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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wine, we know matures well. And so does some cheeses. But do men, when it come down to sex?
My virginity was over quickly, and if I'm honest, most of my early exploits when exploring sex with ladies was probably very selfish, it wasn't so much about them. And when it was over for me, it was over for them too. And in truth, it was only into my twenties that a woman's orgasm started to become more of a priority than mine. (I know right  )
So to start a debate, can anyone sincerely say, they were better at sex when younger, than you are now?
Or are you enjoying sex more with younger kids than those that are older than them?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I would certainly like to think I was better, but I'm not the right one to judge that - I certainly know I'm more aware of my partners needs now than I was back then, and definitely know it's not just about 2 mins of in and out!!
That said when I was younger the only things we had to guide us were school sex education (factual and clinical) and the stories/letters sections of Mayfair, Fiesta and the like, so we weren't necessarily as sexually aware, or experimental as younger people are today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not better when younger but at times it was a lot more exciting! The risks I took for sexual kicks I probably wouldn't even consider now! And it was the eighties...we were all at it like rabbits  
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely not better when younger but at times it was a lot more exciting! The risks I took for sexual kicks I probably wouldn't even consider now! And it was the eighties...we were all at it like rabbits
Peach x"
Jeez, you were wilder?!!!
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
I'm more confident now and will say what I'd like and what I don't...
Also looking to experiment and see where that goes, whereas when I was younger I wouldn't of tried for fear of being judged...
The saying youth is wasted on the young comes to mind... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely not better when younger but at times it was a lot more exciting! The risks I took for sexual kicks I probably wouldn't even consider now! And it was the eighties...we were all at it like rabbits
Peach x
Jeez, you were wilder?!!!
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I'm just glad mobile phones and the Internet wasn't about!
Anyway, what ya chatting about? I'm an angel 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely not better when younger but at times it was a lot more exciting! The risks I took for sexual kicks I probably wouldn't even consider now! And it was the eighties...we were all at it like rabbits
Peach x
Jeez, you were wilder?!!!
I'm just glad mobile phones and the Internet wasn't about!
Anyway, what ya chatting about? I'm an angel
Peach x"
It's must all just be rumours then!
Think you maybe need to look up the definition of angel. Unless your a hells angel x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im more confident now and aware of my own sexuality.
I was shy and easily lead when younger. I would do things to please a partner not because I enjoyed them.
I wouldn't say I was selfish now but I understand the balance of give and take and I enjoy that I can take now too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the fact that older generally means you've lived a bit too. By that I mean watched partners (at their worst) giving birth, vomiting down loos, dying of flu etc and can understand that the body isn't perfect but still loving it anyway.
Not said very well but I know what I mean
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You certainly enjoy sex more with age. When you're younger you're driven by hormones (well I was), but sex when you get older takes on a different and sexier perspective. You can appreciate it more. So youngsters reading have a lot to look forward to. |
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Definitely much better now! I know what I like, am far more confident in my own skills, and also more comfortable in my own skin 
But I still select younger partners... partly because they tend to be more fun and appreciate my often childish sense of humour... and partly down to stamina... they simply gotta be able to recover fast and keep up!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been with older guys who were incredible and younger guys who were incredible....think it depends on the person and sometimes experience.
I'm definitely a better shag than I was 5 years ago though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to meet younger guys. I have yet to find a guy on here much older than me that I'm attracted to. Some of the younger guys I have met have been incredible.
I think I'm a better lover than in earlier days, more daring and definitely insistent that it's a two-way thing and not all about the guy.
I'm very out of practice though so hope I don't forget how to...well...you know....do stuff!!!! |
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Other than a few of quick knee tremblers with girls that wanted the bragging rights of having fucked a squaddie, my first serious relationship was not until I was 19. Looking back, I see it as a slightly abusive relationship, she being the dom and me as the curious sub. She made sure to know if I displeased her in ways now I know were slightly extreme and violent, but I knew no different, it's not like when I was young we had the Internet and my parents didn't advise me about s&m when telling me about the birds and the bees.. even the term femdom meant something totally different being a female contraceptive that could also double as a fishing keep net or a windsock..
But one thing that relationship taught me was how to listen to and appease a lady, and definitely unselfish when it comes to sex. |
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Blue - sorry that happened to you.
I'm definitely more confident in my sexuality, know what I do and don't like, but also hopefully better at reading my partners too so I can tell what they like and aren't so keen on so I can adjust accordingly.
Hopefully this all means a good time is had by all |
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