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over a year ago
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"Welcome. You've some good photos and have fabbed some, in the hope it helps you along. Wishing you great luck!  "
oh so u have thank you . suppose always a believer in saying what's for u won't go by u . yeeaahhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a guy you’ve got to work really hard to to get a ‘view’. Didn’t even have a nibble the first time I joined and deleted my account. Joined again and had some nice meets with quite a few repeat meets. It’s bloody hard work though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a guy you’ve got to work really hard to to get a ‘view’. Didn’t even have a nibble the first time I joined and deleted my account. Joined again and had some nice meets with quite a few repeat meets. It’s bloody hard work though! "
I've messaged very few ladies but to no avail, so I've stopped sending .just update stay now , as I said what's for u won't pass by lol
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"I meant just update my status now rather than waste time messaging "
OP very few ladies send the first message, we are too busy dealing with all the messages we receive. Some choose to block everyone from contacting them first and search for themselves but they are in the minority. If you are waiting for the ladies to contact you then you might have a very long wait.
Instead of sending lots of messages to every lady you like the look of it is often better to send fewer but make your messages better. Make sure you match everything the person says they are looking for on their profile and send a message tailored specifically to them.
Don't be disheartened by the fact that a lot of people don't reply to you - it's par for the course on fab. Just keep trying.
If you want to be successful on here then you have to put the effort in.
Good luck OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I meant just update my status now rather than waste time messaging
OP very few ladies send the first message, we are too busy dealing with all the messages we receive. Some choose to block everyone from contacting them first and search for themselves but they are in the minority. If you are waiting for the ladies to contact you then you might have a very long wait.
Instead of sending lots of messages to every lady you like the look of it is often better to send fewer but make your messages better. Make sure you match everything the person says they are looking for on their profile and send a message tailored specifically to them.
Don't be disheartened by the fact that a lot of people don't reply to you - it's par for the course on fab. Just keep trying.
If you want to be successful on here then you have to put the effort in.
Good luck OP."
thanks for your advice |
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"I meant just update my status now rather than waste time messaging
OP very few ladies send the first message, we are too busy dealing with all the messages we receive. Some choose to block everyone from contacting them first and search for themselves but they are in the minority. If you are waiting for the ladies to contact you then you might have a very long wait.
Instead of sending lots of messages to every lady you like the look of it is often better to send fewer but make your messages better. Make sure you match everything the person says they are looking for on their profile and send a message tailored specifically to them.
Don't be disheartened by the fact that a lot of people don't reply to you - it's par for the course on fab. Just keep trying.
If you want to be successful on here then you have to put the effort in.
Good luck OP."
Yep, don't think I've ever sent a first message in 5 years on here! |
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