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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hopefully you don't talk the way you type

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By *ublinjonnMan over a year ago

dublin

Lol.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hopefully you don't talk the way you type

Hahaha my quick typing skills

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats? "

Well hopefully you will fancy her , and she will you . So just be friendly , slip in the odd innuendo if it feels right , and it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like you don't need to worry too much about what to say, if it's just a quick drink haha. Just be complimentary about the way she looks, engage with her conversationally and be friendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Well hopefully you will fancy her , and she will you . So just be friendly , slip in the odd innuendo if it feels right , and it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t talk about your dead butterfly collection. Apparently it’s not as sexy as you may thing

Bloody women

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Don't have any expectations she may not fancy you.

Go with the flow.

Don't be a letch.

Don't chew gum.

Be friendly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounds like you don't need to worry too much about what to say, if it's just a quick drink haha. Just be complimentary about the way she looks, engage with her conversationally and be friendly

Quick 10 min drink I reckon. Ha. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t talk about your dead butterfly collection. Apparently it’s not as sexy as you may thing

Bloody women

LMFAO

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't have any expectations she may not fancy you.

Go with the flow.

Don't be a letch.

Don't chew gum.

Be friendly. "

Thanks!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Enjoy the drink, never assuming it’s going to lead to sex though!

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Depends where the drink is and where the play is.

Could be awkward if there's a big gap or arranging to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Use it as a way of being happy warm and friendly, just be yourself, but also watch for any red flags that may put you off wanting to go ahead and play with her.

Relax it will be cool!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Use it as a way of being happy warm and friendly, just be yourself, but also watch for any red flags that may put you off wanting to go ahead and play with her.

Relax it will be cool!"

Hopefully a place close to where the play will be happening!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Also, buy small drinks, preferably shots. Just down in one, and 'Let's fuck!'.

Ps this method is not 100% guaranteed and any damage from a kick in the nuts is not my responsibilty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hopefully you don't talk the way you type

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Also, buy small drinks, preferably shots. Just down in one, and 'Let's fuck!'.

Ps this method is not 100% guaranteed and any damage from a kick in the nuts is not my responsibilty

Wise tips hahahah

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hopefully you don't talk the way you type

Lucky she's hot

haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A..."

Anything is better than your plan A

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At our age surely it shouldn't be awkward.

Unless when you meet it's a relative than that would be a little bit awkward I think.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

Anything is better than your plan A

I was going to suggest he just got himself one, but thought it might be beter if he got the entire round.

Chivaloury is not dead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

Anything is better than your plan A

Oh I don't know, said with a wink and a cheeky grin I like plan A

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

Anything is better than your plan A

I was going to suggest he just got himself one, but thought it might be beter if he got the entire round.

Chivaloury is not dead

I'll get her a few. Chill the mood ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

Anything is better than your plan A

I was going to suggest he just got himself one, but thought it might be beter if he got the entire round.

Chivaloury is not dead

I'll get her a few. Chill the mood ha "

Get her tipsy more like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

Anything is better than your plan A

Oh I don't know, said with a wink and a cheeky grin I like plan A

Even better, turn up late and get her to buy the first round. He'll definitely be in then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just relax and be yourself, have a bit of playful flirting and see where the conversation flows

Actually this might be better than my Plan A...

Anything is better than your plan A

I was going to suggest he just got himself one, but thought it might be beter if he got the entire round.

Chivaloury is not dead

I'll get her a few. Chill the mood ha

Get her tipsy more like

That's the one

. Will it work hahaha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's like meeting people from any other arena. You may or may not continue after the social elements of course. Just be friendly, yourself and honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find the social meet side much harder than the sex side. I’m a massive flirt over text/phone etc but I’m really shy and once face to face I crumble! So I tend to chat to someone for quite a while before I meet then I know exactly what’s going to happen when I meet them

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats? "

Does she know that's the program?

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Does she know that's the program?"

I think his plan and hers may not necessarily be the same.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Does she know that's the program?"

She doesn't need to he has it planned...

Say hello. Coffee. Find room. Sex. Depart. Job done!

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By *ilent.KnightMan over a year ago

Swindon

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Does she know that's the program?

She doesn't need to he has it planned...

Say hello. Coffee. Find room. Sex. Depart. Job done!

"
i always forget the room. No wonder I’m banned from Starbucks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Does she know that's the program?

She doesn't need to he has it planned...

Say hello. Coffee. Find room. Sex. Depart. Job done!

Spot on

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Does she know that's the program?

She doesn't need to he has it planned...

Say hello. Coffee. Find room. Sex. Depart. Job done!

Spot on

Pray she turns up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haven't met anyone yet. Due to shortly. With a quick drink then go and have sex. Any tips on these chats?

Does she know that's the program?

She doesn't need to he has it planned...

Say hello. Coffee. Find room. Sex. Depart. Job done!

Spot on

Pray she turns up!

Have you met yet, or did shortly not mean today?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like you don't need to worry too much about what to say, if it's just a quick drink haha. Just be complimentary about the way she looks, engage with her conversationally and be friendly

Quick 10 min drink I reckon. Ha. Thanks

Way too much time drinking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like you don't need to worry too much about what to say, if it's just a quick drink haha. Just be complimentary about the way she looks, engage with her conversationally and be friendly

Quick 10 min drink I reckon. Ha. Thanks

Way too much time drinking.

Yes. Don't give her any time to change her mind

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