"Just wondering if peoples standards are different in terms of when they are online to whether they are out actually approaching someone in the flesh?"
Yeah big time .
We've approached some proper fit men, women and couples on here who we wouldn't dream of approaching in a pub or club . |
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Personally I think it’s different, you have different standards for all different people in your life!
The kind of person you want around your children
The kind of person you are good friends with
The kind of person you would have sex with
The kind of person you might fall in love with
All different surely? |
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"I imagine most people on here have the same standards on and offline. Depressing isn't it.
why depressing?
Because what standards?"
we all have ideal types and things we would like in a person.
but im not looking to date them so i suppose its more prefrences for me |
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"Same..but i find it easier to click with someone in real life...messaging lacks emotion and wit is often misunderstood"
Much easier to tell if you find someone attractive in person too.. plus someone you might not find attractive online could surprise you in person with a brilliant personality and confidence |
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"Personally I think it’s different, you have different standards for all different people in your life!
The kind of person you want around your children
The kind of person you are good friends with
The kind of person you would have sex with
The kind of person you might fall in love with
All different surely? "
Nope, that pretty much sounds like an ideal partner to me! |
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"Nope, that pretty much sounds like an ideal partner to me!"
Haha what I meant is you wouldn’t need to find someone attractive to be a good friend!
You wouldn’t need to think a person is suitable to be around your children to have sex with them!
But yes in a partner you are looking for all the qualities to line up  |
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"Judging by the men who message me on here I definitely think men lower their standards online because many in real life would be totally out of my league."
When a man speaks to a woman in real life, he has to consider if he would be willing to introduce this woman to his friends and family... no fear of that on here and he can put his ego aside and act purely on his primal instincts  |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
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"Judging by the men who message me on here I definitely think men lower their standards online because many in real life would be totally out of my league."
I think you are seriously underestimating yourself or overestimating the guys you chat with if you think they're out of your league |
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"Judging by the men who message me on here I definitely think men lower their standards online because many in real life would be totally out of my league.
I think you are seriously underestimating yourself or overestimating the guys you chat with if you think they're out of your league "
You don’t even know what guys she is talking to  |
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I don't approach people in the real world 
I occasionally pluck up the courage on here to approach people I find attractive. Always those I find attractive though, and I wouldn't meet them without making sure we click. Why would I lower standards just for sex?! |
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