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over a year ago
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Hi all, and good morning.
Right so since a young age I've been in relationships so only slept with a handful of people. But every partner I have won't do anal, my ex did for about two second and then stopped.
I understand a significant amount of foreplay and lube are needed but there's no chance in hell my partner will allow it.
I'm not living my life without doing it, so I hats my best option friends? |
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Visit some gay clubs and make yourself known on the scene.
Start off small to begin with and build up from there.
You'll have your partner up there in no time at all and I'm sure you'll both like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, and good morning.
Right so since a young age I've been in relationships so only slept with a handful of people. But every partner I have won't do anal, my ex did for about two second and then stopped.
I understand a significant amount of foreplay and lube are needed but there's no chance in hell my partner will allow it.
I'm not living my life without doing it, so I hats my best option friends? "
Respect your partner wishes and accept that anal is not an option. A partner saying no to something doesn't mean you go off looking else where for it. 
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"Thanks for the responses.
Are you quite big?
According to her and her tape measure, 9""
I'm more likely to do anal with someone if they're average,anything too big and I shy away from it and I have to seriously be in the mood.
You need to get yourself a 9" dildo and pleasure yourself first,then you'll have a better understanding  |
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By *ikkevCouple
over a year ago
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Tbh i dont mind it and can be quite enjoyable if done right
Explain to.your partner that its something tou really want to try and that if it hurts at any point you will stop
Best thing to do is start woth a finger and work your way up the butt plug sizes
Talk about it make it fun and they will be more at ease 
Good luck
Kirsty xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the responses.
Are you quite big?
According to her and her tape measure, 9""
I wouldn’t have a 9" cock up my arse either, not with all the lube in the world.
Try it yourself first is what I always suggest and respect your girlfriend may never want it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it a deal breaker? Maybe you should have talked about it before you got into a relationship?
Seems like you've got two options
1) dump the selfish cow for someone who loves it.
Or
2) get her absolutely plastered. Wait for her to pass out then grease yourself up with what ever is handy and ram it up her arse!!!
Obviously when she comes round she'll discover what you've done because the bed and you will be covered in shit!! And then your relationship will be over anyway so go with number one.
Or just maybe respect her wishes, stop watching porn and enjoy what it is you BOTH enjoy doing together. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it a deal breaker? Maybe you should have talked about it before you got into a relationship?
Seems like you've got two options
1) dump the selfish cow for someone who loves it.
Or
2) get her absolutely plastered. Wait for her to pass out then grease yourself up with what ever is handy and ram it up her arse!!!
Obviously when she comes round she'll
L discover what you've done because the bed and you will be covered in shit!! And then your relationship will be over anyway so go with number one.
Or just maybe respect her wishes, stop watching porn and enjoy what it is you BOTH enjoy doing together."
Hahaha by fair the best answer! You win! ??.
I've tried getting her steaming but that didn't work. Might need chloroform |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it a deal breaker? Maybe you should have talked about it before you got into a relationship?
Seems like you've got two options
1) dump the selfish cow for someone who loves it.
Or
2) get her absolutely plastered. Wait for her to pass out then grease yourself up with what ever is handy and ram it up her arse!!!
Obviously when she comes round she'll discover what you've done because the bed and you will be covered in shit!! And then your relationship will be over anyway so go with number one.
Or just maybe respect her wishes, stop watching porn and enjoy what it is you BOTH enjoy doing together."
You'll end up with a life sentence for r***, too |
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"Hi all, and good morning.
Right so since a young age I've been in relationships so only slept with a handful of people. But every partner I have won't do anal, my ex did for about two second and then stopped.
I understand a significant amount of foreplay and lube are needed but there's no chance in hell my partner will allow it.
I'm not living my life without doing it, so I hats my best option friends? "
I have found most women I have been with won't do anal. trust is a big issue but then again some are just plain not into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"does ur partner know ur on this site ?
Why do you think he’s got a partner?"
he says in his op that "theres no chance in hell his partner will allow it" |
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"Hi all, and good morning.
Right so since a young age I've been in relationships so only slept with a handful of people. But every partner I have won't do anal, my ex did for about two second and then stopped.
I understand a significant amount of foreplay and lube are needed but there's no chance in hell my partner will allow it.
I'm not living my life without doing it, so I hats my best option friends? "
You're only 27 now, and it's debatable whether you're actually missing anything tbh. I hadn't tried any anal play until I joined Fab (5 years ago), and was offered it rather than sought it out. Let's face it; the front door is designed for things to go in, the back door is designed for things to come out. Yes, it is naughty/dirty/bad/exciting/just-like-in-pornos, but there's preparation, relaxation, patience and care to consider. Wait for a willing partner to suggest it, rather than lust after the unknown |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby is 8 inches and can only do it on my side and with lots of lube and taking it slow!
I'd never do it with anyone but him!
Not having my ass ripped apart for anyone!
But I do love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the responses.
Are you quite big?
According to her and her tape measure, 9"
I wouldn’t have a 9" cock up my arse either, not with all the lube in the world.
Try it yourself first is what I always suggest and respect your girlfriend may never want it "
My bf is 9inches and hes the only one I've ever done anal with.
It has more to do with preparation and how he does it than it does with size.if you use it fast and deep straight away then it's obviously going to hurt and that's no enjoyment at all.We always start off slow and he knows to go at my pace and then work up to getting deeper and faster.
If your gental and intouch with each other's mood then even a big one feels amazing during anal as it's all about technique x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I refuse anal for various reasons.
9 inch cock? Pussy and mouth no worries. Arse? No chance.
If it's really that big a deal then dump her.
Or wait for someone to offer. I think you'll be waiting a long time personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the responses.
Are you quite big?
According to her and her tape measure, 9""
Yup I agree, too big.
All I can suggest is finding a new girl with anal experience. |
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I love it if done right and not aggressively. On the other side of my life. My wife loves it when we do it. Slow and easy and as things get more relaxed she squirts through anal sex which is even Better. And in return she gets to peg me with her strap on so it’s win win all around. After all we must be able to take what we are prepared to give xx |
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