I don't know his name I call him mate, if it's a woman I say bab, if I was talkin to u should I keep calling u granny?? Cos u don't leave a moniker to be called other than that, n I'm sure plenty of peeps would find that offensive!!"
Find what offensive ? Bab ? Yes I'd find Bab bloody ridiculous. I'm an adult. |
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I usually address a lady as "Madam", but do occassionally revert to my roots and call her the dreaded "pet".
Mind I find blokes in Leeds call each other "Love", which I find unsettling at first, but then again its the other way round in Middlesbrough, where lasses frequently call each other "man"...
The strange differences 70 miles of distance can make... |
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"only one I really detest is being called Hun. It's even on my profile not to call me that, but who the fuck reads profiles anyway."
Doesnt mind being called a daft bint tho |
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"Every day that I read these forums I think to myself, jeez I must be a very tolerant person, lol
Im also very tolerant. Doesn't mean I cannot ask for opinions."
Talking generally, not aimed solely at you or this thread, just didn't consider my comment big enough to start a thread on it.  |
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" I usually address a lady as "Madam", but do occassionally revert to my roots and call her the dreaded "pet".
Mind I find blokes in Leeds call each other "Love", which I find unsettling at first, but then again its the other way round in Middlesbrough, where lasses frequently call each other "man"...
The strange differences 70 miles of distance can make..."
See Madam for some reason makes me think of a woman in Black latex with boots up to her bum and a whip in hand  |
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" I usually address a lady as "Madam", but do occassionally revert to my roots and call her the dreaded "pet".
Mind I find blokes in Leeds call each other "Love", which I find unsettling at first, but then again its the other way round in Middlesbrough, where lasses frequently call each other "man"...
The strange differences 70 miles of distance can make..."
Regional differences accepted. I am really asking about men who refer to any woman in this way with particular reference to introductory messages on this site.
It's possible that i recognise my own hypocrisy also. There are one , maybe two men on here I'd allow to call me what ever the fugg they liked. |
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"Every day that I read these forums I think to myself, jeez I must be a very tolerant person, lol
Im also very tolerant. Doesn't mean I cannot ask for opinions.
Talking generally, not aimed solely at you or this thread, just didn't consider my comment big enough to start a thread on it. "
Babe! My reply was about me fluffy plums xx Not you you sexy little porridge head xxx |
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I agree with Granny, its annoying, I can just about tolerate it from people I have been chatting with, for awhile. From complete strangers, I just think, are you in the right place, I am no babe and I am certainly not a darling.
This is just me of course, but its like guys think if they add a little sugar to mails (darling, babe or sexy) that I will just drop my kecks, as its the ultimate compliment its sooooo not! |
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I remember signing in fer membership of a club...the silly girl on hearing my name was David, then proceeded to pepper her sales pitch with Dave this and Dave that....until I corrected her....I found it overly familar..false ..and disrespectful...in different circumstances..I sometimes request they drop the formal use of my name, and use Dave..
I`m quite happy being called Dave, but when its appropriate..
Very, very, occasionally I get people who ask what I prefer...Dave or David....it then depends on the context...
I find pet names by strangers...immature...I`m no fuckers " hun "..I just ignore em...they`ll flock to others who don`t mind being patronised...
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"I agree with Granny, its annoying, I can just about tolerate it from people I have been chatting with, for awhile. From complete strangers, I just think, are you in the right place, I am no babe and I am certainly not a darling.
This is just me of course, but its like guys think if they add a little sugar to mails (darling, babe or sexy) that I will just drop my kecks, as its the ultimate compliment its sooooo not!"
EXACTLY! Spot on. Why do they think that creeping and trying to flatter will make them attractive ?
Mind you ..some women do fall for it. |
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Is it just me? I really don't mind if people call me babe, hun, chick or anything else for that matter.
I tend to use "pet" or "my dear".
It's not so i don't have to remember names, its cos I often don't know names and yet I may talk to people in the chat room on a regualar basis and so tend to use pet names when I'm more familiar with them.
In my "real" life I do it too and I love it that my partner and close friends have "pet" names for me. Wolf calls me hunni, my best mate calls me Vix, another friend calls me Wenchy or Bint. I love them all!!
Vixen xx |
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I get called Darling all the time, by my OH and also by my mother in law. If I was addressed by that name on here my first thought would be that it was a liitle 'over familiar' and to be called Darlin, without the g, makes me think of a Del boy kind of character.
But to be truly honest, pet names don't really bother me on here and I don't tend to take them too seriously. People are, on the whole, using those words as a friendly term and I don't mind what language they use. I don't tend to take the view that they are trying to patronise me, I assume its their figure of speech. Obviously at times you can tell its meant to be patronising, ie if my post is quoted on this thread with a 'thanks for that hunny bun!' I'd probably think 'git' at that point.
And if Bouncey ever messages me and forgets to put 'Treacle' then I'd be most offended
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I only use someones name, I don't use any of those names you have mentioned or any not mentioned. I hate being called babe etc and in fact deleted a message yesterday from someone whom I have told several times what my name is but still uses it. Far too over familiar and more something young people use |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mail addressed to me from 18 yr olds calling me babe! I mean WTF I'm old enough to be THEIR Granny, would they call her that?
Aye some would mam xx "
Naughty boy...... bed for you! |
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"Mail addressed to me from 18 yr olds calling me babe! I mean WTF I'm old enough to be THEIR Granny, would they call her that?
Aye some would mam xx
Naughty boy...... bed for you! "
You coming granma? Xx  |
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"Mail addressed to me from 18 yr olds calling me babe! I mean WTF I'm old enough to be THEIR Granny, would they call her that? "
Because the way you look Laine, you don't fulfil their stereotypical view of a Granny. Are you surprised they respond to you in that way when you have slim, be-stockinged, gorgeous legs that go up to your earlobes.
I forgot to say that whilst fluffy words in messages don't overly bother me, I don't respond to a message any more favourably whether they stick a sweetie on the end of their message or not. I'm not swayed to play with them if they choose those type of words. I don't take it literally and believe it |
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"Mail addressed to me from 18 yr olds calling me babe! I mean WTF I'm old enough to be THEIR Granny, would they call her that?
Because the way you look Laine, you don't fulfil their stereotypical view of a Granny. Are you surprised they respond to you in that way when you have slim, be-stockinged, gorgeous legs that go up to your earlobes.
I forgot to say that whilst fluffy words in messages don't overly bother me, I don't respond to a message any more favourably whether they stick a sweetie on the end of their message or not. I'm not swayed to play with them if they choose those type of words. I don't take it literally and believe it "
Aww thanks Iconic.....do you mean that? really really? |
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The title words are a lot nicer to be called than the words some women like to be called on here Slut , bitch etc to mention a couple .
I would never use any of the above words in an opening message including those on the thread title.
But if there is a chemistry between 2 people these words only add to the play |
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"Is it just me? I really don't mind if people call me babe, hun, chick or anything else for that matter.
I tend to use "pet" or "my dear".
It's not so i don't have to remember names, its cos I often don't know names and yet I may talk to people in the chat room on a regular basis and so tend to use pet names when I'm more familiar with them.
In my "real" life I do it too and I love it that my partner and close friends have "pet" names for me. Wolf calls me hunni, my best mate calls me Vix, another friend calls me Wenchy or Bint. I love them all!!
Vixen xx"
I get that saying hello (insert) all depends on the area you live in or come from, I am a Manc, so hear a lot of mate, and duck is also a northern term. And I guess when spoken its just an addition to a hello...how are you pet/mate/duck? but babe, darling, sexy, sweetie (yuck!) etc from strangers, just makes my skin crawl and not in a good way |
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But if there is a chemistry between 2 people these words only add to the play "
Now you see I tend to blaspheme swear and exaggerate when there is chemistry between myself and another.... words such as Oh GOD! FUCK me harder BIG BOY come into play. |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ? "
I think unless you give a man or woman for that matter a name they can refer to you as they will often come up with a pet name that they think will endear you to them. If it is an issue tell them from the start or put it on your profile. Why moan after the fact when you could have quite easily prevented it happening in the first place. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ? "
An instant turn off for me if it is a stranger asking/ hinting for a meet.
I think that they think all they have to do is call me hun/ babe whatever and I will drop me knickers so they get a no thanks straight away.
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"It depends on the person and how it is said.
Some can get away with a lot more than the others.
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Most definitely, people I know and my fella then this is all good and well. Its complete strangers, I am referring to, who don't know me from Eve lol |
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"only one I really detest is being called Hun. It's even on my profile not to call me that, but who the fuck reads profiles anyway."
Mine has don't call babe but like you say no-one reads profiles |
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"I often call someone love in chat and messages but none of the others except dragon to some "
So calling me a stroppy old jockinese bint is a term of affection? |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
I think unless you give a man or woman for that matter a name they can refer to you as they will often come up with a pet name that they think will endear you to them. If it is an issue tell them from the start or put it on your profile. Why moan after the fact when you could have quite easily prevented it happening in the first place."
I have a message name. It's Granny-Crumpet. Granny or Gran for short. |
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"sorry i'm an offender most get called treacle but i also use many many others constantly no idea why just my way i guess "
I like being called treacle by you, it's like a hug from a sister. |
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"only one I really detest is being called Hun. It's even on my profile not to call me that, but who the fuck reads profiles anyway.
Mine has don't call babe but like you say no-one reads profiles "
I do 
And as for the babe/hunni thing... I always take my lead from the people im chatting with... Having read their profile first of course |
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I hate pet names. They make my skin crawl. I can live with people I know using terms of endearment... I'm not interested in being called hun, sexy, princess (all of which have graced my inbox today - all deleted) by people I've never met.
*shudders*
My name is DirtyGirl or DG. Both are suitable. |
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" I usually address a lady as "Madam", but do occassionally revert to my roots and call her the dreaded "pet".
Mind I find blokes in Leeds call each other "Love", which I find unsettling at first, but then again its the other way round in Middlesbrough, where lasses frequently call each other "man"...
The strange differences 70 miles of distance can make...
See Madam for some reason makes me think of a woman in Black latex with boots up to her bum and a whip in hand "
Madam is certainly a term of respect which I certainly feel is due, but I also confess to finding such respectful courteous terms highly erotic as they contrast beautifully with my wicked intentions...asking a lady politely if Madam finds such acts enjoyable whilst I do unspeakably naughty things to her is quite a turn on... |
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" I usually address a lady as "Madam", but do occassionally revert to my roots and call her the dreaded "pet".
Mind I find blokes in Leeds call each other "Love", which I find unsettling at first, but then again its the other way round in Middlesbrough, where lasses frequently call each other "man"...
The strange differences 70 miles of distance can make...
See Madam for some reason makes me think of a woman in Black latex with boots up to her bum and a whip in hand
Madam is certainly a term of respect which I certainly feel is due, but I also confess to finding such respectful courteous terms highly erotic as they contrast beautifully with my wicked intentions...asking a lady politely if Madam finds such acts enjoyable whilst I do unspeakably naughty things to her is quite a turn on... "
Agreed in full. |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ? "
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!! |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!! "
There is a reason for that which I cba to share with you.
I started this thread as I wanted others opinions.
Okay now pumpkin ? |
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Why thank you good lady! Its good to know that were I to be using the body I'd been given to perform lovely filthy acts upon you that you would appreciate my manners and sense of decorum, even as I penetrated you to the core.... |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!!
There is a reason for that which I cba to share with you.
I started this thread as I wanted others opinions.
Okay now pumpkin ?"
Well not really. I was pointing out if you had such an issue with it why not put it on your profile! Ok with you Jaws? |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!!
There is a reason for that which I cba to share with you.
I started this thread as I wanted others opinions.
Okay now pumpkin ?
Well not really. I was pointing out if you had such an issue with it why not put it on your profile! Ok with you Jaws? "
Well I guess all the pretty boys can't have everything. So you are excused stating the obvious whilst evading the question my little pert buttocked troll. |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ? "
makes me cringe every time |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!!
There is a reason for that which I cba to share with you.
I started this thread as I wanted others opinions.
Okay now pumpkin ?
Well not really. I was pointing out if you had such an issue with it why not put it on your profile! Ok with you Jaws?
Well I guess all the pretty boys can't have everything. So you are excused stating the obvious whilst evading the question my little pert buttocked troll."
Odd you feel the need to insult by using the word troll. It is you who is avoiding as i asked why if you had such an issue why not put it on your profile. So why not? |
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"Pet names is an excuse not to take the time to look at someone's real name or to remember them in the first place ah pet. "
And if they use an alias or don't put a name? |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!!
There is a reason for that which I cba to share with you.
I started this thread as I wanted others opinions.
Okay now pumpkin ?
Well not really. I was pointing out if you had such an issue with it why not put it on your profile! Ok with you Jaws?
Well I guess all the pretty boys can't have everything. So you are excused stating the obvious whilst evading the question my little pert buttocked troll.
Odd you feel the need to insult by using the word troll. It is you who is avoiding as i asked why if you had such an issue why not put it on your profile. So why not? "
I took what you said to me (jaws) in good humour and replied in kind. It's unfortunate you feel insulted. If you want to private message me for an answer that's fine. |
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over a year ago
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"sorry i'm an offender most get called treacle but i also use many many others constantly no idea why just my way i guess
I like being called treacle by you, it's like a hug from a sister. "
awww thankyou treacle (((squeeze))) |
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"I can be chatting away quite happily and then one of those ludicrous pet names creep in and I wind up the conversation.
In most cases it says a lot about a man's attitude toward women;especially from a stranger.
I find it tolerable from people I know but for men on here to use them to formulate initial contacts smacks to me that they have very pre conceived ideas about the type of person they think women on here are.......
So ..... what's your take ?
If you feel so strongly about it why not put it on your profile where its going to be far more effective than putting a thread up about it!!!!!!
There is a reason for that which I cba to share with you.
I started this thread as I wanted others opinions.
Okay now pumpkin ?
Well not really. I was pointing out if you had such an issue with it why not put it on your profile! Ok with you Jaws?
Well I guess all the pretty boys can't have everything. So you are excused stating the obvious whilst evading the question my little pert buttocked troll.
Odd you feel the need to insult by using the word troll. It is you who is avoiding as i asked why if you had such an issue why not put it on your profile. So why not?
I took what you said to me (jaws) in good humour and replied in kind. It's unfortunate you feel insulted. If you want to private message me for an answer that's fine. "
Jaws was in response to Pumpkin you felt the need to add although i don't look like a pumpkin as it happens. And no i don't require a private reply i was asking here as there will be more than me wondering the answer to the same question.
Surely if you are bold enough to ask others questions you would be prepared to answer them too. |
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"I agree with Granny, its annoying, I can just about tolerate it from people I have been chatting with, for awhile. From complete strangers, I just think, are you in the right place, I am no babe and I am certainly not a darling.
This is just me of course, but its like guys think if they add a little sugar to mails (darling, babe or sexy) that I will just drop my kecks, as its the ultimate compliment its sooooo not!
EXACTLY! Spot on. Why do they think that creeping and trying to flatter will make them attractive ?
Mind you ..some women do fall for it. "
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It's not spot on babe!
While I can appreciate that some men here will do anything to get into a woman's underwear, you have to acknowledged that some simply use it as an icebreaker. Nothing more.
While you may not like it, remember the grey areas. |
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"I agree with Granny, its annoying, I can just about tolerate it from people I have been chatting with, for awhile. From complete strangers, I just think, are you in the right place, I am no babe and I am certainly not a darling.
This is just me of course, but its like guys think if they add a little sugar to mails (darling, babe or sexy) that I will just drop my kecks, as its the ultimate compliment its sooooo not!
EXACTLY! Spot on. Why do they think that creeping and trying to flatter will make them attractive ?
Mind you ..some women do fall for it.
Wait a minute...
It's not spot on babe!
While I can appreciate that some men here will do anything to get into a woman's underwear, you have to acknowledged that some simply use it as an icebreaker. Nothing more.
While you may not like it, remember the grey areas."
BK Darlin' x My whole hunk of love...... C'mon ..... If someone needs to resort to hunlovebabedoll to icebreak they aren't going to offer much else to back it up. Doll xx |
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"I agree with Granny, its annoying, I can just about tolerate it from people I have been chatting with, for awhile. From complete strangers, I just think, are you in the right place, I am no babe and I am certainly not a darling.
This is just me of course, but its like guys think if they add a little sugar to mails (darling, babe or sexy) that I will just drop my kecks, as its the ultimate compliment its sooooo not!
EXACTLY! Spot on. Why do they think that creeping and trying to flatter will make them attractive ?
Mind you ..some women do fall for it.
Wait a minute...
It's not spot on babe!
While I can appreciate that some men here will do anything to get into a woman's underwear, you have to acknowledged that some simply use it as an icebreaker. Nothing more.
While you may not like it, remember the grey areas.
BK Darlin' x My whole hunk of love...... C'mon ..... If someone needs to resort to hunlovebabedoll to icebreak they aren't going to offer much else to back it up. Doll xx "
Babe, I just want to get to know you and I want to back it up! |
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Its never conerned me that fems don`t put there real names on their profiles...
They obviously have a reason...no big deal..
I know if we appear to click, then a message will come across with their name attached, I`ve never asked....always felt it was rude or to forward...
There are countless ways of having initial contact without having a problem..communicating...
Normally...as another poster has asserted...their profile name will suffice.. |
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"P.S. Yes there are grey areas which is why I can take it and even like it from friends...... never strangers tho."
True, but I think everything should be taken into account. I'm pretty sure you've had some weak messages from a potential meet that didn't use a "babe, hunni or sugar" |
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over a year ago
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i have just made a list of the ones i most commonly use:
chick
poppet
flower
petal
hun
chook
okay.. so what should be my pennance.. I throw myself at the mercy of the baying fabswinger court of opinion.....
p.s hope ya not a hanging crowd... |
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" I'm guessing that the song Sugarpiehoneybunch wouldn't go down too well at a social....
And yes, only to the core sadly. Even I have my limits... "
Oh C'mon! The Four Tops?!!
Guys, Lighten up! |
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"i have just made a list of the ones i most commonly use:
chick
poppet
flower
petal
hun
chook
okay.. so what should be my pennance.. I throw myself at the mercy of the baying fabswinger court of opinion.....
p.s hope ya not a hanging crowd... "
Cool. New ones! Time to experiment!! |
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"i have just made a list of the ones i most commonly use:
chick
poppet
flower
petal
hun
chook
okay.. so what should be my pennance.. I throw myself at the mercy of the baying fabswinger court of opinion.....
p.s hope ya not a hanging crowd... "
I think as long as your willing to wear an orange cravat and Hi-karate aftershave, you’ll get way with it….!.
Although I’d strongly advise against matching those with a pair of patent leather Chelsea boots!!!! |
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i overuse darling, it comes from teaching and having a crap memory for names, with 100 under 7s in the kindergaten i knew i was safe with darling
As for babe...pammy says it best
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VVp0l2Vas2I |
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"P.S. Yes there are grey areas which is why I can take it and even like it from friends...... never strangers tho.
True, but I think everything should be taken into account. I'm pretty sure you've had some weak messages from a potential meet that didn't use a "babe, hunni or sugar" "
BK. No one hypocrosises with more aplomb than me! I go straight to the pics..... if they're to die for and he has a dollop of wit he can hun babe till Dick Docks.... Sometimes it's fun to let them think you are putty. |
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@ orange cravat and High Karate!
I have "no calling me babe" etc on my profile. My profile was written to scare off all but the brave. I'm a Domme any message that started "hi sexy/hun/babes..." Etc...instant delete.
I can just about tolerate terms of endearment from loved ones. From someone I want to gag, restrain and shove root vegetables up his arse?!! No! |
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"i have just made a list of the ones i most commonly use:
chick
poppet
flower
petal
hun
chook
okay.. so what should be my pennance.. I throw myself at the mercy of the baying fabswinger court of opinion.....
p.s hope ya not a hanging crowd... "
oooo mine are
treacle
sweetie
baby cakes
lolly pop
hun
hunny
hunny pie
sweet cheeks
ooo theres a very sugary theme to mine |
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" @ orange cravat and High Karate!
I have "no calling me babe" etc on my profile. My profile was written to scare off all but the brave. I'm a Domme any message that started "hi sexy/hun/babes..." Etc...instant delete.
I can just about tolerate terms of endearment from loved ones. From someone I want to gag, restrain and shove root vegetables up his arse?!! No! "
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"I do use names such as hunni, sweetie and darlin... and i shall continue to use them .....hey ho! "
and they are all words that can be used to describe you my darlin |
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"Just like to add, it isn't just the men use these terms, I've been called Hun, Hunni, Chick, Babe, Sweet, Sweaty etc etc."
Fancy calling you sweaty. That's not nice |
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I use all of the above and more, I have no preconceptions about who it is I am saying it to, it's just my way of communicating, don; ttake it so personal sugar plum, I'm not patronising you, xxx, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx |
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"P.S. Yes there are grey areas which is why I can take it and even like it from friends...... never strangers tho.
True, but I think everything should be taken into account. I'm pretty sure you've had some weak messages from a potential meet that didn't use a "babe, hunni or sugar"
BK. No one hypocrosises with more aplomb than me! I go straight to the pics..... if they're to die for and he has a dollop of wit he can hun babe till Dick Docks.... Sometimes it's fun to let them think you are putty. "
You're terrible! |
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" @ orange cravat and High Karate!
I have "no calling me babe" etc on my profile. My profile was written to scare off all but the brave. I'm a Domme any message that started "hi sexy/hun/babes..." Etc...instant delete.
I can just about tolerate terms of endearment from loved ones. From someone I want to gag, restrain and shove root vegetables up his arse?!! No! "
That is one of the funniest things ive read in ages reminds me of an incident with a carrot |
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