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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc
If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol ty"
Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...
I confused myself then  |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Doesn't matter if you've had one cancelled meet or 250 of them - there's no need for anyone to rip into you especially without knowing the facts.
Block, delete, move on   "
blocked now. I think he was sulking cos I didn’t arrange a meet with him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try not to over think it I guess! Other peoples actions are never gonna be your fault, I just dont see why they need to act like an asshole cause they aren't getting some hah. You've dodged a bullet if their attitudes like that.
Chin up! X |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Lol ty
Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...
I confused myself then "
yes lol. Having them reworked etc lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Ty. Was beginning to think I was doing something wrong. I check profiles. I read veris. We chat for a while. See if we like the same things. Arrange a time day place etc. Then bam. "
There's only so much you can do to verify if someone is genuine and sounds like you're doing most of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol ty
Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...
I confused myself then yes lol. Having them reworked etc lol"
That's the one
Hope your well X bar the cancellations that is |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Lol ty
Penny just dropped! That tatt looks familiar, think we chatted ever so briefly off the back of a tattoo thread a bit ago...
I confused myself then yes lol. Having them reworked etc lol
That's the one
Hope your well X bar the cancellations that is "
lol yes ty. Poddling along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are not responsible for the actions of others and have no control over what they may do or not do.
Don't stress it it's your fab your way those who don't accept that are not worth worrying about.
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"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc
If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?"
To be fair if you'd been a single man posting that's EXACTLY what would have been said: double standards on here.
People have lives outside fab and if they've cancelled I truly can't see what your problem is with that.
If you were waiting, dressed to impress with legs akimbo I'd still question your selection process as in seven years never had a no show and I'm not alone in that. |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"You are not responsible for the actions of others and have no control over what they may do or not do.
Don't stress it it's your fab your way those who don't accept that are not worth worrying about.
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wise as always hine xx |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc
If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?
To be fair if you'd been a single man posting that's EXACTLY what would have been said: double standards on here.
People have lives outside fab and if they've cancelled I truly can't see what your problem is with that.
If you were waiting, dressed to impress with legs akimbo I'd still question your selection process as in seven years never had a no show and I'm not alone in that."
the problem is no excuse. I have a life too. I have family etc. But the fact they cancel with no reason or just don’t turn up when I’m sat there yes all dressed up ready in a hotel room waiting. Then that is my problem |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"You're a 100% responsible for 50% of the interactions between you, your share.
You have no control over how somebody else behaves or if they are everything they say they are going to be.
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true. And I only arrange meets after chatting to see if we would get on. Luckily met a few nice people and continue to meet them. So those who cancel are losing out |
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"Glad you’ve not had a no show. As for guys. They don’t deserve it either. I’m not stupid or desperate. "
I have had a no show and rearranged an appointment to meet them. She messaged and said to get stiff as she was minutes away. I’m still waiting 12 months later no longer stiff though. They left fab 10 mins later |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Glad you’ve not had a no show. As for guys. They don’t deserve it either. I’m not stupid or desperate.
I have had a no show and rearranged an appointment to meet them. She messaged and said to get stiff as she was minutes away. I’m still waiting 12 months later no longer stiff though. They left fab 10 mins later"
ouch. Yeah I had a guy tell me he was in the Taxi. See you soon. Never turned up but was online on fab posting for meets lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not your fault at all, we've all had them.
Problem is with some men on here is that they have a lot of talk but when it comes down to it they don't have the balls to do what they say they're going to.
I've had 3 cancelled in the past week, all guys I've been speaking to for quite some time.
1 had a legit reason, 1 was honest and said he forgot and 1 said he fell asleep cause it was planned to be a late one.
Just dust your self off and keep going
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Not your fault at all, we've all had them.
Problem is with some men on here is that they have a lot of talk but when it comes down to it they don't have the balls to do what they say they're going to.
I've had 3 cancelled in the past week, all guys I've been speaking to for quite some time.
1 had a legit reason, 1 was honest and said he forgot and 1 said he fell asleep cause it was planned to be a late one.
Just dust your self off and keep going
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i dont mind if im given an excuse, just vanish is rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc
If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?"
Bet he blocked you too like a coward .. The eeejot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just another cock womble, fooking loads on here. I always found it best to not give them any ammunition. The slightest weakness or bit of negativity on here and some dumb ass will jump on you to try and make their feeble existance more bearable. Don't let it get to you |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I’ve just had a guy rip into me cos I’ve had 50 people cancel meets this year. Said it’s my fault cos I didn’t plan properly. I must have hundreds of meets to get that many cancellations. It puts people off to have hundreds of meets etcetc
If he looked at me veris he would see I’ve had 6 this year lol. I plan. I chat. I arrange meets. I know I’m not the only one who’s been let down but is it really my fault every time?
Bet he blocked you too like a coward .. The eeejot! "
yup lol |
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By *ancduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Just another cock womble, fooking loads on here. I always found it best to not give them any ammunition. The slightest weakness or bit of negativity on here and some dumb ass will jump on you to try and make their feeble existance more bearable. Don't let it get to you "
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