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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Few weeks ago I had a conversation with a lady friend regarding this feature and I proposed it was pretty much superfluous for straight single guys to post meets on.
She disagreed and suggested if I tried it I would have offers. I scoffed, obviously, but with the offer of a free tea should I be proven correct I thought I'd roll with it.
So, add posted and not a single reply received. Yay! Free tea for me!
But it got me thinking, have any straight single guys:
A - had suitable responses to a 'meet today'?
B - successfully met anyone after posting a 'meet today'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still to try it, I can't see it ever being effective for a male. Why do women need to look when I keep hearing that they can cherry pick from the hundreds of male they have to delete daily?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm still to try it, I can't see it ever being effective for a male. Why do women need to look when I keep hearing that they can cherry pick from the hundreds of male they have to delete daily? "
I'd never tried either before this foray.
Suppose for a woman it could be utilised to show they are free at a particular time etc and cut down on unwarranted mail from men who aren't free? But we all know that won't happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scientific test (v1) is under way.
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I don't mean to be cheeky but your meet request doesn't make sense. It reads like you're just telling people your plans for the day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has been times I’ve posted meets and no offers  there has also been times I posted meets had offers agreed to meet them bam no shows, hard times for all of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scientific test (v1) is under way.
I don't mean to be cheeky but your meet request doesn't make sense. It reads like you're just telling people your plans for the day? "
Your input will be taken on board.
this test is not bullet proof from failure.
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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I'm still to try it, I can't see it ever being effective for a male. Why do women need to look when I keep hearing that they can cherry pick from the hundreds of male they have to delete daily? "
i must be the only one to have looked at it then lol. I’f I’ve had a cancelled meet and sat in a hotel room alone, which has happened a few times, I checked it out and met a few people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate "meet now" messages, statuses or whatever!
It just suggests that any orrifice will do.
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I'm not looking for an orrifice, works well for coffee though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate "meet now" messages, statuses or whatever!
It just suggests that any orrifice will do.
I'm not looking for an orrifice, works well for coffee though "
Would a 'Meet today' for a coffee work? I'd imagine the menfolk would be hinting at a bj round the back of the bins.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had a reply ever "
And neither did I.
So V1 test results, I've had a couple of local women view my profile, wether they went to the club or not because of it, I'll never know, I wasn't aware.
(And one of them I think could be a funny profile. )
Nobody messaged.
Result, sat in the club drinking coffee and had a chat.
This will be investigated further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate "meet now" messages, statuses or whatever!
It just suggests that any orrifice will do.
I'm not looking for an orrifice, works well for coffee though
Would a 'Meet today' for a coffee work? I'd imagine the menfolk would be hinting at a bj round the back of the bins. "
I put a meet request up asking for someone to erect a washing line out my back garden, no funny business... had loads of offers but were asking for sexual favours in return so I did it myself, well I didn't, the line I bought is still in the packet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate "meet now" messages, statuses or whatever!
It just suggests that any orrifice will do.
I'm not looking for an orrifice, works well for coffee though
Would a 'Meet today' for a coffee work? I'd imagine the menfolk would be hinting at a bj round the back of the bins.
I put a meet request up asking for someone to erect a washing line out my back garden, no funny business... had loads of offers but were asking for sexual favours in return so I did it myself, well I didn't, the line I bought is still in the packet. "
You shouldn't of used the word ERECT lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate "meet now" messages, statuses or whatever!
It just suggests that any orrifice will do.
I'm not looking for an orrifice, works well for coffee though
Would a 'Meet today' for a coffee work? I'd imagine the menfolk would be hinting at a bj round the back of the bins.
I put a meet request up asking for someone to erect a washing line out my back garden, no funny business... had loads of offers but were asking for sexual favours in return so I did it myself, well I didn't, the line I bought is still in the packet. "
Wales is a long way to travel to pop a washing line up,
You know, I offered to pop a shelf up for someone local once, all I asked for was a coffee whilst I did it....read my mail....deleted it.
I actually think they wanted something sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We put, like a meet today or who’s about.
I dont have a problem with men and women wanting to meet.
It dose work !  "
So you've had a bit of success with it?
I have responded to a meet today for a social and had a very pleasant time. However I'm still yet to find confirmation of a single straight guy getting anything from them. Would love to be proved wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We put, like a meet today or who’s about.
I dont have a problem with men and women wanting to meet.
It dose work !
So you've had a bit of success with it?
I have responded to a meet today for a social and had a very pleasant time. However I'm still yet to find confirmation of a single straight guy getting anything from them. Would love to be proved wrong "
I'll try again tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate "meet now" messages, statuses or whatever!
It just suggests that any orrifice will do.
I'm not looking for an orrifice, works well for coffee though
Would a 'Meet today' for a coffee work? I'd imagine the menfolk would be hinting at a bj round the back of the bins. "
A 'meet today' for me worked well on a status update, someone I'd hot listed saw my social request and messaged me & we met.
I was quite disappointed he didn't hint at a bj by the bins he was gorgeous  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We put, like a meet today or who’s about.
I dont have a problem with men and women wanting to meet.
It dose work !
So you've had a bit of success with it?
I have responded to a meet today for a social and had a very pleasant time. However I'm still yet to find confirmation of a single straight guy getting anything from them. Would love to be proved wrong
I'll try again tomorrow "
thibj I'll join you next lot of free time I get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thing ive found (on my previous profile) is to:
1. Post a meet up.
2. Put up a meet today flag
3. Reinforce this by also putting on status.
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Yeah, that's what I do when I am free and want to do something, be it just a social, or hopefully something more. I have had varied responses from it, but find people tend to message after seeing status updates the most! But it sure doesn't hurt to cover all bases lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thing ive found (on my previous profile) is to:
1. Post a meet up.
2. Put up a meet today flag
3. Reinforce this by also putting on status.
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Where do you get the flags from and what size are they? Not sure the neighbours will appreciate it but it might attract passers by or the school run brigade |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
I've responded to 2 meet requests in the past. Both guys didn't want to send a face picture for privacy reasons and wanted me to turn up on a blind date ! Needless to say I amused myself instead of wasting time and money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thing ive found (on my previous profile) is to:
1. Post a meet up.
2. Put up a meet today flag
3. Reinforce this by also putting on status.
Where do you get the flags from and what size are they? Not sure the neighbours will appreciate it but it might attract passers by or the school run brigade "
Hey that's a great idea, I'll stick one outside my flat window lol.. |
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i have yet to add a meet me as like you i dont feel so confident it would work. i did reply to a meet me a few months back, sounded interesting, not just a come fuck me but hotel booked and a night out and see how it goes. wish i had not bothered, she looked nothing like pics, smoked when said she didnt and didnt want to drink when said want a good few drinks, she spent most of night outside bars smoking and texting. i gave up and went to a different hotel lol. apparently i was the lucky one picked out of 50 guys! |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
south west ! |
"We put, like a meet today or who’s about.
I dont have a problem with men and women wanting to meet.
It dose work !
So you've had a bit of success with it?
I have responded to a meet today for a social and had a very pleasant time. However I'm still yet to find confirmation of a single straight guy getting anything from them. Would love to be proved wrong "
If your ever down my way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had in the past a few times. Fab friends who saw the meet requests suggested catching up. Some I'd not yet met. Never anyone I hadn't already spoken to though. |
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Well I've put on my status that I need my balls draining (I fucking hate seeing it on local updates) so I put it a) to confuse people
B) coz I'm in a cunty mood
The response from men wanting to drain my balls has been relatively successful. Seems this status works... if you want your balls drained by a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Few weeks ago I had a conversation with a lady friend regarding this feature and I proposed it was pretty much superfluous for straight single guys to post meets on.
She disagreed and suggested if I tried it I would have offers. I scoffed, obviously, but with the offer of a free tea should I be proven correct I thought I'd roll with it.
So, add posted and not a single reply received. Yay! Free tea for me!
But it got me thinking, have any straight single guys:
A - had suitable responses to a 'meet today'?
B - successfully met anyone after posting a 'meet today'?"
Yup tried it...
It didn't work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We put, like a meet today or who’s about.
I dont have a problem with men and women wanting to meet.
It dose work !
So you've had a bit of success with it?
I have responded to a meet today for a social and had a very pleasant time. However I'm still yet to find confirmation of a single straight guy getting anything from them. Would love to be proved wrong
If your ever down my way "
I'll be sure to post a "meet today"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I've put on my status that I need my balls draining (I fucking hate seeing it on local updates) so I put it a) to confuse people
B) coz I'm in a cunty mood
The response from men wanting to drain my balls has been relatively successful. Seems this status works... if you want your balls drained by a man."
Unfortunately that's just not my cup-o-tea. Although at times I think it could be much easier if it were!
Any confused messages? |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Few weeks ago I had a conversation with a lady friend regarding this feature and I proposed it was pretty much superfluous for straight single guys to post meets on.
She disagreed and suggested if I tried it I would have offers. I scoffed, obviously, but with the offer of a free tea should I be proven correct I thought I'd roll with it.
So, add posted and not a single reply received. Yay! Free tea for me!
But it got me thinking, have any straight single guys:
A - had suitable responses to a 'meet today'?
B - successfully met anyone after posting a 'meet today'?"
No
And
No
Hope this helps op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We put, like a meet today or who’s about.
I dont have a problem with men and women wanting to meet.
It dose work ! "
It certainly does. I replied to one you'd posted and got invited down.
No washing line, just a very hot wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've used this and it does work in that you get responses, however they have then gone on to try to wangle re-arranging the meeting at a time/date convenient to them  , so i've binned them off.
I'll try the status updates next time i'm free.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Tried an experiment a few months ago. Myself and mswoody put the same advert up at the same time. I got 0 responses she got loads.who won all the pies
You did lol"
Yeh I reckon we should up the ante... Cuppa and a fancy cake next time.. |
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"Well I've put on my status that I need my balls draining (I fucking hate seeing it on local updates) so I put it a) to confuse people
B) coz I'm in a cunty mood
The response from men wanting to drain my balls has been relatively successful. Seems this status works... if you want your balls drained by a man.
Unfortunately that's just not my cup-o-tea. Although at times I think it could be much easier if it were!
Any confused messages? "
Lots! I'm having a grand old time. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I've used this and it does work in that you get responses, however they have then gone on to try to wangle re-arranging the meeting at a time/date convenient to them , so i've binned them off.
I'll try the status updates next time i'm free.
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I've had exactly the same.. "sorry not free today free on blah blah.." why bother messaging a meet today if not free to meet today ffs lol?! |
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"Well I've put on my status that I need my balls draining (I fucking hate seeing it on local updates) so I put it a) to confuse people
B) coz I'm in a cunty mood
The response from men wanting to drain my balls has been relatively successful. Seems this status works... if you want your balls drained by a man."
Think this could be a good way to get all sorts of jobs done like getting the gutters cleaned! folk can read into it however they like but if it's advertised literally then they can't complain they weren't warned when presented with a ladder! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I've put on my status that I need my balls draining (I fucking hate seeing it on local updates) so I put it a) to confuse people
B) coz I'm in a cunty mood
The response from men wanting to drain my balls has been relatively successful. Seems this status works... if you want your balls drained by a man.
Unfortunately that's just not my cup-o-tea. Although at times I think it could be much easier if it were!
Any confused messages?
Lots! I'm having a grand old time. "
Haha well you enjoy |
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"Well I've put on my status that I need my balls draining (I fucking hate seeing it on local updates) so I put it a) to confuse people
B) coz I'm in a cunty mood
The response from men wanting to drain my balls has been relatively successful. Seems this status works... if you want your balls drained by a man.
Think this could be a good way to get all sorts of jobs done like getting the gutters cleaned! folk can read into it however they like but if it's advertised literally then they can't complain they weren't warned when presented with a ladder! "
First I gotta confuse someone into getting me a ladder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've used this and it does work in that you get responses, however they have then gone on to try to wangle re-arranging the meeting at a time/date convenient to them , so i've binned them off.
I'll try the status updates next time i'm free.
I've had exactly the same.. "sorry not free today free on blah blah.." why bother messaging a meet today if not free to meet today ffs lol?! "
Exactly! |
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I have tried a meet request once. The night of the Lucy in the Sky commemoration was held 200 yds from my house. I thought perhaps with thousands of people attending the party, having a drink and watch the best firework display I've ever seen I would be inundated with offers and profile views... I wasn't.
That a guy adding themselves to the meet today list equals 'any hole is a goal' is the type of sexist cliched comment this forum should be less tolerant of.
I would have thought, that given the number of complaints about fake profiles and time wasters people would welcome a verified person demonstrating that they are available. I would have thought that the likelihood of a meet materialising are much better when arranged on the day than several weeks in advance. |
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